February 6, 2016
In This Issue
JUBILEE YEAR OF MERCY | Pope Francis

Year of Consecrated Life celebrated at Mount Alvernia, Wappingers Falls
WAPPINGERS FALLS, NY - At the invitation of Fr. Roch Ciandella, OFM, director of our Mt. Alvernia Retreat Center, 70 women and men gathered at Mt. Alvernia on Tuesday, February 2nd, for the closing of the Year of Consecrated Life.

These religious -- Capuchins, Anglican Benedictine Monks. Mother Cabrini's Missionaries of the Sacred Heart,Carmelite Friars and Novices, Marist and Christian Brothers, Poor Clare and Carmelite Nuns, Salesians, Pallotines , IHM Sisters and Oblates of the Most Holy Trinity -- together with the Bishop Peter Byrne, the Regional Bishop, as well as Frs. Roch, Tom Garone, Romano Almagno, and Joachim Mejia, celebrated Evening Prayer and then enjoyed a festive meal.

The monks and  nuns of the nearby Buddhist Center  -- with whom our Friars enjoy a  very good relationship -- were unable to attend due to a prior monastic commitment.

Celebrations were also held on January 30 at Our Lady of Peace Church in Brooklyn.


Prophecy, Proximity and Hope! | Pope Francis to religious
ROME -  On February 1, Pope Francis addressed religious gathered to mark the conclusion of the Year of Consecrated Life. He put his prepared remarks aside and offered these "off the cuff" remarks to the consecrated men and women gathered.

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Dear Sisters and Brothers,

I prepared an address for this occasion on topics of consecrated life and on three pillars. There are others, but three are important for consecrated life. The first is prophecy, the other is proximity and the third is hope - prophecy, proximity, and hope. I have given the text to the Cardinal Prefect, because it is somewhat tedious to read it, and I prefer to talk to you of what comes from the heart. All right?

Men and women Religious, that is, men and women consecrated to the service of the Lord, who exercise in the Church the way of intense poverty, of a chaste love that leads them to a spiritual paternity and maternity for the whole Church, and obedience ... but in this obedience, something is always lacking, because perfect obedience is that of the Son of God, who annihilated Himself, made Himself man out of obedience, to death on the Cross. But there are men and women among you who live intense obedience, an obedience, which is not military, no, not this; that is discipline, something else - an obedience of donation of the heart. And this is prophecy. "But don't you wish to do something, something else? ... "Yes, but according to the rules, I must do this, and this, and this - and, according to the dispositions, this, and this and this. And if I don't see something clearly, I speak with the Superior, and, after our conversation, I obey." This is prophecy, against the seed of anarchy, which the devil sows. "What do you do?" "I do what I like." 

The anarchy of the will is the daughter of the devil, not the daughter of God. The Son of God was not anarchic; He did not call His own to be a force of resistance against his enemies. He Himself said so to Pilate: "If I were a king of this world I would have called my soldiers to defend me." But He obeyed His Father, He only asked: "Father, please, not this chalice, no ... But let what you will be done." When you accept something out of obedience, which perhaps you often don't like ... that obedience must be swallowed, yet it's carried out, therefore, it is prophecy. Prophecy is to tell people that there is a way of happiness, of grandeur, a way that fills one with joy, which is precisely the way of Jesus. It is the way of being close to Jesus. It is a gift; prophecy is a charism and it must be asked of the Holy Spirit: that I be able to say that word, at the right moment; that I do something at the right moment; that my whole life be a prophecy - men and women prophets. And this is very important. "But we do what everyone does ..." No. Prophecy is to say that there is something that is more true, more beautiful, greater, more good to which we are all called.

Then the other word is proximity. Consecrated men and women, must not distance themselves from people and have all comforts. No, they must get close to understand the life of Christians and of non-Christians, the sufferings, the problems, the many things that are understood only if a consecrated man or woman gets close: in proximity. "But, Father, I'm a cloistered Sister, what must I do?" Think of Saint Therese of the Child Jesus, Patroness of the Missions, who with her ardent heart was close, and the letters she received from missionaries made her closer to the people. Proximity. To become consecrated does not mean to go up one, two, or three steps in society. It's true, very often we hear parents say: "You know, Father, I have a daughter who is a Sister, I have a son who is a friar!" And they say it with pride. And it's true! It is a satisfaction for parents to have consecrated children; this is true. However, for the consecrated it's not their state of life that makes them look at others like this with detachment. Consecrated life should lead them to closeness with people: physical, spiritual closeness, to know the people. "Ah yes, Father, in my Community the Superior has given us permission to go out, to go to the poor districts with the people ... "And, in your Community, are there elderly Sisters?" "Yes, yes, there is the nurse on the third floor." "And how often during the day do you meet your Sisters, the elderly, who can be your mother or your grandmother?" "But, you know, Father, I am very committed to my work and I'm unable to go ..." Proximity! Who is the first neighbor of a consecrated man or woman? The Brother or the Sister of the Community. He is your first neighbor - and you must also have an agreeable, good proximity with love. 

