Dear ICF-NJ Members,

Every Thanksgiving my family gathers around the table and takes turns sharing what we're thankful for in their lives. It's always fascinating to me to hear what is most meaningful for each person and to see how easy or difficult it is for them to think about and share with their relatives.
 

In the spirit of our Thanksgiving tradition, I'd like to ask you to think about whether or not you take the time to express your appreciation for the people in your life. Do you let them know that you value what they do every day, or do you take their effort for granted? In my work with clients, I find that many people have an easier time complaining about what isn't working. Both leaders and employees tend to look for what's wrong and spend less time thinking about what's working well. Generally speaking, when people are pleased with something, they tell a few people. But, when something goes askew, people will complain to just about anyone who will listen! While just listening to negative content can be draining, the opposite holds true-positive energy is uplifting.

Thanksgiving provides us with an opportunity to share with others what we appreciate most about them and what we are thankful for in our lives. I encourage you to use this month to take stock of what you are thankful for and share your gratitude with everyone who matters to you in your professional and personal life.

I am so thankful to the entire ICF-NJ board and all our volunteers who give so much of their time, talents, and efforts. I am also grateful to our members who value what ICF-NJ offers to this wonderful community of coaches.

I wish you all a happy and peaceful Thanksgiving.