It's not about you.

It is also all about you!

 

What others think of you, say about you or 

how they treat you, has nothing to do with you.

What we think, say and do is who we are. 

When we are in denial, we project it onto others.

 

How you perceive & react to others is a reflection of you. 

For example, reacting in anger to an affront indicates unconscious agreement with it, 

while reacting with compassion indicates awareness of oneself on a loftier plane .