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Weekend worship 
Sat., Dec. 28, 4:30 p.m.
Sun., Dec. 29, 10 a.m.
Listening to Our Longing with Ministerial Intern Eve Stevens

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Religious
Exploration
 

View schedule here. Nursery care in Sanctuary Building up to age 3.
 
December's worship theme is Grace.
"I do not understand
the mystery of grace - only that it meets us where we are and does not leave us where it found us."

- Anne Lamott  
 
recipient for December
is t
he National Alliance on Mental Illness - Northern Virginia, which raises awareness
and provides free education, advocacy and support programs for people with mental illness and their families. 
 

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Announcements
for Dec. 26-Jan. 2 
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Christmas Eve Services
Today at 4:30, 6 and 8 p.m.,
Sanctuary

The 4:30 and 6 p.m. services are Christmas pageants for all ages. Children are invited to dress as animals, shepherds or angels. (We'll have some extra costumes available in the Sanctuary.) The Children's Choir will perform at the first service and the Youth Choir at the second.

The 8 p.m. service is a contemplative Christmas service featuring the Chorale and Handbell Choir. Mary Katherine Morn will deliver a homily.

At all three services, a special offering will be taken to benefit the Ministers' Discretionary Fund and the FACETS Hypothermia Shelter here at UUCF in February.

Please bring the Guest at Your Table boxes to one of the Christmas Eve services and place it in the specially marked collection box just inside the main doors to the Sanctuary building. 
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Other Holiday Notes
Changes to regular schedule

Next weekend, Dec. 28-29, UUCF will hold two services: 4:30 p.m. on Saturday and 10 a.m. on Sunday. Ministerial Intern Eve Stevens will deliver the sermon. No RE classes meet.
 
Also, the UUCF offices will be closed Wed., Dec. 25-Wed., Jan. 1. For administrative or facilities issues, please contact Rich Sider, 540-560-8845. For pastoral care, contact the 24-hour-a-day Caring Line, 571-308-9283. 
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This week & weekend

Global Affairs Discussion Group. Wed., Jan. 1 meeting canceled. Next meeting Wed., Jan. 15, 7:15-9 p.m., Rooms 3 and 4, Prog. Bldg. Graham Smith talks about his travels to Afghanistan, Guatemala and Haiti. Contact Randy Adams.

NAMI Family Support Meeting.
Thu., Jan. 2, 7:30-9 p.m., Room 1, Prog. Bldg. Support meeting for families with a loved one suffering from mental illness. Contact Joanna Walker.
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Children & youth

No RE classes Dec. 28-29. All-congregation worship services in the Sanctuary. Note: Only one service on Sun., Dec. 29, at 10 a.m. Nursery care available at both services. Child care for children ages 3-10 on Sundays in the Prog. Bldg.

High School Youth Group New Year's Eve overnight celebration.
Tue., Dec. 31, 6 p.m. to Wed., Jan. 1, 10 a.m. All HS students welcome! White elephant gift exchange, Christmas movies, countdown at midnight, youth worship service and games. Contact James Forrest. If you don't already have a completed general Youth Activities Permission form on file, fill one out here.

Saturday RE families - please note.
Beginning Sun., Jan. 5, elementary classes move to Sundays only. OWL and HS classses will continue meeting on Saturdays.

Sunday RE classes in session Jan. 5. K-Grade 5 begin in the Sanctuary for Together Time before going to class (9:15) and workshops (11:15). All other ages and grades begin in their classrooms.

High School OWL parent orientation. Sun., Jan. 5, 1-3 p.m., Room 11, Prog. Bldg. Contact Janet Cushing.

Middle School Youth Group. Sun., Jan. 5, 5:30-7:30 p.m., Teen Center. MS Youth Advisors Xavire Alire and Bini Dahlman lead the group.

Bridging kickoff for seniors and parents/guardians. Tue., Jan. 7, 7:30-9 p.m., Room 11, Prog. Bldg. RSVP to Linnea Nelson by Jan. 2. Sessions are Jan. 26, Feb. 23 and overnight Mar. 29. Other sessions TBD with group.

January Vespers service. Fri., Jan. 10, 7:30 p.m., Sanctuary. Children's Vespers. Don't miss this enchanted retelling of the story of Befana who gives directions to the three wise men in their search for the child born under the star. A great way to end the holiday season! Produced by UU minister Pat Haresch.

RE teacher training. Sat., Jan. 11, team meetings, noon-1 p.m.; workshops,
1-3 p.m. Help share our leadership with youth and build a strong youth community. HS facilitators and advisors, please plan to attend. Contact James Forrest or Linnea Nelson to RSVP and/or request child care.

