Behind the Scenes                                                         May 2016

FIVE FAST WAYS
Please select one of these ways to support 
life-affirming decisions at St. Joseph PRC. 

1. Attend a Behind the Scenes Tour and Lunch on Thursday, June 23 at 12:00 pm
Be informed about the services St. Joseph PRC provides to the community 
and enjoy lunch. Call 816-387-8090 to make a reservation.

2. Ask your church or organization to participate in Baby Bottle Blessings.  15%  of the St. Joseph PRC operating budget comes from groups donating coins, cash and checks to support services to help women in crisis pregnancies and abortion recovery.

3. Intentionally pray!  Bring the St. Joseph PRC Prayer Board to your church or host a Prayer GatheringContact us to be a St. Joseph PRC prayer warrior.

4. Donate newborn outfits or diapers for layettes which are given to mothers who attend parenting classes. Bring donations to the back entrance at 1502 N. 36th St. 
Monday - Thursday 9:00 am - 5:00 pm or Fridays 9:00 am  - 12:00 pm

5. Shopping online?  Buy from Amazon Smile (smile.amazon.com). 
Select St. Joseph PRC as your supporting charity and a portion of your 
purchase will help crisis pregnancies in our community.

Call today to be involved. 816-387-8090.




It never gets old. It goes something like this: 
a girl comes in and wants to pursue an abortion, but she keeps coming back for her repeat ultrasounds and eventually, she chooses life.
Sounds simple, doesn't it? Each woman arriving at the clinic is like starting a new book. A new chapter is added each week. In some cases we don't get to finish the book on this side of eternity. We feel like we're just getting to the good part and then, we're left waiting and wondering. 
There are times, though, when God reveals the outcome of the story to us in the most unexpected way.
 
Maria arrived for her appointment one beautiful afternoon. She and a friend of hers sat and chatted happily in the waiting room as they were waiting for her appointment to get started. There was nothing out of the ordinary about the first appointment. Maria told the advocate that this was not a good time for   a baby, and she needed to know where she could get an abortion. 
Since the center does not perform or refer for abortion, the advocate stated that this was a service which we do not provide. Maria accepted this, but didn't change her mind. Even though she laughed when hearing the heartbeat of her 5-week, 5-day-old baby, she still wanted to abort. Maria did agree to look at the baby models and take pictures, though. She also agreed to make an appointment the next week for her STD results and another look at her tiny baby.
 
Returning the following week for her STD results, Maria remained firm in her decision to abort the baby. The pregnancy was progressing as it should, but Maria was not laughing in the ultrasound room this time. She was quiet, emotionless. Although she did want to take pictures with her, she rejected the baby models. It wasn't looking good, but Maria said she would return the following week for another look at her, now, 6-week, 5-day-old baby.
 
Things appeared to be going downhill by the third appointment. Maria was very quiet during the third ultrasound, but she had a few tears in her eyes-the first real emotion she had shown outwardly. Despite the tears, Maria would not look at the models or take pictures. It was during the third appointment that Maria disclosed she had an abortion scheduled in two weeks.
 
By this time, the prayers were flying to God. The advocate, who was heart-broken about the situation, knows the power of prayer. Going into high-gear, prayer-warrior mode, the advocate kept asking God to help Maria choose life. Maria would have one more divine appointment with our center before going to her abortion appointment.
 
It was a little surprising to see Maria arrive the following week with her boyfriend. While this is usually a very good sign that things are about to change, Maria said she planned to keep her abortion appointment. Her boyfriend, who was also in favor of aborting this baby, observed the ultrasound, which revealed a 9-week-old baby. Maria wanted to view the models this time and she chose to take pictures with her. Perhaps she wanted a memory of her child or wanted to compare the growth of the baby from the first ultrasound. We don't know. You can imagine the sadness that was felt as Maria left the center that day.

