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GOOD NEWS!    
A Newsletter of St. Paul's Church, Concord, NH
"A place to belong . . . Whoever you are . . . Just as you are."
September 2013
In This Issue
September Calendar Highlights
Milestones
Shorts
Clergy Corner
Ministries and Missions
Formation
Behind the Scenes
Poll of the Month
Photo Feature
From the Vestry
Youth Happenings
Personal Reflections
History and Artifacts
September Calendar Highlights  

Sep 1  Women on the Way - 9:00 AM

Sep 2   Labor Day

             Church Office Closed

Sep 3   Rhythm, Dance, Movement & 

             Song (RDMS) - 5:15 PM

             Executive Committee - 5:30 PM

Sep 4   Mustard Seed - 9:00 AM

             RDMS - 10:30 AM

Sep 5   Havenwood Service - 10:30 AM

Sep 7   Ordination to the Priesthood of  

             Stephen Blackmer in Canterbury-

             2:00 PM

Sep 8   Women on the Way - 9:00 AM

   Rally Day on the State House

             Lawn - 11:30 AM

Sep 9   Children's Choir - 4:00 PM

Sep 10 Forever Young - 11:30 AM

             RDMS - 5:15 PM

   Central Convocation - 7:00 PM

Sep 11 Mustard Seed - 9:00 AM            

             RDMS - 10:30 AM

   Reading the Bible - 6:00 PM

Sep 15 Women on the Way - 9:00 AM

Sep 16 Children's Choir - 4:00 PM

Sep 17 RDMS - 5:15 PM

   Fellowship Pot Luck 5:30 PM

   Vestry Meeting - 6:30 PM

Sep 18 Mustard Seed - 9:00 AM

             RDMS - 10:30 AM

             Friendly Kitchen - 4:30 PM

             Reading the Bible - 6:00 PM

Sep 19 Stewardship Meeting - 6:00 PM

Sep 22 Women on the Way - 9:00 AM

Sep 23 Children's Choir - 4:00 PM

Sep 24 RDMS - 5:15 PM

             Ministry of Presence - 6:00 PM

   Interfaith Council - 7:00 PM

   Jamaica Committee - 7:00 PM

Sep 25 Mustard Seed - 9:00 AM

  RDMS - 10:30 AM 

  Reading the Bible - 6:00 PM

Sep 29 Women on the Way - 9:00 AM  

  

See entire calendar            

 

For details of these and other parish events, check the new monthly
Milestones 
the tortoise and the hare

Received as Episcopal Priest
7/9/2013
The Rev. Patrick McNamara
  
Confirmation - 7/10/2013
Will Coles
  
Baptism - 8/25/2013
Trey Bradbury & Noah LeClair

 

Marriage - 8/12/2013
Casper Kranenburg & Bill Twibill
  
Memorial Services
Genevieve Hicks - 8/8/2013
Dick Miller - 8/17/2013
Shorts

          A Winning Season! 
The St. Paul's Black Flies ended their softball season with a record of five wins, three losses, and two rain-outs, their first winning season ever . . . if gauged by wins and losses (which, of course, has never been our measure of success).

Ordination in the Woods! 
The Rt. Rev. A. Robert Hirschfeld will ordain Steve Blackmer to the priesthood on Saturday, September 7, at 2:00 p.m., near the site of Church of the Woods, Canterbury, New Hampshire. All of Steve's St. Paul's family is invited to attend - and you are encouraged to carpool if you can. Dress is "NH outdoors casual", and a reception will follow.  Information and directions are available at Kairos Earth.
  
PIES,PIES, and MORE PIES!!!
This Rally Day (September 8 on the State House Lawn) will feature our second annual St. Paul's Pie "Baking" Contest.  Each year the categories will change...so this year you can count on MOST UNUSUAL INGREDIENT; UNIQUE APPEARANCE AWARD; BEST OVERALL IN CONTEST; BEST STORE BOUGHT PIE (Rector's Prize); and others to be revealed on the day.  
 
Enter as many pies as you wish.  Just bring them with you to church on Rally Day, Oct. 8th.   You can drop them off in the downstairs kitchen before the 10:00 service.  Any questions?  Just ask Herb - and no, he doesn't have any good recipes...
  
