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Witness for love
Auction donations due by Sun., Feb. 16
Sheltering our homeless neighbors
This week & weekend
Children & youth
Grow
Connect
Serve
From our friends

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Weekend worship 
Sat., Feb. 15, 4:30 p.m.
Sun., Feb. 16, 9:15 & 11:15 a.m.
The Courage to Be Seen with Rev. Laura Horton-Ludwig

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Religious
Exploration
 

View schedule here. Nursery care in Sanctuary Building up to age 3.
 
February's worship theme is Vulnerability.
"Vulnerability is the birthplace of love, belonging, joy, courage, empathy and creativity. It is the source of hope, empathy, accountability and authenticity. If we want greater clarity in our purpose or deeper and more meaningful spiritual lives, vulnerability is the path."
- Brené Brown, Daring Greatly: How the Courage to Be Vulnerable Transforms the Way We Live, Love, Parent and Lead

recipient for February
is
Equality Virginia, seeking equality for lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) people in Virginia, through advocacy, outreach and education.

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Announcements
for Feb. 13-20        
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Be a witness for love,
whatever form it takes
Marriage equality events on Fri., Feb. 14

Below is a recap of Northern Virginia events being held in support of marriage equality in Virginia:
  • Alexandria: Noon, Alexandria City Courthouse, 520 King St., Team Leader John Humphrey;
  • Arlington: 10 a.m., Arlington County Courthouse, 1425 N. Courthouse Rd., Team Leader Hazel Moon;
  • Fairfax: 1 p.m., Fairfax County Courthouse, 4110 Chain Bridge Rd., Team Leaders Pat Monahan and Gail Schulte;
  • Loudoun: Noon, Loudoun County Courthouse, 18 E. Market St., Leesburg, Team Leader Rev. Anya Sammler-Michael and 
  • Prince William: 3:30 p.m., Prince William County Courthouse, 9311 Lee Ave., Manassas, Team Leader Susan Sinclair.

With inclement weather in the forecast, be sure to check the People of Faith for Equality in Virginia website or Facebook page for the latest information on Witness for Love events.

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Donate auction items now
Sun., Feb. 16, is last day  

Spend these last few frigid days before the deadline thinking warm thoughts of the creative ways you can donate: a stay at your beach condo or mountain hideaway, a festive dinner party, swing dance lessons, arts and crafts with your personal touch, a boat, plane or train ride - it's up to you. Donate online and make your bidder reservation for the big night, Sat., Mar. 8. Beginning this weekend, you may also register in the Commons after services. Cash, checks and credit cards accepted. Once you've donated, please email a photo of your item. Then sit back and enjoy warm tropical thoughts knowing you've done your part to make this year's UUCF Auction a success. Mahalo! 
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Helping to shelter
our homeless neighbors

More volunteers needed


UUCF, with help from the Oakton Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints and Vale United Methodist Church, is participating for the ninth year in FACETS' Hypothermia Prevention Program. Our week to shelter our homeless neighbors is Feb. 23-Mar. 1.

Stop by the table in the Commons after services for more information and to sign up to volunteer. You may also sign up at uucf.org. Contact Jim Gillespie or Ron Giusti.
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This week & weekend
  
Sign up to volunteer for Rebuilding Together 2014. Sat., Apr. 26. Sign-up deadline is Feb. 20. We're firing up the paint brushes, hammers, saws and rakes for another great Rebuilding Together. We need 35-45 volunteers to help disadvantaged local homeowners with repairs allowing them to live safely and accessibly in their homes. All skill levels welcome, from master carpenters to gardeners and painters. Sign up online or in the Commons after services. Contact Mary Lareau.
 
Winter Gatherings. Members and friends should have received an invitation to attend one of three remaining Winter Gatherings being held near where they live. To sign up to attend a gathering, click here.

Valentine's Day vigil to end gun violence.
Fri., Feb. 14, 10 a.m., NRA Headquarters, 11250 Waples Mill Rd., Fairfax. A coalition of Virginia-based gun violence prevention groups gathers to display placards with pictures of broken hearts to symbolize the heartbreak caused by gun violence to its victims, families and friends. Contact Bob Hatfield.
 
