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       September 3, 2013                OUTreach News!
This week at OUTreach!
Wednesday, September 4
 
Anti-Bullying Club 4:00
Ally Training - Part 1 of 3
Get certified as an ally! 
Part one: homophobia:  don't let it happen to you...

Healthy Sexuality Class 4:30
LGBT Jeopardy

Sample Question: Myths & Stereotypes for 200

Question - What is gaydar and is it accurate?  Answer -

Gaydar is the idea that you can tell if someone is gay by looking at them.  People often use lesbian and gay stereotypes to identify a person's sexual orientation, such as gay men are effeminate and lesbians are butch. A study conducted to see if people could accurately identify a person's sexual orientation after watching a series of videotaped interviews. Close to 80% of the subjects were unable to identify the person's sexual orientation (Berger et al, 1987). 
 
In the craft area:
Create abstract posters with paints and sharpies.  Jackson Pollack, look OUT! 



Delicious dinner: 5:30



Field Trip 6:00 to Ogden PFLAG. 
Special topic, LGBT youth homelessness with
Safe and 
Sound Project Director, Dr. David Moore
  
Plus: Free counseling with Dr. Ambrose and Dr. Kay, meet the new Weber State practicum students, pool, ping pong and foosball, lending library of books and movies, mentoring, educational and employment resources, cyber-center, and more!
  
Thursday, September 5
3:00 - 7:30 for ages 14 - 23

 
S'more Support Group, complete with peace, love, and golden cakes... 
What to expect at support group?
Check in time (What is something cool that happened to you or in the world this week, and something not so cool?) and then time for sharing and LOTS of wisdom and empathy.  We are all on a journey - sharing the load makes it easier and more fun.
 
 
 
LGBT Youth Spirituality - Part 4 of the discussion series  4:00
Video Short and Discussion:  Love is all you need  
Preview the film below, or wait and watch it with us!
Love is All You Need full length movie.mp4
Love is All You Need full length movie.mp4
 
5:00 Picnic in the Park!
Liberty Park, 22nd and Monroe, 5:15 - 7:15
Join OUTreach youth and volunteers for volleyball, pizza, basketball 
and whole lot of FUN! 

Teen Talk:  An Interview Inside Russia with Russian gay teens Nick and Mike
By OUTreach youth and
DaVinci Academy student, Lizzy Liggera
The topic this month that seems to be on everyone's lips? Russia.
Putin's Anti-Gay laws, enforced arrests, and the ravaging homophobia in Russia are almost barbaric to the world. But what does it look like from the inside. Nick and Mike (who have asked to be called this for safety's sake) are my two Russian pen-pals; both gay teens living in St. Petersburg, and agreed to a short interview about how this law affects them. Nick and Mike are both students, and help run a sort of underground GLBTQIA in Russia, and were more than happy to talk to me about it.

Q: What do you two think about the media explosion to do with Russia?
N: I sort of cringe when I hear that. I mean, in my mind, it's mostly Putin and the Police. I don't know how I feel about all the boycotting of the Russian products when it isn't the businesses. 
M: I mean, I think it's awesome. I think everything, including the boycotting, can only grab attention and make people actually stop and think about this issue. I don't think there really is any downside. All eyes on Putin, and his crazy homophobia, and hopefully people will start to notice his near-communist hold on the government. Or maybe that's just me.
N: But, I mean, most of the products being boycotted are, I think, alcohol (N was referring to the famous Chicago gay bar banning russian vodka) and I'm not sure it's right to do that. But anyway, I think the media explosion is awesome. Putin is under, really, universal criticism. 
M: Yeah, it's cool.

Q: Now, Putin also banned "Gay Propaganda". What?
M: I love that. Propaganda. I feel like we're fascist leaders or something.
N: Hey, let's be PC. But wow. I don't even know whats considered Propaganda. I know that Rainbow things, like flags and stuff, are a big no.
M: I mean, I guess any advertisements that have gay couples in it. 
N: I don't really think there are many of those. Maybe it's just a precaution? The specifics of the laws are always being debated. Putin, I think, is just taking precautions of the vaguest degrees.
M: Emphasis on vague. 
N: I'm thinking we should get some subliminal messages showing.
M: Oh yes, rainbow hearts during movies. We've got it all figured out!

Q: With that in mind, how does the Russian media handle this? Are there any demonstrations?
M: Afisha, which is a magazine here, did a big "Come out" issue. Rainbow cover and everything.
N: I hope they aren't shut down or something. And I don't know if you've heard of Anton Krasovsky, but he actually said he was gay, on TV!
M: It was insane. But everyone talks about it, just not real publicly. Us Russians love our gossip! Right?