I know that in your Communities there never is gossip, never, never ... A way of moving away from gossip. Listen well: no gossip, no terrorism of gossip, because one who gossips is a terrorist. He is a terrorist in his Community, because he throws a word like a bomb against this, against that, and then goes away tranquil. He destroys! One who does this destroys, as a bomb, and he moves away. This, the Apostle James said, is perhaps the most difficult virtue, the most difficult human and spiritual virtue to have, that of controlling the tongue. If you feel like saying something against a Brother or a Sister, to throw a bomb of gossip, bite your tongue! Intensely! No terrorism in the Communities! "But Father, if there's something, a defect, something to correct?" You say it to the person: you have this attitude that annoys me, or is not right. Or if it's not appropriate - because sometimes it's not prudent - you say it to the person who can remedy it, who can resolve the problem and to no one else. Understood? Gossip is useless. "But in chapter?" There yes! In public, you say everything you feel you must say, because there is the temptation not to say things in chapter, and then to do so outside: "Have you seen the Prioress? Have you seen the Abbess? Have you seen the Superior? ..." But why didn't you say it there in chapter? ... Is this clear?

They are virtues of proximity, and the Saints had this, the consecrated Saints had this. Saint Therese of the Child Jesus never, never complained about work, about the annoyance she felt with the Sister she had to take to the dining room every evening: from the choir to the dining room. Never! Because that poor Sister was very elderly, almost paralytic, she didn't walk well, she had pains - I also understand her! - she was a bit neurotic as well ... She <Saint Therese> never, never went to another Sister to say: "But how annoying she is!" What did she do? She helped her to get comfortable, she took her to the table, she sliced her bread and smiled at her. This is called proximity. Proximity! If you throw a bomb of gossip in your Community, this isn't proximity: this is to make war! This is to distance oneself, this is to cause distancing, to cause anarchism in the Community. And if, in this Year of Mercy, each one of you succeeds in never being a gossip terrorist, it would be a success for the Church, a success of great sanctity! Be courageous! Proximities.

And then, hope. And I confess to you that it costs me much when I see the drop in vocations, when I receive Bishops and ask them: "How many seminarians do you have?" "Four, five ..." When in your Religious Communities - masculine and feminine - you have a novice, two ... and the Community is growing old, growing old ... When there are convents , great convents in Spain, and Cardinal Amigo Vallejo he turns to him can tell you how many there are that keep going with four or five elderly Sisters, to the end ... And this awakens in me a temptation against hope: "But, Lord, what's happening? Why has the womb of consecrated life become so sterile?" Some Congregations are doing the experiment of "artificial insemination." What do they do? They receive: "But yes, come, come, come ..." And then the problems begin that exist inside there ... No. One must receive with seriousness! One must discern well if it's a true vocation and help it to grow. 

And I believe that. Against this temptation of losing hope, caused by this sterility, we must pray more. And we must pray without getting tired. It does me much good to read that passage of Scripture, in which Anna - Samuel's mother - prayed and asked for a son. She prayed and moved her lips, and prayed ... And the old priest, who was somewhat blind and couldn't see well, thought she was drunk. But the heart of that woman said to God: "I want a son!" I ask you: in face of this drop in vocations does your heart pray with this intensity? "Our Congregation is in need of sons, our Congregation is in need of daughters ..." The Lord who is so generous, will not fail in His promise, but we must ask for it. We must knock on the door of His heart. Because there is a danger - and this is awful, but I must say it -: when a Congregation sees that it doesn't have children and grandchildren, and begins to be ever smaller, it attaches itself to money. And you know that money is the devil's dung. When they do not have the grace to have vocations and children, they think that money will save their life; and they think of old age: that they may not lack this, that they may not lack that ... And thus there is no hope! Hope is only in the Lord! Money will never give you <hope>, on the contrary, it will bring you down! Understood?

