The Winged Lion Review 
 A Journal of the St. Mark's Community


September 19, 2016   
In This Issue
Louisiana Flood Relief:
Heartbreak and Triumph
by Heather Powers

An enormous area of south-central Louisiana flooded In August, receiving 31 inches of rain in three days. Baton Rouge-where my grandfather was born and where I was raised, was at the center of the flooding. For most of 17 years it was home to me, and when the rain fell non-stop from August 12-14 onto already saturated land, it flooded the homes of friends I've known for years. Approximately 140,000 homes sustained damage. On August 13 and 14 I read the Facebook posts and saw the video feed of people trapped by flood waters praying for rescue. I knew the gutting of houses would start soon, and also that I needed to be there to see my people and do what I could do.
My fellow alumni from Louisiana School for Math, Science and the Arts, a state funded boarding school with competitive entry for students from all over the state, quickly put together a relief effort. Flood-ravaged alumni were able to put their needs--house gutting, for example, or food and clothing--into a database, and they were matched with alumni who entered data about things that they had to offer. A Facebook group updated members about where available workers could go each weekend and through the week. Volunteers and those receiving assistance have included alumni, the parents and family members of alumni, and the parents and family members of current students at the school.

Hurriedly from members of St. Mark's, my coworkers, the coworkers of Janet Vail, and friends of my housemate, I gathered donations for flood relief/clean up supplies and money. As my potential co-pilots for the drive down had life surprises come up, I drove down alone September 2-3, having to go through Tennessee rather than Georgia  because of Tropical Storm Hermine.

The day I drove in I visited beloved friends in Prairieville, who briefly stopped gathering their documentation for the insurance company to hug me and cry on my shoulder in their mildew-smelling home. The water in it had reached 2.5 feet high for three days. I saw my brother and his family briefly that day; my niece had started school that week after a three-week delay. I stayed with my best friend and her family. She had been offering up her guest room to flooded folks, but made it available to me for the week.

From Sunday, September 4, to Wednesday, September 7, I worked in the humid heat alongside wonderful sweaty people. I worked in two houses belonging to alumni I had not met before, and then I worked on the house of my biggest high school crush... and I found his wife of more than 20 years delightful! I was saddened, however, by the fact that both he and she had become disabled in their 30s (from spinal bifida and seizure disorder, respectively). Now, in their 40s, they have lost everything, and were wearing donated clothing both days that I saw them.

At dinner my last night I got to hug the wife of my friend, who had spent a terrified 24 hours in her home as the water rose around her and her husband couldn't reach her. On the Saturday evening and Sunday morning of the flood, I had followed her more and more harrowing Facebook posts, including the video of the Red Cross helicopter passing over her house; she had been unable to signal her presence to them. Members of the "Cajun Navy," as the makeshift volunteer heroes have been dubbed, finally got to her midday Sunday. She had heard their boat's motor and screamed for help, and they picked up her and all four of her animals and motored them to a shelter. I was so glad to meet her in person.

Thinking back on my recent journey, my stories range from hilarity to heartbreak and from paralysis to triumph.

I remember how a friend got a ride on a tractor's forklift raised high in the air to return to his shelter after a boat gave him a ride to a functioning drugstore. I can imagine him laughing with glee while wishing someone had a working camera. He was a Cajun industrial maharaja for a moment! The shadow side of the joy was that he had waited for a boat going his way for more than an hour in the scorching sun and humidity-logged air. He was about to walk with four bags slung over a 2x4 on his shoulders through the snake, alligator and sewage infested waters. I am SO glad for that tractor.

More than 20 minutes of hard rain sends people into high anxiety. Folks begin to worry and ask each other whether it'll stop before it floods again.

Most know houses flooded, but it is striking when driving through Denham Springs to see the trashed furniture, sopping insulation, and useless office machines piled helter-skelter outside places like schools, dollar stores, nursing homes, drug stores and gas stations. The places that help us all to keep running also have to dry out and rebuild.

