September 14, 2015
Marian Shrine E-Newsletter
Volume 4, Issue 7
Fr. Jim McKenna

A while back I was having lunch with a friend I hadn't seen in forever. I had moved around over the last several years, and we drifted apart. Last time we saw each other, we were totally different people than we are today.

Yet even though we didn't really "know" each other anymore, the conversation was natural. Before we knew it, what seemed like 15 minutes had lasted two hours.

And I was delighted to connect with him in a common area of interest: We both live in service to others.

It was abundantly clear how passionate he was about being holy.

He told me that at ANY moment of any day, we could choose to "start our day over."

We could simply decide that whatever bad stuff had already happened didn't have to negatively impact the rest of our day.

This really landed with me in a very real way.

That's why when I come across an idea that really resonates with me, I want to test it out. I want to share it. I want to live it and see what's true.

And in this case, just six words can make "The Power of Now" a reality:

"I'm starting my day over... NOW."

Sure, we may have to start our day over again. And again. And perhaps again.
 
But let's compare that to the alternative...  Unhappiness. Anger. Frustration. Resentment. Sorrow. Shame. Fear. Regret.

Whether we're consciously aware of this or not - anytime we are not living IN the Present moment immediately, we are in a state of rejection. We are rejecting what is. We are rejecting reality exactly the way it's showing up right now.

So any --and every-- time you find yourself frustrated with a "bad day" or something happened that you just can't seem to let go of, remember the wise words of my friend:

"I'm starting my day over... NOW."

Try it and let me know how it works for you.
 
God bless you.
In Mary Help of Christians,
I remain
Fr. Jim McKenna SDB
Director

Walking with the Church

Q. What does the Creed mean when it says that Christ descended into Hell?

A. The Old Testament calls the abode of the dead, to which the dead Jesus went down, 'hell' - Sheol in Hebrew or Hades in Greek - because those who are there are deprived of the vision of God... It is precisely these holy souls, who awaited their savior whom Christ the Lord delivered when he descended into hell. Why did he go down into Hell (Sheol)? Christ went down into the depths of the earth so that 'the dead will hear the voice of the Son of God and those who hear it will live. (CCC 633)

 
The day Shay got to play by E.J. Nolan

At a fundraising dinner for a school that serves children with learning disabilities, the father of one of the students delivered a speech that would never be forgotten by all who attended. After extolling the school and its dedicated staff, he offered a question:
'When not interfered with by outside influences, everything nature does, is done with perfection.
Yet my son, Shay, cannot learn things as other children do. He cannot understand things as other children do.
Where is the natural order of things in my son?'
 
The audience was stilled by the query.
 
The father continued. 'I believe that when a child like Shay, who was mentally and physically disabled comes into the world, an opportunity to realize true human nature presents itself, and it comes in the way other people treat that child.'
 
Then he told the following story:
 
Shay and I had walked past a park where some boys Shay knew were playing baseball. Shay asked, 'Do you think they'll let me play?' I knew that most of the boys would not want someone like Shay on their team, but as a father I also understood that if my son were allowed to play, it would give him a much-needed sense of belonging and some confidence to be accepted by others in spite of his handicaps.
 
I approached one of the boys on the field and asked (not expecting much) if Shay could play. The boy looked around for guidance and said, 'We're losing by six runs and the game is in the eighth inning. I guess he can be on our team and we'll try to put him in to bat in the ninth inning.'
 
Shay struggled over to the team's bench and, with a broad smile, put on a team shirt. I watched with a small tear in my eye and warmth in my heart. The boys saw my joy at my son being accepted.
In the bottom of the eighth inning, Shay's team scored a few runs but was still behind by three.
 
In the top of the ninth inning, Shay put on a glove and played in the right field. Even though no hits came his way, he was obviously ecstatic just to be in the game and on the field, grinning from ear to ear as I waved to him from the stands.
 
In the bottom of the ninth inning, Shay's team scored again.
 
Now, with two outs and the bases loaded, the potential winning run was on base and Shay was scheduled to be next at bat.
 
At this juncture, do they let Shay bat and give away their chance to win the game?
 
Surprisingly, Shay was given the bat. Everyone knew that a hit was all but impossible because Shay didn't even know how to hold the bat properly, much less connect with the ball.
 