Q: I hear a lot about how you can be reported as gay and if you don't tell someone, you're arrested.
N: It's terrible. In addition to how everyone ends up finger pointing-
M: No one wants to be a suspect, you know?
N: In addition to that when beating and such happens, people, and youth especially, are terrified to alert the authorities. You hear a lot about how Police sometimes just don't even show up if they think it's to do with GLBTQIA stuff. And that's true.

Q: And they come to you?
N: The teens? Yeah. 
M: It's really scary when it happens, and we can't do a lot.
N: I want to try and get some medical training, anything I can, just so I can help more. I mean, no one should have to get hurt like that and then stay quiet.
M: It really angers me. It angers a lot of people. 

Q: But you guys do a lot. 
N: I mean, it't the little things.
M: We aren't rich, but we have food and a couch to sleep on. And that's a lot, for some people.
N: And the knowledge that someone has your back.
M: It would be awesome if we could do more, but I think if we got any bigger, or advertised it in anyway...
N: The Police would come knocking.

Q: A lot of Russian teens are moving out of the country. What do you guys think?
N: I think get Putin out of here.
M: Send him to Antarctica or something.
N: But I don't know, this is not my home, it feels, anymore...Most of my friends are going to college in Germany or London, just so they can hold hands in a big city and not fear for their well being.
M: That's all I want. Being normal is good.
N: Yes, we could use normal. But a lot of people need us.

Have a question for Nick or Mike? Ask me (Lizzy) so I can e-mail them! 
Major support for Nick and Mike, who are so brave to do this in Russia. Links:
Jackson's Health Corner

Jackson's Health Tip of the Week:

 

We all know that cigarettes are bad for our health. But what about E-Cigs? They seem to be popping up everywhere and they are said to be a great tool to help you stop smoking. But are they really safe? Truth is, they are not monitored by the FDA which means that we have no idea what's in them. They could be even worse than smoking cigarettes. Play it safe. When looking to quit, only use FDA approved cessation methods. Try not to replace a habit with a habit.

Upcoming fun and awesome things!

September 4: PFLAG
From President Barb:
Ogden PFLAG will hold its monthly meeting on Wednesday 4 Sept at the Weber County Library, 2464 Jefferson in Ogden. The format of our meetings has changed a bit.  We will now have an educational/informative piece at 6:00 and our Support Group meeting will begin at 7:00.   This month we have David Moore from Safe & Sound coming to enlighten us on this great new program.  Safe & Sounds goals are to prevent homelessness of our LGBT youth and to provide emergency housing in the form of host homes when families are not able to stay together.  Please come and find out more about this awesome program.   If you have any questions please feel free to contact me at ogdenpflag@gmail.com.   

Barb D'Arco, President ~ Ogden PFLAG

 

American Foundation for Suicide Prevention Walk, September 14

Sugarhouse Park, starts at 9:00 am

Join the PFLAG Team!

 

 

Affirmation Conference, September 13 - 16

Keynoting the Saturday evening session will be Steve and Barb Young. Steve is well-known as a Hall of Fame quarterback, but he - along with Barb - are also known for their work with children's charities both here and abroad. Together they operate the Forever Young Foundation, a non-profit "focused on passing on hope and resources for the development, strength, and education of children."  Another commitment that the Youngs have had for many years is that of bringing more understanding and love to the LGBT community, beginning with the many gay and lesbian friends and family members that have blessed their lives. 

 

 You are invited to Utah's premier LGBT event - Equality Utah's 12th Annual Allies Dinner: Equality in My Community - an evening of inspiration, entertainment and action! Mark your calendar for Monday, September 16th to join us in honoring 2013 Allies Award recipients-Stephanie Pappas, Salt Lake City School Board, & Troy Williams.

Equality Utah's Board, staff, and volunteers work tirelessly to secure equal rights and protections for lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender Utahns and their families. Sponsors of Equality Utah's Allies Dinner: Equality in My Community directly support statewide advocacy efforts to end the discrimination against LGBT Utahns. 

About OUTreach
OUTreach Resource Center, provides educational, health and enrichment interventions, opportunities and support for 350 LGBT and allied youth ages 14-23 as well as community services for LGBT and allied adults.  
Our projects include:  
Community Safety

    Safe schools and anti-bullying education
    Diversity training for law enforcement & community organizations 
    Community events to educate and inform 
    LGBT awareness and cultural competency
    The Make it Better Now Project 

Safe at Home
     Safe and Sound Host Home Program 
     Suicide Prevention and Education throughout community
     Strengthening Families 

     Homelessness Youth Prevention/Education

OUTreach Center Programs
      Youth Leadership Training, Self-Efficacy and Capacity Building
      Health and Wellness
      Life Coaching, Mentoring and Professional Counseling
      Educational Advancement, Vocational Training and the Arts

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