Unitarian Universalist Fellowship of Lake Norman

An inclusive community embracing individual spiritual growth 
 -- living our beliefs through works


March 2016
    Our services begin at 11 a.m. Sundays in the Lodge at Woodlawn School,
just north of Davidson. A nursery for children up to pre-kindergarten age starts at 10:45 a.m. in the classroom adjacent to the Lodge. Children in K-5th grade go to Spiritual Exploration following the children's story during the service.  

Upcoming services      

     March 6: "The Gift of Giving" with Rev. Amy Brooks
     We give for many reasons, and those reasons all have to do with relationship. Join us to explore the many facets of giving and how, at its best, giving may be a gift to ourselves. 

     March 13: "Re-imagining God" with Jeff Pender
     An agnostic looks to bring God into the 21st century, re-imagining God in his own voice.
     Jeff Pender is a founding member of UU Lake Norman.

     March 20: "A Song of (Dis)Empowerment" with Rev. Justin Martin
     Are you feeling a little less in control lately? There is a profound sense of disempowerment going around right now in all walks of life, powering everything from the fight for income inequality to the push for a Trump presidency. What is going on, and what should a progressive religion do about it? 
     Rev. Martin is Minister of Education and Care at Piedmont UU Church of Charlotte.

     March 27: "From the Tomb We Came" with Rev. Amy Brooks
     Join us this Easter as we celebrate the resurrection of love in the brilliant bodies of all people. Please bring flowers for our Flower Communion.  

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     A New Members ceremony and Child Dedication will be held April 17.  It will be an intergenerational service, so no Spiritual Exploration will be held. 

Milestones  
   
     We joyfully celebrate with Don Parks the recent good news about his health.

     We are thankful to learn that Marge Flowers is feeling better and continue to send healing thoughts her way.

     We continue to share our deep love and care with Kim Worthington as she takes the next steps on her healing journey.           

Dear members and friends,

     Spring is coming, spring is coming -- the season of rebirth and new life! At UU Lake Norman, we will be celebrating this season with our annual Flower Communion ceremony on March 27. 

     The Flower CereAmy Brooksmony was a tradition created by Norbert Capek of Czechoslovakia  in the early 1900's, when many people were feeling stifled by the messages being shared in at least some of the Christian churches of the day. His preaching and teaching offered a life-giving message of tolerance and liberation which is captured in part by this ritual.

     As we move into the season of new life, where does the community of UU Lake Norman support you as you seek liberation from old habits, fears, beliefs and ways of being? How can we grow together into a fuller, freer and more joyful community?   

     May new life and new opportunities rise again among us this season.
     
    Yours in faith and service,

    Amy

Sunday morning groups
      
     The Humanist Discussion Group meets at 9:45 a.m. in classroom #2. The group regularly meets on the first and third Sundays of the month -- this month, March 6 and March 20. The group welcomes all those interested in discussing life from a humanist perspective.
   
    The Adult Discussion Group is not meeting at this time.

    Youth Spiritual Exploration (grades 5 and up): Youth are welcome to stay for the service or leave with the children for a separate break-out discussion.  

Music notes 
     
     Modes of music
     Just as Proust's madeleine provokes strong memories in Remembrance of Things Past, music can carry deep associations and connections in our memories. You may associate particular songs with particular mTheresa Woodyemories. For example, a road trip ... for me, hearing "Silver Bells" will forever remind me of being crammed with my sisters intoour family car for the joyful passage from Charlotte to the mountains, where grandparents and cousins and presents and holidays awaited. For some, hearing a Beach Boys song takes them back to their adolescence ... Everyone knows of certain songs that evoke specific memories or moods.
 
     But music can produce strong music and feelings even when it is not associated with a memory. Certain elements of music always make people feel certain feelings, whatever part of the world they live in. Even pure music without lyrics! Modes such as major or minor consistently create certain moods, especially when combined with certain rhythms. For example: a minor chord, depending upon the rhythm, can sound sad. Or angry, or spooky. Major chords can elicit feelings of joy, or transcendence, or serenity. 
 
     At the UU Fellowship of Lake Norman, we aim to delve into music of all sorts, to help us tap into the shared experiences of our humanity. Whether we're listening to special music presented by a few or singing together as a community,  we allow our psyches to be stirred by musical experiences that feed, uplift, and, hopefully, heal.
 
     Thanks
     To that end, we thank all the musicians who help vary our palette of musical experiences at UU Lake Norman, and we welcome those of you who participate in the future.
 
     Choir resumes its regular practice on Tuesday nights at 7:30, starting Tuesday, March 1.

     Theresa Woody
     Music Director

Social Action

     Room in the Inn
     UU Lake Norman is partnering with Davidson United Methodist Church to host Room in the Inn for our homeless neighbors on Monday evening, March 14. We provide a hot, home-cooked meal, fellowship, and a safe, warm place to sleep. Volunteers are needed to help with set-up, provide food for dinner, serve and fellowship with the neighbors, and clean up. RITI takes place at Davidson United Methodist on Main Street in Davidson. We use the Dale House, which is the small white house on the right after you enter the parking lot.
     All food for dinner must be delivered hot and ready to eat no later than 6 p.m. There is limited space to keep food hot, so please plan accordingly. Non-perishable foods (drinks, bread, fruit, etc.) may be left in the RITI storage container on the front porch if you need to drop them off earlier in the day. Any questions, please contact action@uulakenorman.org or go to this website to sign up.

