February 2013 
Counting Down to Ride to Reach!

Taking place this year on Saturday, April 20 at Avalon Park, Ride to Reach is our signature bicycling awareness event for victims of crime and sexual assault. Our preparations for the big day are in full swing, and we wanted to let you know what you can do to become involved!

 

First, we hope you'll consider participating in either the 60-mile or the 17-mile ride. Registration is open for both routes, and you can see the maps on our website.  

 

Know a business that might want to sponsor the event? We have plenty of advertising benefits for interested organizations, so direct your friends to our sponsorship page or check it out yourself.

 

Perhaps you want to set-up a tabling or vendor booth that day? We'll have plenty of entertainment going on for non-cyclists at the Avalon Park Amphitheater, and we'd love for you to be a part of it.

 

If you have some generous friends who can't make it on the 20th but want to support this cause, let them know about our personal fundraising initiative.

 

Finally, we'll be announcing volunteer opportunities when they're finalized, but nothing would make us happier than to see YOU at Ride to Reach on April 20. You don't have to be a bicycling enthusiast to enjoy all of the outdoor activities and family fun we'll be hosting! So mark your calendar and SAVE THE DATE! 

 

February Is Teen Dating Violence
Awareness Month

 

Teen Dating Violence (DV) Prevention and Awareness Month is a national effort to raise awareness about abuse in teen and 20-something relationships and promote programs that prevent it during the month of February.

 

The repercussions of teen dating violence are impossible to ignore - they hurt not just the young people victimized but also their families, friends, schools and communities. Throughout February, organizations and individuals nationwide are coming together to highlight the need to educate young people about dating violence, teach healthy relationship skills and prevent the devastating cycle of abuse. (teendvmonth.org)

 

Everyone deserves to be in a safe and healthy relationship. Take this healthy relationship quiz by loveisrespect.org to find out if your relationship is healthy. Answer yes or no to the following questions and use the scoring guide at the bottom to calculate your results. 


The Person I'm With
  1. Is very supportive of things that I do.
  2. Encourages me to try new things.
  3. Likes to listen when I have something on my mind.
  4. Understands that I have my own life too.
  5. Is not liked very well by my friends.
  6. Says I'm too involved in different activities.
  7. Texts me or calls me all the time.
  8. Thinks I spend too much time trying to look nice.
  9. Gets extremely jealous or possessive.
  10. Accuses me of flirting or cheating.
  11. Constantly checks up on me or makes me check in.
  12. Controls what I wear or how I look.
  13. Tries to control what I do and who I see.
  14. Tries to keep me from seeing or talking to my family and friends.
  15. Has big mood swings, getting angry and yelling at me one minute but being sweet and apologetic the next.
  16. Makes me feel nervous or like I'm "walking on eggshells."
  17. Puts me down, calls me names or criticizes me.
  18. Makes me feel like I can't do anything right or blames me for problems.
  19. Makes me feel like no one else would want me.
  20. Threatens to hurt me, my friends or family.
  21. Threatens to hurt him or herself because of me.
  22. Threatens to destroy my things.
  23. Grabs, pushes, shoves, chokes, punches, slaps, holds me down, throws things or hurts me in some way.
  24. Breaks or throws things to intimidate me.
  25. Yells, screams or humiliates me in front of other people.
  26. Pressures or forces me into having sex or going farther than I want to.
Scoring

Give yourself one point for every no you answered to numbers one through four, one point for every yes response to numbers five through eight and five points for every yes to numbers nine and above.

 

Now that you're finished and have your score, the next step is to find out what it means. Simply take your total score and see which of the categories below apply to you.


Score: 0 Points

You got a score of zero? Don't worry -- it's a good thing! It sounds like your relationship is on a pretty healthy track. Maintaining healthy relationships takes some work -- keep it up! Remember that while you may have a healthy relationship, it's possible that a friend of yours does not. If you know someone who is in an abusive relationship, find out how you can help them. 


Score: 1-2 Points

If you scored one or two points, you might be noticing a couple of things in your relationship that are unhealthy, but it doesn't necessarily mean they are warning signs. It's still a good idea to keep an eye out and make sure there isn't an unhealthy pattern developing.

