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 REACH Parent Network Information Exchange.

November 29, 2012 

This information exchange, sponsored by Reach, is by parents for parents.  It's content is  guided by Reach's mission to provide choices for families,  be family centered, facilitate inclusion, and  exist as a quality resource.  The information is meant to meet the needs of a multitude of families' interests.  We caution readers that Reach does not investigate all claims, and that claims  made  are not necessarily endorsed or recommended by Reach. Readers are encouraged to undertake further investigation on their own of items noted. 

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ReachReach News
  • New Support Group for Reach Parents at Two Locations

    A recent Vancouver Sun article highlighted a disturbing trend in waitlists for mental health resources across the province (Click here to read article). Families in the province and here at Reach are waiting over a year for counselling services due to the need exceeding the resources.

    Almost four years ago Reach began a new program called Reach Counselling Services to address many issues that staff were seeing with parents and children in our programs relating to mental health issues including depression, anxiety, coping with loss, difficult family relationships and difficulty coping with life stressors. Currently this program is approximately one day a week with one counsellor, Yvonne McKenna, who reports,

                "In 2009 25 clients were seen in this program, but by 2011 39 clients were seen. Even with that number, there are many still on the waiting list which has resulted in fewer sessions per client and some new programs to address this wait."

                Starting in January 2013 there will be two parent/caregiver support groups for those who want to talk about anything related to parenting a child with special needs. The focus will be on coping skills, how to be an advocate without burning out, and surviving and thriving. New families to Reach and those who have been with us a long time are all invited.

                The North Delta group will be held on the second Tuesday of the month at our Play and Learn Centre at 11425 84th Avenue at 6:30 to 8:00pm. The South Delta group will be held on the fourth Wednesday of the month at our main Reach facility at #3 - 3800 72nd Street in Ladner at 6:30 to 8:00pm. All are welcome to attend either or both of the groups. These groups are also in addition to the ADHD Parent Support Group that meets at our South Delta office on the last Friday of the month.

                If you would like more information or would like to meet with Yvonne before the groups start, please call (604) 946-6622 Ext. 347.

     
     
  • NEW NAME for Kids Friendship Club - Social Smart Group - Learning Social Skills
    and Using them!  Social skills are one of the most important skills that children need to learn. More importantly, children need to have the opportunity to use the social skills they have learned. Social Smart Group is a program that provides a natural setting where children will be learning and practicing the social skills through playing, chatting, snacking, outing, and more.  Social Smart Group is a 1.5-hour program that runs once a week for 10 weeks. There will be 6 - 8  children in the group, programmed by one behaviour consultant and one group facilitator. Throughout the 10 weeks, our goal is to help strengthen your child's social skills by guiding, coaching, and supporting their social interaction with their peers.
    • Grade 2 - 4 boys and girls Time: Wednesday, 6pm - 7:30pm Dates: Jan 9 - March 13, 2013 Location: 10921 82nd Ave, North Delta Cost: $700 per child for 10 weeks
    • Grade 5 - 7 boys and girls Time: Tuesday, 6pm - 7:30pm Dates: Jan 8 - March 12, 2013 Location: 10921 82nd Ave, North Delta Cost: $700 per child for 10 weeks
    • Grade 8 - 12 boys and girls Time: Saturday, 10am - 1pm Dates: Jan 5 - March 9, 2013 Location: 10921 82nd Ave, North Delta Cost: $950 per child for 10 weeks.  Social Smart Group is a program that provides a natural setting where teens will be learning and practicing the social skills through playing, chatting, snacking, outing, and more. Social Smart Group is a 3-hour program that runs once a week for 10 weeks. There will be 10 teenagers in the group, programmed by one behaviour consultant and one group facilitator. 
    • **Most families use the autism funding to cover the cost of the program
    • Registration - please contact Carol Ywan TEL: 604-946-6622, ext 343 or
      Email here  
       
  • Parent Circle: Parent Support Circle is a free, monthly, confidential parent gathering with a focus on parenting children with ADHD or behaviour challenges. Led by trained facilitators. The last Friday of every month from 9:30 - 11:30 a.m.
    at Reach, #3 3800 72nd street Ladner
    To register call Lisa at 604-946-6622 ext.342 or email here
    or call Bella at 604-569-3110 or email here 
  • We're building a child development centre in the heart of the community  Click here  to find out how you can help.

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  • Parents/Caregivers of Special Needs Children in Surrey!  If your child has "special needs" (any special need, diagnosed or not), you are invited to join us for a district-wide meeting.  Our first meeting November 20 was a great success.  A second meeting will be held on January 15, 2013 (Tuesday) at 7pm at Surrey School District Administration Centre, 14033 92nd Avenue, Surrey BC.  The purposes of this group are:
    • to make sure that every parent/caregiver of a special needs child is aware of the resources available to them
    • to enhance communication in a positive way with the Surrey School District so we can work together to better assist our children
    • to create a support network for parents/caregivers of special needs children
  • Please share this information with as many people as you can and let's get the word out.  If you require additional information, please feel free to contact Bill Jensen, cell 604-835-7771 or email here

  

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AutismAutism            

  •  DSMV Controversy

  •  Lesson from a T-Rex.  Even though we are not supposed to have favorites, all teachers have a favorite student. This student is the one that we continue to wonder and think about years after we actually have this student in class. For me, this student is Justin. Oddly enough, when I first met Justin, in no way did I ever think that this child would become the one that found his way into that special place in my heart. Click here to read more 