Along the Way

Beginning on September 1st, we are offering a Sunday morning meditation based on Judith Carpenter's stories of women Jesus encountered during his ministry on earth.  We meet in the Library at 9:00 AM on six consecutive Sundays, to listen to each story and discuss how it affects us and our own journey of faith.

Why study the Psalms? 

Explore this uniquely significant body of poetry and song texts that occupies the center of the Book of Common Prayer and which we use almost every time we worship.  

Four Wednesday evening sessions will be held on September 11, 18, 25 and October 2. Each will meet at 6:00 and a light meal will be served. Please sign up at the front desk so that we know how many participants to expect, and feel free to contact Darrell or Herb with any questions.

 

Feed and be Fed

New this fall, both CnC (middle-school youth) and SPY (high school youth) will be meeting on Sundays from 11:30 to 1:30.  An important part of their fellowship is sharing a meal with each other and with other members of St. Paul's.  This is where YOU come in! 

We are inviting parishioners to provide a meal once during the year, and to stay and eat with the youth and their leaders.  This is a great opportunity to get to know our younger members and to get a taste of the important ministry we share with them. 

Please let Sarah Nyhan know what day will work for you and she will give you details of what is needed.  THANK YOU! 

 End Hunger One Step at a Time Greater Concord's annual CROP walk takes place on Saturday, September 28, starting at the Church of Latter Day Saints, Clinton Street, at noon.  Money raised through walkers' sponsorship supports services for hungry people throughout the Concord area - including St. Paul's Food Pantry. Dan Walsh is our parish representative. If you are interested in walking contact him by emailing ministry@stpaulsconcord.org with CROP Walk in the subject line.  To make a donation, visit the Concord CROP Walk website.

Business Directory

Do you have a business? Why not let your fellow parishioners know about products or services you offer to the public?  St. Paul's is compiling and will make available to the parish, in hard copy and electronically, a list and description of our church members' business offerings. To be included, fill out this form and send it to Kristin Dunklee or email it to communications@stpaulsconcord.org by October 31.

Got Room?

The Diocesan Convention Business Committee is looking for people in the Concord area who are willing to host convention delegates after the Friday night Eucharist at St. Paul's on November 1st. If you can do this, please contact Barbara Wanner at ministry@stpaulsconcord.org with "Convention" in the subject line.

Quick Links...
Come Worship With Us

Saturdays:

4:30 PM Our Simple Saturday Service of Holy Eucharist.

 

Sundays:                          

8:00 AM This celebration of  Holy Eucharist is quiet and reflective. Occasional music, but no choir.

10:00 AM This is a traditional service of  Holy Eucharist. Music includes traditional and contemporary hymns and choir anthems. All ages welcome.

 

Tuesdays and Thursdays:  12:10 PM  Holy Eucharist in the chapel.

The Episcopal Church Welcomes You

St. Paul's Episcopal Church
21 Centre Street
Concord, NH 03301
Tel: 603-224-2523
Fax: 603-224-
2524
rector@stpaulsconcord.org

            Clergy and Staff 

Rev. Kate B. Atkinson,
Rector (Rest Day: Friday)
Rev. Herb Sprouse,
Associate Rector  (Rest Day: Monday)
Rev. Darrell Huddleston,
Priest Associate
Rev. Charles Edward LeClerc, BSG,
Deacon
Rev. Will Ottery,
Deacon  

Rev. Steve Blackmer,  

Deacon

Mark Pace,
Director of Music Ministries

(Rest Day: Friday)  
Kristin Dunklee,
Parish Administrator
Sarah Nyhan,
Minister for Youth, Children and Families

Andrew Brundrett,
Sexton
 

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Clergy Corner

                             by Rev. Pat McNamara

Patrick

  

Dear Friends,  

 

There is a delightful book entitled "The Velveteen Rabbit", written by Margery Williams. It's a story that offers wisdom for adults who allow the child within to emerge and come alive.  I choose to use this wisdom as the spring board for what I want to share with you, the people of St. Paul's. 

  

The velveteen rabbit asks a profound and often times vexing question, "What is Real?"  The skin horse replies, "Real isn't how you are made, it's a thing that happens to you." We continue to read that we become real when we are really loved, and that this happens over time.

