April 2013 
Unveiling Osceola's
Certified Rape Crisis Program: April 4

  

Please join the Victim Service Center as we formally announce the opening of our Certified Rape Crisis Program serving Osceola County.

 

3:00PM, Thursday, April 4, 2013

Woodlands B Conference Room

Florida Hospital Kissimmee

 

Osceola County Sheriff Bob Hansell will make remarks and help us ring in this occasion. In addition, Lauren Book of Lauren's Kids will recognize our event as part of her walk across Florida to bring awareness to child sexual abuse. It's an honor to have them both join us to share in our excitement about our new facility! 

 

So please plan to attend on April 4 - RSVP to (407) 254-9415. Light refreshments will be served.

 

Sexual Assault Awareness Month In Proclamations
Winter Park Mayor Kenneth Bradley and Police Chief Brett Railey support VSC Executive Director Gina Costa as she accepts a Sexual Assault Awareness Month proclamation.
 
Gina Costa receives a proclamation declaring April Sexual Assault Awareness Month in Winter Garden.
St. Cloud Deputy Mayor Donald Shroyer presents VSC Program Director Zeva Edmondson with a SAAM proclamation.

 

See You at Ride to Reach!
Kicking off National Crime Victims' Rights Week, Ride to Reach will commemorate and bring awareness to victims of all crime. In addition to two challenging bicycle routes, the event will feature lots of family entertainment, activities, and performances!
  
Schedule:
- 6am-7:30am: Registration (riders check-in to receive t-shirt and meal ticket)

- 7:30am-8:00am: Remarks from Orange County Commissioner Jennifer Thompson & more

- 8am: The Rides Begin! (60-Mile and 17-Mile)

- 9:00am-2pm: Vendors and Family Fun with DJ Stretch

- 10:00am-10:30am: Avalon Dance performs

- 11:00am-11:30am: Avalon School of Music entertains the crowd

- 12:30pm-1:30pm: Legacy, a classic rock band, performs the hits

 

Activities:
Activities for families and attendees throughout the day include crash test dummies, a law enforcement patrol car viewing, Eddie the Eagle, a game station with hula hoops and more, The Clothesline Project, face painting, a chalk mural, a fire engine experience, arts & crafts, a henna tattoo artist, and tons of other fun!
  
Thanks to our sponsors and in-kind donors who are helping to shape Ride to Reach!
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Be sure to visit our Facebook page for reflections on Ride to Reach "one year later" from Diana Oakley!

 

April Is Sexual Assault Awareness Month


 

The month of April has been designated Sexual Assault Awareness Month (SAAM) in the United States. The goal of SAAM is to raise public awareness about sexual violence and to educate communities and individuals on how to prevent sexual violence.

 

In the late 1980s, the National Coalition Against Sexual Assault (NCASA) informally polled state sexual assault coalitions to determine when to have a national Sexual Assault Awareness Week. A week in April was selected. Over time, some advocates began focusing attention on sexual violence throughout the month of April. In the late 1990s, many advocates began coordinating activities throughout the month of April on a regular basis, promoting an idea for a nationally recognized month for sexual violence awareness activities.

 

From 2000-2001, the Resource Sharing Project (RSP) and the National Sexual Violence Resource Center (NSVRC) polled state, territory, and tribal coalitions and found that the color teal was the preferred color for sexual assault awareness and prevention and that April was the preferred month to coordinate national sexual assault awareness activities. As a result, Sexual Assault Awareness Month (SAAM) was first observed nationally in April 2001.

 

Since then, the NSVRC has continued to promote a degree of national unity in voice and action regarding SAAM activities, to encourage interaction and feedback from across the nation, and to build momentum based on previous years' activities. The NSVRC has provided resources to advocates nationwide to help them plan SAAM activities in their communities during April and throughout the year. These resources have included publications (e.g., newsletters, booklets, and directories); prevention materials (e.g., palm cards and online resources); and awareness-raising products (e.g., pins, posters, stickers, and postcards).

 

Additionally, the NSVRC has taken an active role in making sexual violence awareness and prevention resources available to the U.S. territories and the healthcare community. Over the last few years, the NSVRC has placed increasing emphasis on the prevention of sexual violence. As a result, the SAAM campaigns have included a greater focus on prevention. 

 

By working together and pooling our resources during the month of April, we can highlight sexual violence as a major public health, human rights and social justice issue and reinforce the need for prevention efforts.

 

You Can Make A Difference This April!