The Hidden Spring - A Spiritual Retreat.
Adult Programs course. Sat., Feb. 15, 9 a.m.-3 p.m., Sanctuary. In late winter, we are enlivened by the knowledge that there is a hidden spring beneath us, waiting to emerge. The seeds are sprouting down in the cold earth and within ourselves. Join Rev. Mary Katherine Morn and fellow congregants for a day of spiritual exploration, practice and sharing. A vegetarian soup and bread lunch is included. A $10 donation for food is requested. Register at ap@uucf.org. Contact Susan Bennett.

Saturday Polylogue. Feb. 15, after the 4:30 p.m. worship service, Music
Room. All are invited to continue the conversation after the service. Join Rev. Laura Horton-Ludwig for a 30-minute discussion on the topic of her sermon,
The Courage to Be Seen. Note: Polylogue is a dialogue among many participants; sharing of one's thoughts on a topic and respectful listening to others' perspectives. 

Willing to serve? Sun., Feb. 16, Sanctuary Commons. Current Board, Endowment and Nominating committee members answer questions about their experiences serving UUCF. Get your questions answered about possible inclusion in the pool of candidates for 2014. Contact Bill Ades, 703-591-3549.

Climate Change: Reality and Hope. Sunday Forum - Science, Reason & Religion in conjunction with Faith Alliance for Climate Solutions. Sun., Feb. 16, 12:30 p.m., Chapel. With Leah and Ana Rampy, volunteers trained by the Climate Reality Leadership Project, an organization that supports urgent action in response to climate change. We'll look at climate change and its effects around the world, including steps we can take to help make a difference. Discussion time included. Contact Bob Hatfield.

Fall Adult Retreat planning committee meeting. Sun., Feb. 16, 3-4 p.m., Room 9, Prog. Bldg. Please come and share your ideas for retreat activities. Retreat held Oct. 3-5 at Claymont Court, WV. Contact Sue Berman.

Darwin Day potluck and The Evolution of the Human Mind. Humanists of UUCF. Sun., Feb. 16, 6-8 p.m., Sanctuary Commons. All UUCF members and friends invited. With Dr. Mark Reimers of First UU of Richmond. The human mind and consciousness has evolved from an ape mind over the past 6 million years. How have our brains and genes changed to bring this about? For the potluck, please bring a casserole (with a card listing the ingredients), starch, vegetable, fruit or dessert enough to feed 8-10 people and whatever you would like to drink. Contact Mary Bellamy.

Green Sanctuary Group meeting. 3rd Mon. Feb. 17, 7:30 p.m., Room 1, Prog. Bldg. Is your interest in the environment passionate, scientific or something else? Join us! Contact Lois Phemister.

Community Emergency Response Team (CERT) Level 1 Training. Adult Programs course. Tue., Feb. 18, Mar. 4, 11, 18 and 25, Apr. 1, 8 and 15, 7-9:30 p.m., Social Hall. Note: No class Feb. 25 because of the Hypothermia Shelter on campus that week. Learn disaster preparedness, fire safety, basic medical operations, psychology and more. Free class is presented by trained volunteers and basic gear is provided by Fairfax County. Register here.

Introduction to Dreamwork. Adult Programs course. Tue., Feb. 18, Mar. 4 and 18, Apr. 1 and 15, May 6, 7-9 p.m., Room 5, Prog. Bldg. With Rev. Laura Horton-Ludwig. Do you ever wake up wondering what a strange dream meant? Or do you just wish you were better at remembering your dreams? This workshop is for anyone who wants to explore the meaning of their dreams in a safe small-group environment. We'll follow the guidelines of UU minister and internationally known dream expert Jeremy Taylor. Because of the nature of the workshops, participants are asked to commit to the full series (missing one or two is okay). Register at ap@uucf.org. Contact Rev. Laura Horton-Ludwig.

Meditation Practice Group. 1st and 3rd Tue. Feb. 18, 7 p.m., Chapel. Join us in supporting each other in our meditation practice. No expectation to attend every meeting. Contact Karen Monroe.

Next Chapter: How to Retire Wild, Happy and Free the UUCF Way. Adult Programs course. Tue., Feb. 18, Mar. 4 and 18, Apr. 1, 15 and 29, 7:30-9 p.m., Prog. Bldg. With Tom Hillman and Craig Clark. Retirement is a familiar term but perhaps the next chapter of your successful, gratifying and meaningful life is a better way to describe it. Class focuses on how to make our next chapter the one we want it to be. We'll learn from each other as well as from people who have written on this topic. Register at ap@uucf.org.

