Why do you volunteer? Many volunteer for selfless reasons, but service can do so much good for the volunteer too! Consider volunteering more often to help others in your communities, social circles, and life, not only for all the wonderful benefits that come from spreading kindness, but also for the great benefits that people experience when they help others.
Research, observation, and possibly even your own experiences agree that helping others, altruism and finding meaning in life all have their hand in stress management. While donating your time or unneeded possessions doesn't always solve your problems or relieve your stress, acts of kindness and volunteer work can provide the following positive effects:
- A good feeling about yourself. Having a positive sense of self can actually help you feel less reactive to stress, and bring more enjoyment to all of your activities.
- A feeling of connection to others. Having a sense of community, a supportive circle of friends and other forms of social support can increase your resilience as well as your longevity and quality of life.
- A sense of meaning and greater purpose in your life. Having a greater sense of meaning can help stress seem more manageable, feel less threatening and be less likely to trigger your stress response.
- Perspective about your stress. Having a change of perspective can help your stress seem much smaller to you, and may help you realize that you have more control in life and more options than you realized.
- A reminder to feel gratitude. When you're feeling more gratitude about what you do have, your whole life feels better, and those things that you lack seem less important, less stressful.
- An opportunity to use your own unique gifts. Especially if you're battling burnout or in a job that doesn't thrill you, it's important to have outside activities that 'feed your soul', that challenge you in ways that make you feel alive. Often, volunteer opportunities can provide that, while you provide others with gifts that they can really use as well.
- Something to think about other than one's stress! Distraction can be a beautiful thing, and distraction from stress can give your body a chance to recover from chronic stress and feel healthy and calm again.
All of these effects can help with stress management, and are reasons to continue to volunteer throughout the year! Consider starting with small things that will still make a big difference to someone in need; do to what you can, rather than thinking that you're too busy to make a real difference! Are you a regular volunteer, or do you plan to do something to help others this weekend? Share your good deeds in the comments below.
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Don't wait until the last minute to find a volunteer opportunity over the holidays. They can help relieve some stress, but finding a somewhere to volunteer might add to your stress, too.
Contact the United Way Volunteer Center for ideas or questions on how you can get involved. Email Amy or call 765-742-9077 x 222.