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Happy Valentine's Day
20 years of love
March 2013 will mark the 20th year that my husband, Mike, and I have been together. We married under Reform Judaism October, 2000.

We have both worked very hard to get here. I don't put much value in the length of time a couple has been together as much as I value what it took for them to stay together and the process by which they made it work.

Mike and I have worked extremely hard to make this the best marriage it can be. I have never loved anyone like I love Mike, nor have I been as loved by anyone, as I am by  Mike.

To mark our anniversary I have created a video and uploaded it on YouTube. I hope you enjoy it.

CLICK BELOW:
JOE AND MIKE ANNIVERSARY VIDEO ON YouTube
 

 
The Love Builder App
NOW AVAILABLE FREE!

My friend and colleague, Sally Palaian, has created a new app for couples called Love Builder (free for iPhone and Android) .  It's designed to help couples strengthen their relationship and have fun at the same time!

See the preview video below and the link to download the app.

THE LOVE BUILDER APP VIDEO


DOWNLOAD APP HERE

Sally Palaian, Ph.D.
Licensed Psychologist
30400 Telegraph Road, Suite 331
Bingham Farms, MI 48025
(248)645-5960

www.sallypalaian.com

Creator of Love Builder, a free app for iPhoneŽand Android™
Author of Spent: Break the Buying Obsession and Discover Your True Worth (Hazelden, 2009)
BOOK RECOMMENDATION

101 Lessons In Love: A Couple's Guide to Choosing Passion
by Deborah Mueller

Deborah is a therapist and has worked with my Center for Relationship and Sexual Health.

Her latest book is one which I highly recommend for couples looking for ways to express their love and affection to one another.

Discover new pathways to finding more love, more joy, and more acceptance with your partner, spouse, soul mate, or lover. Whether you are passionately in love looking for that new adventure or struggling to stay connected 101 Lessons In Love: A Couple's Guide To Choosing Passion will help you learn how to sculpt each other with love, how to recognize the power of your attention, and how to keep your love evolving as one. Each chapter contains a question to spark communication between you and your partner about avenues into each other's lives that have yet to be explored. The hope is that this exploration will lead you to a deeper understanding of both yourself and your partner that enhances your happiness and love. Then you and your partner are challenged to take the lesson and make it your own by taking specific actions to create a stronger, more intimate, and passionate relationship. It is never too late to capture the fun and excitement. The time is now. Begin your journey to passion and love.


101 Lessons In Love: A Couple's Guide to Choosing Passion
by Deborah M. Mueller by AuthorHouse
Paperback
List Price: $19.95
Our Price: $18.30
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Greetings!

I truly hope that whether you are partnered or single you find a way to enjoy Valentine's Day. You don't have to be in a relationship or even be dating to make the best of this day. Use it as a day to express your love and appreciation for someone you care about.

My favorite quote is from my mentor Maya Kollman, an Imago Relationship Therapist, trainer and workshop presenter:

"Love is a feeling, followed by a decision, followed by a behavior"

Make that happen today!
 
IMAGO


  
Getting the Love You Want Couples Workshop

For straight, gay and lesbian couples.

WHERE:
The offices of the Center for Relationship and Sexual Health,
25600 Woodward Ave, Suite 215, Royal Oak, MI 48067
248-399-7447

 
Sat 9:30am to 9pm ~ Sun 9:30am to 6pm
Cost: $700 per couple

 
Want to know more about IMAGO Relationship Therapy? CLICK HERE to read the cliff notes on what I believe to be one of the best relationship tools that exists!

 
 CLICK HERE for more information and to register.

"Sometimes the book is better than the movie, but with this weekend, I think the movie (the workshop) is better to go to first and then the book". Participant


  
"I forgot how much we used to laugh". Participant

 

The Center for Relationship and Sexual Health


By popular demand, a 2nd class has been added on  
February 24, 2013

 *10AM class SOLD OUT*


2PM class 2 seats left! 
------------------------- 
Understanding Men Who've Been Sexually Abused and How to Treat Them

Location: The offices of the Center for Relationship and Sexual Health, 25600 Woodward Ave, Suite 215, Royal Oak, MI 48067
Presented by: Mary Petersen, L.M.S.W., A.C.S.W
Date: February 24, 2013
Time: 2PM-5PM
Fee: $35
3 CE's

This presentation will change the way you see trauma in people, and it will help you become a better helping professional.  The current statistics are: one in three women, and one in six men will be sexually abused in their lifetime - reported.  So how many assaults are not reported?  And why??  This workshop will make you look at the general population differently.  It will help you understand the traits that are characteristic of people who have suffered the trauma of sexual abuse, specifically traits that are unique to male survivors.  This seminar will explore why it is especially difficult for men to talk about their sexual abuse, and it will present this point (and other points) with personal, anecdotal evidence to illuminate the humanity of each survivor and how powerful their struggles - and recovery - have been.  It will give you some tools to facilitate healing, specifically among men who most likely will have trouble processing what is probably one of the most difficult experiences of their lives, one that is often overlooked by many clinicians, and one that often interferes with everything else.  This workshop could be the missing link to help you help your clients find their voice, find their peace, and reclaim themselves and their lives.

 
Please, call the office at 248-399-7447 to reserve your spot today or CLICK HERE to register online.

 

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Sincerely,

 


Joe Kort, PhD
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