 

My dear friends, that is what happened to me, through YOU while I have been at St. Paul's.  Each and every one of you loved me over time - and that made me Real.  My journey at times has been quite bumpy and most uncertain.

If it were not for the encouragement, prayers and love that I was given by all of you, I am not certain that things would have turned out the way they have. 

 

I was received as an Episcopal Priest by Bishop Hirschfeld

on July 9th, here at St. Paul's.  Once again members of this parish were present to offer their support and love.  Once again you made me feel Real. 

 

It has been a journey that I was fortunate enough not to take alone.  God's grace and presence were always made known through my St. Paul's family.  My prayers, my fears, my complaints, offered up on a daily basis, did not go unheard.  I am sure that at times the good Lord may have said, "Now what?  Enough already, I have heard you.  Be patient and know that I am God."  And, over time, God's Realness came alive through all of you. 

 

Saying "Thank You" seems in a sense shallow.  I cannot put into mere words what my heart feels and what my soul would love to say.  But know that because of St. Paul's Community I am the person that I have become and the Priest embarking on my next adventure into God's ministry.  I may be in another state (geographical that is) but part of me will continue to be with each and every one of you who have made me Very Real.

 

Please accept my deepest and fondest love.  

 

Pat+

Ministries and Missions: Formation 

                                       by  Jean Gillespie 

Jean Gillespie 

Our Mission of the Month for September is Formation, a very important part of our lives at St. Paul's.  Through this ministry, we are offered a variety of classes and forums usually taking place on Sunday mornings between the

two services and on Wednesday evenings sometimes following a simple supper.  Formation also includes our Education for Ministry (EfM) program which is now beginning its fourth year at St. Paul's and has expanded from two to three mentored groups.

 

Formation ministry at St. Paul's is designed to enrich our spiritual lives.  We learn about the Bible, the Church, and Christian beliefs.  We learn new ways to read scripture, to pray, to worship.  We reflect on what this knowledge means to us, how it guides us.  We listen to other people tell their stories, tell what brings them closer to God, and we consider what is important to us, what has formed us.  

During the past year many classes were offered to guide us on our spiritual journey, opportunities to learn more about our faith through listening, discussing and reflecting.  How to Read the Bible looked at new ways to read and interpret scripture, beginning with the Old Testament in the Fall, and moving on to the New Testament in the Spring.  Part three begins later this month and focuses on the Psalms.  Via Media explored our faith, what it means to be a part of the Episcopal Church in today's world.  Belonging and Becoming first concentrated on spirituality, looking at Jesus, scripture, and the history of Christianity, and then focused on working together to discern our spiritual gifts and ministries.  Catholic? Episcopal? What's the difference? Offered an opportunity for parishioners coming from a Catholic tradition to explore the ways in which the Episcopal Church is similar and how it differs from the Catholic Church.  During Advent we heard guest speakers from different Christian denominations give their views on Advent; we also looked at ways to give Advent deeper meaning in our lives.  During Lent we learned about different forms of prayer.  

 

Many of these series, or variations on them, will be offered again in this new program year, and we are also benefiting from a renewed commitment to stewardship eduction, as Tim Frazer describes in his piece below.

  

Spiritual formation adds a crucial dimension to our faith journeys, enabling us to connect more deeply with God and to make space for God's influence in all areas of our lives.  The sessions facilitated by both clergy and laity at St. Paul's help continue to educate and inspire those who take part.  If you haven't yet taken advantage of a spiritual formation opportunity, I encourage you to do so.

It will change your life!

 St. Paul's Formation: Why we Pledge

                                       by Tim Frazer 

 

Tim Frazer 2 One snowy Tuesday morning, St. Paul's parking lot is full. "Lot Full" says the sign.  At least it's clear of snow - the plow came earlier in the morning.

 

It's not Sunday, yet St. Paul's is busy. At noon, a small group of worshipers receive Holy Eucharist in the chapel, and one of them is given a case containing the elements for a nursing home Communion service.  In the Upper Parish Hall, our "Forever Young" seniors are

enjoying lunch and a guest speaker.  And the rest of the building is crowded too.