I thank you, the consecrated, for what you do, each one with his/her charism. And I want to stress the consecrated women, the Sisters. What would the Church be if there were no Sisters? I said this once: when one goes to hospital, to schools, to parishes, to neighborhoods, to missions there are men and women that have given their life. In my last trip to Africa - I have said this, I believe, in an Audience - I met an 83-year-old Italian Sister. She said to me: "I have been here - I can't remember if she said 23 or 26 years. I'm a nurse in a hospital." Just think: for 26 years to 83! "And I have written to my own in Italy that I will never return." When you go to a cemetery and see that there are so many dead missionary Religious and so many dead Sisters at 40 because they caught sicknesses, the fevers of those countries, burnt their life ... One says: these are saints! These are seeds! We must ask the Lord to come down a bit to these cemeteries and see what our forbears have done and give us more vocations, because we are in need of them!
Fr. Alvin Te, OFM, named Director of Communications for the Order

Fr. Alvin Te, OFM
ROME - Our Provincial Curia recently received word via official decree from our General Curia that Fr. Alvin Te, OFM, has been named Director of the Communications Office of the Order. 

The decree states that this took place as an action of the General Minister upon the advice of the General Definitorium on January 20. Alvin went to Rome in August of last year assigned as member of the Communication Office staff, but a decision on who would fill the role of director had not yet been made.

Congratulations Alvin!
Join us on the FRIAR app for LENT

NEW YORK, N.Y. -  Prayer. Fasting. Almsgiving. These are the spiritual pillars of Lent. As we begin another season of Lent on February 10, join us every day on the FRIAR app.

Each day we will post a special LENTEN GOOD DEED to help you make your 40 days more focused, more prayerful, more Franciscan as we make our way to Easter. 

If you haven't downloaded the app yet, just search "friars" in the app store. 

The FRIAR APP allows you to post prayers, as well as, join in the prayers of others and have friars across the country and others pray for them. The app also allows you to have a candle lit for your prayer, or someone else's prayer, in an actual Franciscan church.

The app is available in both the Apple App Store for iPhone and the Google Play Store for Android smart phones, and can be found by searching for "friars" or using a QR code (found on usfranciscans.org or below).

There is no cost to install the app or to submit or join in prayer requests. There is a small fee to cover the cost of lighting an actual candle.


 
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Fraternal love and the dilemma of the Older Brother | FRANCISCAN LIVING
By Fr. Michael Della Penna, OFM | Director of Ongoing Formation

There is only one parable in all of the New Testament in which Jesus does not reveal the ending; the parable of the prodigal son. Jesus instead leaves us with the challenging image of the older brother standing outside the party deciding whether he will go in or remain outside. 

On the surface, this open-ended parable appears a simple question of whether or not the older brother should be open and join in the celebration or remain closed, obstinate and stay outside. Can he not choose to be merciful and recognize his brother was dead and now has returned alive? 

Another way to view this predicament however is to see the choice of the older brother through his eyes. He has been faithful all his life, not frivolous like his brother; he has always worked very hard and never abandoned his post, unlike his younger brother. Not only has he never asked for any money to entertain his friends but he probably would never dream to ask for his due share of the money from his father, unlike his brother who has squandered all his inheritance. While he remained loyal, he watched his brother betray his father and jeopardize their family's livelihood. Is he not being prudent in judging his father as somewhat foolish and extravagant with the family assets? Not only did his father already hand over all his money to an irresponsible son who lost it, but now he has decided to kill the fatted calf, which probably costs 10 times that of a goat and could feed some 150 people - perhaps all the hired hands, neighbors and most of the surrounding village! Why use all this hard earned money to feed so many when they could save it? This is how the parable ends; never revealing what the older brother chooses, but rather leaving us with an open-ended question to answer for ourselves. 

While the question of our future cannot be reduced to a question of obstinacy or openness, or prudence or foolishness, there is perhaps a parallel in where we stand. In the wake of priest scandals and faced with the reality of the decreasing numbers of vocations, many were angry and felt that we as a Church we needed to withdraw within ourselves; perhaps it was time for the Church as a whole to regroup, to pull back and retreat from the world in order to get things in order within the Church. 

As a Province too, it could seem prudent and wise to some to "batten down the hatches" in order to try and rough the storm alone; a sort of circling the wagons mentality. Why risk rushing in to join something if we can handle it ourselves?



Pope Francis' response however, has been a counter-intuitive approach for sure, embarking the Church on a bold journey in just the opposite direction. Instead of enclosing ourselves in within a defensive circle, he is leading us out in order to expand it. He is teaching us to listen and trust the Holy Spirit that is calling us to something greater and new and so transforming the Church in a revolutionary way. Instead of trying to withdraw within ourselves, Pope Francis has inspired us to go out, to break the mold and open ourselves to others. He speaks of having a missionary heart that "never closes itself off, never retreats into its own security, never opts for rigidity and defensiveness."

