NACD - The National Association for Child Development

NACD Newsletter - Volume 7, Issue 2 - April 2014

In this issue:
  1. NACD Announces Ambassadors for Down Syndrome 
  2. Kaitlyn: Just Getting Started
  3. The Troop of Two: Mission - Friends Beyond Borders
  4. Upcoming Evaluation Dates
NACD Announces Ambassadors for Down Syndrome
Kaitlyn & Lisa Law

We are happy to announce that Kaitlyn Law, a 23-year old young lady with Down syndrome, and her mother, advocate, and cheerleader, Lisa, have been appointed as the Foundation's Ambassadors for Down Syndrome.

 

Kaitlyn is a bright, happy college student attending USC Aiken where she often speaks to education majors about Down syndrome. She also enjoys speaking to parent groups about the benefits of swimming for special needs children and adults. Kaitlyn is a competitive swimmer, voracious reader, works at a day care center with at-risk children, and enjoys a great relationship with her boyfriend, Nathan. Nate and Kate are two delightful NACD young adults and are an inspiration for us all.

 

During 2014 NACD will be focusing efforts on changing the perceptions of parents, the general public, and professionals about individuals with Down syndrome, and helping to provide these children and adults with real opportunities that are commensurate with their innate potential. Another of our goals is to help educate expectant parents who are often ignorant or misinformed as to the potential of individuals with DS. Abortion of Down syndrome babies is still being encouraged. In the United States an alarming 67% of fetuses with probable DS are aborted, and in the United Kingdom and Europe that number is an incredible 92%. We believe that in the majority of cases, there is simply a lack of knowledge and understanding on the part of the parents, and a lack of education on the part of the professionals.

 

The National Association for Child Development works with families of children with Down syndrome internationally and is acuity aware of the difficulties facing the families of these children. General parental and community education is sorely lacking. There is inadequate dietary, medical, neurodevelopmental, therapeutic, educational, social, and vocational guidance and assistance.

 

Today more and more individuals with Down syndrome are demonstrating their potential, graduating from high school, attending college, starting businesses, being gainfully employed. Many have wonderful social lives and are assets to their loving families and communities. This is the potential; but unfortunately our society is failing most of these children and adults dismally. Low perceptions of potential tend to lead to self-fulfilling prophecies.

 

Kaitlyn and Lisa Law will be traveling around the United States and internationally, speaking to parents and organizations, helping to increase awareness and change perceptions, teach acceptance, understanding, value, and inclusion, and to help save lives. In addition the Ambassadors will be helping to build a community of professionals to help NACD in its mission to develop better biomedical, dietary and nutritional, developmental and educational methodologies. But first and foremost, NACD's International Ambassadors for Down Syndrome will be focusing on parents and families, helping to teach them how to assume the responsibility for their children, and showing them how to take charge and become their child's advocates.

 

Kaitlyn and Lisa will be helping us unite and network our NACD families with Down syndrome children, and through our NACD DS community provide support, knowledge, good will, and hope.

 

Our families with Down syndrome children and adults who wish to network, participate, and help can contact Kaityn and Lisa at DSAmbassadors@nacd.org.

 

Kaitlyn:
Just Getting Started
Kaitlyn was eleven years old when she stumbled upon a book I was reading. She brought it to me and, as if she had just discovered a brand new planet, she exclaimed with a sparkle in her voice, "Mom, these kids are like me!" My heart skipped a beat- she was obviously ready to learn that the children in the book, like her, were born with Down syndrome.

I am very pleased that she has the cognitive ability to recognize that she is different from other people, just as she recognizes, and perhaps has a better perspective than most people, that we are all different, special, and unique. How incredible it is that she knows what chromosomes are; that she has an extra twenty-first chromosome, which makes her similar to other people who have that same extra chromosome; and that it really isn't all that different from the chromosomes that make some people red-haired like her sister, Jenni, or some people really big, like Shaquille O'Neal. How wonderful it is that she has the capability to process what Down syndrome means, and that she can rise above the usual expectations, despite the fact that she didn't start off being a "high-functioning" child with Down syndrome. Kaitlyn certainly had a very slow start and didn't really begin to change her course until she was almost ten and started on an NACD program. Today Kaitlyn definitely has already achieved far more than what traditionally is expected of people with Down syndrome, and she is just really getting started.

Kaitlyn, now 23, is happy, beautiful, gregarious, lights up a room, and is in a great relationship with a boy she adores. She is largely independent, keeping a busy schedule on a college campus, interacting with typical young adults, auditing classes, and doing research at the university library. She also volunteers at a day care center for at-risk children, manages time and money on her own, purchases her own meals, and speaks to groups about swimming (her favorite sport) and Down syndrome. We couldn't have reached this point had I not determined early on that as her mother, I was to also be Kaitlyn's advocate and cheerleader.

