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Adoptive Parent Bulletin
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January 2013
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Groundbreaking study analyzes
the internet's impact on adoption.
On our new year's resolution list -- continue to assess how the detailed findings in the new Donaldson Adoption Institute report "Untangling the Web: The Internet's Transformative Impact on Adoption" affect OA&FS.
In this first of its kind study, all aspects of online communication are parsed for their effect on the processes and results of adoption and adoptive relationships.

Key findings of the report include:
- There is a growing "commodification" of adoption on the web, replete with dubious practices, and a shift away from the perspective that its primary purpose is to find families for children
- Finding birth relatives is becoming increasingly easy and commonplace, with significant institutional and personal implications, including the likely end of the era of "closed" adoption.
- A growing number of young adoptees are forming relationships with birth relatives, sometimes without their adoptive parents' knowledge and usually without guidance or preparation.
- A rising number of websites offer useful, positive resources and expedite the adoption of children and youth who need families, notably including those with special needs.
We've observed the effects of the internet for years, and have managed our organization to stay in step with new technologies as they emerge. Because of our expertise in the area of open adoption and adoption reform, I'll be participating on a national committee to be convened by the Donaldson Institute in which key organizations and experts in the fields of child welfare, foster care and adoption gather for the purpose of devising best-practice standards and identifying other guidance/materials. This will be held in mid-2013.
We're also proud to have contributed to this report. When Donaldson asked agencies for their experiences and input, we provided them with a video produced by our Marketing Director Sally Shuey for our staff retreat. This video takes the viewer on a journey through the barrage of information and resources offered online from conception to post-adoption. It's an eye-opening collage of the good, the bad, the misinformed and more ... all just a mouse click away. See for yourself.
As this new year launches, we look forward to continuing to serve our community with passion, dedication and professionalism. Happy 2013 everyone!
Warm regards,
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An Open Adoption & Family Services Monthly Publication
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The Adoptive Parent Bulletin is sent to all adoptive parents from the time of their intake interview until two years after their most recent placement.
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Join our Social Media Communities
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Your visits support our campaign to build awareness about the benefits of open adoption! By liking us on Facebook, and viewing and liking videos on YouTube, you make it easier for people who need pregnancy options and adoption planning services to learn more and find OA&FS.
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Marketing Update
How do expectant parents find OA&FS?
As a non-profit we're always wanting to get the most bang for our marketing buck. To make sure we're advertising in the right places, we keep careful track of expectant parent referrals - how they say they found OA&FS. Administrative Assistant Sunny Moore compiles this data, and the results are illuminating:
For each referral source, we also track subcategories by type. For example, within the largely dominant "Found OA&FS Website", the lion's share of clients are connecting via search engine. To capitalize on this, we pay careful attention to keywords used within our website to ensure we have excellent search engine optimization, (meaning Google "serves up" our site in search results for those keywords because it can see the relevancy). It's expected that people may not know exactly how they got to our site - they may have clicked on an ad within Google or saw an ad on Facebook which later prompted them to search for OA&FS. We plan our marketing to have a presence in all these channels knowing that they reinforce each other.
In the second highest source - outreach - Planned Parenthood provides the majority of referrals. We value our relationship with this important and influential organization, and are honored to offer our services to their clients wanting comprehensive pregnancy counseling.
We're in the process of retooling our website to be even more accessible to expectant parents and provide all our clients with a high level of easy-to-navigate online information. Stay tuned to see the results of this upgrade -- coming soon in the new year!
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Outreach News
To educate others about open adoption and services available at our agency, OA&FS staff conduct outreach presentations and free trainings throughout the region year-round. In doing this, they form important relationships that benefit all who receive services from OA&FS.
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On December 3 , Executive Director Shari Levine presented to five nursing students at Linfield College in Portland. They were an exceptionally bright group of students who asked excellent questions. Here's a note from their instructor afterwards: "Thank you so much for coming. I am going to recommend that your presentation be part of the course on childbearing. So many students need to be aware of adoption options and how families are born in a variety of ways. The students learned much in the hour, which is because you are skilled at presenting and are an expert on your topic."
Joanna M Rowe, PhD, RN, Professor, School of Nursing, Linfield College
- On December 6, Eastern Oregon Counselor Angie Lunde met with ten employees of the Department of Human Services Child Welfare office in Baker City, OR. This was a refresher presentation for some and new information for several recently hired employees and everyone was eager to continue working together with OA&FS. Angie shared stories of previous cooperation between the agencies and the successful outcomes of those situations.