 

A young couple and two small children trudge through the snow to an old, rusting van, where they load plastic bags of groceries from the Food Pantry. In a waiting area full to capacity it was nearly an hour before they could take their turn to select the food and household items they need.  A woman in colorful African dress waits for a ride, her arms full of Chapter Two purchases. Upstairs, a tired looking man in faded clothing waits in a chair by the reception desk, hoping for some prescription assistance, or perhaps needing spiritual counseling from one of the clergy.

 

No parking spaces are left on the east side of the building, where several young men huddle in the cold, trying to keep their cigarettes lit in the wind. They move aside while a specially equipped SUV pulls into the handicapped slot, then greet the driver, a man in a Korean War vet's hat who walks with some difficulty. A couple of the young men snuff out their cigarettes and offer him their arms to help him to the AA meeting downstairs. They all go in together.

 

Upstairs a lively staff meeting is in progress as clergy and staff plan and coordinate a wide range of programs, services, and other activities for the coming weeks, and work together to resolve the challenges of the many demands on church resources.  When the meeting ends, the parish offices are full of activity.  Sarah Nyhan is busy planning for tomorrow's "Mustard Seed Enrichment" class for pre-schoolers and their parents, and is lining up volunteers and materials for Sunday's Youth and Children's programs.  She ensures that that the paid nursery staff are scheduled so that child care is available for families attending the 10:00 service. Meanwhile Mark Pace is preparing music for the children's, youth, and adult choirs, and will shortly go down to Ordway Hall to lead the first of two weekly RDMS (Rhythm, Dance, Movement, Song) classes for young children and their parents.  The clergy are fully occupied with pastoral counseling, coordinating and equipping volunteers, visits to the hospital, Hospice House and nursing homes, outreach in the local community and in our own Assistance with Dignity outreach center, as well as preparing curriculum for spiritual formation series, writing sermons, and creating liturgies for the two weekday services, three weekend services, and any upcoming memorial services or marriages. Kristin Dunklee has a hand in all of these diverse activities, scheduling, creating printed materials, updating the website, ordering supplies, paying bills, fielding phone calls - and providing a vital element of pastoral care as she and the front desk volunteers greet the numerous people - both parishioners and visitors from outside the church - who come through the door.  

 

Andy Brundrett, the Sexton, starts work at 1:00 and he won't be leaving until 9:00 this evening. He has chairs and tables to set up, cleaning to do, space bookings to schedule for outside groups, repairs and maintenance to attend to, and he will lock up and set the alarm at the end of this long, full day.  At 5:00, church members start to arrive, carrying home-cooked food and other offerings for the monthly fellowship potluck.  By 5:30, grace has been said and, for the next hour, the room is full of happy conversation. At 6:30, the 16 members of St. Paul's Vestry, plus clergy and Parish Administrator, gather for their monthly meeting to plan and maintain the daily work and ministry of the parish.  Another AA group meets in one of the classrooms downstairs while Boy Scout Troop 88

assembles in Ordway Hall.

 

And since it's a cold day, the heat's on.

 

It is not unusual for over a thousand people to come through the doors of St. Paul's in a single week. On this particular day, many parishioners who attend worship services on Sunday may not be physically present in the building, yet they contribute in a vital way. The 46% of St. Paul's parishioners who make an annual pledge of financial support, make all of the above possible - and more.  We all desire prayer and worship, but our needs and obligations are far greater. To take advantage of services like those described above, and to make it possible for others to benefit from them, is part of our Christian life, as we are reminded in the letter of James:

 

"What good is it, my brothers and sisters, if you say you have faith but do not have works? Can faith save you? If a brother or sister is naked and lacks daily food, and one of you says to them, 'Go in peace; keep warm and eat your fill,' and yet you do not supply their bodily needs, what is the good of that? So faith by itself, if it has no works, is dead." James 2:14-17

 

To ensure that our faith as a parish is a living faith, St. Paul's Stewardship Committee and Vestry have made a firm commitment to pledge education for the parish - which is undoubtedly an important aspect of our spiritual formation.

 

At a recent Pledge Appreciation dinner, the participants made it very clear that they want parish leadership to be even more informative about the financial commitments and needs of the parish. Many of those in attendance felt that not enough people know about the services St. Paul's provides to our parishioners and to the local community, to those in spiritual as well as material need.  

 

Beginning this month, much more of this information will be forthcoming.