The saddest homes are those on streets that have many yards piled with debris by homeowners eager to begin rebuilding. But some homes look like they have yet to be visited by healthy backs and a few shovels. Who lived there and how will they find help?

The joy comes in small items that when decorated with a child's favorite character are priceless and make the world better. By the end of this week a toddler will delight in a Mickey Mouse potty-seat. Although everything from his Mickey-themed bedroom was water logged and sitting in the front yard in a pile of muddied sogginess, the lad will have Mickey to visit on the potty when he resumes his toilet training. In truth, two weeks in diapers in a school temporary building located 25 yards away from the building with the restrooms undid all his previous progress. But he will learn again--with Mickey cheering him on!

On the Saturday of the flooding, one high-school friend carried his two dogs out through chest-deep water despite his spinal bifida. His wife had the ziplocked papers, wallets and cell phone in bags around her neck. On the following day, when they had to evacuate a second time--this time from her parents' house--his glasses were broken. He will have new glasses because of y'all's contributions.

When one works alongside good-hearted people thankful to have a dry place to live and from which to begin again, one's heart is warmed.

Thank you St. Mark's for supporting my trip. Y'all made it possible for me to lend a helping hand and offer gifts that will make some lives a little easier and will make houses a few steps closer to livable.

Help will be needed there for a long time. The flood was a curse, but being able to go so soon thereafter was a blessing.
A More Inclusive Home
by Katherine Anderson

When I lived in North Carolina, I learned about the concept of a "home church"--the church one grew up in, or even the church that the bulk of one's extended family attends. Having a home church can provide a social and spiritual anchor, a sense of ultimate belonging in the body of Christ. St. Mark's is a traditional home church to some in our congregation, and many who did not grow up listening to sermons within its walls have been adopted into fellowship here. But for some, it can be difficult to find a place where they are made to feel comfortable enough to say, "This is my home."

In June, a committee offered a presentation on race and diversity to those who craft the programs and culture of St. Mark's, including leaders, committee members and greeters. The goal was to begin a conversation about the ways in which St. Mark's can expand our culture of acceptance. It is an area where, as I have learned through my work co-chairing the Membership Committee, we have at times struggled to send a message of radical welcome. By supporting and encouraging the more than 50 people at the meeting to create a greater focus on racial issues, we hoped to germinate more opportunities to counterbalance the negative experiences that some continuing members and new visitors of color have had at St. Mark's.

Formed through the dedication, thoughtfulness and considerable talents of Loretta Veney, Jenifer Holland, Grady Hedgespeth and Associate Rector Justi Schunior, the presentation consisted of three segments. The first, offered with both nuance and enthusiasm by Loretta and Jenifer, explored the Calm, Listen, Affirm, and Respond  (CLARA) method, which Chris Berendes had brought to our attention. CLARA offers tools to communicate attentively and compassionately in order to bridge the gulfs that may arise between those of different identities and backgrounds.

The lessons of this method were then applied to two role-plays, fictionalized but based on real events at St. Mark's. For example, we explored how calling someone by the wrong name--especially the name of someone perceived to be a member of the same racial group, even in jest--can engender a deep sense of otherness, sending them the painful message that they don't fully belong. Attendees were challenged to reevaluate their assumptions, given tools to listen deeply and respond constructively, and empowered to speak out in defense of others.

In the second segment, we investigated the Schelling Model, an elegant demonstration of how small, seemingly innocuous choices can lead to the outsized result of significant, unintended segregation. We also considered how thinking consciously about the implicit rules of doing business at St. Mark's can free us to make choices that decrease barriers to participation in the church.

Finally, Grady and Justi gracefully led the audience in a facilitated discussion about how
to set concrete goals for action and what the
costs and promises of those actions might be. We were thrilled to find that the small discussion groups were so engaged by the topic and determined in their work that they wanted even more time to brainstorm and evaluate future steps.