 

The best thing to do is to talk to your partner and let them know what you like and don't like. Encourage them to do the same. Remember, communication is always important when building a healthy relationship. It's also good to be informed so you can recognize the different types of abuse. 


Score: 3-4 Points

If you scored three or four points, it sounds like you may be seeing some warning signs of an abusive relationship. Don't ignore these red flags. Something that starts small can grow much worse over time. No relationship is perfect -- it takes work! But in a healthy relationship you won't find abusive behaviors. 

 

If you think your relationship may not be as healthy as you deserve, chat with a trained peer advocate to get more information.


Score: 5 or More Points

If you scored five or points, you are definitely seeing warning signs and may be in an abusive relationship. Remember the most important thing is your safety -- consider making a safety plan right now.

 

You don't have to deal with this alone. We can help. 

 

Start By Believing
Every now and again we're reminded of the importance of simply believing what victims tell us. It's the first step in their recovery and path to well-being. We've shared this campaign with you before, but it bears repeating. Check out the Start By Believing website to learn more about the impact they're making both for victims and for ending the cycle of sexual assault. And while you're there, consider making your own personal commitment to BELIEVE.

 

VSC Outreach Photos
Rhonda and GiGi attend the Human Trafficking Awareness Day event at Lake Eola.
On Saturday, January 26, our Prevention Specialist Rhonda Wilson and intern GiGi Locke attended the Human Trafficking Awareness Day event at Lake Eola alongside law enforcement, county officials, and other service providers. An estimated 1,500 people were in attendance for a sunny afternoon full of lakefront views and plenty of great outreach! Both Orange County Mayor Teresa Jacobs and Orange County Sheriff Jerry Demings were among the distinguished speakers.

You can see these pictures and more when you visit our 

 

Monthly Informational Briefings

Last Wednesday of Every Month

  

Next Briefing

Wednesday - February 27, 2013

Noon - 1PM at the Victim Service Center  

  

Each month the Victim Service Center will be offering Informational Briefings to educate the community on our services, cultivate interest in our agency, and offer individual involvement with our mission through volunteerism, fundraising, or assisting us in spreading the word that we are here to help those impacted by crimes and sexual assaults.

 

By attending our Informational Briefing, you will learn about our history, our mission, services, our priorities, and our goals.

  

Where & When

2111 E Michigan St, Suite 210

Orlando, Florida 32806

 

February 27, 2013

Noon - 1PM

 

Space is limited; please let us know if you will be attending.

 

RSVP - Office: (407) 254-9415 or e-mail devon.hutchins@ocfl.net.

 

Victim Service Center of Central Florida

 

 Contact Information  

   

Hours: Monday - Friday (8AM-5PM)   

 

 Office: (407) 254-9415 

 

 2111 E Michigan St, Suite 210 

Orlando, Florida 32806  

 

24-Hour Sexual Assault Hotline: (407) 497-6701

 Toll Free: 1(866) 757-2046

 

www.VictimServiceCenter.com  

 

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In This Issue
Counting Down to Ride to Reach
Teen Dating Violence Awareness Month
VSC Outreach Photos
Monthly Informational Briefings
Contact Us
Mark Your Calendar
Wish List
Volunteer
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Support Group for 

Sexual Assault Survivors

Every Monday

5:30PM - 7:00PM 

 

The group meets every Monday at the Victim Service Center, located at 2111 E Michigan St, Suite 210, Orlando, Florida 32806.

 

If interested in attending please contact us at: (407) 254-9415.   

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WHAT? Meeting

Every Tuesday

5:30PM - 6:30PM

 

If you're a victim of crime, come learn about our services and what happens after your victimization.

 

Meetings occur every Tuesday at the Victim Service Center, located at 2111 E Michigan St, Suite 210, Orlando, Florida 32806.

 

If interested in attending please contact us at: (407) 254-9415. 

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iThrive: Support Group for Young Adult Sexual Assault Survivors

Every Thursday

5:30PM - 6:30PM 

 

The group meets every Thursday at the Victim Service Center, located at 2111 E Michigan St, Suite 210, Orlando, Florida 32806.

 

If interested in attending please contact us at: (407) 254-9415.

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Monthly Informational Briefing

Last Wednesday of Each Month

Noon - 1PM

 

Come learn more about your Victim Service Center...