High School fundraiser dinner. Sat., Jan. 11, 6-8 p.m. Don't miss this Second Saturday event! Great food, including vegetarian options, served to you by our youth. Donations support FUUSE internships (takes $600 per intern) and to offset expenses for youth trips to Boston, UU-UNO and Quaker Work Camp.

High School Youth Group. Sat., Jan. 18, 6-10 p.m., Room 11, Prog. Bldg. Note new time for this special session! Parents meet in the Social Hall for informal discussion and fellowship. Come early for joint youth and parent session from 5:30-6 p.m. for info about Quaker Work Camp and UU-UNO April trip to NYC.

Middle School Ski Trip. Thu., Jan. 30, 8 a.m. departure from UUCF, Ski Liberty. Chaperones/families invited. RSVP to Marilyn Schuyler and complete the permission form here. Visit the website to determine your child/family's costs based on whether you are renting equipment. 
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Caring news
Milestones, rites of passage and caring needs in our UUCF community.

Healing wishes to Alice Byrd who took a fall Sunday.   
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Grow
The following programs and opportunities help us grow as individuals and as a community.

Science Can Answer Moral Questions: Humanists of UUCF. Mon., Jan. 6, 7:30 p.m., Chapel. Video featuring Sam Harris. Contact Mary Bellamy.

Writer's Resource Group. 2nd Wed. Next meeting Jan. 8, 7:30-9 p.m., Prog. Bldg. No registration needed; drop-ins welcome. Need to jump-start your creative writer's juices? Need encouragement and helpful hints? We don't read or edit each other's work, just share tips, techniques, articles and other suggestions. Contact facilitators Joy Hatfield or Linda Hunt.

 

January Vespers service. Fri., Jan. 10, 7:30 p.m., Sanctuary. Children's Vespers. Don't miss this enchanted retelling of the story of good witch Befana who gives directions to the three wise men in their search for the child born under the star. A great way to end the holiday season! Produced by UU Minister Pat Haresch.  


Creating Our Lives Consciously From Our Deepest Inner Resources.
Adult Programs course. Mon., Jan. 13, Feb. 10, Mar. 24, Apr. 7, May 5 and Jun. 2, 7:30-9 p.m., Prog. Bldg. Led by Zimri Putney, 703-517-7372. Join a supportive community in a practical spiritual journey, opening the path to loving connections, peace, joy and success. We will read and reflect on the teachings of Chödrön, Tolle, Brach and others. Register at ap@uucf.org.

Wi$dom Path: Money, Spirit and Life.Adult Programs course. Thu., Jan. 23, Feb. 20, Mar. 27, Apr. 24, May 15, Jun. 12, Sep. 11 and 25, Oct. 9 and 23, Nov. 13, Dec. 11, 7:30-9 p.m., Prog. Bldg. Note: No classes in July or August. Participants explore how to make real and meaningful changes to better align their financial lives with their spiritual priorities and values. Attendance at all sessions encouraged but not required. Register at ap@uucf.org. Contact Bonnie Wald, 703-581-6825.

Beloved Conversations: Meditations on Race and Ethnicity. Adult Programs course. With Rev. Laura Horton-Ludwig and Amy Kegley. Opening retreat Sat., Jan. 25, 9 a.m.-3 p.m. Class meets Tue., Feb. 4 and 18, Mar. 4 and 18, Apr. 1 and 15, and May 6 and 20, 7-9 p.m., Room 5, Prog. Bldg. In the spirit of covenant groups, Beloved Conversations is an experiential and evocative curriculum for exploring the spiritual and intellectual dimensions of racism in our lives. Limited to 10 participants; register at ap@uucf.org.

Wisdom of Pema Chödrön. Adult Programs course. Tue., Jan. 28, Feb. 11, Mar. 11 and 25, Apr. 8 and 22, 7:30-9 p.m., Prog. Bldg. Note: No meeting Feb. 25 because of the Hypothermia Shelter on our campus. Ongoing meditation/discussion group. Participants will discuss Chödrön's guide to compassionate living and its applications to our daily lives. Register at ap@uucf.org. Contact Sarah Hover.

Sunday Forum - Science, Reason & Religion. Next meeting Sun., Feb. 2, 12:30-2 p.m., Chapel. Informative and provocative sessions now being developed on topics including failed nation states, slave-holding, nuclear risks, food policy and care for the land.

Narratives and Counter-Narratives. Adult Programs course. Sun., Feb. 2 and 16, Mar. 16 and Apr. 13, 1-2:30 p.m., Prog. Bldg. With Eve Stevens. Participants seek to understand how stories we have been told shape our ideas and perceptions. We will try to hear the voices and stories in theology, history and literature that have been drowned out by the dominating perspective. As we listen for these counter-narratives, we will find new ways of telling our own stories and those of our UU community. Register at ap@uucf.org.
  
