What did you do before, that you really enjoyed, that you simply don't do anymore?

When you think about certain things (or one certain thing) you used to do, or talk about these activities in the past tense to others, do you feel a twinge of regret?

When that regret passes across your consciousness, do you shove it down or ignore it? 

Do you wait a second or two until the small ache in your chest subsides, so you can pretend it wasn't there, that it doesn't matter?

Do you feel like it's too late for you, that those things that you loved to do are simply part of a past you, a you who doesn't exist today?

I hope not. It's not too late.

Maybe there are some things that truly you can't realistically do anymore, and some you really don't want to do anymore, but I'm quite sure there are some activities that had great meaning in your past that would still have great meaning today.

I have a coaching client that I have been working with for several years, she was a member of my Live a Life You Love Club and then became a one-on-one coaching client.  She started working with me, as so many do, because she was so tired of her life, working overtime in a very stressful job that she disliked, with no time for wellness, self-care or much fun of any kind.

She is actually the one who first talked to me about the concept of the "I used to's".  She had attended a professional conference and heard a speaker talk about the fact that her very stressful, time-intensive line of work tended to turn a once-balanced, enjoyable life into a life consisting of little more than work and a bunch of "I used to's."

In this scenario, so common in today's world, you effectively lose yourself and so many of the activities that make you who you are.  Life becomes one-dimensional and often frankly unbearable.

My client had a very long list of "I used to's".

  

What are your dreams for your life?  Stop and think about them for a moment...would you like to feel better about yourself? To feel happier and more fulfilled? To enjoy better health and finally get fit? To laugh more? Play more? Would you like to feel like you're finally living up to your potential and giving your dreams a chance?



In 2013 I created something that was a dream for me.  I brought together an intimate group of women in my hometown and called it the "Live a Life You Love Exclusive Club". We encouraged, learned, challenged, dreamed, grew, cried and cheered our way through 12 beautiful months together, and we are now friends for life.  It was a joy to see many wonderful things happen, from a-ha moments and breakthroughs to the fulfillment of life dreams. 

In 2014 I took the Live a Life You Love Club international and have done so every year since.  In the 2016 Club we have members from across North America, Europe, the UK, the Middle East, and Australia, this never fails to thrill me. This year the format is slightly different (and I am enjoying it even more) as all Premium level members have monthly one-on-one coaching with me, and have more personal accountability - and success - that way.

If you think you'd like to work personally with me next year, get yourself on the waitlist and be among the first to be able to apply (and qualify for early-bird bonuses). There's no obligation, it just means you get the chance to apply before I open for applications to the general public.