from Global Teen Challenge 

 Christmas 2014


 

Christmas Time

When the wishes of children come true!

 

Jerry & Libby's grandchildren
Jerry & Libby's grandchildren

I grew up in a family that was fully committed to the spirit of Christmas. We decorated the house and we set out cookies and milk for Santa. I believed in him until I was 7 or 8 years old. In fact, I remember one Christmas when I was 5 or 6 that I sneaked into the living room of our house and hid behind my father's big chair in hopes of seeing Santa. You guessed, I fell asleep and never did see Santa, but the cookies and milk were gone and the tree had all new packages for my brother's, sister and me.

 

 

We always celebrated the Lord's birth and we always went to church and gave gifts to each other. My father and mother were generous people and they both responded to the needs of others, especially at Christmas time. There has never been a time when we did not celebrate Christmas.

 

Jesus became one of us and came to this earth as a babe. As Christians we have the joy of celebrating his birth each Christmas. Jesus came to give us new life and to do so he gave the most amazing gift of all, His life.

 

Whether you celebrate the birth of Christ in December or some other time of year, can we take a moment this month and consider the needs of others? Can we take a minute to share our love for our family members? Are you estranged from one of your family members? Have you been the one who has not communicated over all these years? Can I suggest that you lay down the mistakes of the past and ask the Lord to help you get rid of the hurt and reach out to your family with a different heart, a different attitude.

 

I have met so many in the ministry of Teen Challenge who have horrible memories of the Christmas season. They had parents who were self-centered, distracted by their own needs and didn't truly model the spirit of Christmas. I understand how it is hard difficult to give to others and to think of others when all you experienced was selfish, hateful behavior. Jesus came to give you freedom and to forgive you for all of your sins, and in doing so is asking us to lay down the hurts, and wrongs others have committed against us.

 

I love Christmas because I get to see it through the eyes of my grandchildren. My grandkids come to our home, and it changes the dynamics of our house. When they see the Christmas tree, see the decorations, and smell the Christmas cookies, their eyes light up, the grins explode off of their faces and they run into our arms and give big hugs. We go from the two of us to 16 of us when they all arrive.

 

The noise, cheer and laughter fills the house. No, it is not perfect. Yes, there are sibling squabbles, and there are several very tired adults who just need some rest to truly enjoy our time together.

 

Our grandchildren are still innocent (several of them still believe in Santa) and have not been destroyed by the pain of this world. As Libby and I work to make the time we have together special, we often stop and just reflect on how blessed we are. We both comment on how good the Lord is to us and how happy we are that our children serve the Lord and that our grandchildren are growing up in church. Life is challenging in so many ways, and Christmas gives us a break to sit down and reflect on the good things God is doing for us.

Can I suggest that you take the time this holiday to stop, sit down and spend some time reflecting on how good God has been to you and your loved ones this year? Yes, there have been challenges, but God is seeing you through and He is seeing your loved ones through.

The Nance Family
The Nance Family

 

Is there a relationship that needs mending? Is there a loved one that needs to hear from you? Right now, bow your head before the Lord and ask him for help. Ask Jesus to help you have the love for them that He has for you. Ask Jesus what you should do and how he would approach the situation.

 

Christmas is a time for reflection, a time to slow down and enjoy your family. Can I challenge the men to tell your wife and children how you feel. Tell them you love them with words, not just with gifts. Words of love and encouragement are life to them.

 

Libby and I, our children and grandchildren pray that you have a wonderful holiday season.

 

Jerry Nance PhD

President

Global Teen Challenge

 

 

 

 

 

 

 The Littlest Firefighter

 

I recently read the following story and it made me thankful that my children and grandchildren are healthy. It also made me thankful for the firemen who were willing to go out of their way to make a child feel special as he was ready to leave this life. I hope you will enjoy the story, and I hope you will take some time this Christmas to reflect and to do what Jesus asks you to do.

Jerry
 

   

The 26-year-old mother stared down at her son who was dying of terminal leukemia. Although her heart was filled with sadness, she also had a strong feeling of determination. Like any parent she wanted her son to grow up and fulfill all his dreams. Now that was no longer possible. The leukemia would see to that.

 

But she still wanted her son's dreams to come true. She took her son's hand and asked, "Bopsy, did you ever think about what you wanted to be once you grew up? Did you ever dream and wish what you would do with your life?"

 

Bopsy
Bopsy

"Mommy, I always wanted to be a fireman when I grew up." Mom smiled back and said, "Let's see if we can make your wish come true."

 

Later that day she went to her local fire department in Phoenix, Arizona, where she met Fireman Bob, who had a heart as big as Phoenix. She explained her son's final wish and asked if it might be possible to give her six-year-old son a ride around the block on a fire engine.

 

Fireman Bob said, "Look, we can do better than that. If you'll have your son ready at seven o'clock Wednesday morning, we'll make him an honorary fireman for the whole day. He can come down to the fire station, eat with us, go out on all the fire calls, the whole nine yards! "And if you'll give us his sizes, we'll get a real fire uniform for him, with a real fire hat -- not a toy one -- with the emblem of the Phoenix Fire Department on it, a yellow slicker like we wear and rubber boots. They're all manufactured right here in Phoenix, so we can get them fast."

 

Three days later Fireman Bob picked up Bopsy, dressed him in his fire uniform and escorted him from his hospital bed to the waiting hook and ladder truck. Bopsy got to sit on the back of the truck and help steer it back to the fire station. He was in heaven.

 

There were three fire calls in Phoenix that day and Bopsy got to go out on all three calls. He rode in the different fire engines, the paramedic's van, and even the fire chief's car. He was also videotaped for the local news program.

 

Having his dream come true, with all the love and attention that was lavished upon him, so deeply touched Bopsy that he lived three months longer than any doctor thought possible.

 

One night all of his vital signs began to drop dramatically and the head nurse, who believed in the hospice concept that no one should die alone, began to call the family members to the hospital. Then she remembered the day Bopsy had spent as a fireman, so she called the Fire Chief and asked if it would be possible to send a fireman in uniform to the hospital to be with Bopsy as he made his transition.

 

The chief replied, "We can do better than that. We'll be there in five minutes. Will you please do me a favor? When you hear the sirens screaming and see the lights flashing, will you announce over the PA system that there is not a fire? It's just the fire department coming to see one of its finest members one more time. And will you open the window to his room?"

 

About five minutes later a hook and ladder truck arrived at the hospital, extended its ladder up to Bopsy's third floor open window and five firefighters climbed up the ladder into Bopsy's room. With his mother's permission, they hugged him and held him and told him how much they loved him. With his dying breath, Bopsy looked up at the fire chief and said, "Chief, am I really a fireman now?" "Yes, Bopsy, you are a fireman now," the chief said. With those words, Bopsy smiled and closed his eyes one last time. He passed away later that evening.

 

 

 

 
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