      
     

     


  • Bridges Youth Development and Education Sessions!
      • Friday Night Hangout is an exciting new group that offers youth a safe and supportive environment to socialize with friends on a Friday night. Group members will have the opportunity to play video games, board games, air hockey, fooseball and other fun activities. There will also be arts & crafts, a great movie and great food!  Participating in social activities with friends presents youth with the opporunity to practice and apply a variety of skills in a practical context. Some of these skills include: learning to compromise, building friendships, problem solving, turn taking, and more. Most importantly, your youth will learn that being social is fun!
        • Ages: 12 - 18
          Cost: $45/night $270 full session  (6 nights)
          Time: 6:00 to 9:00 pm    Unit 401 14640 - 64 Avenue Surrey, BC
          Dates: Winter 2013  Fridays, January 11, 25, February 8, 22, March 8, 22
      • Life Skills Unlimited was created to assist youth and teens in developing attitudes and skills necessary to help them prepare for their future. It is designed for youth and teens with: Asperger's Disorder, High Functioning Autism, PDD NOS, Anxiety, or other social/behavioural needs. Our goal is to provide a variety of activities, discussions, and educational experiences that teach our group members skills and nurture independence. We believe that building on strengths helps to instil positive self esteem and teaches youth the confidence required to take charge of their own lives. Together we strive to build the philosophy that they have the ability to contribute to society and have a positive impact on the world around them.
        Ages: 12 - 18
        Cost: $30/hr = $60/night $600 full session
        (10 weeks) Thursday, January 10,17, 24, February 7, 14, 21, 28, March 7, 14
        Unit 401-14640 - 64 Avenue Surrey, BC
      • Teen Eatz.  Why Cook? teaches teamwork by working and sharing with others in the kitchen builds organizational skills builds confidence, responsibility and self esteem encourages creativity builds sensory skills through tasting, hearing, touching, smelling and seeing different foods builds a foundation for healthy habits and nutrition skills that will be carried on through adulthood fosters independence and life skill development teaches vocational skills  
        • Ages: 12 - 18
          Cost: $35/hr = $70/night $700 full session
          (10 weeks)Monday, January 7, 14, 21, 28 February 4, 11, 18, 25, March 4, 11
          Time: 6:00 to 8:00 pm   Unit 401- 14640 - 64 Avenue Surrey, BC
      • The Community HUB was created to assist teens in developing and practicing social skills and life skills in their own community. Through participating in fun, age-appropriate social/recreational activities, your teen will have the opportunity to build long lasting friendships, increase their confidence and develop independence.
        Group members will be given their own budgets, navigate menus and activity options, interact with community members & servers, practice making joint decisions with group members and more! The Community Hub is designed for youth and teens with: Asperger's Syndrome, Autism, PDD NOS, Anxiety, or other social/behavioural needs.
        • Ages: 12 - 18
          Cost: $30/hr = $90/evening = $180/session
          Time: 6:00 - 9:00 pm
           Friday, January 18, 2012 - Dinner and Laser Tag
          Friday, February 15, 2012 - Empire Movie Extravaganza
      
  • Click here for the ABA Support Network's Calendar of courses and events   
  • Fraser Valley Autism Society (FVAS) Click here for website!  
    •  The Fraser Valley Autism Society has resumed its free monthly meetings
      for the season. Meetings will alternate between Chilliwack and Abbotsford on a monthly basis.  For more information please visit Our website here or email HERE
      Karen Davis,President, Fraser Valley Autism Society


       

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ADD

ADD/ADHD 

  • ADHD Medication Can Lower Risk Of Criminal Behavior. People with attention deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD) are significantly less likely to engage in criminal behavior when they are taking medication.  Prior studies have indicated that individuals with ADHD have a higher chance of committing a crime. However, it is unknown how receiving treatment for the disorder may impact this risk.  Click here to read more
  •  Making Three Lists and Checking Them A Lot. 
    Break your seasonal to-do list into three master lists to ensure a smooth and joyous holiday.  For those of you who are impulsive and/or disorganized, making a "Holiday To-Do List" early is a must. Deciding what to put on it (and what NOT to put on it) however can be confusing. There are activities to schedule, parties to attend, gifts to buy and greetings to send. I suggest you break your holiday agenda down into three master lists. Click here to read more  
  • Taming Tics in Kids with ADHD.  If your child's stimulant meds give him a bad case of twitching or blinking, he may have an underlying tic disorder. Here's what to do about this common related condition. Joseph's mother called me in tears. He had come home from school upset because some of the kids teased him about his habit of blinking his eyes every couple of minutes. She did not know what to do. Joseph was taking Ritalin for his ADHD. Without it, he would occasionally run around the classroom and call out to his friend. Yet the medication, it seemed, caused him to blink his eyes. "We traded in one problem for another," Joseph's mom said. We agreed to stop the medication until we could meet and discuss things. Click here to read more 
  • When ADHD Kids Fidget: Better Focus Through Multitasking.  ADHD adults and children may actually concentrate, focus and stay on task better with a little foot-tapping, gum-chewing fidgeting.  "Focus!" "Mind over matter!" "You can do anything if you really want to!" "Just try harder!"  Adults and children with attention deficit disorder (ADHD) have all heard these exhortations, and have probably shared them with others struggling to concentrate at work or focus at school. The ADHD brain is indeed a powerful force for success.  But we know that relying on the brain can be frustrating and, at times, demoralizing. Our ADHD brains aren't our most reliable asset -- allowing distractions to break our focus. But what if there were strategies that could prime our brains beyond "just trying harder"? Click here to read more  
     