 

Starting on September 1st, we will be offering short "Why I pledge" slots and "Your pledge questions answered" slots during all three of our weekend worship services. If you have a question you want to ask about pledging or finances, you can fill in one of the slips in the church entrances. And if you would like to share with your fellow parishioners why you made the important decision to pledge, do speak to the Stewardship Chair, Jim Barker, or let the rector know.

 

May our works increase, even as our faith grows.

Behind the Scenes: Gary Brundrett, Usher Organizer 
                                                    by Gail Schilling 

Gary Brundrett Quick! What's the simplest way to get involved at church? According to Gary Brundrett, it's ushering. The longtime usher organizer recalls, "If I could get someone to usher, they'd get involved in church. That happened a lot, so I'd look for people who were new."  After all, that's what happened to him.  When Gary first arrived at St. Paul's in the 1970s after his tour in the Air Force, Dr. Shirley Jones was in charge of ushers. "One day he asked me to take over. I just kept doing it." 

 

A few weeks ago, after 40 years of service, Gary officially stepped down. He says, "It's time for someone else to step in. I've been doing it long enough."  Theresa  Neves, a former colleague from his engineering years in telecommunications, will replace him. She's a logical choice since she wrote the book on ushering. Literally. Gary calls her guide "a conversation" that's easy to use.

So what does it take to be an usher? Gary explains: "You are the tax collector, census taker, and traffic controller. Also a greeter." As usher organizer for the 8 a.m. service, Gary would open the church Sunday mornings; unlock doors, bathrooms and changing rooms; and make sure bulletins were out. He also made sure his ushers had arrived - or speedily found replacements.

 

Incidentally, ushers for the 8 am services rotate by the month, not weekly as at the 10 a.m. service. Gary admits, "Everyone is a little nervous [at first]. If you haven't ushered for a year, the monthly rotation helps you to remember what to do." He reflects for a moment: "My ushers have been fantastic to me."


Gary continues to volunteer at the St. Paul's Food Pantry, unloading big deliveries, in addition to working for the Integra Car Wash, setting up autocross for the Sports Car Club of NH, enjoying time with his wife Mary and friends, and practicing Tai Chi. Just look for him sitting in church nowadays, not standing. After 40 years of ushering, Gary deserves to get off his feet. 
Poll of the Month

Last month's poll question was:  "Why is the sacrament of Baptism spiritually significant?Here are the results:

 

As a celebration of our welcome into the family of God                                    16%
To symbolize dying to sin with Christ and being born again into a new life         32%
Because it marks us as children of God                                                            37%
As a great way of rejoicing over the arrival of a new baby (or new Christian)     0%
As a commissioning for the vocation of Christian living                                      16%

 

This month's question is "What non-worship group activities would you like to see St. Paul's organize?"

  • Outing to a Fisher Cats or a Monarchs game
  • Tour of the N.H. Historical Society Museum or the McAuliffe-Shepard Center
  • Trip on the Winnipesaukee Scenic Railroad or the M/V Mount Washington
  • Hike up Mt. Kearsarge or along the Crotched Mountain trails 
  • Take in a show at Capitol Center for the Arts or the Palace Theater

 To vote, click here                    

Photo Feature: Dick Miller 
by Kathy Bush  

 

St. Paul's beloved amateur photographer Dr. Richard (Dick) Hanwell Miller, 88, died peacefully on June 21, 2013.  Dick and his wife Timmy (Mary) joined St. Paul's in Oct. 2005 when they moved to Concord from Maryland to be closer to family.  Both of them had a passion for photography when they married 47 years ago, but they decided there was only room for one in the dark room in their laundry room.  Dick would always have a camera with him, especially on family camping trips.  When media changed from film to digital, Dick continued to share his passion for pictures, and often relied on his son Patrick to help him find missing files.  Dick encouraged others to bring a camera to church, to get up out of their seats and to capture the moment!  The first issue of Good News published in September 2010 had Dick's images of that year's outdoor service and picnic in the park . He took many pictures of SPC events that can be seen in past issues of the Good News.  Here are other images from his collection: Blessing of the Animals 2010, Church Fair 2010, Youth Sunday on March 6, 2011, and Easter 2011.