- On December 6, Eastern Oregon Counselor Angie Lunde presented information to eight people in Ontario, OR. Five were employees of St. Alphonsus Medical Center, which is the only hospital in the region, one home visitor from Healthy Start and two home visiting nurses for the health department. They were pleased to know about the agency's services available to families in eastern Oregon. Besides an overview of our agency and services, Angie discussed ways to talk to their clients about considering adoption as an option when faced with an unplanned pregnancy. She received comments on how much the attendees appreciated our philosophy of openness and respect for all parties and the integrity and professionalism important to the agency. The relationship building that the agency prioritizes was also important to them. While at the hospital, Angie also met with the OB Manager, gave her our materials, answered her questions and learned about their discharge policy.
- On December 7, Eugene Counselor Jan Jamieson presented information to two Health classes, of 25 students each, at South Albany High School. Students were very engaged and contributed thoughtful questions and feedback and OA&FS looks forward to the next opportunity to present there.
- On December 13, Eugene Counselor Jan Jamieson presented information about adoption and OA&FS to a class of 25 high school students in a Human Sexuality class at North Eugene High School. Thank you to volunteer Liz Morelli for sharing her adoption story and her experiences as a birthmother.
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Gatherings
Attending gatherings is an important way to be better equipped and prepared for adoption. Plus you get the benefits of developing friendships within the OA&FS community! We look forward to seeing you.
The Seattle office is having their holiday party this month, so no Gathering meeting will be held.
Portland
Date: Thursday, January 10, 2013 from 6:30-8 p.m.
Topic: Hospitious Adoption
Please RSVP to lori@openadopt.org by Wednesday, 1/9
It will be a snack and drink potluck - so if you'd like, bring something to share!
Eugene
Topic: Screening Emails/Calls
Date: January 18, 2013 from 7:00-9:00 p.m.
Where: 896 Osprey Loop, Creswell, OR 97426
Please RSVP to jan@openadopt.org
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Community Gatherings
Check out the following community events and resources organized by other OA&FS adoptive parents in your area:
Portland
Community Gathering for Portland OA&FS Waiting Families
OA&FS prospective adoptive parents Deb & Corey Omey have started a potluck dinner group! The group meets on the fourth Tuesday of the month and is for prospective adoptive parents in Portland area to meet and socialize.
When: Tuesday January 22, 2013 at 6:00 p.m. Where: 2105 N. Webster St., Portland, 97217
RSVP to uomey2@gmail.com
Salem
An adoption support group meets the third Tuesday of every month from 6:30 -7:30 p.m. at Pringle Hall in Salem. For information contact Christie Van Winkle at justaminion@gmail.com.
Eugene
Karen Luks, adoptive mother, welcomes OA&FS families to join the Eugene-Springfield area Yahoo! Group, by sending an email to EugeneOAFS-subscribe@yahoogroups.com.
Seattle
Transracial Family Group
For more information, or to be added to the group's email list, contact adoptive parents Terri and Mary-Pat at terriandmarypat@comcast.net.
Gay and Lesbian Family Group
The LGBTQ adoptive families group meets on the second Sunday of every other month from 3:00-5:00 p.m. For more information, contact Bill Soderberg at bjsoderberg@comcast.net or 206-902-7003.
Olympia
Christa Richardson, adoptive mother, hosts a Yahoo! Group to arrange potlucks in Olympia. Join by sending an email to
olyoafs-subscribe@yahoogroups.com
Kitsap Penninsula
Traia Wensel, adoptive mother, invites open adoption families in the Kitsap Penninsula area to join a Yahoo! Group for arranging get togethers and play groups. To join, email:
kitsap_oafs-subscribe@yahoogroups.com.
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Announcements
Welcome to the Pool:
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In Adoption Planning:
- Lillian and Jason Bennett of Shoreline, WA are in Adoption Planning with an expectant mother who is due in March.