 

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 DOWNS  Down Syndrome  

  •  Athlete With Down Syndrome Wins Sports Illustrated Award.  The Hematites wouldn't be heading there without Eric Dompierre, a 19-year-old kicker with Down Syndrome who was almost kept off this year's team due to age limits set by the Michigan High School Athletic Association.  His father fought the inflexible rule all summer, and in August, the MHSAA finally approved a waiver allowing Eric to play this season as an extra-point specialist.  Sports Illustrated documented his inspirational story -- from the off-field drama to on-field bonds with teammates-- for its annual "underdogs" contest, allowing viewers to vote for his or other stories onlineCLick here to read more and to see a wonderful video!  
  • Down Syndrome Research Foundation: We have two spaces available in our One to One Reading program in Surrey starting next Thursday December 6th. The times available are 12:30-1:30 or 1:30-2:30.  This is a 12 week block and the cost is $780 or payable monthly at $260 per month. Full details can be found on the brochure on the programs area of the Down Syndrome Research Foundation website hereThis is an individualized reading program for students age 3 to adult in a one to one format.  We also have one spot available in Burnaby starting next Wednesday December 5th at 1:30-2:30.  Please contact Pat Hanbury email here or 604-444-3773 to register.
  • On February 25, 2013 we sail  5 nights on board Royal Caribbean's "Liberty of the Seas"  from Fort Lauderdale, Florida
    You, too, can participate in this one of a kind conference and have an amazing chance to meet other families to share this experience.  The Conference is open to families, educators and professionals.  What an opportunity to hear from our fantastic line up of speakers who offer solutions for  individuals with Down syndrome.  We will hear from Clinical Pharmacist Kent MacLeod, Dr. Norman Schwartz, Dr. Teresa Cody, Dr. Gregory De Silva, Kristen Morrison, Laurette Janak, Geralyn Spiesz, Lori Burgess, Brea Maday, Shannon Desilets, Linda Kane and Cyndi Ringoen.
    If you would like to join us, please do not delay in booking your stateroom(s).  Once this sailing is booked,  we  cannot add anymore to our Group.  Only bookings made through myself, Rosalie, or Fred Dehaas with Expedia CruiseShipCenters will ensure you have access to the Conference and speakers. 
    We have been adding families and getting calls within the last few weeks from those who have just found out about this Cruise.  Everyone is excited !  Please be sure and pass along this information to anyone who you think may be interested.
    Conference co-coordinator Andi Durkin will be joining us with her husband and son, Jett who is age 3 and has Down syndrome.  My family and I will also be there including our daughter, Whitney who is age 7 and has Down syndrome.   Fred & Cora Dehaas, grandparents of a child with Down syndrome, will be with us too and helping ensure everyone has a wonderful vacation.  We are looking forward to this unique Cruise Conference.
    My contact information can be found at this link, or email me directly Here!  or visit the website Here  
    • Rosalie Newell-Wagner, Director
      the BC Down Syndrome Community Society
  • You are Invited to a Delta Down Syndrome Support Group meeting: OUR GOALS ARE
    � To provide guest speakers (Reach therapists, community
    professionals and other programs) to discuss common issues
    � To provide support and information to families in Delta who
    have a child with Down Syndrome
    � To help connect parents of children with Down Syndrome
    � To provide monthly meetings for parents and their children
    � To provide on-site child minding while you attend the
    discussion
    When: First Thursday of each month
    Where: Reach Developmental Preschool North Delta
    10921 - 82nd Avenue, Delta, BC
    Time: 6:00pm - 7:30pm
    Cost: No charge
    Light refreshments provided
    Please RSVP to Sarah Garnham at 604-946-6622 extension 321.
    or email here 

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FASD

FASD

  • Society 'will feel impact' of Fetal Alcohol Spectrum Disorder.  First Nations leader says study needed to determine number of people affected by FASD. A First Nations leader said fetal alcohol spectrum disorder - also known as FASD - is an "alarming" problem amongst Canada's Aboriginal population.  Click here to read more 
  • 'We're just different'.  People living with fetal alcohol spectrum disorder live in every community and it takes an entire community to help people with FASD live happy, productive lives, says a young man with the disorder.  Rather than focusing on the bad things, "you need to know there are lots of people like me living with FAS who have a good life -- most days," Pakozdy said.  Click here to read more
  • Langley - FASD adoptive and foster parents. Monthly support group meetings for those with children who have Fetal Alcohol Spectrum Disorder (FASD). Info: Jamie, 604-530-5917.

