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Treatment and Support for Families Affected by Alzheimer's and other Memory Disorders
September 2012

Vol 3, Issue 8

 

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 Caregiver
 Network
 News

 A newsletter for

caregivers of loved ones

with memory loss





 

  

CAREGIVER FAQs

 

(send your caregiving questions to network@memorycare.org)

 

   

 Could you explain the difference between Hospice and palliative care?hospice people

  

Hospice and palliative care have some differences and some similarities, but they both focus on the same thing:  care. 

 

Medicine in the 20th Century traditionally has concentrated on trying to cure the patient rather than address his or her comfort or individual preferences. Treatments for the alleviation of symptoms were often considered inappropriate or seen as inviting addiction and other unwanted side effects.  However, now we are living much longer than we were 100 years ago, and we are learning the importance of addressing the patient's quality of life and personal wishes as well as his or her longevity.  

   

Most people have some idea about or have had experience with Hospice, an end-of-life service which has existed in the U.S. since the 1970s.  Palliative care, which offers specialized treatment for people with serious life-limiting illnesses, provides similar treatment options as Hospice but is utilized prior to the time a patient would become eligible for Hospice benefits. 
 
Palliative care deviates from traditional "curative" medicine in that it focuses on providing the patient relief from the pain and symptoms associated with a disease.   This holistic approach addresses not only the patient's medical issues, but also the physical, emotional, spiritual, and social concerns that arise with an advanced illness.  While palliative care is offered in conjunction with conventional healing or rehabilitative methods, its primary goal of care is to improve quality of life for both the patient and the family.   Far from being a "giving up" process, it allows the family to explore all available options for their loved one, always with the patient's comfort at the forefront.   Palliative care can be used at any stage of a life-limiting disease, not just at the very end stage of life, whereas Hospice benefits are utilized when a patient is considered to be terminal within six months.
 
hospice handsBoth Hospice care and palliative care programs employ a team approach.  The palliative care provider partners with the patient's primary doctor to coordinate and oversee the treatment protocols.  The Hospice team usually includes a physician, R.N. case manager, social worker, chaplain, and CNA, all of whom work towards relieving symptoms and managing the patient's ongoing comfort.  Some Hospice programs also offer pet and/or music therapy or even massage therapy.  

 
Hospice and palliative services can be accessed in home as well as institutional settings.  Expenses related to the specific Hospice diagnosis are 100% covered for eligible patients, whereas 80% of palliative care expenses are covered.


Traditionally, Hospice is considered to be an end-of-life option.  It generally does not seek to cure or prolong life, but instead concentrates on helping both patient and family to live more comfortably in the face of a terminal illness.  Palliative care can be begun earlier than Hospice; some patients who are receiving palliative care can and do survive their illness, but others may choose to continue with the program as a transition to Hospice at such time as it becomes appropriate.   
 

Families who are dealing with dementia often face difficult decisions with regard to their loved one's treatment and prognosis.  Many have no resources to help them navigate the medical system or understand medical options and consequences.  Many need help with finding home care or selecting a nursing facility.  Many are emotionally drained and unable to recognize when it may be time to change the treatment protocols that are currently in place for their loved one.  A palliative care team can assist the family in making these difficult decisions, and can serve as a transition to the time when Hospice takes over. 

 

If you think your family may want to pursue palliative care for your loved one, consult your doctor for the best options available in your area.    

 

 

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A VISIT TO OUR RESOURCE LIBRARY

 

 

MemoryCare's Lebedeff Eldercare Resource Center provides information to the public on healthy aging, exercise, nutrition, spirituality, age-related illnesses (with an extensive section on memory disorders), caregiving, community resources, ethics and end-of-life care. Books, videos, pamphlets, and journals on these and related topics are available for review and free checkout. This resource room is for anyone who wants to learn more about aging issues: middle aged and older adults, caregivers, and professionals in aging disciplines.

 

books

       This Month's Staff Pick: 

 

The Alzheimer's Action Plan

 

                 by

P. Murali Doraiswamy, M.D.

Chief of Biological Psychiatry, Duke University Medical Center

                and 

Lisa P. Gwyther, M.S.W

Founder and Director of the Award-Winning Alzheimer's Family Support Program

at the Duke University Center for Aging.

 

Pat Hilgendorf says, "We are fortunate to have these two experts in our state, who have done extensive work with people who have Alzheimer's disease and other forms of dementia. Their book helps answer the question, 'How do I get the best care for my loved one?' From diagnosis to medications, diet, and clinical trials, they discuss the various issues we need to explore in caring for our loved ones through the middle stages of this disease. The last section contains frequently asked questions and answers that many of us ask on our journey.

 

This is a valuable book to have as a reference on our shelves.

 

Pat wears several different hats at MemoryCare, co-facilitating the MemoryCaregivers Network support groups and volunteering at the office.  She also works as Family Caregiver Support Associate for Land-of-Sky Regional Council, and is certified as an Information and Referral Specialist in Aging.  Pat is a native of Flint, Michigan, has two sons, and enjoys reading and gardening. 

 

 


EDUCATIONAL PROGRAM
 

MemoryCare is proud to offer a community presentation by
Dr. Kathleen A. Welsh-Bohmer
Director of the Bryan Alzheimer's disease Research Center at Duke University

Advances in Alzheimer's Disease and Hopes for Prevention

Dr. Welsh-Bohmer's research interest over the pat 25 years has been centered on defining the early expression of Alzheimer's disease and other neurodegenerative dementias with an aim of facilitating disease prevention.  She is Board Certified in Clinical Neuropsychology and is a professor in the Department of Psychiatry and Behavioral Sciences at Duke University Medical Center.