There will be more time because the discussion did not end that day in Baxter Hall. It will continue as our leaders guide us forward with considered action. And it will continue with a follow-up in the new year, with a class on privilege that Priest-in-Charge Michele Morgan will facilitate in the spring, and as all of us feel empowered to speak out and engage when we find we fall short of the welcoming community we aspire to be.

Although we spoke primarily of race in our presentation, the effects and tools we discussed hold true for interactions with all kinds of different groups. To receive the gift of a truly accepting, diverse community, we need to become more aware of the environment we are creating, and make intentional, active choices to encourage inclusion as we continue to open St. Mark's even further to members who represent a variety of backgrounds, experiences, personalities and points of view. In June, we took the first step to providing a true church home to more of our brothers and sisters. I am excited to see how far the conscience, compassion and hard work of those who have pledged their time and leadership to St. Mark's will take us.
Reach Out to the Homeless
by Stephanie Deutsch
 
For many years, summer at St. Mark's meant the Shelter Ministry--90 or so volunteers coming together to provide hospitality to young families who were working with Capitol Hill Group Ministry toward stable housing. For one or two months, two Sunday school rooms and the family-style bathroom in our undercroft were "home" to our guests, usually mothers with babies or young children.

Volunteers brought and served dinners at Baxter House and slept on air mattresses in the library. It was sometimes fun and often challenging, but always felt worthwhile. Three years ago this program ended because of construction at St. Mark's and changes in D.C. regulations for the shelter of homeless families.

Parish outreach to the homeless, however, continues. Twice a year, we host "family nights" for participants in Capitol Hill Group Ministry (CHGM) programs and for staff. St. Mark's volunteers offer the hospitality of home-cooked dinners, conversation with parents and activities for children such as outdoor games, singing and decorating cookies. In the late summer, assisted by our parish teens, we provide new backpacks full of school supplies to the children. In December we sponsor a gift exchange for children and parents and get a visit from Santa Claus (thank you, Joel Wilson!) We decorate cookies and sing Christmas carols.

In addition, members of St. Mark's are active with a CHGM program, Homeless Assistance Response Teams (HART). Two evenings a week, volunteers go out in teams for periods of about two hours, talking to people who are on the street and, in very cold weather, offering to connect them with transportation to shelter.

Chris Berendes, a regular volunteer, describes what to expect: "You'll bring hot chocolate and granola bars to the couple that sets out their sleeping bags by the Eastern Market pool, sandwiches and conversation to the philosopher who keeps an eye on what's happening in the Citibank arcade, and D.C. shelter information to the shivering teenager who got kicked out by his parents that morning, among many others."

Marlan Green often participates and, like Chris, enjoys getting to know his neighbors on the street as well as volunteers from other churches. There is also the satisfaction of spending time in a new way with someone familiar from St. Mark's. A short training session is offered once a month, and Marlan says he is always happy to go out with a first-timer. For more information about HART, contact Abby Sypek at sypek@chgm.net, or talk to Marlan, Chris, or Jessie Babcock.

Another way St. Mark's members work with Capitol Hill Group Ministry is by providing lunches for a weekly parenting class. Taught by CHGM wellness coordinator Carolyn Starks, the class brings women and men together to talk about issues relating to their children, as well as questions of health, self-esteem, education and financial literacy. At the conclusion of the most recent set of classes, the participants prepared food for the volunteers who had been feeding them.

Susan Sedgewick, who coordinated St. Mark's participation, reported a delicious meal of barbecued chicken, salads and deviled eggs. The best part, she added, "was getting to hold the babies while we talked to their moms and dads." Parenting classes will start again in the fall, and a call will go out for volunteers to provide lunches. Watch the St. Mark's website and  e-group or contact Susan Sedgewick, jssedgewick@gmail.com.