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MedicalMedical 

 

  • The Kelty Mental Health Resource Centre and the FORCE Society for Kids' Mental Health are pleased to announce an amazing lineup of educational events for the first half of the year 2012.   Starting in January, we will be providing youth, families, educators and health professionals with opportunities to learn about topics from bullying, internet addiction, autism, cannabis use, and self-harm to developing self advocacy skills and involving dads in mental health care. These events are free of charge and open to everyone in British Columbia. To find out more about the dates, topics, and how you can join in, view our poster or visit our website HERE .  
    DECEMBER 6 Helping your Child/Youth Sleep Better
    Time Thursdays, 12-1pm (PST)
    Registration PHONE 604-875-2084 or 1-800-665-1822
    EMAIL HERE
    WEB HERE  
  • Mind Matters e-newsletter provides new resources and programs offered by Canadian Mental Health Association (CMHA) BC Division and is committed to the mental health of British Columbians. Click here for the current edition    

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Education

Education

 

  • You are invited to the Great Schools Teach-In:  How Should We Assess Our Schools? 
    Saturday, December 1 
    10 am to 12:30 pm-coffee from 9:30 
    Simon Fraser University Surrey Campus (Surrey Central Sky Train) 
    250 - 13450 - 102nd Avenue 
    The Great Schools Project is a collaboration among individuals who want to strengthen and protect public education in British Columbia. For almost four years, educators, parents, researchers, and leaders, both inside and outside the education system, have met to discuss how to improve the way we evaluate and assess our schools. 
    We feel the current system is both too narrow (focused on only a portion of the important work schools do) and too punitive (with substantial negative impact on individual students and educators). 
    After extensive discussions of the current system of Foundation Skills Assessment (FSAs) and their use to rank schools, the GSP working group has developed ideas about alternatives that would better serve both students and public schools. 
    The Great Schools Teach-In provides an opportunity for us to present some of these ideas and for you to debate them and provide your input. 
    Program: 
    1. 
    Alfie Kohn, 
    outstanding critic of standardized testing and proponent of richer ways of understanding how well our children and their schools are doing (by videocast). 
    2.  Speakers from the Great Schools Project 
    3.  Discussion and debate.
    Please RSVP to: Email here  For more information see our website here    

  • Parents/Caregivers of Special Needs Children in Surrey!  If your child has "special needs" (any special need, diagnosed or not), you are invited to join us for a district-wide meeting.  Our first meeting November 20 was a great success.  A second meeting will be held on January 15, 2013 (Tuesday) at 7pm at Surrey School District Administration Centre, 14033 92nd Avenue, Surrey BC.  The purposes of this group are:
      • to make sure that every parent/caregiver of a special needs child is aware of the resources available to them
      • to enhance communication in a positive way with the Surrey School District so we can work together to better assist our children
      • to create a support network for parents/caregivers of special needs children
    Please share this information with as many people as you can and let's get the word out.  If you require additional information, please feel free to contact Bill Jensen, cell 604-835-7771 or email here 
     
       

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Ministry

Ministry Information  

  • Community Living British Columbia:Responsible for delivering services and supports for adults with developmental disabilities
    •  CLBC Newsletter - The Citizen

      November 7th, 2012

      • In the new edition of The Citizen, you can read stories about Community Living Month, the include Me! and Start with Hi Initiatives, inclusive employment and much more!  Click here to read more 

         

  • Ministry of Housing & Social Development: Responsible for education and support payments, work programs, bus passes and health and dental benefits for persons with disabilities.
    •  Community Engagement Workshops:

      October - November 2012

      From Oct. 30 to Nov. 27, the Ministry of Social Development is hosting community engagement workshops in 14 communities throughout the province to get feedback on the proposed integrated service delivery model.

      Developing a more integrated service delivery system is an important part of the work that needs to be done to deliver on government's commitment to improve services for people with developmental disabilities and their families.

      Everyone's experiences and input counts so whether you're a self-advocate, a family member, service provider, health practitioner, educator or local government staff - your participation matters. Your feedback is important to ensure government is heading in the right direction with this proposed model.

      For more information about a workshop near you, please visit here  

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WorkshopsWorkshops and Training 