Denim Day

  

An 18-year old girl is picked up by her 45-year old driving instructor for her very first lesson. He takes her to an isolated road, pulls her out of the car, wrestles her out of one leg of her jeans and forcefully rapes her. Threatened with death if she tells anyone, he makes her drive the car home. Later that night she tells her parents, and they help and support her to press charges. The perpetrator gets arrested and is prosecuted. He is convicted of rape and sentenced to jail.

 

He appeals the sentence. The case makes it all the way to the Italian Supreme Court. Within a matter of days the case against the driving instructor is overturned, dismissed, and the perpetrator released. In a statement by the Chief Judge, he argued, "because the victim wore very, very tight jeans, she had to help him remove them, and by removing the jeans it was no longer rape but consensual sex."

 

Enraged by the verdict, the women in the Italian Parliament launched into immediate action and protested by wearing jeans to work. This call to action motivated and emboldened the California Senate and Assembly to do the same, which in turn spread to Patricia Giggans, Executive Director of Peace Over Violence, and Denim Day in LA was born. The first Denim Day in LA was in April 1999, and has continued every year since.
 

Want to help? Talk to your company, agency, or community group about supporting the Victim Service Center of Central Florida. 

Have individuals donate $5 so that they can wear jeans on April 24, 2013 and bring awareness to sexual assault and the VSC. Wear jeans with a purpose! 

Contact the Victim Service Center to receive teal ribbons for those to wear that donate or are unable to wear jeans but still want to bring awareness.
 

$5 - buys a snack for a victim following their sexual assault exam 

$5 - goes toward the purchase of replacement clothing following a sexual assault exam 

$5 - goes toward the purchase of self care items for a victim (toothbrush, toothpaste, etc.)

 

UnderAWARE Underwear Drive

 

Each April for Sexual Assault Awareness Month, the Victim Service Center solicits contributions from the community on behalf of the clients we serve who have been victims of sexual assault.

The UnderAWARE Underwear Drive is a clothing donation and fund-giving campaign to raise awareness of the prevalence of sexual violence and the promotion of a community free of violence against women and men. Victims of sexual violence have their clothing taken as evidence during the forensic investigation. The Victim Service Center provides replacement clothing for them and advocacy services as part of our sexual assault services.

 

This year the needed clothing items for our clients include:

UnderAWARE Underwear Logo

  • Women's Underwear
  • Sports Bras
  • Stretchy Pants and Shorts
  • Bed linen/sheets
  • Travel-Size Personal Care Items: shampoo & conditioner, body wash, mouth wash, toothpaste, deodorant
If you are interested in hosting a clothing drive at your business, organization, or community group and need a collection box, give us a call at (407) 254-9415. Individual donations (NEW ITEMS ONLY) can be dropped off at our office at 2111 E Michigan Street, Suite 210, Orlando, FL 32806. In April 2012, the Victim Service Center collected over 10,000 items to benefit our survivors.

 

National Crime Victims' Rights Week: April 21-27, 2013
  
Each April since 1981, the Office for Victims of Crime (OVC) has helped lead communities throughout the country in their annual observances of National Crime Victims' Rights Week (NCVRW) by promoting victims' rights and honoring crime victims and those who advocate on their behalf.

 

This year, VSC advocate Taryn Habby chairs the Victim Services Coalition of Central Florida, whose annual awards breakfast will be held at Leu Gardens on Friday, April 26. Master of Ceremonies this year will be Jeffrey L. Ashton, State Attorney for the 9th Judicial Circuit. He will present Victim Services Awards this year to our distinguished winners. The guest speakers will be Travis Vining, author of Transforming Darkness to Light for Giving and Julie Weil, founder of "Keeping Moms Safe".

 

A Survivor's Story
by Jo Bailey Frazier

 There is a painful verse in the Old Testament when Job tells God to "turn away from me so I can have a moment's joy." There are many dark times in my past but I never blamed God. I know He grieved in the times of my suffering.

 

When I was in elementary school my bedroom was in the basement. On nights when Dad had been drinking and I heard the door open I felt dread and panic. He would molest me. In my mind I made myself tiny so he couldn't touch the real me. I detached from the unspeakable things that were happening to me, waiting for this to end so I could be alone again and quietly cry myself to sleep.

 

In middle school it got worse, escalating to rape. Often I got up in the morning with bruises on my arms and legs. Isaiah 41:10 was my anthem - "So do not fear for I am with you, do not be dismayed for I am Your God. I will strengthen you and help you. I will uphold you with my Righteous Right Hand."