While many are stuck in following the same routines mainly because "it's always been done that way" God often calls us to do something surprisingly different, other than we think. We heard the same message from Br. Giacomo Bini who called us not to follow the status quo that we label as "tradition" but in reality is routine, in order to go out and blaze new trails. Pope Francis is inspiring us to "go forth from our comfort zone in order to reach all the peripheries," by assuring us "the Lord does not disappoint those who take a risk" since "life grows by being given away, it weakens in isolation and comfort."  

Jesus uses the metaphor of new wineskins to help us understand how this new life he offers us can be received. This comes in response to the doctors of the law who criticize Jesus because His disciples do not fast "as had always been done." Jesus responds with examples from daily life: "No one sews a piece of unshrunken cloth on an old cloak. If he does, its fullness pulls away, the new from the old, and the tear gets worse. Likewise, no one pours new wine into old wineskins. Otherwise, the wine will burst the skins, and both the wine and the skins are ruined. Rather, new wine is poured into fresh wineskins."

What does this mean? Pope Francis answers that we ought to have an open heart. 'It's always been done this way' speaks of a closed heart, and Jesus tells us, 'I will send you the Holy Spirit and He will lead you into the fullness of truth.' He says, "If you have a heart closed to the newness of the Spirit, you will never reach the full truth. And your Christian life will be a half-and-half life, a patched life, mended with new things, but on a structure that is not open to the voice of the Lord-a closed heart, so that you are not able to change others." 

The Pope explained that many Christians "cling to what has always been done" and so "do not allow others to change. And they end up with half a life, a life that is patched, mended, meaningless." He identifies this sin as "a closed heart" that "does not hear the voice of the Lord, that is not open to the newness of the Lord, to the Spirit that always surprises us."

Pope Francis points to "another reality" which is the "unruly freedom" of the Holy Spirit who offers us new life if we only become new vessels, new wineskins with open hearts "that will not stubbornly remain thinking my own opinion is more important than the surprise of the Holy Spirit." 

This is the message the Church gives us today. This is what Jesus says so forcefully: 'New wine in new wineskins.' "May the Lord grant us the grace of an open heart, of a heart open to the voice of the Spirit, which knows how to discern what should not change, because it is fundamental, from what should change in order to be able to receive the newness of the Spirit."

The Pope calls us to "overcome suspicion, habitual mistrust,fear of losing our privacy, all the defensive attitudes which today's world imposes on us." Like the older brother we too may be tempted to "try to escape from others and take refuge in the comfort of our privacy or in a small circle of close friends" which the Pope identifies as nothing more than isolation, "a false autonomy which has no place for God" that fosters "one's own unhealthy individualism."  

In the end we may come to see that the older brother's dilemma is really between possession or relationship, forgiveness or resentment, power or love. 

Let us therefore end by carefully reflecting on the Popes challenging words:

"I especially ask Christians in communities throughout the world to offer a radiant and attractive witness of fraternal communion. Let everyone admire how you care for one another, and how you encourage and accompany one another: By this everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you have love for one another. This was Jesus' heartfelt prayer to the Father: 'That they may all be one... in us... so that the world may believe.' Beware of the temptation of jealousy! We are all in the same boat and headed to the same port! Let us ask for the grace to rejoice in the gifts of each, which belong to all."

Those wounded by historical divisions find it difficult to accept the invitation to forgiveness and reconciliation, since they think that their pain is being ignored or they are being asked to give up their memory and ideals. But if they see the witness of authentically fraternal and reconciled communities, they will find that witness luminous and attractive. 

It is always painful to discover how some Christian communities, and even consecrated persons, can tolerate different forms of enmity, division, calumny, defamation, vendetta, jealousy and the desire to impose certain ideas at all costs, even to persecutions which appear as veritable witch hunts. Who can be evangelized if this is how religious act? 

Let us ask the Lord to help us understand the law of love. How good it is to have this law! How much good it does us to love one another, in spite of everything. Yes, in spite of everything! Saint Paul's exhortation is directed to each of us:"Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good" (Rom 12:21)..................
 
Let us not allow ourselves to be robbed of the ideal of fraternal love!"

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Registration for Interprovincial Gatherings

Dear Brothers,
 
May the Lord give you peace! Thank you to those who responded to the request last month to register for the Interprovincial Gatherings taking place nationally in the U.S. in June and July to discuss the next phase of the revitalization and reconfiguration process. We are still in need of 16 more friars to sign up to reach to hoped-for number of seven friars attending each of these gatherings. 
 
At each of these gatherings, seven (7) friars from each province (i.e., roughly 50 friars) will have the opportunity to discuss the four models devised by the Franciscan Interprovincial Team, and to recommend which model might best serve our Franciscan life and mission in the years ahead. These meetings will also provide the opportunity to get to know friars of the other provinces.
 
