SEPTEMBER / OCTOBER 2015
Five things children gain when we sing to them and with them.
Admit it, you like to sing - even if it's only in the car or shower where no one can hear you. What you might not know is that your kids don't care if you can carry a tune or not. The good things that happen when you sing to or with your child far outweighs your vocal insecurities. Here are five ways belting out a ballad is beneficial.
 
Take Five_1Language, listening and learning. Singing helps children develop their speech by introducing new words and concepts in a relaxed, fun way. When you sing, children listen to see what comes next and are better able to learn and replicate patterns (an important math skill) when presented musically.
 
A comforting distraction. Parents around the world sway and sing to babies to calm them. Singing or humming a soothing tune assures your child that everything is okay. Singing is also a good way to pass the time in a waiting room or in the car.
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Take Five_3Smoother transitions. You can reduce what feels like nagging by creating songs for picking up toys, getting ready for bed or morning routines. When you give children a "heads up" about what is expected of them, they are more willing to participate.
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Love and bonding. Singing to or with your child focuses your attention on them and helps you form a bond. Using your child's name in a song or singing about their belongings also gives them a sense of pride.

 
Take Five_5 It's fun! Don't be afraid to make up a crazy tune and lyrics like: "Early one morning ____ woke up with a  ____ upon her head." Then change it up to, "Late one night ____ fell asleep with ____ in her toes. The sillier the answer, the more giggles is produces.
  
 
More resources for you to explore.
Wondering what to sing? Think back to your childhood to recall songs and chants you enjoyed and share them with your child.
 
Purposeful Play with Infants & Toddlers suggests some timeless, singable classics you can share with your child.
 
Follow Child Care Aware� on Facebook, Twitter and Pinterest for more play and learning activities you can share with your child.
  
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Q. 
I've heard that music, in particular singing, is a good thing to do with children. How do I pick the right songs to share with my child?
  
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There really aren't any "right" songs. A great deal can be learned through a song, but don't force the issue. Made-up tunes and lyrics are just as effective, sometimes more, because you can personalize them. Rhythm and rhyme are important concepts in language and are naturally present in singing. Goofy songs make us all lighten up a bit and enjoy the moment.