From the Reverend Michele Morgan, Priest-in-Charge
This is from a friend of Michele's. We think it's pretty awesome as well as useful as we get ready to greet people we may not see that much during the year.
What Not to Say on Easter, by Jeremy Lucas
My thoughts turn to all the people who will be church on Easter Sunday. Attendance is usally double most other Sundays of the year and in the Epicopal church people joke that they are members of the Church of C and E (Christmas and Easter). I think it is wonderful anytime someone shows up on a Sunday. Because there will be a lot of new people in churches this Sunday I offer this list of what to do and not to do when you meet them. I am a little embarrassed that I would even need to say this but...
1. Say hello to someone you do not know. This is very simple and a matter of basic manners. You do not have to share a 5 minute conversation. Just say "Good morning" or "Happy Easter". Whatever you share in authentic kindness will go miles towards making someone feel welcome.
2. DO NOT think you are being cute by telling people you don't recognize "You know we are here every Sunday" or "You know we are open more than Christmas and Easter". This applies to clergy as well as members of the congregation. There are so many ways we shame people and make them feel bad about getting up and out of the house with their family to come to a place where people say stupid things to them. You are not cute or funny, it is rude, don't do it.