This week's column humbly offers six of life's puzzles from The Wizard of Westwood.
- Why is it easier to criticize than to compliment?
- Why is it easier to hand others blame, than to give them credit?
- Why is it so many who are quick to make suggestions, find it so difficult to make decisions?
- Why can't we realize that it only weakens those we want to help when we do things for them they should be doing for themselves?
- Why is it so much easier to allow emotions rather than reason to control our decisions?
- Why does the person with the least to say, usually take the longest to say it?
Looking back on his life of eight-plus decades, Coach Wooden's credo harkens back to what he called "Dad's Code," which he once shared with sports columnist Steve Jamison:
I am not what I ought to be,
Not what I want to be,
Not what I am going to be,
But I am thankful that
I am better than I used to be.
"I can't do it" never accomplished anything. "I'll try" has accomplished miracles.
Seminars, graduate courses, motivational speakers, and inspirational columns cannot offer thoughts, words, or deeds, to embellish or trump the remarkable common sense of a basketball coach who won ten national championships while winning-over hundreds of college players who passed through his doorway on their way to life.
Good calls coach.