  • Supporting the Gifted in Coping with Sensory Overload.  We know that gifted children have heightened emotional and neurological sensitivity. The gifted child's powerful reaction to internal and external stimuli creates an intense and amplified experience of
    life. Modern neuroscience indicates that neural circuits, created daily, are greatly influenced by thoughts, feelings and emotions. Learn how to help your child understand and harness this heightened experience of life in order to flourish as learners and creators.P. Susan J Jackson, M.A., R.C.C. and Dr. Nareeta Stephenson, B.Sc., M. Chiro. are pleased to be
    offering an evening of information on drug free ways to help your child cope with
    over-excitabilities and thrive in a sensory world.
    • KENSINGTON PRAIRIE COMMUNITY CENTRE
      Multi Purpose Room- 16824 32nd Ave, Surrey, BC
      When: Wednesday, December 5, 2012 7:30-9:00 P.M.
      Cost: $15.00 per person
      Space is limited!
      Please reserve your seat at
      604-944-6002 or email email here
  • Pinwheel Education Series January-June 2013 Topics Lineup  
    • December 6 - Helping your Child/Youth Sleep Better
      A good night's sleep is important for maintaining good health. Sleeping problems are common among children and youth and can leave them feeling tired and irritable. If this goes on for too long, they may feel anxious or depressed. Join our panel of speakers as they discuss strategies parents, children and youth can use to improve the quality of their sleep.
      Date & time: Thursday - December 6, 2012 - 12-1pm (PST)
      JANUARY 31 Anger Management
      FEBRURARY 13 Grief & Loss
      MARCH 21 Cross Cultural - Infant Mental Health
      APRIL 11 Gender Identity
      MAY 23 Role of Recreation in Recovery
      JUNE 20 Parental Mental Illness
      Time: Thursdays, from 12-1pm
      Cost: Free, open to everyone!
      To join the teleconference:
      Telephone: DIAL 1.877.291.3022, enter CODE 4611577#, press *6 to mute after
      you are connected
      Questions? Contact us:
      PHONE 604.875.2084 TOLL-FREE 1.800.665.1822 or email here 
  • RDSP Workshop (New Westminster)
    Tuesday, December 11, 2012 - 1:00pm - 3:00pm
    Registered Disability Savings Plan PLAN in partnership with Family Support Institute Family Support Institute, 227 6th Street, New Westminster (604) 540-8374 ext 521
  • RDSP Workshop (Langley)
    Wednesday, December 12, 2012 - 7:00pm - 9:00pm
    Registered Disability Savings Plan
    PLAN in partnership with Family Support Institute Walnut Grove Secondary School, 8919 Walnut Grove Drive, Langley (604) 882-0220
  • TRANSITION COORDINATOR & PATH TRAININGS: ($250) *Please read the flyer carefully, as this event is an intensive training designed for PROFESSIONALS wanting to become Transition Coordinators.The role of "Transition Coordinator" is both challenging and rewarding as it can be one of the most important roles in helping a team, and a Teen to succeed. Transition Coordinators play the part of team leader, case manager, planner, organizer, and guide to building and supporting a great Transition Team for each teen. Transition Coordinators often commit to 1, 2, or even 3 years of giving monthly support to a Teen's Team.PATH is a creative planning tool which inspires collaboration and unites all participants in a visioning and planning process. A "PATH Facilitator" is a person specifically trained to support families through this process in a way that will generate clarity,
    conviction, and direction for the journey ahead. Being a PATH Facilitator requires a commitment of approximately 5 hours per teen, at a minimum.
    This workshop offers COMPREHENSIVE TRAINING to people wishing to become "Transition Coordinators", "PATH Facilitators" or both, by integrating PATH into our Teen Transition Planning system. All participants will learn how to use this powerful
    combination of tools for use in supporting teens and their families through this challenging stage of life. ~ Abbotsford, BC:  Dec 11, 12, 13, 2012 (Tues, Wed, Thur) 8:30 to 3:30  Click here for more information 
  • Leaving High School....What's Next?  For Parents.  How do you prepare for this big change in your son's or daughter's life? This workshop is designed to help families understand how to prepare for their son's or daughter's transition from high school into a full life in the community. Drawing on the experiences of many parents and professionals, we will discuss roles and responsibilities, the planning process, planning tools and available resources and services.  DCLS Resource Centre Saturday January 2013 9:00 am - 3:00pm Facilitated by Wendi Mackintosh from the Family Support Institute.  For more information please contact Si Stainton here or call her at 604-952-6490
  • 16th Annual Children the Heart of the Matter Conference
    February 1 & 2, 2013
    Bell Performing Arts Centre, Surrey
    We're excited to announce that our conference brochure is now available and registration is open. To view the list of workshops and keynote speakers please download the conference brochure. Registration is available through our website HERE 
  • Mentorying Boys: BOYS CAN WRITE: Unity Church, 5840 Oak Street, Vancouver   February 2, 2013 (9am - 1pm)  2 for 1 pricing until December 15   Outstanding Value! 
    This NEW workshop is for parents AND teachers. Some of the agenda topics addressed:
    * Why do different boys need different strategies?
    * How to address the link between moving and writing?
    * How to respond to boys who write about violence?
    * How to write less so boys will write more?
    * How do we make writing more relevant for boys?
    * How can we ignite boys' enthusiasm to WRITE? Click here to register or for more information 
  • Introduction to the Assessment of Functional Living Skills - The AFLSTM.  Friday, February 8th - Vancouver
    8:00 a.m. to 4:00 p.m.
    Presented by: James W. Partington, Ph.D., BCBA-D
    Individuals of all ages need to learn many critical functional living skills in order to successfully participate in a wide range of home, school and community-based activities. This workshop will provide participants with the knowledge, skills, and tools to analyze and track a learner's functional living skills and develop an individualized intervention program to help a learner become less dependent upon assistance from others.
    The Assessment of Functional Living Skills (The AFLSTM) reviews over 900 skills in 32 functional areas, such as; traveling in the community, making purchases, seeking assistance as required, preparing meals, helping with household chores, and participating in social and leisure.  Click here for more information 
  • Families Promoting Employment First:  For Parents and Professionals

    This is designed to support families to develop a vision for employment with their sons or daughters, and to stimulate thinking about how families and their supporters could build an employment focus into planning for and with their sons' or daughters' future.

    The first workshop (1/2 day) will focus on preparing, planning and pursuing employment. 