Behind the Kitchen Door
, a discussion of the UUA Common Read for 2013-14. Two alternative sessions: Sun., Feb. 2, 4-5:30 p.m. and Wed., Feb. 5, 10:30 a.m.-noon. Please read the book in advance; it makes a great holiday present. Contact Mary Bellamy.

Creating Spiritual Family Practices at Home. Adult Programs course. Sat., Feb. 8, 2-3:30 p.m., Prog. Bldg. Join Linnea Nelson, Director of Religious Exploration, to explore how your family can create regular spiritual practices and meaningful rituals. After a brief worship, your family will choose between writing a grace to say before meals or creating a bedtime ritual (i.e., journaling, sharing gratitudes, taking a walk, meditating) that creates a peaceful space for your family. Bring your favorite poetry or meditation books for inspiration. Ages 5 and older with family members. Individual adults and couples welcome too. Register at ap@uucf.org.

Doodling is Good for You! Adult Programs course. Sun., Feb. 9, 1-3 p.m., Prog. Bldg. When you were in school, did you fill the margins of your notebooks with doodles? In meetings, are you drawing patterns on your memo pad? Guess what? You're feeding your brain! Learn some doodling techniques that may help you feel more centered and focused. $5 materials fee, payable to Kim at the beginning of class. Register at ap@uucf.org. Contact Kim Condas.

The Hidden Spring - A Spiritual Retreat. Adult Programs course. Sat., Feb. 15, 9 a.m.-3 p.m., Sanctuary. In late winter, we are enlivened by the knowledge that there is a hidden spring beneath us, waiting to emerge. The seeds are sprouting down in the cold earth and within ourselves. Join Rev. Mary Katherine Morn and fellow congregants for a day of spiritual exploration, practice and sharing. A vegetarian soup and bread lunch is included. A $10 donation for food is requested. Register at ap@uucf.org. Contact Susan Bennett.

The Evolution of the Human Mind: Darwin Day potluck. Humanists of UUCF. Sun., Feb. 16, 5:30-8:30 p.m., Sanctuary. With Dr. Mark Reimers.

Community Emergency Response Team (CERT) Level 1 Training. Adult Programs course. Tue., Feb. 18, Mar. 4, 11, 18 and 25, Apr. 1, 8 and 15, 7-9:30 p.m., Social Hall. Note: No class Feb. 25 because of the Hypothermia Shelter on campus that week. Learn disaster preparedness, fire safety, basic medical operations, psychology and more. Free class is presented by trained volunteers and basic gear is provided by Fairfax County. Register here.

Next Chapter: How to Retire Wild, Happy and Free the UUCF Way. Adult Programs course. Tue., Feb. 18, Mar. 4 and 18, Apr. 1, 15 and 29, 7:30-9 p.m., Prog. Bldg. With Tom Hillman and Craig Clark. Retirement is a familiar term but perhaps the next chapter of your successful, gratifying and meaningful life is a better way to describe retirement. Class focuses on how to make our next chapter the one we want it to be. We'll learn from each other as well as from people who have written on this topic. Register at ap@uucf.org.

UUCF Leadership Circle. Adult Programs course. Wed., Feb. 19, 7-8:30 p.m. and Sun., May 18, 12:45-2:15 p.m. (lunch provided) at UUCF. Led by Rev. Mary Katherine Morn and Rev. Laura Horton-Ludwig. Quarterly gathering of UUCF leaders, both current and future. All UUCFers welcome, whether you have been a congregational leader for decades or you are just starting to think about getting involved as a new leader. Register at ap@uucf.org.
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Connect 
Click here for a listing of ways to get involved and connect with each other at UUCF

New member-to-member Yahoo group. Forum allows members to share information, ask questions and post personal requests, including items for sale, etc. Sign up here.

Grief and Loss Support Group.
Sun., Jan. 5, 12, 19, 1-2:30 p.m., Prog. Bldg. Drop-in support group for those experiencing grief and loss. Led by UUCF member Meghan Crowley, a social worker with expertise in bereavement. Contact Rev. Laura Horton-Ludwig.

Monday Night Book Club. Jan. 13, 7:30-9 p.m., Prog. Bldg. This month reading Amusing Ourselves to Death (2005, 20-year edition) by Neil and Andrew Postman. Contact Don Andress.

Wednesday Morning Book Club. Jan. 15, 10 a.m.-noon, Prog. Bldg. This month reading Olive Kitteridge by Elizabeth Strout. Contact Polly Feuer.

24th Annual UUCF Chili Cook-Off - save the date.
Sat., Feb. 8, 5:30-9:30 p.m., Sanctuary. Volunteers needed to make chili and side dishes, as well as help with setup and cleanup. Contact Pete or Kathy Bridgeman, 703-255-9684.