For anyone who wants more ways to volunteer in support of homeless in our community, the Group Ministry has a website www.chgm.net that describes their programs and many opportunities to participate in their work. St. Mark's was one of the founding congregations creating the organization 40 years ago, and our link is still vital both to us and to them.
A Legacy of Wisdom
by Peter Hawley

Thanks to a generous gift of books by St. Mark's Vestry member Fritz Henn, the Verna J. Dozier Library in the Undercroft can now offer the congregation an expanded and updated selection of books, DVDs and other material.

Fritz contacted the Library Committee several months ago, inviting us to select books from the extensive collection of his late wife, Suella, that would fill gaps in the Dozier Library. After making an initial selection and getting advice from members of the Liturgy Planning Team and other knowledgeable parishioners, we have added more than 200 titles to the collection. These are now on the shelves ready to be checked out. Fritz also enabled us to produce a special memorial bookplate designed by Karen Falk.

To acknowledge this wonderful gift and celebrate the breadth of Suella's interests and her many ministries here at St. Mark's, the Library Committee and Friends of Suella will host a special coffee hour and a pub lunch on Sunday, September 25. During both coffee hour and pub lunch, a selection of her books will be on display in Baxter Hall. The books will also be on display before and after the 5 pm service that day.

Passionate Pilgrim

Members of the congregation who got to know Suella after she and Fritz joined St. Mark's in 2006 remember well the remarkable range of her theological interests, her expertise in pastoral care and spiritual direction, and her self-effacing commitment to service. For those of you who have joined us since her untimely death in July of last year, a short biographical sketch will reveal the passionate seeker and servant for whom these books lit the way on her faith journey.

Suella majored in chemistry at Mount Holyoke College, while also pursuing interests in German and music. While earning a Ph.D. in biochemistry, she met and married Fritz. During his years on the medical faculty at the University of Iowa, she helped raise their two children, managed the family's farm, and found time to teach courses in microbiology and physical chemistry at nearby Cornell College. While in Iowa she also became more interested in philosophy and religion, taking courses at the university.

In 1982 the Henns moved to Long Island, where Fritz was the Chair of Psychiatry at Stony Brook University. Having met Catholic thinkers and chaplains there, Suella converted to Catholicism, earned an M.A. in theology at the diocesan seminary and became a certified chaplain. She worked as a chaplain at the university hospitals in Stony Brook and later in Heidelberg until her retirement in 2006.

That year brought the Henns to Washington, where they discovered St. Mark's and joined the Episcopal Church. Both threw themselves into the life of our community. Given her professional expertise and personal interests, Suella naturally volunteered with the Care Givers, joined the choir and served on the Liturgy Planning Team. At the same time, she completed the Program in Spiritual Guidance at the Shalem Institute for Spiritual Formation. Her death on July 2 last year, following a cerebral aneurysm, was a terrible shock and a profound loss to our community and to all who knew, loved and admired her.

Baker Woman
In July 2014, Suella preached a sermon entitled "Intimations of Presence" as part of a series on "Meeting God in Our Lives: Exploring Spiritual Practices." (Copies will be available at the celebration on September 25.) While not the focus of her remarks, the important role that reading played in her own faith journey is evident in references to a wide array of writers, from St. Benedict and Teilhard de Chardin to Howard Thurman, Joan Chittister and poet Mary Oliver.

Alluding to that day's Gospel reading from Matthew 13, Suella offered a "provocative" translation of the parable of the yeast or leaven based on the Greek text:

This skillful Baker Woman with strong, steady, gentle hands kneads the
leaven into 50 pounds of flour. Her work is deliberate, slow, attentive....
The leaven is invisible, invasive, evokes contagion. The mass of dough
gradually becomes much larger and lighter. And when baked there are
100 loaves, enough for a huge crowd.


Thankfully, Suella's own spiritual "contagion" still infects the community of St. Mark's, which she loved and served so well. It is present in the hearts and memories of those who knew her, in the practices of those she trained, and in many of her cherished books, which are now part of our library. The range of topics they address is remarkable, including Bible commentaries, feminist theology, meditation, mysticism, pastoral care, prayer, sacred poetry, spiritual practices and world religions. Each is like a piece of leavened dough waiting to be kneaded or a lantern ready to light our individual pilgrim paths.