 

 
From the Vestry 

2013 Vestry
July Vestry Notes
 

  Summarized prior to vestry approval of the minutes 

 

The meeting was convened on July 16 at 6:30 PM with most Vestry members present and two guests: Jim Barker and Shawn LaFrance. Following an opening devotion led by Jan Greer-Carney, Shawn LaFrance reported that he has begun the process of discernment for ordination to the vocational diaconate and sought vestry approval for the process. The Vestry unanimously confirmed its support. Shawn also noted that a "Love Your Neighbor" picnic is scheduled for Friday, August 9, for which contributions and volunteers would be welcome.

 

As Chair of the Stewardship Committee, Jim Barker reported that the number of pledges received each year is down, although the amounts of individual pledges received have increased. The goal of the Committee is to improve pledger retention, and to increase the number of pledges each year by a net 10%. Following helpful feedback from existing pledgers, there will be an emphasis on pledge education so all parishioners understand the importance of supporting the parish this way.

 

After unanimously approving the Minutes of the June 18 meeting, Vestry members shared Fun Facts about their interactions with fellow parishioners.

 

Valerie Blake presented the monthly Profit & Loss Budget Performance Report for June 2013, noting that pledge payments were a little ahead of budget and that a significant memorial gift had been received. She reported that administration expenses are down due to postponement of the financial audit while a required compilation of financial statements is completed.

 

Kate Atkinson reported that "check-in" calls to parishioners continue on a weekly basis, in conjunction with the list of households that are upheld in prayer each Sunday. She said she will be scheduling a planning meeting with Task Force Coordinators to review the broad spectrum of Parish ministries. Rally Day will be on September 8 and Kate asked Vestry Members to wear "Ask me about....." name tags to support, and recruit for, their favorite ministries.

 

Casper Kranenburg submitted Herb Sprouse's report of Chapter Two's earnings and the bi-annual grants recommended. This was unanimously approved. He also reported that St. Paul's will provide hospitality and a "changing station" for babies on Concord's Market Days. Catharine Dornin and Mark Pace will provide music and Mark will offer RDMS on the State House lawn.

 

As the meeting moved to other business Ray Fournier asked for, and received, authority to investigate adding a Hannaford fundraising program to St. Paul's Scrip program.

 

Kristin Dunklee asked the Vestry Members to apprise her of any Vestry on Duty swaps made so that she can put correct information in the bulletin for respective Sundays.

 

Following a closing prayer, the meeting adjourned at 8:25 PM, with a reminder that there is no Vestry Meeting in August.

 

Casper Kranenburg, Senior Warden                   

                                       
Youth Happenings   
               by Sarah Nyhan                                                    

When wSarah Nyhane think of Mission and Outreach at St. Paul's, I expect most would name the Food Pantry or Mission with Jamaica, but I am not sure how many peoplewouldthinkof our Summer CelebrationCamp. Theweekof games,storiesandBible verses, tasty snacks and catchy songs truly is a special and powerful outreach ministry. Many families - both from within our parish and throughout the capital region - make it a tradition to participate in camp each year. We welcomekids from otherEpiscopal Churches, other denominations, and some with no church affil-iation at all. People come because they know us from RDMS, from Mustard Seed Enrichment, from our location in the community, and because they are referred by friends. We expect no monetary contribution - and are always rewarded by donations to the charitywe choose to support as our camp mission project.

 

The work we do - adults and youth together - guiding these children through games and projects, leading them in song, and sharing the stories of God with them - is truly a ministry. Their families come to trust us, and share with us their triumphs and their sorrows - knowing that we will hold them in prayer, or refer them to those who can assist them if needed. We offer smiles and encouragement, and create a community. Some may become members of our church,somemay find a renewed commitment to their faith, and some others may meet a new friend.

 

We as a group of staff and volunteers know that those we touch in this way will go out into the community with good things to say about St. Paul's church and the work we do here. A banner over the entrance to our Outreach Center says "Let every guest be received as Christ himself" and that is the welcome that we practice at camp, for all people, big and small.