Almost an entire month passed by with no news of Maria. It was time for us to let go and continue trusting the big God we serve. We had done everything we could do. This was a hard place to be in, but as we have said before, absolutely the best place for God to get the glory only He deserves. How good He is to let us see "the rest of the story." Here's how it happened. During a day when the clinic was not seeing appointments, Maria drove up. Our hearts gave a leap. What was she doing here? A staff member met her in the waiting area, asking Maria, "How can we help you today?"
 
Maria replied, "I need to know if you can help me or tell me where to go to get insurance and prenatal care."
 
Maria was not aware of this, but a very excited staff member knew who she was and what her story was, as well. "So are you planning to go on and get prenatal care?"
 
"Yes."
 
"I can help you with that!" Resources were given to Maria, and she even expressed interest in the parenting classes, if they didn't conflict with work.
 
As stated at the beginning, this never gets old. We love God's victories, we love watching God surprise us, and we love Him.  He chooses to use what looks hopeless, to remind us that nothing is impossible for God.

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In May, we met the new bundles of joy to those attending My Baby & Me classes. We hosted a Mom's Night Out which included CPR infant training. These women are becoming confident mothers.


The 2nd annual St. Joseph PRC Golf Tournament was held at Duncan Hills in Savannah on May 13.  We are grateful to Bob Conard, Tournament Chairman, and Terry Conard for tirelessly coordinating every detail.  Special thank you to all golf participants, volunteers, financial sponsors and retailers who provided giveaways to make this a successful day! 
  



Libby Owens, Executive Director, and Terry Conard, Volunteer Coordinator, reported to Show Me Women Who Care on the use of their contributions toward curriculum updates, class promotional materials, and Mom's Night Out events for class participants.



Thank you to Kiwanis Club of St. Joseph for coordinating the World's Largest Baby Shower with Apple Market. The donations will provide 19 babies with a package of diapers, wipes and a baby item.
 
We are also thrilled to have support from fundraisers at Charming Charlie and Texas Roadhouse.  

 

St. Joseph PRC was looking better after realtors and employees from Keller Williams spent the morning assisting with yard work and special projects.  We appreciate their help as they served the community on Red Day.



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May Church of the Month
St. Mary's Parish 

St. Joseph PRC is blessed to have support from churches in the community.  We exist to offer hope to pregnant, at risk and post abortive women.  As area churches have encouraged St. Joseph PRC, we have persevered to fulfill our mission. It is a great joy to share the sanctity of human life message with area congregations.
In this Marian month, St. Mary's Parish is recognized as the 
St. Joseph PRC Church of the Month. Even in the midst of transition, the church has continued to help the PRC through the Baby Bottle Blessings campaign.  We are grateful for their involvement.  St. Mary's Parish has been bringing Jesus Christ to the people of the St. Joseph area since 1891. Thank you to Father Terry Bruce and the congregation of St. Mary's for compassionately caring for the unborn and those in crisis pregnancies. 
May God bless you for being a friend to St. Joseph PRC.
St. Mary's Parish
606 N. 2nd Street St. Joseph, MO 64505
816-279-1154
email.stmary@gmail.com
website: marysparish.com
Mass Times:  Saturdays 4:00 pm   Sundays 10:30 am


Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good. 
Romans 12:21


BE INFORMED
Is Abortion Needed to Save the Life of the Mother?
A Featured Article by Dr. Elizabeth Dean

"Hard cases make bad law," an old legal saying, describes the process by which the United States has found itself with abortion on demand throughout all nine months of pregnancy. 

Hard cases, for the abortion controversies, include the life or health of the mother, rape, and incest.  Historically, when abortion laws began to be liberalized, protecting the life of the mother was usually included in the justification.  Worldwide today, in countries where abortion is prohibited, many include the mother's life as an exception for which abortion is permitted.  In the United States as of 2012 this hard case was rare, cited 0.1% as the reason for the abortion.

So, let's consider the question, Is abortion needed to save the life of the mother?

Pro-life politicians can get into trouble with the media and the public for offering the opinion that it is not necessary.  In USA Today, 2012, U.S. Rep. Joe Walsh, R-I'll. Was quoted by reporters as saying that "advances in science and technology had eliminated any need for abortions to save the lives or health of women."  Further, that "Health of the mother has become a tool for abortions anytime, for any reason."

