by Rose Marie Berger

1 John 1:5-2:2 | Matthew 2:13-18

"A voice was heard in Ramah, sobbing and loud lamentation; Rachel weeping for her children, and she would not be consoled, since they were no more." (Matt 2:18)  

Why, the rabbis have asked through history, are the tears of Rachel different from the tears of other mothers? Rachel's grief is complex and beautiful. Her barrenness, her inability accept Jacob's love for her even without children, her jealousy of her sister Leah, Rachel's death in childbirth, her burial by the side of the road-all this creates the harmonies and countermelodies in Rachel's lament.

The Torah scholar Rashi quotes a midrash saying that Rachel was buried in ba-derekh, "no place", or the transitional space between one named place and another named place, because it was on the route that her children would take when they were forced into exile....