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Congratulations:
On December 14th, after supporting their son's birthmother through labor, Jamie Wilson and John LaMont joyfully welcomed Samuel into the world. His full head of hair, delightful dimples, and calm nature melted everyone's hearts as they spent time together in the hospital. Samuel's birthmom was a great resource as Jamie and John learned to swaddle, soothe and fee him like pros. Samuel's birth siblings and birth aunt added to the joy as they piled into the room to welcome their newest family member. Together, everyone has built a beautiful, celebratory foundation for Samuel to have a life filled with love and connection. -
After months of getting to know each other, and spending treasured moments beating each other at board games, birthmother Rachel, her family, and the adoptive parents Matt Baxter and Tricia Rosenkranz all welcomed Olive Lily Baxter into the world. Olive made her debut early in the morning on Christmas Eve. Tricia and Matt were there to hear Olive's first cry, and spent the next few hours with her and Rachel. The placement happened on Christmas Day with an informal entrustment ceremony at the hospital. Everyone took the time to reflect on their admiration for each other and their excitement to continue forward in each other's lives. During the ceremony Rachel said she looks forward to being a part of Olive's life and teaching her how to beat Matt at the game "Apples to Apples".
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Counselor Updates In late October, OA&FS counselor Sari Prevost was diagnosed with breast cancer. She had surgery in early December, and was out for a month on medical leave. The results of the surgery indicated that she'll need to have chemotherapy. Though she intends to return to work in January, her schedule will be altered to accommodate these treatments. Sari is a loved and valued member of our OA&FS community. We welcome your healing thoughts and well wishes for her.
We have expanded our counseling staff in Portland by hiring Lindsey Martin, who is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW). She comes to us with ten years of counseling experience and a true passion for open adoption. Please join us in welcoming Lindsey.
Portland Holiday Party OA&FS' Portland holiday party was truly magical. The beautiful Portland Plaza party room set the stage for catching up with friends, frolicking with kids and feasting on the delicious potluck food. Big thanks to board member Roy Abramowitz and wife Kay for graciously offering this lovely space for our festivities. But the magic didn't stop there - Presto the Magician entertained young and old alike with his fast-paced repertoire of tricks, jokes and hijinks. Many of the children assisted Presto, making magic a team sport. Jack "Jackaroni" Moore has found his new calling as sidekick and head belly laugher! See photos of the fun.
Eugene Holiday Party
The Eugene OA&FS office held their holiday party on Saturday, December 8th. Karen Luks and Scott Rosenfeld, along with their children Hannah and Nate, kindly opened their home to our adoption community for the evening. Thank you to all who attended and shared in the wonderful food, fun, conversation and holiday spirit! Check out the pictures.
Seattle's holiday party is this month! When: Saturday January 5, 2013 from 11 a.m. to 2:00 p.m. Where: 2100 Building, 2100 24th Ave. S., Seattle RSVP to info@openadopt.org Please bring an item to share according to the first letter of your last name. A-M main dish N-Z side dish or salad The agency will provide dessert, beverages, plates, cups, utensils and napkins. |
Adoption Related Events
Adoption Readiness Part 1: Getting Started
Adoption Mosaic
At Adoption Mosaic, we believe that successful adoptive parenting comes from being prepared and having the knowledge to make informed decisions. Our new Adoption Readiness series provides unbiased, straight- forward information in a safe confidential environment, providing parents with a sound foundation for building their adoptive families.
Topics covered in Part 1 include, but are not limited to:
- Finances
- Children with special needs
- International adoption
- Open adoption
- Including and handling extended family in your adoption
- Surviving the wait
- Prenatal substance exposure
Date: January 12, 2013 OR April 13, 2013 Time: 9 a.m. - 1 p.m. Location: SE UpLift Building, 3534 SE Main Street, Portland, OR Facilitator: Mina Bacigalupi
Contact Adoption Mosaic for registration and details.
Adoption Readiness Part 2: Beyond the Basics
Adoption Mosaic
Topics covered in Part 2 include, but are not limited to:
- Support
- Parenting & Mindful Discipline
- LGBTQ families
- Transracial parenting
- Parent/child attachment & bonding
- Single parenting
- Talking about adoption with family, friends, and children
Date: January 26, 2013 OR April 27, 2013 Time: 9 a.m .- 1 p.m. Location: SE UpLift Building, 3534 SE Main Street, Portland, OR Facilitator: MereAnn Reid
Contact Adoption Mosaic for registration and details.
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1-800-772-1115 Para Espaņol 1-800-985-6763 www.openadopt.org Portland 503-226-4870, FAX 503-226-4891 Eugene 541-343-4825, FAX 541-431-1241 Seattle 206-782-0442, FAX 206-782-0578 |
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