November 2013

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DIRECTORS' COLUMN
By Seth Warren, PhD

This month I would like to take the opportunity to summarize and present some of the important aspects of a workshop I recently attended on the subject of sexual boundary violations in psychotherapy. The presenter, Andrea Celenza, is a psychologist and psychoanalyst with a national reputation on the subject of sexual boundary violations. She is author of Sexual Boundary Violations: Therapeutic, Academic, and Supervisory Contexts, published in 2007 by Jason Aronson. She has been involved in clinical research on the subject, and has worked extensively with both victims and perpetrators of such boundary violations, and clearly demonstrated her expertise and knowledge of this very important issue.

 

I am taking the time to present some of this information here because I believe it is central to the concerns of our training program. It is my opinion that this issue warrants more explicit discussion and attention in our training program (not just ours, obviously, but all such training programs) for a number of reasons.

 

First, Celenza points out that all the research done in this area strongly suggests the frequency of such boundary violations is far greater than we might like to think, with numbers ranging from 4% to 25% of therapists (depending on sex of therapist and study) reporting that they have at least once had sexual contact with a patient. The numbers for supervisors and instructors in various clinical settings is even higher - though Celenza was quick to point out some of the relevant differences from the therapy situation. Those numbers seem to vary a great deal, but a large part of the difference has to do with the sex of the therapist. Female therapists report significantly less occurrences than male therapists, who account for the numbers in the 20% range. That means that approximately 1 in 5 male therapists in the studies reported having committed at least one such sexual boundary violation. Seth Warren

 

The way such violations have been handled by psychoanalytic institutions in the past are split into two dissociated - but related - responses. On the one hand, visible and public occurrences of such boundary violations, including the marriage of therapist and patient, have historically been overlooked and ignored by institutes and not talked about apart from the gossip generated. This includes some very well-known instances.  On the other hand, such violations are pathologized and demonized, with a kind of "us-them" splitting which involves judgment and criticism of the perpetrators and an attitude of condemnation, which is supported by legal and administrative responses to such allegations. This also prevents real, thoughtful consideration of the issues involved - and appears to serve as a kind of defensive distancing.

 

Celenza notes that these two apparently irreconcilable responses both lead to a similar sequestering of the issues and the individuals involved. The assumption that such boundary violations are usually repetitive and involve psychopathic individuals is contradicted by the research data. While there are clearly predatory individuals that repeatedly violate sexual boundaries with patients, the large majority of individuals who have reported sexual contact with a patient report having had such contact with only a single patient. Celenza reports that there is great diagnostic diversity in this group of therapists.

 

Rather than pathologizing a majority of those who commit such boundary violations, Celenza has sought to understand and interpret the factors surrounding such events. In fact, one of the major conclusions Celenza reports is that the idea that "it could never happen to me" is problematic. She identifies a number of factors that seem to be precursors to such boundary violations, and in many instances, these are situational, or involve some interaction of situational stressors and personality characteristics of the therapist. But here is the thing: those personality characteristics, such as being identified with vulnerability and need, caretaking, harboring covert rescue fantasies, are the very same psychological characteristics that bring many - if not most - of us into our chosen profession. Contrary to the long-preferred dis-identification with perpetrators of boundary violations, Celenza argues that it is, for at least a large subset of transgressors, "an occupational hazard."

 

The implications of her perspective are very important. She highlights the notion that therapist self-care is essential to prevention of sexual boundary violations. Working too much, isolation in one's practice, lack of social contact, lack of intimacy and loving connection in one's personal life, and the presence of stressful life circumstance are risk factors. Lack of adequate supervision may contribute to problematic elements in the therapy process, such as transforming countertransference hate to countertransference love.

 

Celenza recommends a number of attitudinal changes that she believes are necessary if we are to meaningfully address this problem. She stresses the need for an atmosphere of openness, honesty and support, including support networks for victims, and the recognition of the universality of fallibility. There is a need also for institutional changes, with responsiveness to such problems that seeks out a meaningful middle ground between judgment on the one hand and denial on the other. Celenza notes that the threat of punishment, including legal and administrative threats, are responsible at least in part for the secrecy with which such matters are often dealt with (or not dealt with). She argues for the importance of rehabilitation as opposed to punishment, at least with the large group of one-time transgressor.

 

Other institutional support may include the role of a senior and trusted analyst in the community who may serve as a kind of ombudsperson, without the administrative requirements of an ethics committee. Celenza also recommends the implementation of a Peer Relations Committee whose function is to provide support, guidance and assistance to therapists in need.

