 (translated from a Russian magazine) I had not noticed that I was gaining weight. But one day, I made a horrible discovery: my scale said 63 kg and my clothes didn't fit anymore. What was I going to do about it? I started doing sports and tried eating properly. After four monthsI lost 4 kg. But later, I couldn't do sports anymore because I had to be at home with my little guy and I couldn't work out at home because I lacked the self-discipline and organizational ability. I decided I would eat less. Over a six-month period, I lost another 5 kg. When I reached my normal weight, I gave up the control and my 5 kg all came back. But finally I understood that it was not about what I was eating or whether I was doing sports. My problem was in my head: it was about how I respond to the situations in my life. I read Lise Bourbeau's book, Just Listen to Your Body and Eat and I have now adopted several of the principles in this book.  1. I tried to love myself as I am (big) for now, with compassion for myself and with understanding, i.e., I eat like this because I do not know any other way of comforting myself. 2. When I want to eat, I ask myself, Do I really want to eat? If the answer is yes, I ask the question, What food do I really feel like eating? 3. When I eat for other reasons, I talk to my body with love and without feeling guilty, and without wanting to lose the extra weight as quickly as possible. I listened to my body's needs, accepting all my weaknesses regarding food, and I allowed myself to eat just whatever I wanted at any given moment without feeling guilty. And very soon, I understood that I had started to eat foods that were better for me and my weight started to drop. Now I weigh 53 kg, I eat everything I want and I have maintained this weight for more than 12 months. The Just Listen to Your Body and Eat book is available at these resellers (or ask your bookstore to order it): ISBN: 978-2-920932-30-2 Also available in 8 languages. Click here to discover them. |