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5 Steps to Your Best-Ever Year 

 

 

  
"The odd secret of rational-decision-making is its reliance on emotions."
 --Wall St. Journal article on setting goals, Dec. 31, 2013  
  

January 2014  Newsletter

 

 

 Lodestar Universal



Greetings!  
 
       
    

     To support your 2014 successes, my January gift to you is an up-to-date "Star Goals" worksheet, from my "Star Goals" workshop. With it, you will cull important data from last year, apply simple reasoning to create fresh goals, and fuel those goals with the juice of your own emotions. 

  

     To receive the worksheet right away, send me an email at alex@lodestaruniversal.com with "Star Goals" in the subject line.    

 

 

     Did you ever stop to think about the importance emotions play in your ability to successfully complete your goals?  A recent Wall St. Journal story on goals, surprisingly to some, examined new research on making decisions and setting goals successfully. To quote: 

  

"Rationality isn't about getting rid of emotions, but analyzing...and taking them (emotions) into consideration when making decisions."  

  

     The key is that there's a relationship between making good decisions and setting goals you can successfully accomplish. In the middle of that relationship, emotions are the glue smack, dab, in the middle, either supporting or sabotaging success in achieving goals. Although my own clients understand this idea well, it may be contrary to the way many people were educated to think.

  

      Be advised! This is not about a year-end resolution. Rather, it is a tool to focus into being the realities you most desire. Even I do this process myself every year, always learning something unexpected and valuable. What you'll be receiving is the first step of an expanded program for strategic planning. For an individual, this applies to both personal and professional aims.

  

     Rather than letting the whims of circumstance determine your future or succumbing to analysis paralysis, Star Goals facilitate your ability to   

  • integrate last year's lessons and accomplishments,   
  • determine high-quality  goals for 2014, and  
  • activate the goals with first-step actions.

     For perspective, in 2013, I was almost crazed with an abundance of personal and professional challenges: ... moved my 86-year old father into a nursing home, repaired and sold his home in record time for a record amount, bought real estate for two other immediate family members who needed housing, handled the affairs of my 105-year old grandmother - just to name a few items on the list. Let's not forget the healthy arrival of my first granddaughter Campbell on December 20, 2013.

  

    That was all happening in addition to a full load of consulting clients, teaching entrepreneurship at the Cox School of Business at SMU, and leading a multi-million dollar family business (which had one of its better years over a 37-year history).

  

I simply could not do these things without Star Goals.

  

   Using the process, I'm more clear and focused on what needs to be different this year.  

  

    Most of my readers and clients appreciate how quickly efficient Star Goals is without being overly complicated. It is different from traditional goal setting for several reasons.

  

  1. You can complete it in an hour or less, although I suggest spending a bit more time on it. You can even break it up into 15-minute chunks and still whip through most of it quickly.
  2. It's not a purely intellectual, quantitative process. There's a qualitative aspect that provides extra energy and motivation for accomplishing the goals.This makes it more fun, too. 
  3. You will feel a tremendous sense of accomplishment and relief for taking action. This frees you up for even more enlightened (emphasis on "lightening") actions.

  

     Ready to start? First, grab your 2013 calendar, or any 2013 calendar, even the one on your smart phone; because you'll need it. Then, send me an email at alex@lodestaruniversal.com with "Star Goals" in the subject line. You will receive a Word worksheet with further instructions and plenty of space to fill in your thoughts.

   

BONUS!! I use this process with my private executive coaching clients as a matter of course.   I believe so strongly in its power, I have a special offer to the first 30 people who respond. I'm offering a complimentary, 15-minute telephone consultation to review Step IV during a private, one-on-one consultation with you - as long as we schedule (not do) it by January 15, 2014. All you have to do is ask.

  

  

My philosophy is that the more successful you are, the more successful we all are.  And, Happy New Year!

  

P.S. Don't let negativity hamstring you. Even if you've used another approach, Star Goals provides insight and direction you won't receive elsewhere.  I caution you to be tolerant of any thoughts whirring through your head, such as "I don't have time!" You do have time to create the 2014 of your heart's desire. And take advantage of the Bonus offer, too! 

  

 

  

    

 

  

  

  

Manifestation Monday:
Meditations for Balance, Healing, and Prosperity, a CD


Every day is overwhelming with so many choices and so many opportunities of where to spend our time and energy. Over the past several decades, I've studied meditation from many different sources and teachers and created this CD for people who would like to get started in meditation.

 

If you can breathe, you can meditate! It's that simple.

 

You Will Learn More About: 

      1.  The Physical, Psychological, and Spiritual Benefits of Meditation
      2.  How Meditation Increases Productivity

           ·  Simple, Straightforward Techniques Anyone Can Learn
           ·  Starting and Ending Your Day Well  

      3.  How Meditation Increases Professional Excellence
      4.  Resources for Further Learning

 
This Includes:
      ·  A 20-Minute Guided Meditation
      ·  A 5-Minute Guided Meditation
 

If you have not ordered the meditation, breathing CD Manifestation Monday, please consider doing so here.

  

Upcoming Programs

Star Goals

It is never too late, or too early to schedule Alex for your organization to work through the Star Goals with a team, a department, or an organization. This process is extremely successful and important for any group.  

January 18, 2013: Growing the Entreprenuerial Company 

Offered through the Cox School of Business at SMU, Alex will be teaching this class through the spring. If you would like to know how your company could benefit from some elements of the curriculum, please contact Alex at alex@lodestaruniversal.com or 214-696-3510. 

 

 

Additional Offerings from Alex 

  
Packets and Pauses: Weekly Tips
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LodeStar Universal Newsletter
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In This Issue
Star Goals: Five Steps to Your Best Year Yet
Manifestation Monday
Upcoming Programs
Additional Offerings from Alex

Leadership Mojo Blog

 

 

Harvard's Elegant Leadership Solution: The Third Stage
Kudos to Harvard for asking a provacative question and delivering
 an even more compelling answer. The question I reference was posted six years ago by three B-school professors...click here to read more.

 

 

What Can You Do to Build a Fully Sighted Organization?
A fully sighted company anticipates and "sees" the obvious and the not-so-obvious events, dynamics, and influences that are critical to success versus ignoring it. According to author Margaret Heffernan...says such blindness happens when there are things we should know, could know, but somehow manage not to know...click here to read more.

 

 
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Manifestation Monday CD
Meditations for Balance, Healing, and Prosperity
 
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