     Adopt-a-Highway
     In 2011, the UU Fellowship of Lake Norman became an official Fellowship, officially joining the UUA with 30 members. We met on the first and third Sunday of every month and had a plan for how to grow the fellowship. But we had to get the word out! Had to advertise. Do you know the cost of an ad in the newspaper? On radio? Our little budget didn't support that.  
     Then, a few members thought of Adopt-a-Highway. If we cleaned up the trash along about a mile of Davidson-Concord Road in Davidson, the state would put up a sign at either end indicating that we are responsible for keeping that stretch of road clean. Time, talent and treasure -- we had some time and talent, but not much treasure. 
     Once each quarter, a group of congregants meets on a Saturday morning and spends a couple of hours cleaning up trash along the side of the road. We get to keep the community clean, serve out our mission by "living our beliefs through works" and get free advertising! Several members have indicated that they found us because of our sign!
     The Fellowship needs volunteers in order to keep that public presence. Please sign up to join us on next scheduled date -- Saturday, March 19 -- by writing action@uulakenorman.org. Take your turn in sharing your time and talent to keep our adopted highway clean!

Raleigh march

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    UU Lake Norman was well represented Feb. 13 at the 10th annual Historic Thousands on Jones Street People's Assembly Coalition in Raleigh, a march for social, economic and environmental justice. Go here for the 14 Point Agenda that explains what it was all about.

March is Stewardship Month

     Thinking of our Fellowship, most of the time we reflect on the inspiration of a particular Sunday service, how the music awakened something in our soul, the thrill of a child insisting they don't want to miss Spiritual Exploration with their teacher and their friends. Some of us felt it when we received a warm card or hot meal from our "family" at UU Lake Norman during an illness.
    These warm thoughts make us want to nurture and grow each and every one of those positive flowers of experience.
    This month we take a serious look at what the Fellowship has meant to us over the past months and years. And we seriously assess what it costs to have, and to grow, our Fellowship. We must plan our future and then invest our time, talent and treasure. That future is entirely in our hands. 
    On Sunday or in the mail, you will receive a letter and lots of information about pledging, budgets, and current operations. We can do better this year. 
    Your Stewardship Committee proposes for FY 2016-2017 a more ambitious budget of $64,800. It will address four areas that are critical to our success and continued growth:
·         Compensation for Rev. Amy
·         A website that is inviting and professional
·         A part-time administrative person
·         A Sunday setup person
    We want you to consider pledging more than just money. Your time and talent are as important as your treasure. So please look for both pledge forms: One for treasure and one for time and talent. 
     Questions?  Ask Marilyn Campbell, Kerry and Karen Miller, and Marge Flowers, all members of your Stewardship Committee.

Announcements    
   
     UU Association Common  Read
     Join Rev. Amy Brooks on Sunday, March 13 at 9:30 a.m. for a conversation about our UU common read, Just Mercy: A Story of Justice and Redemption by Brian Stevenson. The book is a factual, personal story about one man's commitment to bring justice and mercy to those trapped in an often brutal system of mass incarceration. If you need a copy of the book or childcare, please contact Rev. Amy at minister@uulakenorman.org. (Another time may be scheduled if interest is expressed!)

     Board meeting
     The Board's monthly meeting has been rescheduled to Thursday, March 17 at 7 p.m. at WDAV on Main Street in Davidson. All are welcome.

     Service setup
     Starting in March, the second and third Sundays will be do-it-yourself setup and breakdown. If you can, come 20 minutes early and help us build our community and create our worship space!

     Book group    
     The group meets on Wednesday, March 16, at 7 p.m. The book is The Girls of Atomic City: The Untold Story of the Women who Helped Win World War II, by Denise Kiernan. For more information: bookclub@uulakenorman.org

     Women's Centering Group
     The group meets on Fridays at 8 a.m. at Community Yoga in Cornelius. For more information, contact Laurie Walker at laurie1059@gmail.com.

How to contact us

    Our website is full of information on our congregation and Unitarian Universalism. 

    For general questions and comments: info@uulakenorman.org
    Rev. Amy Brooks:minister@uulakenorman.org
    Music director Theresa Woody: music@uulakenorman.org   
    Fellowship Committee:
fellowship@uulakenorman.org
    Member Care Committee:
membership@uulakenorman.org
    Social Action Committee:action@uulakenorman.org
    Spiritual Exploration Committee: re@uulakenorman.org
    Book Group:
bookclub@uulakenorman.org
    Volunteer Coordinator:
volunteer@uulakenorman.org
    Newsletter editor:newsletter@uulakenorman.org 

    Board of Trustees:
    Veronique Singerman, president: president@uulakenorman.org
     Sandy McFeeley, secretary
     Anne Pender, treasurer
     Rodger Clark, trustee
     Dan Aldridge, trustee
     Nicole Gantz, trustee
     Eddie Gunn, trustee
    
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