November 16, 2015
Marian Shrine E-Newsletter
Volume 4, Issue 16
Fr. Jim McKenna Greetings!

Wisdom teachers throughout time have said, "Trust in God, but tie your camel."

At it's core, the idea is this: Don't ignore the reality of our world. Trusting in God blindly is not being Present and honest. It's being naive.
For example: One may totally trust God to bring us what we need. And, at the same time one would very likely seek some form of sustenance - whether it's a job, looking for work, building a business, or even in a worst-case scenario - standing on a corner begging for money and food.

Or we may have children whom we love and care for... and we trust them in the arms of God... yet at the same time, we take specific actions to support their development - be it school, a religious or spiritual foundation, athletics, tutoring, playing together, and so on.

In other words, while we can place full trust in the Divine to support us - we must also be Present enough with life to allow ourselves to receive that support.

Sometimes we can become stuck expecting the world to be a certain way. We can become stuck expecting the Divine to support us in specific ways.   And when we do that, we ironically remain blind to the support that the Divine is offering us as we stubbornly approach life with a limited perspective. In other words, we forget to tie our metaphorical camels.

To exemplify this idea in a different way, I share with you the story of the Drowning Man....
While out to sea, a large boat became shipwrecked and there was only a single survivor. This man prayed and asked God to save his life. Soon thereafter, another boat came by and offered the man some help.

"No thanks," he said. "I'm waiting for God to save me."

The men on the boat shrugged their shoulders and continued. As the man became more deeply concerned, another boat came by. Again, the people aboard offered this man some help, and again he politely decline. "I'm waiting for God to save me," he said again.

After some time, the man began to lose his faith, and soon after that he died. Upon reaching Heaven, he had a chance to speak with God briefly.

"Why did you let me die? Why didn't you answer my prayers?"

"Dude... I sent you two boats!"
 
The man blindly trusted God without looking at the nature of reality. He didn't look at his entire situation exactly as it was. He only saw it as he wanted to see it.
 
God Bless you.
 
In Mary Help of Christians,
I remain,
Fr. Jim McKenna SDB
Director

A Lesson I Learned

A lesson I learned is, that we must always strive for excellence. One way of achieving excellence, is by looking at those better than ourselves. Keep learning what they do differently. But excellence cannot be imposed from the outside. We must also feel the need from within. It must involve not only our mind, but also our heart and soul. Excellence is not an act, but a habit. I remember the inspiring lines of a poem, which says that your reach must always exceed your grasp. That is heaven on earth. Ultimately, your only competition is yourself.

 
A letter written by Abraham Lincoln to the Headmaster of a school in which his son was studying. It contains an advice, which is still relevant today for executives, workers, teachers, parents and students.

A Word to Teachers 
By Abraham Lincoln 

He will have to learn, I know, that all men are not just and are not true. But teach him if you can the wonder of books... but also give him quiet time to ponder the eternal mystery of birds in the sky, bees in the sun and flowers on a green hillside.

In school, teach him it is far more honorable to fall than to cheat... Teach to have faith in his own ideas, even if everyone tells him he is wrong.

Teach him to be gentle with gentle people and tough with the tough. Try to give my son the strength not to follow the crowd when everyone's getting on the bandwagon...

Teach him to listen to all men; but teach him also to filter all he hears on a screen of truth, and take only the good that comes through.

Teach him, if you can how to laugh when he is sad... Teach him there is no shame in tears.

Teach him to scoff at cynics and to be aware of too much sweetness.

Teach him to sell his brawn and brain to the highest bidders, but never to put a price on his heart and soul. Teach him to close his ears to a howling mob... and stand and fight if thinks he is right.

Treat him gently, but do not cuddle him, because only the test of fire makes fine steel. Let him have the courage to be impatient. Let him have the patience to be brave. Teach him always to have sublime faith in himself, because then he will have faith in humankind.
This is a big order, but see what you can do. He is such a fine little fellow my son!
- Abraham Lincoln

Laughter the best medicine

POLICE # 1
While taking a routine vandalism report at an elementary school, I was interrupted by a little girl about 6 years old. Looking up and down at my uniform, she asked, 'Are you a cop?' 'Yes,' I answered and continued writing the report. 'My mother said if I ever needed help I should ask the police. Is that right?' 'Yes, that's right,' I told her. 'Well, then,' she said as she extended her foot toward me, 'would you please tie my shoe?'

POLICE # 2
It was the end of the day when I parked my police van in front of the station. As I gathered my equipment, my K-9 partner, Jake, was barking, and I saw a little boy staring in at me. 'Is that a dog you got back there?' he asked. 'It sure is,' I replied. Puzzled, the boy looked at me and then towards the back of the van. Finally he said, 'What'd he do?'

ELDERLY
While working for an organization that delivers lunches to elderly shut-ins, I used to take my 4-year-old daughter on my afternoon rounds. She was unfailingly intrigued by the various appliances of old age, particularly the canes, walkers and wheelchairs. One day I found her staring at a pair of false teeth soaking in a glass. As I braced myself for the inevitable barrage of questions, she merely turned and whispered, 'The tooth fairy will never believe this!'
 
The Devotion of the Three Hail Marys
The devotion of the THREE HAIL MARYS is a very simple yet most efficacious devotion.
Everyday, recite Three Hail Marys, adding the invocation: "O Mary, My Mother, keep me from mortal sin." Many people recite the Three Hail Marys as part of their morning and night prayers. To practice this devotion in time of danger, stress, special need or temptation, is a sure means to obtain Our Lady's help.

My sincere thanks to Our Lady for the successful completion of my CPA program and advancement. Ernest Gabriel Collins,Australia

My brother was suffering from a certain skin ailment on his neck and he was shown to a skin specialist. Even after a long period there was no relief. During this time I prayed to Our Blessed Mother and my brother was cured within no time. I am very grateful to Our
Mother Mary. Fiona Martin, NY

Our sincere gratitude to Our Blessed Mother for the gift of a baby boy after 11 years.We prayed the three Hail Marys everyday. Brigitte and Alex Fernandez, ME 

In Closing
Dear devotees of Our Lady and Don Bosco,
If you have received a miracle through the intercession of Our Blessed Mother, we would like to hear from you. Email us at MaryShrine@aol.com.
 
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