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OnlyConnecting with the Global Entrepreneurship Week, our 2 Entrepreneurs Sonita Alleyne and Martha Lane Fox                               Issue 9/2012
In This Issue . . .
NLP Logical Level No 1
NLP Logical Level No 2
NLP Logical Level No 3
NLP Logical Level No 5
NLP Logical Level No 4
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Martha Lane Fox

    

 

 Martha

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 Sonita Alleyne

    

 Sonita Alleyne

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Marjorie Scardino

    

 Marjorie Scardino

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Dame Steve Shirley

    

   Cynthia Carroll 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Dame Steve Shirley

    

   Dame Steve Shirley

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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Welcome all

 Global Entrepreneurs Week Logo

A warm winter welcome to all our readers. It's Global Entrepreneurship Week! But you'll all have looked at the web site and the social media web site:

 

British Library - Question Time for Entrepreneurs 2012

 

London's Google Campus

  

So this edition is for Entrepreneurs, as we round off the year with the last seminar at the Guild Hall, City Business Library. It's a good time to look at some of the positives and green shoots.

 

A time to look at re-inventing yourself, and a review of the 5 logical levels of NLP, Neuro Linguistic Programming.

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1. Environment

 

Starting outwards for the easiest... Environment

 

Look at your business idea, is the time right for it? is it a niche market, who are your competitors?

  

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2. Behaviour

 

Are you really committed to this idea? This is where some coaching comes in handy, if you have doubts or limiting beliefs, or even if you're not sure where your niche market is or what you want to do; too many things will just diffuse the effect you have

 

Try commitment and belief... I believe in... I am committed to...

 

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3. Capability

 

What are the skills you have? What are the skills, resources and people that you need?   Paying a lot of money for training doesn't always bring results. You can often go ahead and learn on the hoof. You don't need letters after your name.

 

The archive this month represents 2 of our entrepreneurs - Martha Lane Fox, the Digital Tzar for the Government, and previous joint founder of LastMinute.com. Martha calls for mandatory boardroom quotas and said she totally rejects the "assumption that, with quotas comes substandard women". Describing the attitude as "patronizing and sexist". FMWF, Financial Mail Women's Forum.

 

Sonita Alleyne, interviewed when Obama won the last election, the woman responsible for the music at Mandela's party in Hyde Park for his 90th birthday. She believed in the "as if".."imposter moment." Act as though you are the person you want to be. It certainly came true for her and her media firm, Somethin' Else.

 

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4. Beliefs and Values

 

Time for a look at beliefs: One of the starting points in coaching is to examine limiting beliefs, beliefs held over from your childhood, or from your parents, about what you are capable of and who you are.

 

The good news is that if you change them into liberating beliefs, then you can be whoever you want to be.

 

Previously we've looked at how you change your name through marriage, change your address through moving house, or country. You can change your age: see my article "REAL age" in Finally40. You can also change who you are; this is never more important than now, when the computer and the data banks would like to lock down individuals, tie them to their past, and not allow any choices. The danger of one size fits all and "smart" meters and registers. People often have pseudonyms; many women writers use a male moniker as it gives them better access to attention.

 

Best of all is a name which covers both, such as Sam or George or Hari; when measuring the numbers of male and female on boards this can confuse.

 

Women on boards is a hot topic right now, since Norway's success, aiming at 44% over 5 years.

 

Currently the EU women are coming out against quotas, despite all the evidence that more diverse firms are more successful. Some of our top firms have women resigning, after having turned the business around. Marjorie Scardino of Pearson, and Cynthia Carroll of Anglo-American Mining.

 

A comment from Professor Teresa Rees, consultant to the E.U. on Equality.

 

"Quotas, in effect, is what we currently have, an unofficial quota system for men. If brains, skills and competencies are evenly distributed then why are places on boards and top jobs disproportionately awarded to men?"

 

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5. ID: Identity

 

So how do you see yourself? As a musician, mother, husband, banker. How many facets are there? and which is your drving force as an entrepreneurs.
 

The question "What do you do?" usually elicits a job title, but perhaps it should be about your interest, your choral work, or your local volunteer group.

 

As for wife and mother! I expect that Sir Stephen Green, previous head of HSBC and now... Trade Minister Advisor, unpaid to the Government, never defines himself as father of 3 daughters. Father, Mother or not, this is part of life. You may have a partner, but the contemporary demographic is that more people live in single households, although they may have been in a family unit previously.   Who's to say a family unit is not one person? Where do friends come in, or even distant cousins, the people to whom you are closest?

 

This digression on limiting beliefs was necessary to show that, as an entrepreneur, as in life, everything is up for grabs. A significant birthday coming up? Choose the one you want it to be, after all retirement is now a shifting goal post, therefore so is middle age, not to say seniority and wisdom.

 

One, not least, Dame Steve Shirley - software designer, entrpreneur, philanthropist, refugee, mother of autistic son.

 

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Archive

 

In my seminars we've done 3 word hooks for your business, so that you are immediately memorable and often they're alliterative or front rhyming.

 

Here are two: "babel-fish for barrister" translator for lawyers, and "finish on a high note" musician who writes film scores.

 

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Presuppositions

 

Go well in the world. Whether you have a business idea, or a life change idea, you will achieve it if it's what you really want. Be on the lookout for opportunities. Keep an open mind; friends and opportunities can found in the strangest place.

 

This seems a good time to remind you of the NLP Presuppositions, test your business idea against them:

 

  1. People respond to their map of reality, not reality itself
  2. People work perfectly; no one is wrong or broken.
  3. People are doing the best they can, (and can probably do better)
  4. You already have all the resources you need, or can create them.
  5. All behaviour has a purpose - Human behaviour is purposeful.
  6. You are not your behaviour.
  7. There is no failure only feedback. Every experience can be utilised.
  8. (What was the learning here?)
  9. You cannot, not communicate (communication is both verbal and non-verbal, both conscious and unconscious).
  10. The meaning of the communication is the response it elicits.
  11. The Map is not the territory (Rapport is meeting individuals in their map of the world.)
  12. If you want to understand - act!
   
Christina
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