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Valentino Coaching Newsletter

 

August 2013
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In this issue
Tapping into Possibility
Upcoming Speaking Event in Santa Cruz, CA
Exciting News: Mood Lady Promotion
What People Are Saying

 

Hello  

  
I've noticed recently how certain themes pop up in my coaching over and over again. The last couple of years, I've been supporting more and more people in times of big change and transition. When you're in the midst of this, it can feel confusing and disorienting. It's also a time of vast Possibility, although you might not be ready to see it yet. My job is to help you do that when you do become ready. Follow along with me this month in an exploration of Possibility.
 
As always my intention is that you as a reader will feel a connection -- either with the words, mood, ideas or feelings expressed. My hope is that this will lead to an even deeper connection within yourself. 

With warmth,

Janette

  

Tapping into Possibility
 
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Possibility Mood Lady

Possibility is everywhere. This is one of the main principles that serve as a foundation in my coaching (and my life!). It's not always easy to see this - especially when we are going through a challenging time or when things aren't going the way we had planned. That's probably why I find it so rewarding to do the work that I do. I hold the space for people so that when they are ready to see it, they'll be able to recognize this truth as well.

 

When you are open to ALL that is possible, amazing things can happen. I thought I'd give you an example from my own life that is very relevant right now. Recently, I did a favorite exercise with a client meant to help her tap into her direction in life and honor what SHE wants rather than what others say is important. So the exercise is this: Imagine yourself at 100 years old. You have 2 scenarios: 1) You are at your birthday party reflecting on your life. You are totally satisfied with all you have been and done and have absolutely no regrets because...and then you make a list. And 2) You are at that same birthday party, reflecting on your life. It has been a pretty good life and you have a few regrets because...and you make another list.

 

 

I've done that exercise over the years with quite a few clients. But for some reason when I did it this last time, I remembered how I had done it with my own coach about 5 years ago. And I got curious about what I had written. So I found the paper & there was some great stuff on there. There were so many things that I'm doing right now - living in that way where I will have no regrets. And reading it today, the most exciting entry on the list was:  

  • I've made contributions to my community and to the world--a book of some sort (or maybe books!) that made people think and feel; some creative product that reminds people of the importance of connection 

Of course now when I read that, I think of the Mood Ladies. The set of cards is definitely a creative product that reminds people of the importance of connection (with oneself, which is where it all starts). And I know that by writing down those words I was most definitely connecting with the possibility of the Mood Ladies- even though they weren't born yet.

 

This week is a big week for the Ladies. They will be part of the DailyOM Deal of the day promotion that starts on Wednesday, August 7th and lasts through Tuesday, August 13th. This promotion goes out to 1.2 million subscribers. It feels exciting and as if a new stage of my coaching has begun. If THAT is possible, then what ELSE might be possible?

 

And now I turn it over to you...What are some things that have happened in your life that you never thought or knew were possible? And what's next for you right now? What are some possibilities that you'd like to explore? I invite you to be on the lookout for possibilities this month. My favorite kind are the ones that seem a bit impossible at the time. Impossible possibilities - I find that very inspiring! Sometimes all you have is the dream or a feeling that you want to follow. I guarantee you that this is enough. So be open, explore and see what's out there - either just around the corner or maybe a bit further away. If the Mood Ladies can do it, I know you can too!  

 

 
Services and Upcoming Events
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Private One-on-One coaching in person or by phone
Read more about my services on my website: www.valentinocoaching.com or click here to fill out a contact request and I'll contact you directly. 
  

Book a 30 minute free consultation by clicking here.. Free consult

 

  
Upcoming Speaking Event in Santa Cruz 

I'll be speaking at the Wake Up Santa Cruz Chamber of Commerce event on Thursday August 8th. Click here to find out more!

 

 

  
 
Mood Ladies
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The Mood Lady cards engage us in developing and deepening our self-understanding. To create a satisfying, rich life, we must first know who we are, what our real needs are, what brings us joy. The Mood Ladies are a powerful aid in awakening that understanding.

 

The cards are available on my website (click here) or at a special promotional price at the DailyOm gift shop (for one week, from August 7th through August 13th)

 
Testimonials
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About the Mood Lady Cards: I feel the Mood Ladies speak with me. They invite me into a conversation and encourage me to take action. For instance, I was very troubled about which action to take in a relationship. I drew the Inspiration card and, as I was meditating on it, I became very clear about which step to take. It was such a powerful step-leading to empowering results. The Mood Ladies have become friends I enjoy consulting regularly. B. H., Business Owner, Colorado

 

Janette Valentino is a coach extraordinaire. Her gentle yet probing questions have given me an entirely new way to look at difficult and stressful situations. One in particular: Who do I want to be in this situation? Really allows me to see that I have an option about it! Her nonjudgmental approach is equally supportive. I highly recommend her to women going through challenging life transitions. S. W., Copywriter, California

 

 

 
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Contact Information
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Phone: +1 559 285 8020

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