 

As an adult I hated my Dad. I thought I needed my wrath because it gave me power; it justified all that I suffered. I was paying Dad back. But that was a lie from the father of lies. I didn't win by hating Dad. This was another way Satan could have victory; one more way my broken childhood could haunt me in the present and steal more from me in the future.

 

Jesus tells us to forgive because He loves us and wants the best for us. Many years later at a church retreat, a speaker was explaining that to forgive doesn't mean you have to be in relationship with the person who hurt you. I also remembered how much God forgives me.

 

I was afraid of what that would mean if I released Dad. I wrestled with God, in prayer and tears. He comforted my soul and assured me it would be better if I trusted Him in this. It was one of the hardest things I have ever done. Immediately I experienced relief and the Spirit's assurance of peace.

 

When I let my hate and anger go, I was free to love more and to be less self-centered. Anger wells up inside, from time to time when memories would surface. Forgiveness is a process. I have to actively keep forgiving Dad. God leads and guides me so I'm not held back by this sin.

 

I have even gotten to the place of healing where I am able to pray for Dad. Jesus tells us in Matthew 5:44 - "Pray for those who spitefully use you and persecute you." As I sought healing from above, I became restored to who I was created to be. My abuse was not God's plan for me but when we surrender to His will, He delivers on His promise to bring beauty from the ashes.

 

VSC Outreach Photos
Prevention Specialist Rhonda Wilson gets close to crime-fighting glory at the Osceola County Sheriff's Office Community Appreciation Day.
It's been another exciting month for our outreach & prevention team here at the Victim Service Center. We've been everywhere from the Winter Garden Police Department and Covenant House to UCF Victim Services and their amazing rendition of The Vagina Monologues. Be sure to follow along on Facebook and Twitter!

 

Monthly Informational Briefings

Last Wednesday of Every Month

**NOTE: There will NOT be a briefing this month**

  

Next Briefing

Wednesday - May 29, 2013

Noon - 1PM at the Victim Service Center  

  

Each month the Victim Service Center will be offering Informational Briefings to educate the community on our services, cultivate interest in our agency, and offer individual involvement with our mission through volunteerism, fundraising, or assisting us in spreading the word that we are here to help those impacted by crimes and sexual assaults.

 

By attending our Informational Briefing, you will learn about our history, our mission, services, our priorities, and our goals.

  

Where & When

2111 E Michigan St, Suite 210

Orlando, Florida 32806

 

May 29, 2013

Noon - 1PM

 

Space is limited; please let us know if you will be attending.

 

RSVP - Office: (407) 254-9415 or e-mail devon.hutchins@ocfl.net.

 

Victim Service Center of Central Florida

 

 Contact Information  

   

Hours: Monday - Friday (8AM-5PM)   

 

 Office: (407) 254-9415 

 

 2111 E Michigan St, Suite 210 

Orlando, Florida 32806  

 

24-Hour Sexual Assault Hotline: (407) 497-6701

 Toll Free: 1(866) 757-2046

 

www.VictimServiceCenter.com  

 

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In This Issue
Unveiling Osceola's Certified Rape Crisis Program
SAAM Proclamations
See You at RIde to Reach!
Sexual Assault Awareness Month
You Can Make A Difference: Denim Day & UnderAWARE Drive
National Crime Victims' Rights Week
A Survivor's Story
VSC Outreach Photos
Monthly Informational Briefings
Contact Us
Mark Your Calendar
Wish List
Volunteer
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Support Group for 

Sexual Assault Survivors

Every Monday

5:30PM - 7:00PM 

 

The group meets every Monday at the Victim Service Center, located at 2111 E Michigan St, Suite 210, Orlando, Florida 32806.

 

If interested in attending please contact us at: (407) 254-9415.   

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iThrive: Support Group for Young Adult Sexual Assault Survivors

Every Thursday

5:30PM - 6:30PM 

 

The group meets every Thursday at the Victim Service Center, located at 2111 E Michigan St, Suite 210, Orlando, Florida 32806.

 

If interested in attending please contact us at: (407) 254-9415.

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Monthly Informational Briefing

Last Wednesday of Each Month

Noon - 1PM

 

Come learn more about your Victim Service Center...

 

Location: Conference Room at the Victim Service Center 

 

Wednesday, May 29 

 

To RSVP, please call us at 

(407) 254-9415 or  e-mail devon.hutchins@ocfl.net

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WHAT? Meeting

Call to Schedule

 

If you're a victim of crime, come learn about our services and what happens after your victimization.

