As you know, I frequently give trainings at conferences and clinical practice settings around the country. This month, I have found myself repeatedly giving workshops on the impact that counter-transference can have on the therapeutic relationship and ethical clinical practice. It's a subject that isn't addressed all that often in our field yet as therapists we know, full well, the power, privilege, and responsibility of this relationship. On the heels of these talks, I happened to have a very moving and meaningful conversation with a clinician who was very traumatized, years before, by a therapist who was supposed to be trustworthy and safe. It was another reminder of the damage that can be done when therapists are not fully present and appropriately and compassionately engaged with their clients. I decided to use this month's newsletter to highlight how imperative it is for us to do OUR work and to always think about the impact that our verbal and non-verbal communication is having on our clients. I hope it provides food for thought!