 

 Personal Reflection  

by Ronna Frazier

 

TRAPPED IN MOTHERHOOD

 

THE SLEEPLESS NIGHTS OF WORRY

THE ENDLESS DAYS OF TRYING TO FIX

THE PHONE CALLS THAT WERE ALWAYS EMERGENCIES

THE NONEXISTENT CRUCIAL ILLNESSES

THE NEVER ENDING POVERTY

THE EVICTION NOTICES

THE REPOSSESSED VEHICLES

THE JOBS THAT CAN NEVER BE HELD ON TO

THE THOUSANDS OF DOLLARS GIVEN AND THE HELP GIVEN

AND NOTHING EVER IMPROVES

THE NEVER ENDING LIES AND TOTAL HEARTBREAK

ALL THIS IS NOT WHAT I WISHED OR WANTED FOR MY DAUGHTER

IT HURTS TO UNDERSTAND THIS

IT HURTS TO LET HER GO

IT HURTS TO WATCH THIS PROCESS

IT HURTS TO KNOW THAT THERE IS ABSOLUTELY NOTHING I CAN DO

                                              IT HURTS TO KNOW WHAT I KNOW ABOUT MY DAUGHTER

                                                 IT HURTS TO HAVE A BROKEN HEART

                                                  BUT MY SOUL TELLS ME THAT MY LOVE FOR MY DAUGHTER

                                         IS STILL THERE

 

I was so consumed by my daughter's lifestyle with addiction that I lost God, but God never lost me.  I know this because of the gentle steps I was urged to take toward my spiritual self.  It came through family encouragement, belonging to two hospice organizations, a fun acting group, "Senior Moments," and now I read to the elderly once a week.  These have been both life changing and fulfilling.

 

The day I walked into St. Paul's I just knew it was where I was supposed to be.  The beauty of St. Paul's is comforting, the congregation is welcoming, and Kate and her staff provide an acceptance that I have never felt in any other church.  I have found my spiritual self and I know God is my partner.

 

I begin each day with this prayer:

 

I need God in my life

I welcome God to my life

I thank God for my life

With every part of my being      

 

Amen 


History and Artifacts
                                                      by Frank Spinella

Red Doors
"Dear Mrs. Eames, how we do miss her in the Church, in every place, and in every good work!  For myself, Concord is lonely without her kindly presence."  So said Bishop Niles in his Address to the 1894 Diocesan Convention held at St. Paul's.
    
Jane Anthony Eames, wife of St. Paul's long time rector Rev. James H. Eames, was adored in equal measure as her husband.  Her fame as a writer spread far beyond the Granite State, with books that included "A Budget of Letters" (1847); "My Mother's Jewel" (1850); "The Christmas Gift" (1851); "Sarah Barry" (1852); "Home (1853); "Another Budget" (1854), and "The Budget Closed" (1864).
      
On July 10, 1894, The New York Times carried this obituary: "Mrs. Jane Anthony Eames, widow of the Rev. Dr. James H. Eames, for many years rector of St. Paul's Episcopal Church, Concord, N.H., died Sunday night of paralysis, in Boston. She was one or the most widely known women in the State. She was born in Providence, and belonged to the Anthony family of Rhode Island.  Mrs. Eames had traveled extensively and had written much for the press.  She began newspaper work on the Providence Journal more than fifty years ago, having been one of the first woman journalists in the country.  During her life she gave to religious and charitable objects about $50,000.  She left a large estate, nearly all of which will go to Episcopalians and benevolent objects in New Hampshire.  She was seventy-eight years old."
      
$50,000 was no small fortune in those days, amounting to over a million dollars in today's value; and what she gave away in life, she matched at her death.  The July 24, 1894, Boston Evening Transcript carried this story:    

      

"CONCORD, N.H.  The will of the late Jane Anthony Eames of this city was admitted to probate today.  Among the bequests are the following:  $10,000 to the trustees of the Holderness School for boys, to found one or more scholarships to be called in memory of her late husband, the James Henry Eames scholarships; also her library; $10,000 to St. Mary's school for girls at Concord, to found one or more scholarships, to be called the Jane Anthony Eames scholarships, also her silverware; to the treasurer of the fund for relief of aged and infirm clergy and the widows and orphans of the clergy of the diocese of New Hampshire, in trust, $1,000; to St. Paul's church, Concord, $10,000, to be called the Eames memorial fund.

The effects of Eames' beneficence were felt for many years beyond her death. 

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