 

I would like to suggest that CPPNJ develop our institutional awareness of this problem, which the research suggests is very much "an occupational hazard."  It is my hope that doing so will enable us to sustain a meaningful dialogue necessary to develop the institutional capacity to respond appropriately and constructively to incidents of such boundary violations, and to offer training and leadership in the area of sexual boundary violations both for our own membership and for the larger mental health community. Anyone interested in working on this project should feel free to contact me. 

 

Seth

 

This Sunday, November 24, 2013
Fall Conference

There is still room to register for this program.

Surviving the Gridlocked Moments with Couples: A Tavistock Approach to Couples Therapy

Presented by Christopher Clulow, PhD

Lenfell Hall, The Mansion, Fairleigh Dickinson University, Madison, NJ
8:30am-4:00pm
6 CEUs will be offered for social workers

 

clulow Christopher Clulow is a Senior Fellow of the Tavistock Centre for Couple Relationships, London, where he practices as a visiting lecturer and researcher. His recent work for TCCR includes leading the project to develop couple therapy competences for treating depression within the government's Improving Access to Psychological Therapies framework, and consulting to/evaluating the development of services within a mental health organization that included treating depression through relationship counseling. He has published extensively on marriage, partnerships, parenthood and couple psychotherapy, most recently from an attachment perspective. His most recent edited publication, Sex, Attachment and Couple Psychotherapy:  Psychoanalytic Perspectives, was published by Karnac Books in 2009, and he is currently co-writing a book on Couple Therapy for Depression to be published by Oxford University Press in 2014.  

 

He is a founding member of the British Society of Couple Psychotherapists and Counselors, an international editorial consultant for Sexual and Relationship Therapy, and a member of the editorial board for Couple and Family Psychoanalysis. He is a Fellow of the Centre for Social Policy, Dartington, and a registrant of the British Psychoanalytic Council. He maintains a private clinical and training practice from his home in St Albans, UK, and is President of North and Central Hertfordshire Relate.

 

 Click HERE to register for this program 

 

Interest Group Meetings
 

Topic: Eating Problems and Body Image Dysmorphia

Where: Highland Park, NJ

Contact: Call Susan Gutwill if interested at 732-887-0848

 

  

Please note: Send your interest group announcements to Cathy Van Voorhees at cppnj@aol.com and we will be happy to get the word out.

 

Save These Dates for 2014
 
January 25, 2014 - Annual Holiday Party - Giorgio's Ristorante, South Orange, NJ - 6:00pm

February 2, 2014 - Harlene Goldschmidt, PhD - Faculty Forum - Qi Gong Therapy as an Enhancement to Psychodynamic Therapy: Considering the Benefits of an Alternative Mind/Body Therapy - Hartman Lounge, FDU Florham Park, Madison, NJ - 9:00am-1:00pm

 

March 8, 2014 - Richard Chefez, MD presents Dissociative Processes and the Toxicity of the Shame Spectrum of Emotion - Lenfell Hall, FDU Florham Park, Madison, NJ. 8:30am-4:00pm  

 

April 6, 2014 - Gina Colelli, LCSW presents Integrating EMDR into Psychodynamic Treatment - Lenfell Hall, FDU Florham Park, Madison, NJ - 9:00am-12:30pm 

 

May 3, 2014 - IDfest: An Evening of Comedy & Dessert - Lenfell Hall, FDU Florham Park, Madison, NJ - 7:00pm  

 

June 7, 2014 - CPPNJ Graduation & End of Year Celebration - Rutgers Club, New Brunswick, NJ.  

6:00pm-10:00pm 


All public programs are co-sponsored with the New Jersey Society for Clinical Social Workers 

 

The New Jersey Society for Clinical Social Workers (NJSCSW) provides leadership and support to clinical social workers in all practice settings. NJSCSW has given voice to clinical social workers dealing with the health care industry. The organization provides outstanding education programs and opportunities for collegial contact. www.njscsw.org 



New Jersey Couples Therapy Training Program Begins Clinical Consultation Groups

 

Faculty in the couples therapy division are now starting clinical consultation groups in systemic-dynamic couples therapy for licensed professionals.  The groups will take place throughout the state and are geared towards providing direct feedback to clinicians who see couples in treatment.  The groups are open to anyone from the CPPNJ community (faculty or candidates), to NJCTTP candidates, and to all clinicians from the community.  The groups will help couples therapists apply both psychodynamic and contemporary models to working with couples. 

 

If you are interested, contact Daniel Goldberg, PhD, Director of NJCTTP, at dcgphd@yahoo.com or 609-683-8000.

