What is our purpose? Why are we here? What is our time here about? Is it about getting what we want in the world? Is it about striving for things, for recognition, for relationships, for power, or is it for healing of our minds through forgiveness? The course teaches over and over, that the purpose of our time here, if it is to be used well, is only for forgiveness. It is our function, our purpose and our reason for being here. There is no other purpose to be here except to wake up from this dream; to remember who we really are and in that to know peace and joy.

Our true purpose is already in the mind. It is the truth that we have chosen to forget as to who we are. This truth is fully present all the time but while we are invested in focusing on meeting our perceived needs here, we will be conflicted. Part of us wants to know the truth and part of us wants to stay invested in the material world. But with our focus entirely on our worldly existence we experience great depression, deep distress and we suffer. Even though we try to do everything we can to avoid suffering and to seek for ways to mitigate it, all this does is distract us from these feelings. None of our strategies to find happiness in the world will work because the problem is not in the world and neither is the solution there. The only thing that brings distress is our identification with the ego. And the only answer to that is to remember who we are. We do that through forgiveness. When we hold grievances, we suffer. But when we use the world as a classroom for helping us to learn to forgive, then we are using it for the purpose of waking up to the truth of who we are.

We all say we want happiness. But when we identify with the ego, this independent self, then we think we know what will bring us the happiness we seek. And our focus now is on the idols that we have substituted in place of our reality. Jesus describes idols as "a body or a thing, a place, a situation or a circumstance, an object owned or wanted, or a right demanded or achieved, it is the same." (T.29.VIII.1.9) Further he says that "idols are unrecognized as such, and never seen for what they really are." (T.29.VIII.1.3)That is the only power they have.If we saw that idols did not deliver the happiness we seek through them, then we certainly would not pursue them. We would pursue happiness where it truly lies, which is in liberating ourselves from this dream. Idols simply confirm our false identity. They prop up who we think we are and what we think we need "to complete our little self, for safety in a world perceived as dangerous, with forces massed against your confidence and peace of mind." (T. 29.VIII.2.3)

And so our goal is mixed between wanting to pursue the truth on one hand and wanting to pursue our idols on the other. This creates conflict in our minds, as we try to walk both paths, that of the ego and that of the Holy Spirit. Another way to look at this conflict is that we want to hold a grievance against someone, and justify our upsets yet we still want to know God. It is a reflection of our split minds.  Until we step fully into our purpose, we will be in conflict. As an example in my life, I look after my mother who is 97 and has lots of care needs that occupy my time. While I see it as an opportunity for forgiveness there are times I feel imposed upon and resentful that my sister lives a distance away and is rarely here to visit. Recently she was here and questioned everything I was doing and, in my mind, implied that there was more I could do. Not only did I express my anger to her, but also tried to build an alliance against her with my other sister by sharing my story with her and further justifying my anger.

On reflection, I realized that I had set all of this up by not hearing my sister's cry for love. Clearly she was expressing her concern for out mother's care but I was choosing only to hear criticism coming at me. As Jesus says "If he speaks not of Christ to you, you spoke not of Christ to him." (T.11.V.18.6) Instead of hearing her call for love and seeing that "what your sister did, did not occur," I made the error real. I took her comments personally. Jesus reminds us that to forgive something we have made real, is called "forgiveness to destroy." Real forgiveness shows us that nothing real has happened. If I see what she did as real and true, then I can't forgive it. Now I need to bring my illusions to the truth and let the Holy Spirit give me His interpretation of the situation. It means that I must admit that I was wrong in the way I was interpreting her behavior. When I remember that my mind is the cause of it all, then I can change my mind about the way I see every situation. It is all my own projection. Can you see how the ego can get absolutely outraged by this? But if we listen to the ego, we stay in hell. That is why our focus today is to "let me remember what my purpose is."

Jesus says that only forgiveness can bring us happiness. And that is our only purpose. If I am experiencing unhappiness today, then it is because I have chosen with the ego. Only I can make myself unhappy. If we are suffering in any way today, Jesus reminds us that the suffering is just hiding an unforgiving thought. (W.P.I.98) There is no form of pain that forgiveness cannot heal. So we need to recognize that any unhappiness we are experiencing today can be healed through forgiveness. And that is our purpose here. It is the only way we can reclaim who we really are. Trying to be loving only obscures this function. We can't overlay lovingness onto thoughts of worry, anxiety, distress, dis-ease, anger, frustration. Trying to be positive in the face of these kinds of feelings simply overlays a spiritual veneer over the problem. Instead, we need to honestly look at these unforgiving thoughts, accept responsibility for them and be willing to turn them over to the Holy Spirit.

