November 23, 2015
Marian Shrine E-Newsletter
Volume 4, Issue 17
Fr. Jim McKenna Greetings!

I first heard this a long time ago, and it's stuck with me ever since because it just feels good whenever I say it in my mind or out loud.

Especially because when things are going well, it helps me feel that much sweeter about them.

And when things aren't going well, such as when I'm feeling quite sick and barely upright, it helps me feel even sweeter about that.

It's a very simple, comforting, and healing prayer that reminds me that every moment is an opportunity to practice gratitude.

So much so, that this is my 'default' prayer pretty much anytime in life... in the shower, before a meal, random moments throughout the day. Several times each day.

Are you ready? :)

Thank you for the wind and rain...

Thank you for the sun.

Thank you for what I have now...

And all the good things to come.

Every morning when I wake...

Before I start my day.

I think of all the good things...

That will come my way.

Try it. Let me know how it lands with you. :)
 
Happy Thanksgiving!
 
God bless you,
In Mary Help of Christians,
I remain,
Fr. Jim McKenna SDB
Director
  
A Lesson I learned

A lesson I learned is, that we must have faith in our own ideas even if everyone tells us that we are wrong. There was once a newspaper vendor who had a rude customer. Every morning, the Customer would walk by, refuse to return the greeting, grab the paper off the shelf and throw the money at the vendor. The vendor would pick up the money, smile politely and say, 'Thank you, Sir.' One day, the vendor's assistant asked him, "Why are you always so polite with him when he is so rude to you? Why don't you throw the newspaper at him when he comes back tomorrow?" The vendor smiled and replied, "He can't help being rude and I can't help being polite. Why should I let his rude behavior dictate my politeness? "

The Violin - his Passion

The melodic strains of a violin heard one Friday evening from a lobby at Barnes-Jewish Hospital, was the heartfelt gratitude of a former patient who had almost lost the ability to play the instrument again. "I suppose it is a beautiful way of saying 'thank you' to the hospital and its staff, but it's a lot of other things as well," mused Ken Wollberg. "It's a way to share a beautiful thing."

Watch it here: https://youtu.be/9B6r4hoVJWM 

The Violin - His Passion
Wollberg, 58, began playing the violin in a fourth-grade music class in Omaha, Nebraska, and became 'almost addicted to it, in a way.' His love for the instrument eventually led to a master's degree in viola performance from the University of Iowa. Although he was passionately fond of playing professionally, his real delight was teaching the viola and violin to enthusiastic young students. Besides, he performed with various music groups and symphonies, but it was hard to make a living off his music, as everyone in the profession knows only too well. So he and his wife, Peggy, decided to launch careers as truck drivers and in 2002 began hauling rigs cross-country.
Eventually, they bought a truck for themselves and leased their services. Wollberg and his wife were hauling three flatbeds, piled up on the back of their truck on Dec. 27, 2007, when it struck a patch of ice in Montana and before they knew what was happening, they found themselves slithering across the length of about four football fields before toppling to one side.
The driver's side window had shattered, and Wollberg's left elbow took a beating. His triceps muscle detached, and bone scraped away from his elbow. Surveying the damage, the orthopedic surgeon Dr. Jay Keener who attended on him observed, "I told him from the get-go that it was uncertain if he would ever be able to play the violin again, depending on the amount of nerve damage, weakness and stiffness he had sustained." Keener re-attached Wollberg's triceps muscle to the bone. Plastic surgeon Dr. Ida
Fox performed a skin graft to cover the outside of the wound. A second operation last July released scar tissue and stretched the elbow. But it was only after several months of
painful grueling exercises and therapy visits that Wollberg gradually returned to teaching music as before.
"That whole time, I didn't realize how serious it was," Wollberg reminisces. "My hand worked, but it was a struggle to play the violin again. It took a month, maybe, to reach the bottom string." He complains that his arm is still weak, but nevertheless, last fall he performed with the Paducah Symphony Orchestra in Kentucky.
When Wollberg returned to Barnes-Jewish Hospital recently for a checkup, he brought along his violin. "My desire was to show that I had my violin-playing back under control. I wanted them to see the work they had done with such loving dedication and care was eminently successful," he reflected.
The doctors were immensely impressed and grateful and the hospital staff asked the patient to schedule another appointment - but this time as a performer.
Wollberg and his friend, guitarist Jim Stieren, appeared that Friday at the hospital's Centre for Advanced Medicine in St. Louis. Peggy Wollberg joined them and sang a few songs, including 'Amazing Grace.' Cherry Brown, 58, paused after a vascular test to join the crowd in the lobby and enjoy the music. "The fact that he is able to play after the accident is a wonderful thing," she remarked. "That's a God-given talent well used."