However, as Shay stepped up to the plate, the pitcher, recognizing that the other team was putting winning aside for this moment in Shay's life, moved in a few steps to lob the ball in softly so Shay could at least make contact.
 
The first pitch came and Shay swung clumsily and missed.
The pitcher again took a few steps forward to toss the ball softly towards Shay.
As the pitch came in, Shay swung at the ball and hit a slow ground ball right back to the pitcher.
 
The game would now be over.
 
The pitcher picked up the soft grounder and could have easily thrown the ball to the first baseman.
 
Shay would have been out and that would have been the end of the game.
 
Instead, the pitcher threw the ball right over the first baseman's head, out of reach of all team mates.
 
Everyone from the stands and both teams started yelling, 'Shay, run to first!
 
Run to first!'
 
Never in his life had Shay ever run that far, but he made it to first base.
 
He scampered down the baseline, wide-eyed and startled.
 
Everyone yelled, 'Run to second, run to second!'
 
Catching his breath, Shay awkwardly ran towards second, gleaming and struggling to make it to the base.
B y the time Shay rounded towards second base, the right fielder had the ball . the smallest guy on their team who now had his first chance to be the hero for his team.
He could have thrown the ball to the second-baseman for the tag, but he understood the pitcher's intentions so he, too, intentionally threw the ball high and far over the third-baseman's head.
 
Shay ran toward third base deliriously as the runners ahead of him circled the bases toward home.
All were screaming, 'Shay, Shay, Shay, all the Way Shay'
 
Shay reached third base because the opposing shortstop ran to help him by turning him in the direction of third base, and shouted, 'Run to third!
Shay, run to third!'
 
As Shay rounded third, the boys from both teams, and the spectators, were on their feet screaming, 'Shay, run home! Run home!'
 
Shay ran to home stepped on the plate, and was cheered as the hero who hit the grand slam and won the game for his team.
 
'That day', said the father softly with tears now rolling down his face, 'the boys from both teams helped bring a piece of true love and humanity into this world'.
Shay didn't make it to another summer. He died that winter, having never forgotten being the hero and making me so happy, and coming home and seeing his Mother tearfully embrace her little hero of the day!

Laughter the best medicine

A miserly man calls a Dentist to inquire about the cost for tooth extraction.

Dentist : $850 Sir.
 
Man: $850!!! Too much! Don't you have anything cheaper?
 
Dentist : That's the normal charge, Sir.
 
Man: What if you don't use any anesthetic?
 
Dentist : That's unusual, Sir, but can be done and will cut the cost by $400 .
 
Man: Ok. And what if you deploy one of your trainee-dentists to do the extraction, without anesthetic?
 
Dentist : Well, I cannot guarantee professionalism and it also would be painful. But the price could drop down to $150.
 
Man: Hmm. What if you make it like a training-session, like one of your students does the extraction, while the other students watch and learn?
 
Dentist : It'll be good for the students but quite traumatic. And I can pay you $200 for it.
 
Man : Now you're talking! Ok, it's a deal. Can I confirm an appointment for my mother-in-law for tomorrow then?
 
 
The Devotion of the Three Hail Marys
The devotion of the THREE HAIL MARYS is a very simple yet most efficacious devotion.
Everyday, recite Three Hail Marys, adding the invocation: "O Mary, My Mother, keep me from mortal sin." Many people recite the Three Hail Marys as part of their morning and night prayers. To practice this devotion in time of danger, stress, special need or temptation, is a sure means to obtain Our Lady's help.

My sincere and heartfelt thanks to Mother Mary, Don Bosco, for the gift of a beautiful baby boy to my son and daughter-in-law. Thank you also for blessing my daughter-in-law with a normal safe delivery and for bringing home my grandchild (who was prematurely born) in
good health from the Neonatal ICU after just 3 weeks although the doctors had said he would be there much longer. Lavinia Mendez, MD

Thank you dear Mother Mary and Don Bosco for all the graces and favors received.
Gladys, NY 

Thanks to the Divine Mercy, Mary Help of Christians and St. John Bosco for protecting us in times of need and for blessing my niece and nephew with employment. Please help them to find suitable partners. Charles, SC 


In Closing

Dear devotees of Our Lady and Don Bosco,
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