Passage To Inner Joy Newsletter


Winter blessings to you! 

 

Well 2015 has already proven to bring the opportunities we need to assist us in the transformation that I feel is meant to occur for us on a deeper, soul level.  For me personally, I'm being guided to "get back to the basics" by letting go of any attachments I may have to knowledge so that I may learn, in depth, so much more than I thought I knew - especially as it relates to my spiritual work with relationships.  In fact, letting go of attachments all together seems to be what I am guided to do - and I can already see how this is translating into leadership for others.  

 

For this reason, I've been inspired to help others "get back to the basics" with the below article titled, The First Building Block Of Conscious Relationships.  I hope you find it useful and helpful!  

 

I'd also like to mention that the R.E.A.P.(TM) Certification Training Course is off to a great start!  I'm so honored to have such talented, caring and gifted students - in this course and in all my previous ones as well!  My heart expands with such joy at knowing that others are interested and guided to learn what I have to share!  

 

And speaking of R.E.A.P.(TM), I'm in the midst of creating a brand new website just for this training and am super excited about it!  I will keep you posted on when it is live and ready for accessing.  

 

Until then, I wish you many blessings of love and joy,

 

Pamela 

 
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Sonia Choquette, World-renowned author, storyteller, six-sensory spiritual teacher
TThe First Building Block Of Conscious Relationships

The way to a joyful, loving and fulfilling union starts with the self.  Who-you-really-are, deep at the core of your being, is essential to be in touch with in order to then establish the soul-based partnership you desire.  However, discovering who you really are isn't always that easy.  Our ego-mind loves to distort the truth in ways that either makes us better than or less than others.  I found that this search for who-you-really-are becomes much easier if you first clarify who-you-are-not.  You need to peel away any false layers to reveal the real truth hidden within. 

 

Clarifying who you are not means to become aware of your attachments to your identity.  Identities are often labels we assign to ourselves for good or for bad.  These labels may have been in place since childhood or perhaps they are newly assigned.  Either way, we inadvertently assume the characteristics of these labels and relate to others from that identity.  For example, let's say that at one time you were betrayed by a past lover.  As a result, you labeled yourself as "betrayed".  You may have moved on from this lover and are now in a new relationship.  But you don't forget that betrayal or the pain that came with it.  Every once in a while your new lover says or does something that triggers this memory and soon you begin to feel like you are in the midst of that same scenario all over again.  Emotional drama ensues and leaves both of you wondering, "What just happened?".  What happened was you were assuming the identity of "betrayed" because that is what you labeled yourself as long ago.  "Betrayed" is not who you are, it was just a past experience. 

 

We go through life creating these assumptions of who we are based on our experiences.  How somebody treats us is never personal.  It's merely a reflection of their own reality from which they have created based on their attachments to their identity (that's not to say that it is okay for somebody to treat you poorly - remember it's an act of self-love to establish boundaries).

 

Not all labels are bad - in some cases they may even be beneficial.  Either way, we easily attach our identity to them which does not serve the relationship you desire.  So how do you detach and let go?  Start by setting aside some time where you can be undisturbed while you try this exercise:

 

  1. Go to a sacred space (or create your own - learn how by reading this article)
  2. Make a list of all the labels you have given yourself based on your experiences 
  3. Make another list of all the labels other people have given you Imagine that your core (your torso) is a giant container holding each one of these labelsImagine that you are letting go of each label and putting it into the God of your choice's hands
  4. As you let each one go, see your core container becoming clean and pure
  5. This clean and pure core container is now only filled with infinite creative energy - much like that of the God of your choice
  6. You are now aware of who-you-really-are:  infinite creative energy = pure potentiality

 

It is only from here, from this awareness of who-you-really-are that you can authentically relate to your partner.  It is also only from here that you can create the relationship that you desire. 

 

We drag so much baggage from the past into our relationships, and even some from the present too.  Getting back to the basics, back to who-you-really-are helps to establish and align your relationship goals by giving your relationship that sacred, clean slate it requires to flourish.

 

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For more articles and self-help techniques, check out my archived newsletters, my articles on the Huffington Post, or you can visit my website. 

 

At Passage To Inner Joy, my mission is to align people with who they really are by way of my healing and counseling services.  By helping clients overcome their fears and self-imposed limitations, I am able to assist them in experiencing the abundant love and joy that is ever-present.

 

Thank you all for your continued support and I look forward to supporting you further in your personal journey of healing, growth, and self-discovery.

 

With love and joy,

Pamela Dussault Runtagh