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Finding the Meaning in the Season
By Anastacia Barr
As I finish up holiday shopping and wrapping gifts for my son's first Christmas, I got to thinking about what I want to teach him about the meaning of the season. Not just from a biblical standpoint, but from a giving one. In a media driven society with holiday shopping ads beginning pre-Halloween, it seems unnerving that we are told to Shop, Shop, Shop... during a season which is [supposedly] about helping others.
We are all too familiar with the day after Thanksgiving shopping crowds, aka "Black Friday." I was so turned off by the early start to holiday shopping that when I heard stores were opening on Thanksgiving night, I was literally speechless, something I am usually not. How did it become about shopping and not about our family and friends and most of all Thankful and Giving? All of a sudden it was "hurry up and eat so you don't miss this deal!"
Now, that is not to say I have not enjoyed a good bargain or two, and succumbed to the seductive ads for 50% off a designer purse or that amazing pair of boots. But I felt that this year in particular, the Black Friday and Cyber Monday craze had gone too far- and I was hoping there was some kind of change out there from this strange tradition of ours.
The Solution? Giving Tuesday, a new and hopefully sticky idea that may hold a place next to the weird Cyber Monday and cringe worthy Black Friday. And yes, this actually happened this year and people donated! It's a simple idea really. Find a way for your family, your community, your company or your organization to join in acts of giving.
Not only did the donors make this success, but the participating charities did as well, and by using media outlets to promote this event over and over again by stamping it on their websites, Facebook and Twitter, the event not only did good... it did fabulous.
For as long as I can remember Black Friday has been a consistent tradition in our society. Just think, if Giving Tuesday takes off, what our children will remember. That the Holiday Season is not just crazy running around in the middle of the night, shopping for items that are not even really necessary, but to actually have a day where we give to organizations that help others, and mean something to us. Now, wouldn't that would be a great lesson for my son to learn? I think so...
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