Today's lesson sets our intention to remember our purpose throughout the day. It is to accept Atonement for myself (the recognition of my guiltlessness), by being willing to have the   obstacles removed to this knowing. When we forget that this is our goal, then we get conflicted in our actions and start focusing on our own ideas of what we think will make us happy. But this can only result in further conflict. 1.1) And we can't "serve contradicting goals and serve them well."  (1.2) When we try to do that, this just leads to distress and depression. (1.3)

So today calls for determination. What would God have you do today? Yesterday's lesson reminded us that the only way we will hear this guidance is through the means given to us to hear His Voice. That is through forgiveness. We each have a curriculum that is set up by the mind in this world that offers us myriad of opportunities for forgiveness. Whatever is coming in your face today, stand back and look at it as an opportunity for forgiveness.  If everything that seemingly happens is just a projection of our own minds, then the movie of our lives is just what we need to see and reclaim responsibility for.    

If we are not living our lives on purpose with our goal, then we will be confused and unsure of what we are. "If you are to be conflict-free yourself, you must learn only from the Holy Spirit and teach only by Him."  (T.6.III.2.2)    As we step on this path and let the Holy Spirit in, there will be increased conflict. "This step may appear to exacerbate conflict rather than resolve it, because it is the beginning step in reversing your perception and turning it right-side up." (T.6.V.A.6.4) The reason for this is that we now have conflicting goals and are trying to walk two different paths. We want what the ego has to offer, and its seeming pleasures, while also wanting to awaken from this dream. But this can be very painful. When we are split between the goals of our spiritual focus and the goals of the ego, confusion reigns. Not only that but Jesus says that we will experience "deep distress and great depression."  (1.3) The only way to resolve the conflict is to choose to step on one side with the Holy Spirit and stay focused on our purpose.

So if one minute we are in a state of bliss, peace, spiritual joy and the next minute we are gossiping, angry, or attacking we will be in great distress. This is an example of pursuing two paths, that of the ego and that of the Holy Spirit. And it causes us great consternation. It is not a happy experience until we learn to step over on one side more and more consistently. It is in this state of conflict between two thought systems where we all currently live. So the answer is to continually look at our minds and bring forgiveness as God's chosen means for our salvation. As our awareness increases and we can see more clearly how our minds are split, we will be less and less tolerant in following the ego's religion. This means that we will be much quicker in asking for help to release our grievances and will be more willing to step back from our investment in our thoughts and see how silly they are. The only way out is to use everything that comes up in your day for forgiveness and peace.

You may want to read Chapter 30 V. "The Only Purpose" It reminds us that the only purpose of the world is forgiveness. When that is the case, then the "world becomes a place of hope because its only purpose is to be a place where hope of happiness can be fulfilled." When we see it this way, then there is nothing bad that is happening. It is all for undoing of our conditioned minds so that we can wake up to who we really are. It is all for our healing. It is all hopeful because we detach from the drama, watch our thoughts and recognize ourselves as the dreamers of this dream rather than the figures in the dream.

We are assured that we will go beyond our function of forgiveness in this world, to a place of perfect happiness. This is the real world, of Heaven on earth where we will still see the idols but have no interest in them and no longer want them. You may be noticing that that is the case more and more in your own life where the things that seemed to hold a lot of interest for you are simply falling away. I no longer have the same kinds of attachments as I have had in the past. It is not because I have given them up but simply because they have just fallen away.   These transitions are mostly gentle, because at some level of the mind we are ready for them.   We go at our own pace when we are ready to take the next step without fear. We take each step in joining with each other and releasing our separate interests. "An ancient hate is passing from the world. And with it goes all hatred and all fear. Look back no longer, for what lies ahead is all you ever wanted in your heart. Give up the world! But not to sacrifice. You never wanted it. What happiness have you sought here that did not bring you pain? What moment of content has not been bought at fearful price in coins of suffering? Joy has no cost." (T. 30. V.9)

There is an interesting piece I was reading by Byron Katie which relates to this lesson. She says that when we hurt, we are actually mentally out of our business. And it is important to recognize that there are only three kinds of business in the universe: God's, yours and mine. Whose business is it if an earthquake happens? God's business. (not that God created it but that it is beyond our business) Whose business is it if your neighbor down the street has an ugly lawn? Your neighbor's business. Whose business is it if you are angry at your neighbor down the street because he has an ugly lawn? Your business.

Life is simple-it is internal. Thus, if my sister has judgments of my caregiving, it is none of my business.

Check your thoughts as you go through your day and see whose business is being attended to. Maintain vigilance over your mind, and observe how quickly you judge, give advice, look for alliances, cling to grievances, everything that ultimately brings more suffering.  Our responsibility is to mind our own minds and use what comes up in our minds for forgiveness reminding ourselves always, that our will is one with God's Will and when we choose Him as our goal we will increasingly release the goals that keep us invested in the illusion. What goals do you hold today that are in competition with your only goal for God? Can you feel the tension this creates in your life? Now we have a choice. It is to get back to our purpose.