The medical professionals who were consulted countered.  The American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists issued this statement:  "Abortions are necessary in a number of circumstances to save the life of a woman or to preserve health.  Unfortunately, pregnancy is not a risk-free life event.

An alternative opinion is offered in a statement issued by the Association of Pro-Life Physicians.  "When the life of the mother is truly threatened by her pregnancy, if both lives cannot simultaneously be saved, then saving the life of the mother is the primary aim.  If through our careful treatment of the mother's illness the pre-born patient inadvertently dies or is injured, this is tragic and, if unintentional, is not unethical and is consistent with the pro-life ethics.  But the intentional killing of an unborn baby by abortion is never necessary."

Further support for the this position comes from a pro-choice Ob-Gyn, Dr. Alan Guttmacher who was Planned Parenthood's president for over a decade until his death in 1974.  In his book, The Case for Legalized Abortion Now (1967), he stated, "Today it is possible for almost any patient to be brought through the pregnancy alive, unless she suffers from a fatal illness such as cancer or leukemia, and if so, abortion would be unlikely to prolong, much less save life."

Former Surgeon General C. Everett Koop also supported this position when he stated (1980) "In my thirty-six years in pediatric surgery, I have never known one instance where the child had to be aborted to save the mother's life.

We know that Rep. Walsh's reference to the life of the mother as a "tool for abortion any time and any place" is born out by the Doe v Bolton decision (1973) which followed Roe v Wade.  The court ruled that abortion for the "health of the mother " could not be restricted, while adopting a very broad definition of what may relate to health.  This effectively made abortion legal through all nine months of pregnancy for almost any reason.  The United States is now one of 61 countries who offer abortion without restriction.  Yes, the health of the mother was a tool for abortion anytime, anyplace.

How do we know the truth about the question we are pondering?  We cannot look to the U.S. abortion data and reporting system because, unlike many other countries, it relies completely on voluntary reporting.  No federal law requires the reporting of abortion numbers, complications, or deaths.  Only two national organizations collect abortion data in the U.S.:  1). CDC, a federal government agency, and 2) a private abortion advocacy group, The Alan Guttmacher Institute.  Reporting of abortion data is completely voluntary and not all states participate.  Only 26 states require providers to report injuries and complications.  Therefore, do we have only opinions to provide us answers to our question?

We do have excellent data from Ireland, a country which has never legalized abortion.  According to a report on Maternal Mortality by the World Health Organization, UNICEF, UNFPA, and the World Bank (2007), Ireland is one of the safest places in the world for a mother to have a baby. Ireland has one of the lowest rates of maternal mortality in the entire world, proof that a country can protect women and children without access to abortion.

Yet, there is currently tremendous pressure being exerted in Ireland by the Labour Party and other abortion campaigners.  Abortion is being sold to the people under the guise of "maternal health," convincing people it is needed to "save women's lives."  Sound familiar?

Out of this controversy came the Dublin Declaration on Maternal Health (2012), issued by over 150 medical professionals attending an international symposium on maternal health.  It states in part, "As experienced practitioners in Obstetrics and Gynecology, we affirm that direct abortion - the purposeful destruction of the unborn in the termination of pregnancy - is not medically necessary to save is life of a woman."  This collective opinion is supported by data, Ireland's worldwide low rate of maternal mortality. 

So, is abortion needed to save the life of the mother?  The data from Ireland, the reports from experience practitioners in Ireland, the Pro-Life OB/GYN practitioners (AAPLOG.org) say no it is not necessary in saving the life of the mother, our primary aim.

Submitted by Elizabeth Dean, D.O.

****Would your church host a pro-life education session? 
Let's be an informed community which clearly communicates 
reasons to value life of the unborn.  Call 816-387-8090. ****



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September 13 - Sweet Legacy at Civic Arena 6:30 pm
featuring Dr. Alveda King, niece of Dr. Martin Luther King Jr.
Registration begins soon.

October 2 LIFE Day - Walk, Prayer Chain & Rally


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