 

Location: Conference Room at the Victim Service Center 

 

Wednesday, February 27 

 

To RSVP, please call us at 

(407) 254-9415 or  e-mail devon.hutchins@ocfl.net.

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Osceola County Ribbon Cutting 
Thursday, April 4, 2013

We'll be celebrating the opening of our Care Center in Osceola County with a ribbon cutting ceremony. Stay tuned for more details.

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Ride to Reach
Saturday, April 20, 2013
7:30AM - 2PM

Everyone is invited to come out and join in on one of the various bicycle rides, stop by to check out the business and nonprofit vendors, listen to music, and join in other family fun. Registration will open soon on our website.

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Denim Day 
Wednesday, April 24, 2013

Make a social statement with your fashion statement and wear jeans for a purpose. Each year, the Victim Service Center participates in Denim Day, an awareness and fundraising opportunity that garners support for victims of sexual assault.

 

Recycle Your
Cell Phone

  

Did you know that the Victim Service Center collects used cell phones and chargers for recycling?
 
We're a proud member of the Shelter Alliance, a socially responsible cell phone recycling program that donates money to nonprofits in exchange for mobile phones and their chargers that are no longer in use.
 
Bring your phone and charger to our office, and we'll take care of the rest! 

 

Wish List Items

 

Exam table

Flat screen monitors

New sports bras, stretchy pants

Clothesline Project t-shirts

Stamps, envelopes

Copy paper, pens, notepads

Individually wrapped snacks 

 

Call the Victim Service Center at (407) 254-9415 if you have questions about how to donate these items or visit our website to learn more. Thank you for your consideration in helping to meet this need.

 

Volunteer Opportunities 

 

Speaker for our Speakers Bureau

Newsletter Manager 

Event Planning and Assistance  

Social Media/Information

Website Development

Host an Event/Fundraiser

 

 Creating a Solid Future

 
Remember the Victim Service Center when creating your legacy, or as part of your ongoing planned giving efforts.  
 
Feel free to contact your attorney or financial planner to discuss how the Victim Service Center can be incorporated into your will, trust(s), or other facets of your financial and estate plan.  
 
Contact Jody Swain, Development Director, at jody.swain@ocfl.net or (407) 254-9415 to discuss how you might want to donate to the Victim Service Center.

 

Central Florida

Community Foundation

(DonorEdge Portrait)

Learn more about the Victim Service Center - visit our DonorEdge portrait, established by the Community Foundation of Central Florida - helping donors validate the organizations they support.

  

Click here to see our Victim Service Center portrait.  

 

Other Ways to

Support the

Victim Service Center 

Use Yahoo! powered GoodSearch so that every time you search the web, money is donated to the Victim Service Center.

 

Get started by clicking the "Become a Supporter" button on our profile page! 

 

  

The Victim Service Center is now registered with CharityBlooms.org. 8% of your purchases go towards helping VSC provide our valuable services!

 

CharityBlooms.org partners with 1800Flowers.com, 1800Baskets.com, FruitBouquets.com, Cheryl's cookies, Fannie May Fine Chocolates, and The Popcorn Factory.

 

Just remember to input our Donation Code in the promo field when you check out: CHA3195NOr check out our new landing page here!

 

"To love oneself is the beginning of a lifelong romance."
 - Oscar Wilde  

 

VICTIM SERVICE CENTER OF CENTRAL FLORIDA IS REGISTERED WITH THE STATE OF FLORIDA TO SOLICIT CONTRIBUTIONS #CH18390.  A COPY OF THE OFFICIAL REGISTRATION AND FINANCIAL INFORMATION MAY BE OBTAINED FROM THE DIVISION OF CONSUMER SERVICES BY CALLING TOLL-FREE (800-435-7352) WITHIN THE STATE.  REGISTRATION DOES NOT IMPLY ENDORSEMENT, APPROVAL OR RECOMMENDATION BY THE STATE.

 

Your gift is tax deductible as allowed by law; the Victim Service Center is registered with the state under the Solicitation of Contributions Act, 1992, under Federal Tax Identification Number: 75-2978885. 

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The Victim Service Center is a 501(c)(3) not-for-profit organization

A Private/Public Partnership - Providing Services to Victims of Crime and Sexual Violence

 
This program is funded in part by Orange County, Florida