Although Kaitlyn was born at full term, she was tiny when she emerged into the world, weighing just 4 pounds, 4 ounces. Nothing during my pregnancy had indicated something might be "different" with my baby. My friend and I were so thrilled to be expecting almost at the same time. As we frequently rode the bus together, we talked incessantly about the babies: what we would name them, what cute clothes they would wear, and what furniture we were buying for the nurseries. We chatted about work arrangements and we dreamed--dreamed of being moms and excitedly anticipated the births of our first children. Then, in the blink of an eye, the eagerness transformed into shock at her delivery, when she was immediately whisked away to the NICU where she was to spend the next two weeks. The shock quickly turned into total acceptance of my precious baby girl with her fuzzy blond hair and lovely dark blue eyes, who also happened to have Down syndrome. She was beautiful and she was mine. It was about six hours from the moment I knew Kaitlyn had DS to when a clear, undeniable thought entered my mind: Kaitlyn was mine, and I was responsible for her growth and development.

From then on everything I did reflected that responsibility. At the end of my maternity leave, I quit my job to dedicate my attention to my first child. I shuttled Kaitlyn from doctor's appointment to doctor's appointment and from therapy to therapy, all the while feeling frustrated that I couldn't do more and that the "therapy" was designed more to make me feel like something was being done, than to really help her. At the time I wondered if the lack of real meaningful help and therapy was a reflection of the services available in Scotland, where we were living; but after returning to the States I learned that it wasn't any different. I felt like we were just spinning our wheels.

Like many children with Down syndrome, Kaitlyn had significant health issues. She had an atrial septal defect, which needed to be monitored closely. (Fortunately the hole in her heart closed on its own by the time she was eight.) Because she was so little at birth, she struggled to breastfeed, and eventually I had to switch her to a bottle. She suffered from relentless congestion, mouth breathing, and ear infections, which made it essential to have surgery to place tubes in her ears.
I so wish I had known then what I know now from NACD about the problems associated with dairy products and the effects on mucus production, breathing, balance, hearing, receptive language, expressive language, and speech.

The Troop of Two:
Mission - Friends Beyond Borders 
by Prachi Sinha

Recently I had the opportunity to host the most interesting event, and I have been anxious to tell you all about it. I received a request from the Israeli Embassy in India to host a group of 11 young adults with Down syndrome and 11 of their siblings/cousins. The embassy had requested for a mixer where the group would be able to interact with the young adults with Down syndrome from India. I very graciously accepted. My tiny chapter has only two young adults with Down syndrome, so I contacted a local organization called Muskaan and invited them over for the event.

 

Even though we had a fun plan in place, I had my doubts. There was the obvious language barrier with Hindi, English, and Hebrew in the mix and several other unanswered questions. I gathered a group of 6 young adults and their family members. I also had a few volunteers join in as well to facilitate interaction. The plan was to have a picnic lunch at the India gate and then head to the Israeli embassy for a formal interaction with the ambassador. The two NACD young adults who accompanied us were Shaurya Mehrotra and Karan Bhatti.

 

As we all were heading down to the venue, I stood in front of the mini bus and ensured that our guests from Muskaan were doing fine; and Shaurya made sure that I was too. Every ten minutes or so, he would ask me, "Are you fine, Prachi?" Within 5 minutes of being introduced to each other, we had all forgotten each other's names, but everyone knew who Shaurya and Karan were. They continued to entertain us for the hour we were in the bus.

 

After the merry ride, the picnic was even more fun. All my doubts evaporated. As I was busy talking to newspaper reporters, Shaurya took over the job of making everyone feel at home. Love flowed through as everybody interacted through hugs. Shaurya was most liberal with his hugs, with Karan in close second. After a quick lunch of Indian food and Israeli delicacies, it was time to play games. I will confide to you that another fear I had was my NACD troop of two being over shadowed. I never had expected a take over, and that is what it was.

 

Next at the embassy, we gathered to hear the Ambassador extend us a welcome and thank NACD. Our friends from Israel shared their experiences and then I was called upon to say a few words. All this while Shaurya was on the stage applauding and encouraging everyone who spoke. When I finished I asked him if he wanted to add something. He asked for a group hug. Everyone obliged and quickly converged. I saw some quickly retract to different corners of the room wiping tears as the rest of the group extended the hug. Thereafter it was a somber affair as they enjoyed the snacks and then somber goodbyes.

 

With a new experience, new realizations, and newfound love and respect, the troop of two conquered many hearts that day. 
UPCOMING EVALUATIONS
UPCOMING EVALUATIONS
NACD 

April 2014

 

Dallas, TX 
Phoenix, AZ 
St. Louis, MO 
Los Angeles, CA 
Cincinnati, OH 
Ogden, UT 
India

 

 

May 2014

 

Dallas, TX
Charlottesville, VA
Seattle, WA
Bay Area, CA
International (Skype)

Ogden, UT
India
Philadelphia, PA
London, UK
Rome, Italy
Romania

 

 

June 2014

 

Orlando, FL
Dallas, TX
NJ/NY (Skype)
Atlanta, GA
Chicago, IL (Skype)

Ogden, UT
India
Minneapolis, MN (Skype)
Canada

 

  

For more upcoming evaluation dates, please check our website.

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