 

Meetings can be scheduled during business hours or after based on your availability and take place at the Victim Service Center, located at 2111 E Michigan St, Suite 210, Orlando, Florida 32806.

 

If interested in attending please contact us at: (407) 254-9415.

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Osceola County Open House
Thursday, April 4, 2013
3PM

We'll be celebrating the opening of our Care Center in Osceola County with an open house and ribbon cutting ceremony. Osceola County Sheriff Bob Hansell will be on-hand to make remarks.

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Ride to Reach

Saturday, April 20, 2013

7:30AM - 2PM

 

Everyone is invited to come out and join in on one of the various bicycle rides, stop by to check out the business and nonprofit vendors, listen to music, and join in other family fun. Registration is now open on our website.

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Denim Day 

Wednesday, April 24, 2013

 

Make a social statement with your fashion statement and wear jeans for a purpose. Each year, the Victim Service Center participates in Denim Day, an awareness and fundraising opportunity that garners support for victims of sexual assault.

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Victim Rights Week Awards Breakfast 

Friday, April 26, 2013

 

Each year the Victim Services Coalition of Central Florida sponsors an awards breakfast during Victim Rights Week to honor those who have gone "beyond the call of duty" to assist victims of crime.

 

Recycle Your
Cell Phone

  

Did you know that the Victim Service Center collects used cell phones and chargers for recycling?
 
We're a proud member of the Shelter Alliance, a socially responsible cell phone recycling program that donates money to nonprofits in exchange for mobile phones and their chargers that are no longer in use.
 
Bring your phone and charger to our office, and we'll take care of the rest! 

 

Wish List Items

 

Flat screen monitors

New sports bras, stretchy pants

Stamps, envelopes

Copy paper, pens, notepads

Individually wrapped snacks 

 

Call the Victim Service Center at (407) 254-9415 if you have questions about how to donate these items or visit our website to learn more. Thank you for your consideration in helping to meet this need.

 

Volunteer Opportunities

 

Speaker for our Speakers Bureau

Newsletter Manager 

Event Planning and Assistance  

Social Media/Information

Website Development

Host an Event/Fundraiser

 

 Creating a Solid Future

  
Remember the Victim Service Center when creating your legacy, or as part of your ongoing planned giving efforts.  
  
Feel free to contact your attorney or financial planner to discuss how the Victim Service Center can be incorporated into your will, trust(s), or other facets of your financial and estate plan.  
  
Contact Jody Swain, Development Director, at jody.swain@ocfl.net or (407) 254-9415 to discuss how you might want to donate to the Victim Service Center.

 

Central Florida

Community Foundation

DonorEdge Portrait

Learn more about the Victim Service Center - visit our DonorEdge portrait, established by the Community Foundation of Central Florida - helping donors validate the organizations they support.

  

Click here to see our Victim Service Center portrait.  

 

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Victim Service Center

Use Yahoo! powered GoodSearch so that every time you search the web, money is donated to the Victim Service Center.

 

Get started by clicking the "Become a Supporter" button on our profile page! 

 

  

The Victim Service Center is now registered with CharityBlooms.org. 8% of your purchases go towards helping VSC provide our valuable services!

 

CharityBlooms.org partners with 1800Flowers.com, 1800Baskets.com, FruitBouquets.com, Cheryl's cookies, Fannie May Fine Chocolates, and The Popcorn Factory.

 

Just remember to input our Donation Code in the promo field when you check out: CHA3195NOr check out our new landing page here!

 

"Success is not final, failure is not fatal: it is the courage to continue that counts." 

- Winston Churchill

 

VICTIM SERVICE CENTER OF CENTRAL FLORIDA IS REGISTERED WITH THE STATE OF FLORIDA TO SOLICIT CONTRIBUTIONS #CH18390.  A COPY OF THE OFFICIAL REGISTRATION AND FINANCIAL INFORMATION MAY BE OBTAINED FROM THE DIVISION OF CONSUMER SERVICES BY CALLING TOLL-FREE (800-435-7352) WITHIN THE STATE.  REGISTRATION DOES NOT IMPLY ENDORSEMENT, APPROVAL OR RECOMMENDATION BY THE STATE.

 

Your gift is tax deductible as allowed by law; the Victim Service Center is registered with the state under the Solicitation of Contributions Act, 1992, under Federal Tax Identification Number: 75-2978885. 

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The Victim Service Center is a 501(c)(3) not-for-profit organization

A Private/Public Partnership - Providing Services to Victims of Crime and Sexual Violence

 
This program is funded in part by Orange County, Florida