    The second workshop (1/2 day) will encourage an employment thinking perspective and approach and will provide families with examples and ideas to support them to profile, promote and support their sons and daughters towards employment. Saturday February 23, 2013 9:00am - 3:30pm at the DCLS Resource Centre.Facilitated by Rachelle Czerwindki of the Family Support Institute.  For more information please contact Si Stainton here or call 604-952-6490 

       
  • Friend2Friend: Facilitator's Workshop: Register Now!
    March 1 & 2, 2013 9am-4pm
    The Friend 2 Friend Facilitator's Workshop is a two-day workshop designed to support those who wish to implement the Friend 2 Friend Autism Demystification Packaged Programs entitled Can I Play Too? Autism Demystification Puppet Packaged Program and Demystifying Autism: The Friend 2 Friend Simulation Game Program in inclusive community settings to children ages 3 through 18. Click here for more information 
  • Getting Ready for the Real World How Schools & Families Can Prepare Adolescents with Autism for the Social Challenges of Adulthood.  Children with ASD grow up, and as the numbers of adolescents and adults with ASD expand, we need to consider how to prepare them for the challenges of adult life. This presentation will provide an overview of the components of effective, behavioral analytic intervention with older learners.  Specific topics include community transition, employment, behavior support, healthy sexuality, and quality of life.Friday, March 8th - Vancouver Presented by: Peter Gerhardt, Ed.D.Click here for more information 
  • Mentoring Boys:How to talk so boys will listen and listen so boys will talk...   Vancouver, March 9, 2013 
    Barry MacDonald's most popular parenting workshop will provide  you with practical wisdom to strengthen your parenting and mentor your son into a man of courage and compassion.  
    "This workshop changed our family life. I had no idea how frequently I was frustrating my son by expecting him to listen and attend to me in ways that were counterproductive. My son now smiles at me when I suggest that we should go for a walk to talk about a charged issue."
    Rebecca Williams, Calgary  Click here for more information or to register

     
  • Touch Therapy for Liddle Kidz™ with Autism (ASD).  Finally, an advanced pediatric massage therapy training program for healthcare professionals who wish to provide touch therapy for children with Autism (ASD). The Liddle Kidz™ Foundation course is an intense, fun and effective way to advance your pediatric massage therapy skills and embrace children who have been diagnosed with one of many developmental disorders that includes autism, Asperger's Syndrome, attention deficit disorder (ADD), attention deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD), pervasive development disorder (PDD), and nonverbal learning disorder (NLD).  Founded by master teacher and philanthropist Tina Allen, the Liddle Kidz™ Foundation offers a new, comprehensive, research based training course and teaches students what they really need to know to become an advanced professional in the area of pediatric massage therapy.  Any experienced healthcare professional will tell you that there is a world of difference between learning how to massage a child from a book or DVD, and knowing how to provide the best care to meet a child and families needs, however, there are few opportunities to learn the skills they really need from a working healthcare professional who has provided infant and pediatric massage education throughout the world.   
  • Transition Planning and CLBC: Tuesday April 9, 2013 6:30pm - 8:00pm at the DCLS Resource Centre. Facilitated by CLBC For more information please contact Si Stainton here or call 604-952-6490    
  • Transition Planning and CLBC:  Tuesday April 16, 2013 6:30pm - 8:00pm at the DCLS Scott Road Connections.  Facilitated by CLBC For more information please contact Si Stainton here or call 604-952-6490  
     

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  • Holiday meal suggestions.  Holidays are supposed to be Norman Rockwell picture-perfect moments: The extended family gathered 'round the heavily laden table with an enormous turkey, everyone happy and thankful. The only mischief involves children peeking through their fingers during the prayers. Okay, now back to reality! Frankly, how often is it really like that for any family, much less AS families like ours? Before we bask in cruel disappointment, with a little planning you can swing the odds in your favor to have a happy family holiday after all. Click here for some great tips from Kristi Sakai! 
       
  • Solutions to Your ADHD Holiday Problems.  How to streamline and organize your holiday activities to maximize fun and minimize stress. Have you ever seen a kid in a candy store -- or been one yourself? That's what the holiday season is like for adults with attention deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADD/ADHD). With so many things to do, sights to see, festivities to attend, it's tempting to try to do everything. As one of my clients put it, "I've never met an idea I didn't like." Of course, you can't do everything, and trying to do so will turn what should be a joyous season into a three-month whirlwind of stress and anxiety. Click here to read more    
  • Looking for a Holiday Family Photo - Check out Tara's website :here - She has beyond reasonable rates - She is the Purple Butterfly Photographer! 
     
  • Christmas Programs at Deltassist are Gearing Up!             
    Please mark these important dates on your calendar:            
    �       Christmas program registration opens - November 5th 
    �       Toy Depot dates - December 11th, 12th and 13th 
    �       Christmas Hamper deliver date - Saturday December 22nd 
    �       Deadline to register for the Toy Depot - December 7th 
    �       Deadline to register for a Hamper - December 14th 
    You can download all our Christmas forms or get more information about all the Christmas programs and activities here 
  •  Vancouver Special Children's Christmas Party. 
    The party is FREE and will be held at 11 am on December 8th, 2012 at the Vancouver Convention Centre for three fun-filled hours. The party includes a continuous stage show featuring celebrities and performing artists, rides, activities, wandering entertainers, face painting and free prizes. The children will also be provided with a healthy lunch and will be met by Santa in his toy room, filled with thousands of excellent quality toys, where they will each receive three gifts to take home with them.  
    The Party is being hosted by Virgin 95.3 and Special Events Management Canada, who are modeling the event on parties that have been held successfully in Australia and New Zealand for over 25 years.To provide you with an idea of what you and your special needs child(ren) will experience on the day, please visit our website here. The goal of the event is to provide more than 1600 special needs children with a day they will never forget! 
    The deadline for requests for invitations is OCTOBER 30, 2012. The invitations will be mailed to you closer to the date of the party. Please note that it is unlikely that late requests for invitations can be filled. If you have any questions, please contact me by email here, or call 604-358-5265 or 306-220-9988.
  • Holiday Open House

    • Wednesday, December 12, 2012 * 1 - 3 pm
    • Hosted by Community Living BC Surrey Delta
    • 604-501-8307
    • 15132 62A Ave.
    • Surrey, BC

    Parking is available at Sullivan Hall 1 block to the east.