Wednesday Morning Book Club. 3rd Wed. Feb. 19, 10 a.m.-noon, Library. We'll discuss Vanity Fair by William Makepeace Thackeray. Contact Polly Feuer.

UUCF Leadership Circle.  Adult Programs course. Wed., Feb. 19, 7-8:30 p.m. and Sun., May 18, 12:45-2:15 p.m. (lunch provided), Rooms 3 & 4, Prog. Bldg. Led by Rev. Mary Katherine Morn and Rev. Laura Horton-Ludwig. Quarterly gathering of current and future UUCF leaders. All UUCFers welcome, whether you have been a congregational leader for decades or you are just getting started. We'll explore how we recruit and train our successors and why this is important and spiritual practices to sustain ourselves as leaders. Register at ap@uucf.org.

Global Affairs Discussion Group. 3rd Wed. Feb. 19, 7:30 p.m., Room 1, Prog. Bldg. Open forum for participants to discuss the latest news with global implications. Contact Randy Adams.

Wi$dom Path: Money, Spirit and Life. Adult Programs course. Thu., Feb. 20, Mar. 27, Apr. 24, May 15, Jun. 12, Sep. 11 and 25, Oct. 9 and 23, Nov. 13, Dec. 11, 7:30-9 p.m., Prog. Bldg. Led by Bonnie Wald and Janine Greenwood. Note: No classes in July or August. Participants explore how to make real and meaningful changes to better align their financial lives with their spiritual priorities and values. Attendance at all sessions encouraged but not required. Register at ap@uucf.org. Contact Bonnie Wald, 703-581-6825.
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Children & youth 

Quaker Work Camp at William Penn House in DC. Feb. 14-16. James Forrest leads this social justice weekend for UUCF youth in Grades 6-12. We will be working on a community garden and installing CFL light bulbs. Youth can receive service hours for participating and will feel a sense of satisfaction from making a difference. Fee of $100 due to James Forrest to confirm your space.

Feb. 16 - RE in session at 9:15 for 2s and 3s through Grade 6-7 and at 11:15 for 2s and 3s through Grade 5. Grades 1-5 start in the Chapel, and Grade 6-7 starts in the Library to work on their hypothermia project. Note: No RE for grades 6-12 all weekend (except for Grade 6-7 at the 9:15 a.m. service). MS and HS are encouraged to attend worship.

PlaygroUUp - Valentine's Day Party. 1st and 3rd Tue. Feb. 18, 10-11:30 a.m., Teen Center, Prog. Bldg. Bring a dozen valentines to exchange with your PlaygroUUp friends. Fellowship group of babies, toddlers, preschoolers and their parents/caregivers. Siblings welcome. Contact Meghan Crowley.

PlaygroUUp potluck. Sun., Feb. 23, 4:30-6:30 p.m., at the Smerke-Hochberg home. Bring a dish to share. Contact Meghan Crowley or Kathy Smerke.

Jazz worship service. No RE. Mar. 1-2. Enjoy playing in the Jazz Band or attending the service. Contact Mark Vogel for Jazz Band needs. Child care for ages 3-10 in Prog. Bldg.

UU-UNO (United Nations Office) spring seminar trip. Apr. 2-6, New York City. Join UU youth and adults from around the US and Canada for an exciting and educational spring seminar. UUCF youth will take the train to NYC, leaving Wed. afternoon, Apr. 2, and returning Sat., Apr. 6. Activities take place at the UN building and youth stay at All Souls UU Church accompanied by trained adult advisers. Approximate cost of trip is $400. RSVP to James Forrest by Mar. 7.

UU summer camps. Register online for summer leadership and camp opportunities and General Assembly youth programming. Rising Grade 9-12 youth: Save Aug. 21-24 for our annual beach trip. 
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Grow
The following programs and opportunities help us grow as individuals and as a community.

Narratives and Counter-Narratives. Adult Programs course. Sun., Feb. 23, Mar. 16 and Apr. 13, 1-2:30 p.m., Prog. Bldg. Note: Class will meet in the Library on Feb. 23. With Eve Stevens. Participants seek to understand how stories we have been told shape our ideas and perceptions. We will try to hear the voices and stories in theology, history and literature that have been drowned out by the dominating perspective. As we listen for these counter-narratives, we will find new ways of telling our own stories and those of our UU community. Register at ap@uucf.org.

