For Our Community of Caregivers |
March 2014
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The Oldest Family-owned 
Business in Melrose
Celebrates 125 Years of Service to the Community!
In 1889, John Henry Gately, my great-grandfather, started Gately Funeral Home on Wyoming Avenue in Melrose. Through the years, the Gately family has been honored to continue the tradition of service and community involvement he began. And we are thrilled that now my son, John W. Gately, Jr. joined us as the fifth generation Gately to become a funeral director.
This spring, we are celebrating our 125th Anniversary
and have a fun afternoon of activities planned for the community. All are invited to our Old Fashioned Sunday Afternoon in the Park on June 1st at Ell Pond in Melrose at the Gazebo!
Stroll through beautiful El Pond Park as the band plays music from the 1880s through the 1920s. There will be popcorn and cotton candy ... Richie's Slush to drink and fun gifts for the children to enjoy! You can even bring a picnic lunch along, if you'd like!
Bring the whole family and experience what a leisurely afternoon in the park was like when John Henry Gately and his family enjoyed life in Melrose. We look forward to seeing you there!
John Gately
Please save the date for our 125th Anniversary Celebration:
An Old-Fashioned Sunday Afternoon
the Park
at the Gazebo at Ell Pond
June 1st - Rain or Shine!
noon - 4 pm, featuring music by the Tom Nutile Band
Fun for the entire Family!
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Prevention Coalition
Working to Make
Melrose a Healthier Community
To create a substance-abuse free community ...
that is the underlying mission for the Melrose Substance Abuse Prevention Coalition, an organization that has been working since 2005 towards this goal.
Since September 2013, Massachusetts has had over 185 deaths due to overdose, and these numbers do not include the state's largest cities of Boston, Worcester, and Springfield. In Middlesex County, 30 opioid overdose deaths have been reported in the same period.
Under the leadership of the Health Department, the City of Melrose applied for and received a state planning grant to support a community needs assessment and through the years since, the MSAPC has received funding to focus on youth education to prevent and reduce alcohol use. In addition an Opioid Overdose Prevention Grant was awarded last year to Medford and surrounding towns, including Melrose, to fund education and awareness programs.
Jennifer Kelly, MSW and Coordinator of the Melrose Health Department, explained, "The grant has three goals: to reduce the number of overdoses; to improve the management of overdoses when they do occur; and to reduce the amount of misused, abused, and diverted prescription opioids."
In early April, the coalition will publish a Resource and Treatment Guide for drug users and their families to find appropriate help. The guide will be available at the Melrose Health Department, Melrose Wakefield Hospital, Melrose Police Station, and other locations throughout the city.
Jennifer Kelly said, "The Coalition works to make Melrose a healthier community by utilizing a diverse range of strategies and interventions to create change through policy, social media awareness, teen-led healthy activities, and an increase in access to treatment services."
She added, "The Coalition will again be organizing training on overdose signs, symptoms and prevention, as well as how to administer and obtain nasal Narcan, a drug that counteracts the effects of opiates. You can call or email me if you would like to be trained or have a group that can benefit from such training."
For more info on the Melrose Substance Abuse Prevention coalition, call 781-979-4128 or email Jennifer Kelly.
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The Rev. Dominic Taranowski
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First Congregational Church
of Melrose: Active in Mission and in Music
First Congregational Church on West Foster Street in Melrose is a member of the Metropolitan Boston Association in the Massachusetts Conference of the United Church of Christ. The largest Protestant denomination in Massachusetts, the UCC was formed in 1957 in Cleveland, Ohio, when the Evangelical and Reformed Church and the Congregational Christian Churches joined together to form the United Church of Christ. On that day, two million members joined hands. The United Church of Christ continues to balance religious tradition with new ideas for religion that is relevant in today's world.
Active in mission and outreach, First Congregational Church supports two local food banks, A Servant's Heart and Pantry of hope. They also finance and serve one meal each month at Bread of Life in Malden. Active members of the Metro North Refugee Immigration Ministry (RIM), FCC is helping to support two Congolese families who are seeking asylum in this country. In addition, the Church School supports Heifer Project.