Island Paradise Auction - save the date. Sat., Mar. 8, Sanctuary. Listen, can you hear them? The strum of a slack key guitar, waves lapping on soft beach sand. These are the sounds beckoning you to go to your calendars and save this date for the UUCF Annual Auction. Then all through the chill of winter, you can look forward to an evening of tropical-themed food and drinks and bidding merriment. To help, contact Karen Liggett or David McWilliams at auction@uucf.org or 571-314-2804.
 
Trip to Transylvania. Join the trip for UUCF youth and adults to Transylvania to visit our Partner Church, see historic Unitarian sites and explore Dracula's castle, Jul. 6-17, with a possible two-day extension in beautiful Budapest. Contact Dick Van Duizend, 703-536-3476, or, for youth, James Forrest.
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Serve
Click here to find out about opportunities to live our values through service and advocacy within our congregation and beyond.

Creative volunteers needed. Are you an expert finding wonderful things online? Do you know Microsoft PowerPoint? Would you like to help us put together creative images, sounds and videos for worship? We are looking for a few volunteers to help us create PowerPoint presentations for worship. Contact Rev. Mary Katherine Morn.


UUCF ESOL seeks volunteer. Tue. mornings, Jan. through mid-June, Reston. Team teach English to adults using prepared curriculum. No experience needed; flexible schedule. Contact Lily Reider.

One weekend when we can all serve. UUCF Weekend of Service. Sat.-Mon., Jan. 18-20. We honor the legacy of Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr., with a weekend of service in January. You can pick your own project or join in one of six that UUCF has planned, including packaging meals for Stop Hunger Now, making fleece blankets for our Hypothermia Shelter, collecting food for Food for Others, taking part in a children's party at an area shelter or working to beautify Artemis House shelter or our own campus. Learn more and sign up here. If you have other service plans, we'd like to add your hours of service to our totals for the weekend. During the Weekend of Service, please keep track of your hours and email Kären Rasmussen and let her know the project you worked on and how many hours you spent.

Wanted: Possible candidates for the Board of Directors, Endowment Committee and Nominating Committee. Serving on the Board or committees is a wonderful way to make a difference at UUCF. Lend your voice by recommending someone - including yourself - as a possible candidate for the slate of nominees that the congregation will elect at the June Annual Meeting. To make a recommendation, contact Bill Ades, 703-591-3549. For more information, click here.

DC Regional UU Action Meeting on Climate Change and Environmental Justice.
Sat., Jan. 4, 9 a.m.-4 p.m., All Souls Church Unitarian. Join UU congregations in the metro DC area and individual UUs to plan coordinated action and sharing. Contact Eric Goplerud, 703-759-0218.

Climate Action Group. Meets 2nd and 4th Wed. Jan. 8 and 22, 7:15-9 p.m., Social Hall. Join our Religious Action on Climate Linked In group and our Facebook page. Contact Eric Goplerud, 703-759-0218.

UUCF Blood Drive. Sun., Jan. 19, 8:30 a.m.-12:30 p.m. Sign up here or contact Ken Foley, 703-242-0258. (Provide your preferred time on the quarter hour.)

Hypothermia Prevention Program. Feb. 23-Mar. 2. UUCF, with help from the Oakton Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints and Vale United Methodist Church, is participating for the ninth year in FACETS' Hypothermia Prevention Program when we help shelter our homeless neighbors. Please stop by our table in the Commons the first weekend in Jan. for more information and to sign up to volunteer. Contact Jim Gillespie or Ron Giusti
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From our friends

This section brings you announcements from UUCF members and friends, neighboring UU congregations, UU organizations or other organizations affiliated with this congregation.  

 

Attachment parenting group. 1st Fri. Next meeting Jan. 3, 10  a.m.-noon, Teen Center, Prog. Bldg. Anyone can attend; children welcome. Group gathers to ask and answer questions, help and support each other, as well as to learn all aspects of baby and child care. Contact Annemarie McCaslin

 

OWL Sexuality Education for Adults. Wed., Jan. 15, 22, 29 and Feb. 5, 7-8 p.m., River Road UU Congregation. $50 fee; scholarships available. Child care available if reserved by Jan. 8. Contact Gabrielle Farrell, 301-229-0400 x104.  

 

Virginia Immigrant Advocacy Day 2014 - save the date. Tue., Jan. 21, 8:30 a.m.-3 p.m., Greater Richmond Convention Center. The Virginia Coalition of Latino Organizations annual Immigrant Advocacy Day will be held during the 2014 General Assembly. We will meet with elected representatives and advocates for the VA Dream Act, Medicaid expansion and other proposed legislation and issues important to Virginia's immigrant communities. Contact Hal Fuller. 

 

Mass Moral March for voters' rights. Sat., Feb. 8, Capitol Building, Raleigh, NC. Join the NAACP and UU partners as they march on Raleigh to protest laws that suppress the voice of the people. Register here.

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