What Can I Say? How Can I Help? Adult Programs course. Sun., Mar. 2, 1-3 p.m. With retired RN Kathy Birnbaum. All of us have experienced a friend or family member being seriously ill. Facilitated discussion based on personal experiences, pastoral care training materials and various printed resources. Register at ap@uucf.org.

Embracing Our Vulnerability: Learning How to Live With  Courage, Compassion and Connection. Adult Programs course. Sun., Mar 2, 9, 16, 23 and 30, Apr. 6, 13 and 27, May 4 and 11, 1-2:30 p.m., Room 2, Prog. Bldg. Note: No class Sun., Apr. 20, because of Easter. Facilitated by Rachel Bailey, UUC Reston member, and based on Brené Brown's Connections, Shame and Resilience curriculum. Class will provide strategies and exercises for identifying our true authentic selves, recognizing and moving out of shame, connecting more genuinely with others, living wholeheartedly and encouraging others to do so. Register at ap@uucf.org. Contact Barb Brehm.

Urban and Suburban Meadows: Bringing Meadowscaping to Big and Small Spaces. Sun., Mar. 9, 1-3 p.m., at the home of Kristin Moyer (close to UUCF). View and discuss a 60-minute video illustrating the diversity of life inhabiting meadows and prairies. Produced by author and photographer Catherine Zimmerman, the video addresses the problem of extensive planting of non-native grass lawns across America and how we can make a difference. Meadow experts will walk us through meadow site preparation, design, planting and maintenance, and the intricate connections between native plants and insects and the soil food web. Maximum of 12 participants. Register at ap@uucf.org.

Poison-Free Gardening. Tue., Mar. 11, 7-9 p.m. With Barbara Harding. Would you like to know how to raise healthy plants without great effort and while sparing the environment and your wallet? Spoil your garden with homemade compost. Class will include a quick way to produce your own compost using ingredients easily found in and around your home. Register at ap@uucf.org.

Wisdom of Pema Chödrön. Adult Programs course. Tue., Mar. 11 and 25, Apr. 8 and 22, 7:30-9 p.m., Rooms 3 & 4, Prog. Bldg. Ongoing meditation/discussion group. Participants will discuss Chödrön's guide to compassionate living and its applications to our daily lives. Register at ap@uucf.org. Contact Sarah Hover.

2,000 Years of UU History: A Whirlwind Tour. Adult Programs course. Wed., Mar. 12, 7-9 p.m., Room 5, Prog. Bldg. With Rev. Laura Horton-Ludwig. Where did Unitarian Universalism come from? How have we changed over the years, and what's stayed the same? We'll take a whirlwind tour through our history from its earliest origins to today, with time for your questions and discussion. This two-hour session is a repeat of the one offered last fall. Register at ap@uucf.org.

Creating Our Lives Consciously From Our Deepest Inner Resources. Adult Programs course. Mon., Mar. 24, Apr. 7, May 5 and Jun. 2, 7:30-9 p.m., Rooms 3 & 4, Prog. Bldg. Led by Zimri Putney, 703-517-7372. Join a supportive community in a practical spiritual journey, opening the path to loving connections, peace, joy and success. We will read and reflect on the teachings of Chödrön, Tolle, Brach and others. Register at ap@uucf.org.
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Connect 
Click here for a listing of ways to get involved and connect with each other at UUCF.  

Membership class. Sat., Feb. 22, 3 p.m. This minister-led class is for those who are ready to explore the commitment of membership. Register with Carol Jensen.

Circle Dinner. Sat., Feb. 22, 6 p.m. Circle Dinners are potlucks hosted by participants in their homes. Come meet new people and renew old acquaintances. Sign up in the Commons. Contact Raymon or Gisela Leon.
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Serve
Click here to find out about opportunities to live our values through service and advocacy within our congregation and beyond.

Grounds Work Day. Sat., Feb. 22, 10 a.m.-1 p.m. Join the Green Sanctuary Group and help tidy up the UUCF grounds by removing invasive plants and dispersing mounds of debris that are smothering healthy trees. We'll also walk the route of the proposed sewer connection and assess the need for trail maintenance. The March work day will take place on Sat., Mar. 22, when we'll construct brush piles to promote wildlife and begin to prepare the perimeter of the parking lot for work this summer.

Faith Alliance for Climate Solutions. 2nd and 4th Wed. Feb. 26, 7:15-9 p.m.,  Music Room. See our new website and join our LinkedIn group and our Facebook page. Contact Eric Goplerud, 703-759-0218. 
  