In fact, the Church School students voted last month to raise donations to buy a water buffalo and some fish for Heifer International. They learned that with a well-stocked pond of fish and training in fish farming, families can increase their own daily nutrition and income. A water buffalo can help a family earn money by helping them to plant a much as four times as many crops and by providing them with rich, nutritious milk! The Church School children will visit Overlook Farm in Rutland on Sunday, April 6th to learn more about Heifer International.
The Rev. Dominic Taranowski, Pastor of First Congregational Church, said, "This visit to Overlook Farm is directed to the children but also involves the parents; it is an intergenerational activity that connects both children and adults with their faith in a tangible way. Faith can't remain in the sanctuary - faith starts with connection to God but needs consequential action in the world to bring fulfillment to people's lives. A visit to Heifer International is just one way we can capture that."
The FCC is very proud of its music ministry which includes five very active groups. The multi-generational Choir sings every Sunday morning in the worship service. The Praise Band is comprised of singers and instrumentalists, from middle school age to those in retirement, who play contemporary Christian music during worship once a month. The Treblemakers is a choir of children ages three to eight who sing in worship four times during the year and who guarantee to brings smiles to the faces of all. The Jubilate Ringers handbell choir play one Sunday each month as well as during special programs in the church and in the community. The New Day String Band, a blue grass group, plays periodically throughout the program year. Pastor Dominic stressed, "All members of the choirs are members of our church and are under the direction of Duncan Vinson, our Director of Music.
This is a very active time for the Church with Holy Week and Easter coming soon. On Palm Sunday, a special joint Ecumenical event will be held in Melrose. Organized by the Melrose Clergy Association, at least 6 churches of various denominations will meet at the First Baptist Church in Melrose for an Ecumenical Breakfast at 8 am. Pastor Dominic explained, "At 9:15 am the faithful will process down Main Street led by a donkey to the gazebo at El Pond where at 9:30 am, a blessing of the palms will take place. Then the participants will go their own way to their place of worship for Palm Sunday service." He continued, "This joint service is a reminder that we may have different traditions, but in the end we have more in common than not."
If you would like more information about the First Congregational Church of Melrose or the Palm Sunday Ecumenical Service, call Pastor Dominic at 781-665-211.
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Frequently Asked Questions:
"What are the warning signs that my teenager is
having serious problems dealing with grief?"
Teenagers can be particularly affected when a school friend or family member dies because their grief can become complicated by the usual ups and downs of adolescence. Their need to appear 'grown up' in front of friends or their family can result in isolation and difficulty in asking for help or expressing feelings. They may lose interest in daily activities and events and experience an extended period of depression.
Teenagers experiencing grief and loss may show one or more of the following signs. They may:
- experience insomnia or a loss of appetite
- have a fear of being alone
- act much younger than their ages for an extended period
- excessively imitate the deceased
- say often that they want to join the deceased
- withdraw from friends
- refuse to attend school or their school performance drops
- display a lack of concentration
- be overly active
- use drugs and/or alcohol
- exhibit risk-taking behavior
- act promiscuous
- display self-destructive, antisocial, or criminal behavior
- have suicidal thoughts.
If these signs are obvious, you should consider seeking professional help.
As teens grow and develop, they change the way they think about and express grief. Listen and watch for opportunities to help a teen who is grieving. If the teen feels comfortable with you and feels you are willing to listen, he or she will talk when ready. Be sure to make time to listen attentively so that your teen will know that he or she is important and that grieving is important.
Because teens are concerned about fitting in and not calling attention to themselves, they may feel awkward talking about their feelings. They may worry about what other people think about them. Also, because teens are searching for their own values and beliefs, they are often uncomfortable talking about their feelings with adults. Teens are not looking for answers; they are looking for someone to simply listen.
If you see your teen exhibiting any of the warning signs of serious problems dealing with grief, please seek professional help.
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Since 1889 the firm of Gately Funeral Home has been dedicated to providing the people of Melrose and surrounding communities funeral services unsurpassed in quality and caring. We thank you for your continuing support. It is our honor to assist your families in times of need.
Let the healing begin with us.
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Contact Info For more information about the articles in this issue of Gately Community Connections or to contribute to a future issue, contact John Gately at info@gatelyfh.com. Gately Funeral Home is located at 79 West Foster Street, Melrose MA 02176. |
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