December 2014
Gifts that won't be returned but may be given away!

Here are three gifts you can give this year that won't be returned but may be given away!

#1: Opportunity to change

Sometimes people become "fixed" or static in our minds.  Their behaviors are typical of how they "always" act and we know exactly why they do what they do.

The problem with that view is that people want to grow and change - in fact, people do grow and change.  I am not the same person I was when I was 18 and I hope I will continuing maturing.  Speaking of my 18-year-old self, I was on a college trip with fellow students and professors when one of the profs looked at me and said: "Stephen, you are way too serious." That one comment changed my life.  I was too serious and often concerned that others were not serious enough.  Today I see the humor in life and take every opportunity to laugh.  Thankfully those who knew and loved me as an 18-year-old chose to see me as someone capable of changing and gave me that opportunity.

#2: Opportunity to be oneself

It is clear that my children would be better off if they were more like me.  But they aren't.  And it is only in specific areas that their lives might improve.  There are many others where they are better off specifically because they are not like me.

So I live my life trying to free others to be themselves and then encourage them to give that gift to others.  As I often say, "Life is about becoming who you are rather than spending it becoming who you aren't."  We need to help others identify their strengths and then invest in the development of those strengths.  Let's give others the opportunity to further develop a specific strength in 2015.  That opportunity might be a class, a trip, a tool, a book, a mentor, time to pursue an area of interest - it could be a life-changing gift of many forms.

#3: Opportunity to heal

Forgiveness is a costly gift, particularly to the one who extends forgiveness.  My tradition of faith reminds me that "there but for the grace of God, go I."  That each of us needs to forgive and be forgiven.

Recently I heard the story of an adult son whose father had died.  While his father had annoyed him in certain ways, he now wished he had him back, annoyances and all.  Some of us are better at releasing grievances than others, but all of us need to practice forgiving others for our unreleased grievances.  This opportunity to heal may take time to take root, but when nourished it can regrow a relationship once in danger of dying.  This holiday season would be a wonderful opportunity to forgive.

At Julian Consulting we help our clients to give gifts that change the lives of others!  Call TODAY to determine how we can serve you in this process.

Three great gifts for a traveler

Consider these non-traditional gifts for the traveler in your life!

 

I don't travel on a weekly basis, but enough that I've developed an appreciation for three purchases that I recommend to others.


#1: Samsonite Hyperspace Spinner 21.5 Expandable Suitcase

 

Many of today's suitcases are spinners - having four wheels rather than two so that you can spin the suitcase while it is standing upright.  All spinners are not equal and a great suitcase at a reasonable price is the Samsonite Hyperspace.  The 21.5" version that I own fits into all but the stingiest of overhead compartments (those regional jets where you're lucky to fit a laptop bag).  It expands when needed, is well constructed (I've had mine for two years), has great zippers, and well designed internal compartments.

 

Best of all, my shoulders and back have benefited from pushing a suitcase through airports rather than dragging them at an angle with a laptop bag piled on as well.


#2:
Skooba Design Satchel V.3

 

I needed a laptop bag for my smaller laptop (a wonderfully thin Samsung model), but it still needed to be roomy enough for everything I take while traveling.  I needed a front compartment for pens, business cards, mints, presentation clicker, etc.  There had to be a compartment for papers and books with additional pockets, and, of course, a compartment for my laptop, HDMI cable, power cord, extension cord, and portable speaker-bar.  The Skooba has it all - it looks great, is water repellent, has durable zippers, and even fits below the seat in front of you while leaving room for your feet.

 

My only complaint is that when fully loaded it leans at an angle toward the front of the bag - it doesn't tip over, but looks somewhat precarious.

 

#3: Global Entry


This last one is a bit more difficult to explain, but may be the best of all!  The government has a number of opportunities for travelers to expedite various security processes.  You may be familiar with TSA PRE - this is the program that allows you to go through security as though it is pre-2001.  You keep your shoes and belt on.  You don't unload your laptop or toiletries and go through a metal detector rather than having the full body screening.  GOES provides you with a "known traveler number" so that you can use the TSA PRE system, but it goes one step further.  When reentering the country you skip the customs lines and use a kiosk to reenter the US.  Then when you get your luggage back (you have to recheck your baggage upon reentering the country) you walk past all of the people having their bags inspected and proceed directly to the traditional security screening - this time you have to go through the normal non-PRE procedures, but you have saved a lot of time getting to this point so it isn't so bothersome. I would have missed my connecting flight in Dulles without Global Entry so I'm definitely a believer.

 

GOES costs $100 for five years and requires an in-person "interview" which involves having your fingerprints digitally recorded.  The "interview" took me about five minutes but I had to drive to Cincinnati as there are a limited number of places offering this screening by a Customs agent (rather than TSA).

 

There you go - three great gifts for the traveler in your life.  Each has been tested and comes highly recommended.


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