    Please RSVP by December 1, 2012  

  • DCLS Christmas Party:  at the Kinsman Building 5:30pm - 10:00 pm December 13, 2012  For more information please contact Si Stainton Here or call her at 604-952-6490 
     

 

 

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  • Reality check on teen suicide. 

    VICTORIA - If you find Premier Christy Clark's campaign against teen bullying to be superficial or even self-serving, I've got news for you. It's potentially worse than that.

    With the greatest respect to the family of Amanda Todd, her tragic case isn't representative of teen suicide any more than it is typical of high-school bullying.

    A clearer and more disturbing picture emerges from the latest report of B.C.'s Representative for Children and Youth, Mary Ellen Turpel-Lafond. It's a survey of 89 child protection cases from 2007 to 2010, where 15 kids killed themselves and the rest inflicted serious self-injury, in some cases repeatedly.  Click here to read more
  • VIDEO!  Athlete With Down Syndrome Wins Sports Illustrated Award.  The Hematites wouldn't be heading there without Eric Dompierre, a 19-year-old kicker with Down Syndrome who was almost kept off this year's team due to age limits set by the Michigan High School Athletic Association.  His father fought the inflexible rule all summer, and in August, the MHSAA finally approved a waiver allowing Eric to play this season as an extra-point specialist.  Sports Illustrated documented his inspirational story -- from the off-field drama to on-field bonds with teammates-- for its annual "underdogs" contest, allowing viewers to vote for his or other stories online.  Click here to read more and see the video 
  • Parenting Style Has Big Impact On Kids With Disabilities.The approach that parents take with their children who have developmental disabilities is directly tied to how cooperative and independent they become, new research suggests. In an analysis of existing studies looking at the influence of parenting on children with special needs, researchers found that when moms and dads employed so-called positive parenting, their kids exhibited greater independence, better language skills, stronger emotional expression and social interaction as well as improved temperament.  Click here to read more 
      
  • Bridges Youth Development and Education Sessions!
    • Friday Night Hangout is an exciting new group that offers youth a safe and supportive environment to socialize with friends on a Friday night. Group members will have the opportunity to play video games, board games, air hockey, fooseball and other fun activities. There will also be arts & crafts, a great movie and great food!
      Participating in social activities with friends presents youth with the opporunity to practice and apply a variety of skills in a practical context. Some of these skills include: learning to compromise, building friendships, problem solving, turn taking, and more.Most importantly, your youth will learn that being social is fun!
      • Ages: 12 - 18
        Cost: $45/night
        $270 full session  (6 nights)
        Time: 6:00 to 9:00 pm    Unit 401 14640 - 64 Avenue Surrey, BC
        Dates: Winter 2013  Fridays, January 11, 25, February 8, 22, March 8, 22
    • Life Skills Unlimited was created to assist youth and teens in developing attitudes and skills necessary to help them prepare for their future. It is designed for youth and teens with: Asperger's Disorder, High Functioning Autism, PDD NOS, Anxiety, or other social/behavioural needs. Our goal is to provide a variety of activities, discussions, and educational experiences that teach our group members skills and nurture independence. We believe that building on strengths helps to instil positive self esteem and teaches youth the confidence required to take charge of their own lives. Together we strive to build the philosophy that they have the ability to contribute to society and have a positive impact on the world around them.
      Ages: 12 - 18
      Cost: $30/hr = $60/night $600 full session
      (10 weeks) Thursday, January 10,17, 24, February 7, 14, 21, 28, March 7, 14
      Unit 401-14640 - 64 Avenue Surrey, BC
    • Teen Eatz.  Why Cook? teaches teamwork by working and sharing with others in the kitchen builds organizational skills builds confidence, responsibility and self esteem
      encourages creativity builds sensory skills through tasting, hearing, touching, smelling and seeing different foods builds a foundation for healthy habits and nutrition skills that will be carried on through adulthood fosters independence and life skill development teaches vocational skills  
      • Ages: 12 - 18
        Cost: $35/hr = $70/night $700 full session
        (10 weeks)Monday, January 7, 14, 21, 28 February 4, 11, 18, 25, March 4, 11
        Time: 6:00 to 8:00 pm   Unit 401- 14640 - 64 Avenue Surrey, BC
    • The Community HUB was created to assist teens in developing and practicing social skills and life skills in their own community. Through participating in fun, age-appropriate social/recreational activities, your teen will have the opportunity to build long lasting friendships, increase their confidence and develop independence.
      Group members will be given their own budgets, navigate menus and activity options, interact with community members & servers, practice making joint decisions with group members and more! The Community Hub is designed for youth and teens with: Asperger's Syndrome, Autism, PDD NOS, Anxiety, or other social/behavioural needs.
      • Ages: 12 - 18
        Cost: $30/hr = $90/evening = $180/session
        Time: 6:00 - 9:00 pm
         Friday, January 18, 2012 - Dinner and Laser Tag
        Friday, February 15, 2012 - Empire Movie Extravaganza
  • Special Olympics BC is a sport organization for individuals with intellectual disabilities. Our mission 'is to provide individuals with intellectual disabilities opportunities to enrich their lives and celebrate personal achievement through positive sport experiences'.Two new programs we are adding to Vancouver are called Active Start and FUNdamentals.Active Start is a program for children aged 2-6. The goal of this program is to teach basic motor skills like running, jumping, throwing, balancing etc. while having fun and interacting with peers. FUNdamentals is similar to Active Start but is for youth aged 7-11. During this program, we focus on basic sport skills like throwing (over and under hand), dribbling, kicking, batting, catching etc. They are both extremely fun programs and we are excited to bring this to the Vancouver local.Our new program is starting April 15th and will be taking place each Sunday at the Hastings Community Centre. It will run from 1-2pm and will be 12 weeks long.There is a fee of $15 for the entire program and this includes a t-shirt for each athlete. Click here for more information 
  • CALLING FOR ARTWORK!  WE are Community: Defining Inclusion
    May 22-25, 2013, Sheraton Wall Centre Hotel, Vancouver, BC
    The 2013 BCACL Conference Planning Committee is seeking submissions of visual artwork and photography from self advocate artists and artists with developmental disabilities. The theme of this year's conference is "WE are Community: Defining Inclusion". Together, united, we are able to build and grow as a movement. The artwork will be used on the cover of the 2013 Conference Program and on other promotional materials.  The art must be created by a self advocate or a person with a developmental disability who is willing to give us permission to use the image of their artwork in these materials.
    To submit a piece of art, send an email here that includes the artist's name and contact information and a scanned image or photo of the art here by January 11, 2013.
    You could also mail a photo with the artist's name and contact information to Charlotte Kates c/o BCACL, 227 6th Street New Westminster, BC V3L 3A5.

