
October arrives here with the most beautiful weather we have seen in months! The newsletters will come less often with less time spent indoors!
Our thoughts become focused on the November Horse Trials (I am Dressage steward and Cross Country steward!). Dharmahorse has a rider in them this year. I clearly remember decades past when I would merely jump judge on XCountry... the sweet morning air, the desert in autumn with a palpable silence as I sat, secluded by my jump, waiting for each rider to arrive and sail over.
I had a powerful evening yesterday. I went to teach Dressage lessons for old friends/students at their Warmblood farm in the north valley. The woman is in her late 70's and recently had shoulder surgery. She carefully mounted her retired Eventer, walked a warm up around the Dressage court and trotted him, on the aids, balanced and willing. My admiration and love for her was the highest it has ever been!
Her husband, in his 80's, rode a big mare who has had some difficulties. He was on her as a train roared by about 100 meters from the arena. Of course, all the horses there are used to it - but I always flinch when the trains are whipping by! He continued with trot to canter transitions on a 20 meter circle while I sat on a cinder block and felt the ground shake, pound and shiver. He said, after so much rain, the ground is like jello underneath... yikes!
It was magical, sitting between a huge, green hay field and the arena with shadows reaching across the flat field like ghostly fingers... watching the horses dance in the fading, peach colored glow of evening.
My friends were doing what they love. So was I. It is vitally important that we all add such moments of bliss to our lives at every opportunity. I dare say that by getting on the horse (literally or figuratively), one can put pain, sadness, grief or guilt on a shelf to be visited later or simply forgotten.
I'm looking forward to this autumn. Tomorrow, I will go to the Fair and embrace the feelings of harvest and celebration. I will summon courage and ride something scary, eat things that are not healthy and just have some time all to myself. I moved here decades ago from Boulder, Colorado to get warm! I have stayed because I like warmth... warm people, too!
Have a great October!
Katharine and the
Dharmahorse Tribe:
Dream Cat, Wally, Grits, Penny, Majic, Andy, Sage, Phoebe and Skipper!