On a Clear Day ... You Can See Ghosts 
By Estelle Krumholz, MSW, LCSW 

estellekrumholz On a beautiful, pre-autumnal day in late September I attended a workshop in New York City entitled, "Ghosts in the Consulting Room," presented by Adrienne Harris, PhD.   Dr. Harris began by wondering aloud to the several dozen gathered psychotherapists, "Why aren't you all playing in Central Park?"  Recalling my husband's quizzical look when I told him the workshop title, I indeed wondered, "What possessed me to come?"

 

Interestingly, "possessed" is a word used to refer to that part of oneself reacting unconsciously to past traumatic experience.  "I don't know what possessed me . . ."   or, "I don't know what the devil got into me . . ." or, "That was not me!" are all expressions we've heard or used ourselves.  They are often associated with blocked access to unmetabolized mourning or shame.  Dr. Harris' workshop focused on the "uncanny" and "haunted" moments of impasse and enactment in the therapy that are disorderly, ethereal and difficult to make sense of. These uncanny moments in the therapy are akin to standing at the border of the known and the unknown.   The workshop also explored the baffling and enigmatic elements that haunt the transference and countertransference.  

 

Neither the patient nor the therapist can escape the ghosts each brings to the treatment.  Ghosts transgress time, distance and rationality.  They are passed intergenerationally, from parent to child, and may be historically significant, as for example, the psychological effects of war and genocide.  I will attempt to share some of what I learned at the workshop and subsequent reading.

 

Freud had an interest in occultism and maintained an extended correspondence with Ferenczi and Jung about it.  He even joked about ghosts in Jokes and Their Relation to the Unconscious:  A man supremely confident in his rationality was asked, "Do you believe in ghosts?"  The man replies, "Not only do I disbelieve in ghosts, I am not even frightened by them!"   The zeitgeist of post-World War I European society preferred to deny the extraordinary and instead exalt respectability.  As a result, Freud more or less abandoned his pursuit of the occult. 

 

Psychoanalytic ghosts travel through generations by internalization and most tenaciously through the parent-child relationship.  Selma Fraiberg, author of Ghosts in the Nursery: A Psychoanalytic Approach to the Problems of Impaired Infant-Mother Relationships, argues that ghosts in the nursery are the uninvited guests from the past experiences of the parents.  These intruders bully their way into the present parent-child relationship by means of unresolved parental feelings, such as shame, envy and guilt, and by traumatic memories.  They leave the parent feeling re-traumatized in the parenting role, who then passes this trauma onto the child.  

 

Sometimes the trauma is of a "missing" parent whose emotional absence leaves a black hole of despair.   I am reminded of a patient who poignantly described her connection to her mother as, "She was there, but not really."   My patient's internal organization was haunted by this absentee connection.   She was unable to know her own self without first having another - her therapist - experience the feeling and meaning of the deadness. 

 

The goal of therapy is not exorcism but, instead, an invitation to the ghost. "Why are you here?  What do you want?"  This difficult therapeutic task involves hospitality not only to the patient's ghost but also to those of the therapist.   The therapist thus in effect is conducting a sort of group therapy among the patient, the therapist and their respective ghosts.  Hopefully, this work leads the patient and therapist to a new matrix, what Thomas Ogden refers to as "the third."

 

Member Presentations and Publications

ruthlitjmaer Ruth Lijtmaer, PhD presented the following papers:

 

"When the analyst is the other". Psychology and the Other Conference. Lesley University in Cambridge, Massachusetts,  USA, 10-4-13 to 10-6-13.

 

"The permanence of pain in social trauma". IFPE (International Federation for Psychoanalytic Education), 10-31-13 to 11-2-13. Philadelphia, USA.

 

 " Social Trauma in Latin America: Can we forgive?". IARPP (The International Association for Relational Psychoanalysis and Psychotherapy), 11-7-13 to 11-10-13, Santiago, Chile.   

   

Please note: If you have an announcement of either a paper you've recently published or a presentation you've given, let us know. Send Cathy Van Voorhees an email at cppnj@aol.com and we will be happy to get the word out.   

  
Book Reviews

What are you currently reading? We would like to include book recommendations and reviews. Send Cathy Van Voorhees an email at cppnj@aol.com - tell her what you are reading and we will spread the word.
  

Our E-Newsletter Editorial Staff

 

Mary Lantz, LCSW, Editor-in-Chief

Rose Oosting, PhD, Consulting Editor

Contributing Editors:

      Debi Roelke, PhD 

      Harlene Goldschmidt, PhD 

      Ellen Fenster-Kuehl, PhD 

      Ruth Lijtmaer, PhD 

      Marion Houghton, EdS, LMFT

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