     
  • Planning for the Future Part 1. Today I'm bringing to you the first in a series of posts about estate planning and long term savings for your special needs child.

    We all worry about our kids and wonder what will happen to them as adults. CLBC is a complete mess at the moment and offers very little to a disabled child transitioning to adulthood. There exists a bare bones disability benefit known as the "Persons with Disabilities" or PWD benefit, but at about $900 per month this doesn't make for an existence with any luxuries. Click here to read more and see parts 2 and 3 

      
  • Click here for the current DELTA ASSIST EVENTS!  
  • FROM BACI: HandyCard news: HandyCARDS expiring on December 31st 2012 will not be renewed.  When the COMPASS CARD is introduced in 2013 a new access card will be required for people with disabilities. Everyone should continue to use their expired HandyCARDS until Compass Cards are introduced. For more information please contact:
    Linda McGowan, Consumer Advocacy Manager, MVT Canadian Bus Inc.
    Email here or call 778.772.4432
  • BCACL; "Values, Vision and Action" retreat for families in January, 2013 Do you dream of a good life for your family member with an intellectual disability? Do you struggle to achieve this dream? You are not alone. Many families are searching for ways to make their dreams a reality. Join us for a weekend of connecting, learning and sharing with others. Join BCACL, with the Canadian Association for Community Living, for a three-day retreat in Loon Lake.  Email Jeremy Vis at BCACL for an application form: Here 
  • 2013 Special Olympics BC Summer Games to be held in Langley! We are pleased to announce that the 2013 Special Olympics BC Summer Games will be held in the Township of Langley from July 11 to 14, 2013, with the support of the Township and the Langley School District. The Games will feature more than 1,100 Special Olympics athletes from the eight SOBC regions and the Yukon competing in 11 summer sports: 5- and 10-pin bowling, aquatics, athletics, basketball, bocce, golf, rhythmic gymnastics, powerlifting, soccer and softball. Athletes will show their love of sport and their inspiring sportsmanship as they compete for the opportunity to advance to the 2014 Special Olympics Canada Summer Games, which will be held in Vancouver.  Click here to read more   
  • Langley Parent Support! The FiT Network Society A Social Educational Network created to get Families in Touch. Monthly FiT meets, seasonal family fun events and casual coffee nights provide opportunities for families who have children with special needs to "Get FiT*" - *Families in Touch. Click here for their website and current events
  •  DCLS and DFAN present: In Transition: Delta Parents of Youth with Developmental Disabilities
    • Do you have a child with a developmental disability in Grade 10 or above?
    • Do you wonder what will happen when High School is over?    

    Come and meet other parents, share ideas and experiences and

    Begin to plan for your son's or daughter's future. 

    We meet Saturday morning, 9.30 - 12.30, most months either in Ladner or North Delta:

    North Delta location: Delta Community Living Society, Scott Road Connections, #105-7953 Scott Rd.(behind the Greek Village Restaurant), North Delta, BC, V4C 6P6

    Ladner location: Delta Community Living Society, #1 -3800-72nd Street, Delta, BC, V4K 3N2

    • To find out more information about these events, please contact Si Stainton, Delta Community Living Society, Family Services LiaisonEmail here  , 604-952-6490 or visit our website Here
  • Barry McDonald's BOYSMARTS Current Newsletter -
    To help boys develop their full potential we need to respect and affirm the ways they can shine. What do boys need to develop their love for literacy? How can we engage them to write because they want to? This month's article features the voices of a family that I interviewed at the new Boys Can Write! workshop.

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