Next Steps
The Library Committee hopes that your next steps will lead you down to the Undercroft to explore the riches contained in the Dozier Library. Just inside the door to the right, you can read about Verna Dozier, revered member of St. Mark's and renowned Biblical scholar and teacher. There you will also find four binders: two hold Catalogs to the Collection with location information; one is for your Suggestions; and one contains Sign-Out sheets.

We would welcome the opportunity to schedule tours of the collection for Christian Education teachers, care-givers and other groups. In the coming year, we will organize occasional, topical displays of books in Baxter Hall and list those items at the back of the catalog binders. Guest "curators" for these displays are welcome!

If you are interested in these opportunities, have other ideas, or would like to join the committee, please get in touch (phawleywash@verizon.net). The committee currently consists of Liz Layton, Ray Murray, Andrew Stafford and I. We're especially interested in recruiting parents or teachers who can help identify appropriate materials for children and teens. In the meantime, we encourage you to check out the library--both literally and figuratively.
One Green Tendril
by Susan Thompson

 
A tendril
pale green and twisting
with promise
slips into my room.
Between the glass and the window frame
it reaches toward me quietly
slowly announcing its entrance.
How did this intruder find its way
into my well-kept house
that unwillingly admits
the morning sun?
 
I remember once long ago
when rivers ran past my bed carrying upstream gifts
when a maple grew through my floorboards
and drifted its leaves across my room
when there was dirt on the floor
and cobwebs behind the cupboards
when there were voices and music
and dancing filled every corner
of my cottage in the woods.
 
But one day the music felt too loud
and the body less willing to dance.
That was the day I removed the tree from the room
the day I rerouted the river around the house
and swept the cobwebs clean from the corners.
Slowly my cottage began to feel comfortable again.
 
The years passed one after the other.
Some I hardly remember
one was so much like the other.
I became a meticulous housekeeper
and was able to discourage
even the most persistent insects
which eventually found new homes in the trees
around my house
over a river that raged deep in the Spring
and whispered leaves southward in the Fall.
 
Now one green tendril calls to me
across this morning room
challenging my silence.
I could rouse myself from my bed
and route out the curls and twists
of this new life
or I could lie here and watch
first the stem reach across the sill
then the leaves follow three days later
small and curled, bold and sure at last.
I hear the river running closer
and the maples scratching their golden limbs
on my roof
and I watch that wondrous tendril
quietly growing toward me.
 
Starcatching at St. Mark's

The St. Mark's Players invite you to join them for the fall production of Peter and the Starcatcher, running from October 7-22. Prepare yourself for a few hours of hilarity, heart and, most importantly, imagination.

A five-time Tony Award winner, Peter and the Starcatcher, is making its Washington, D.C., area community theater debut with the St. Mark's Players. You'll be delighted to see a dozen brilliant actors play multiple unforgettable characters using their enormous talent, ingenious stagecraft, and the limitless possibilities of imagination.  


Within the story of Peter and the Starcatcher, you will also find themes of friendship, honor, doing the right thing, and being open to the world around you. As characters come up against obstacles, we see that some are born into being heroes, while others find the hero within them as they encounter challenges in life and threats to those they love. This swashbuckling prequel to Peter Pan will have you hooked from the moment you let your imagination take flight.


Peter and the Starcatcher was written by Rick Elice, with music by Wayne Barker. It is based on the book by Dave Barry and Ridley Pearson. This production is directed by Heather Danskin, and produced by Alexis Truitt and Alicia Yass. The production also features church member Maggie Dalzell, and you're sure to recognize many faces who have graced the St. Mark's Players' stage before.


Performances are October 7, 8, 13, 14, 15, 20, 21, and 22 at 8 p.m., with an additional 2 p.m. matinee on Saturday, October 22. Tickets are $20 and available for purchase at stmarksplayers.org or at the door.

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