Thursday, September 6, 2012
10:00 a.m. - 12 noon
MAHEC Education Building
121 Hendersonville Road, Asheville, NC  28803

For directions, please visit www.mahec.net/images/mapEduc.pdf 

This presentation is free to the public, but registration is required due to limited seating.
To register, please call 828.274.4801
When you hear the "cisco" message, enter ext. 2249.
Indicate your name and phone number.

 

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   PERSPECTIVE

 

 

This poem was written by James, a member of the Early Memory Loss Collaborative. 

He is diagnosed with Mild Cognitive Impairment.

 

 

 

Imposter?
 
Who is this imposter that has captured my body?
How did it happen?  When did it happen?
I do not know.
It was so gradual that I did not notice.
And then - silently it was accomplished!
Subtly loading up my brain with propaganda about illness,
he seized control and I was compromised.  Idenitfy theft!
Now, I am surviving,
sorting out the puzzle, securing as much as I can of knowledge.
That potion of healing concoction, the elixir of the soul,
Steadies my shaking hand.
This garment that clothes me has surrendered to an unseen force.
I long to be naked, born as a new infant.
Is this folly?  Am I entering into a world of Light?
I do not know.
I only observe, seeing yet not fully comprehending.
Is it me?

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YOU ARE INVITED TO...


 

A GRAND OPENING RECEPTION
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New Satellite Clinic in Waynesville!

and welcoming
    Lisa Verges, M.D. 
              geriatric psychiatrist
    to the 
 MemoryCare staff 
 
Thursday, September 20, 2012
4:30 - 6:30 pm
Haywood County Senior Resource Center
81 Elmwood Way, Waynesville, NC

Special presentation by MemoryCare staff to be given at 5:30

Please RSVP by September 10
828.356.2800


 

CAREGIVER CALENDAR

 

 
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MEMORYCAREGIVERS NETWORK SUPPORT GROUPS
Sponsored by Park Ridge Health

* Free & Open to the Public * 
     

PARK RIDGE GROUP
First Tuesdays, 1:00-3:00 p.m.
  Fletcher 7th Day Adventist Church
Howard Gap Road and Naples Road, Fletcher, N.C.
(just past Park Ridge Hospital)
        

NEW HOPE GROUP

Third Tuesdays, 1:00-3:00 p.m.

      New Hope Presbyterian Church

 3070 Sweeten Creek Road, Asheville, N.C. 28803

        (across from Givens Estates)

  

WEAVERVILLE GROUP

Fourth Tuesdays, 1:00-3:00 p.m.

Weaverville First Baptist Church

63 N. Main, Weaverville, NC 28787

(North Buncombe County)

  

  

    For more information on any of the above groups, contact:  
                                   Mary Donnelly                                                Pat Hilgendorf
                                   828.230.4143                                                   828.645.9189         
                        network@memorycare.org                                patricia.hilgendorf@gmail.com
 
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Memory Loss Caregivers

of East Buncombe

 

An education & support group

sponsored by the

Highland Farms Residents' Corporation

 

 

Meets every second Tuesday

9:30-11:30 a.m.

Lounge Room 3 (lower level)

J-K entrance of Brookside Building

Highland Farms Retirement Community, Black Mountain, NC

 

* Free and Open to the Public *

 

 

   For more information, contact:

     Mary Donnelly                                                       Pat Hilgendorf   828.230.4143                                                           828.645.9189

 

 

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EARLY MEMORY LOSS COLLABORATIVE
Three Support Groups for persons with early-stage memory loss,
facilitated by Jane Sherman and Mel Kelley
 
The Third Tuesday Group
Meets concurrently with the New Hope Caregiver Group above

 

   The First Thursday Group

1:00-3:00 p.m.

Biltmore Methodist Church

376 Hendersonville Road  Asheville, 28803

 (Exit 50 off I-40)

    

NEW!

The Highland Farms Group

9:30-11:30 a.m. on the second Tuesday of each month

(meets concurrently with the Memory Loss Caregivers of East Buncombe above)

  

Initial screening required for all early-stage groups. 
 
Early Memory Loss Collaborative is funded by grants from Land of Sky Regional Council
and an anonymous donor.
 
  For more information, contact Jane Sherman, 845.641.4680, or janeshermanllc@mac.com
 
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"CAREGIVER COLLEGE"

MemoryCare's educational series for caregivers, offered quarterly

 

A series of 6 two-hour lectures for caregivers of persons with memory disorders.  Sessions are designed to im-prove caregiver understanding of different aspects of dementia care. The instructor for the course will be a staff member of the MemoryCare team. Slides and handouts will be available. Space is limited, please register in advance.  There is no fee for caregivers enrolled in MemoryCare and for others, there is an attendance fee for the course.

 

4:00-6:00pm
MAHEC Educational Building, Balsam Room
For more information or to register, contact MemoryCare at 828.771.2219 or office@memorycare.org.

 

The current series started on June 26, 2012

 

The last series for 2012 will begin September 24 and will meet as follows: 

 

Monday, September 24  

Monday, October 1 

Monday, October 8 

Monday, October 15

Monday, October 22

Monday, October 29



 

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NOTABLE QUOTABLE

 

 

 ice cream sundae

 

"There is only one difference between a long life and a

good dinner:

that, in the dinner,

the sweets come last."

                             

 

    -  Robert Louis Stevenson

       

 

                 

Need a Speaker?
 

speaker at podium

 

                 Do you need a program for a group event? 

  

Public education is not only a part of the President's National Plan to Address Alzheimer's Disease, it's a part of MemoryCare's mission statement.

The MemoryCaregivers Network staff can provide speakers on a variety of subjects, including Recognizing Early Warning Signs of Memory Loss, Facts and Fiction about Dementia, Better Communication Techniques, and more.  

 

 

     Contact us at network@memorycare.org for more information.

 

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