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From our friends

This section brings you announcements from UUCF members and friends, neighboring UU congregations, UU organizations or other organizations affiliated with this congregation.  

 

SERVE seeks Sunday morning volunteer driver. Sun., Feb. 23 and Sun., Mar. 2, 8:30-11:30 a.m. (training provided Sun., Feb. 16). Drive a SERVE van to four grocery stores in Haymarket, Gainesville, Bristow and Manassas, pick up approximately 450 pounds of donated food and bring it back to the warehouse for distribution to families. Must have a valid driver's license, be able to drive a van and do some moderate lifting. After this stint, this volunteer will be contacted as needed for Sunday pickups. Contact Pete Bridgeman, 703-216-3413. 

 

UU Charleston seeks donations in aftermath of chemical spill. Donations will be used to aid service industry workers affected by restaurant closures after the chemical spill and to help residents pay water and utility bills, which have increased as part of needing to flush the system as part of the cleanup. Checks, made payable to UUC with the notation "Water Relief," can be mailed to UU Congregation of Charleston, 520 Kanawha Blvd. W., Charleston WV 25302. 

 

Volunteer opportunities. Currently seeking Meals on Wheels drivers in Fairfax to deliver meals Mon.-Fri., 11 a.m.-1 p.m., and volunteers to drive older and disabled adults to critical medical appointments. Volunteers are matched with clients who live in or near their neighborhoods. Mileage reimbursement available. Contact Fairfax County Volunteer Solutions, 703-324-5406.

 

Uma Noite di Jazz (A Night of Jazz) - Batida Diferente. Sat., Feb. 15, 7:30 p.m., Sanctuary. American jazz and blues and Brazilian jazz, bossas and sambas featuring vocalist Kim Scudera, keyboardist and windsynth Rob Orwin, bassist Jerry del Rosso and percussionist Jeff Gilliam in concert. Proceeds benefit Our Daily Bread. Suggested donation $10/person. 

 

Interfaith Peace Circle: An Evening of Sacred Invocation. Fri., Feb. 21, 7-9:30 p.m., Chapel. Featuring Saraswati Rain, a ritualist and songstress from Denver, CO. All are welcome to join in an experiential invocation of peace using interfaith and intercultural prayer, poetry, music and candle-lighting. Some easy, gentle movements and hand gestures are optional - those who would prefer to simply witness are encouraged to do so. Suggested offering $10-15/person. Contact Diana Pinkham, 703-591-2426. 

 

Beethoven Blockbusters benefit concert and reception. Sat., Mar. 1, 7 p.m., River Road UU Congregation, Bethesda. Proceeds benefit the UUSC-UUA Philippines Typhoon Haiyan Relief Fund. Featuring four of Beethoven's most popular piano sonatas: Moonlight, Les Adieux, Appassionata and Pathetique performed by award-winning, international pianist Eugene Albulescu. Tickets are on sale and available to be picked up at the door; $25 each or two for $40. Contact Emily Purcell, 301-910-4882, to purchase. 

 

Eat well and do good! Sun., Mar. 2, 5 p.m., UUCF Sanctuary. Sponsored by NOVA Catholic community, this year's banquet is a fundraiser for Dream Project-VA, a local, non-profit that provides mentoring and college scholarships to immigrant youth (some documented, some not; most reside in Arlington). Goal is to raise $10,000. Tickets are $60. Come enjoy fabulous food, wine and entertainment for a good cause. Contact Joanna Walker for tickets or see her in the Commons after services.  

 

Salvete! Latin enrichment for Grades 5-8. Fri., Mar. 7, 14, 21 and 28; Apr. 4, 11 and 25; May 9, 16 and 30; Jun. 6 and 13, 4:15-6:15 p.m., UUCF. An introduction to Latin language and culture of the ancient Romans presented by engaging, creative instructors from non-profit Ascanius: The Youth Classics Institute. Cost is $250 per student; financial aid is available. For info and to register, visit the website. Register by Feb. 21.

 

Secrets to Financial Success - Lunch 'n Life quarterly series - Shepherd's Center of Oakton-Vienna. Mon., Mar. 10, noon-2 p.m., Emmanuel Lutheran Church, 2589 Chain Bridge Rd., Vienna. With Ric Edelman. Cost $10/person. Call 703-281-0538 before Mar. 3 to register.

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