Gratitude Meaningfully Shown
Most people express gratitude with a casual 'Thank-you' or sometimes with a heartfelt expression accompanied by a gift of some kind. However, gratitude is best shown by a change of life-style as did Wollberg. How many of us pay heed to this aspect of gratitude?
Take the example of the gift of forgiveness which God gives us so graciously through the dying-rising of Jesus, his Son. The ideal way to show one's gratitude for this gift is to avoid repeating the sin ever again in one's life, and at the same time to share one's forgiveness with another, especially when the person has hurt us beyond our expectations. Only when our gratitude for forgiveness includes these two aspects can we say that it is genuine and complete - gratitude shown in action and not just in words alone. The express need of passing on forgiveness to others is brought home to us through the parable of the unforgiving servant.
However, what most seem to miss in their understanding of this parable is that when the first servant fails to extend forgiveness to his fellow-servant, he loses the very gift that he had received earlier - he is thrown into prison until he had paid the entire debt. And considering the amount he owed (ten thousand talents, the equivalent in modern currency being several thousands of millions of dollars!) that would mean an extremely long sentence!
And what about gratitude for the gift of life, experienced through recovery from a fatal illness, or when we escaped a near-death accident? Does that ever really make us begin life on a fresh page, with a deeper trust in the Lord's providence and a greater readiness to reach out to others, especially those for whom life is a burden in some way? How often does good health and physical vigor move us to go out of our way to work for the physically challenged and less gifted, polio patients, accident victims and the like?
We would all acknowledge that it is fairly easy (even though meaningful) to say a verbal 'thank-you' for a favor received. But to make that favor the springboard for a new level of living is something out of the ordinary! In 2 Cor. 5:14-15 Paul reminds us that Jesus loved each of us so much that he literally identified himself with us, taking the penalty of death on himself (one man died for all!). And so, he concludes, living persons should no longer live for themselves for him who for their sakes died and was raised. He not only taught this truth, but actually lived it. 'For me,' he avowed, 'to live is Christ and to die again!'
What a difference it would make if each Christian were to realize this truth to the very marrow of his/her bones! Would we not thank the Lord for all that he has done for us?!?
"What shall I return to the Lord for all his goodness to me? I will lift up the cup of salvation and call on the name of the Lord" (Ps 116:12-13).
As we remember Wollberg and his almost childlike candidness in wanting to thank the doctors who helped him get back the use of his left hand, could we take a serious look at our lives and pick out one area in which we feel (or even ought to feel) this kind of gratitude to the Lord? How could we express this more meaningfully not just in words, but in actions that will reveal the glory of what God has done for us?

Laughter the best medicine

OPINIONS
On the first day of school, a first-grader handed his teacher a note from his mother. The note read, 'The opinions expressed by this child are not necessarily those of his parents.'

KETCHUP
A woman was trying hard to get the ketchup out of the jar. During her struggle the phone rang so she asked her 4-year-old daughter to answer the phone. 'Mommy can't come to the phone to talk to you right now. She's hitting the bottle.'

BIBLE
A little boy opened the big family Bible. He was fascinated as he fingered through the old pages. Suddenly, something fell out of the Bible. He picked up the object and looked at it. What he saw was an old leaf that had been pressed in between the pages. 'Mama, look what I found,' the boy called out. 'What have you got there, dear?'   With astonishment in the young boy's voice, he answered, 'I think it's Adam's underwear."

The Devotion of the Three Hail Marys

The devotion of the THREE HAIL MARYS is a very simple yet most efficacious devotion.
Everyday, recite Three Hail Marys, adding the invocation: "O Mary, My Mother, keep me from mortal sin." Many people recite the Three Hail Marys as part of their morning and night prayers. To practice this devotion in time of danger, stress, special need or temptation, is a sure means to obtain Our Lady's help.


Our sincere thanks to Mother Mary Help of Christians and Don Bosco for the gift of a beautiful baby girl whom we have named Jerusha. James and Gael, FL

Thank you dearest Mother Mary Help of Christians and Don Bosco for helping my daughter through a difficult pregnancy and for the gift of a beautiful baby girl Francesca Maria.
Terrence and Lorraine Hernandez, Miami

I am grateful to Mary Help of Christians and St. Don Bosco for helping me choose the right career.  Ingrid, NJ 

Sincere thanks to Mother Mary and Don Bosco for the marriage of my cousin, cure from an illness, my elder daughter's graduation and her marriage and for good health.
Mrs. Louis and family,  NJ 
 
My sincere and heartfelt gratitude for the many blessings and favors received through the recitation of the three Hail Marys. Mother Mary please continue to intercede for my family I have received numerous favors through the faithful recitation of the 3 Hail Marys. So many
times my family and I were in trouble but the 3 Hail Marys have helped us at all times to get out of trouble. I apologize for delaying my acknowledgement of these favors. I have made it a habit now to recite the 3 Hail Marys not only in times of trouble but everyday.
Antonieta Simoes, Pittsburgh, PA
 
In Conclusion

Dear devotees of Our Lady and Don Bosco,

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