The dates and locations of the four interprovincial gatherings are:
  • June 6-9, 2016 - San Damiano Retreat, Danville, CA
  • June 13-16, 2016 - Siena College, Loudonville, NY
  • June 20-23, 2016 - Franciscan Retreat, Albuquerque, NM
  • July 18-21, 2016 - Cenacle Retreat House, Chicago IL - July 18-21, 2016
Each province needs four groups of seven friars from their province - one group for each of these four gatherings, with different friars in each group. We hope to have a good mix of friars who represent both the younger friars (i.e., newer to religious life) as well as those whose years of fraternity and ministry have instilled in them a wisdom that comes from lived experience. 

Please respond to this email as soon as possible to let us know which of these four you might be willing to attend and represent our province. 
 
If you have any questions or concerns, please do not hesitate to contact me.

Peace,
 
Thomas Washburn, OFM
Secretary to the Provincial Minister
Fr. Andre Cirino offers series of retreats in the Philippines
PHILIPPINES - Fr. Andre Cirino recently conducted two seven-day retreats on St. Bonaventure's Itinerarium Mentis in Deum in the form of a Journey into God Retreat with the Poor Clares here. 

Teaming up with him are Josef Raischl OFS and his wife Bernadette, an RN and psychologist. There are 25 monasteries of Poor Clares in the Philippines. The first retreat welcomed 58 Poor Clares, and the second will consist of 74 Poor Clares. The Second Order is very much alive in the Philippines!


Fr. Christopher Gaffrey completes spiritual direction program 
CLEARWATER, FLORIDA - On January 30, Fr. Christopher Gaffrey, OFM, graduated from the Spiritual Direction Program at the Cenacle of Our Lady of Divine Providence School of Spirituality. 

Chris received his certification from the school in association with Franciscan University of Steubenville. Our Visitator, Br. Niall O'Connell, Br. Mark Brown, OFM, and English friar Donal Walsh, OFM, were at the graduation Mass. 

The program involved three two-week sessions since 2014 focusing on healing, prayer, and virtues, with courses on Christology, Mariology, the Saints, Healing Prayer, the Gifts of the Holy Spirit, the Ignatian Rules of Discernment, and the Elements of Spiritual Direction, which included practical exercises in listening and spiritual direction sessions. 

Additionally, Chris had to complete the Spiritual Exercises of St. Ignatius and a 16-week guided spiritual direction practicum with verbatim write-ups of each session. 

"The experience has been transformative not only in my service as a spiritual director but also in bringing about healing in my own life," Chris said. 

(l. to r.) General Visitator Niall O'Connell, Fr. Christopher Gaffrey, English Friar Donal Walsh, Br. Mark Brown.
Canadian friars move forward with reconfiguration process
NOTE: The letter below has been sent to all of the friars in Canada by the Steering Committee for reconfiguration there.

February 2nd, 2016

To our brothers throughout Canada.

May the Lord give you peace.

We are writing to inform you of the progress being made in restructuring the OFM presence in Canada. 

You will recall that a Chapter of Mats was held on September 20-22, 2015, at St. Francis Retreat Centre in Caledon, Ontario.  This Chapter provided an opportunity for the friars in St. Joseph Province, Christ the King Province, St. Francis Foundation of the Immaculate Conception Province and from Croatian and Lithuanian entities to interact with each other and come to know each other better.  We would like to thank all the friars who attended the Chapter of Mats as well as those who were not able to attend but supported us through their prayerful presence.  From the feedback received, the friars appreciated the opportunity of coming together and the overall reactions to the Chapter have been quite positive.  The friars also appear to be comfortable in moving forward with the process of restructuring the OFM presence in Canada.

It is important to note that one of the primary motivations for restructuring the OFM presence in Canada is a desire to revitalize the life and mission of the Friars Minor and to renew our core values which are at the "heart of the living out of the Gospel life by each and every friar, each and every fraternity, each and every entity." (Reflections by Friar Michael Perry, OFM, Chapter of Mats, September 22, 2015).  Any option chosen for restructuring should therefore facilitate and enable the living out of these essential core values so as to open up and free the brothers to pursue their vocational call to fraternity and ministry. 

After the Chapter of Mats, the three Provincial Ministers met in New York on October 13, 2015.   During this meeting, the Provincial Ministers confirmed the role of the OFM Canadian Restructuring Steering Committee and the need for their work to continue.  The mandate and orientations of the Steering Committee were also clarified.  The Steering Committee consists of our brothers Pierre Ducharme (Chair) of Christ the King Province, Pierre Charland of St. Joseph Province and Rohwin Pais of the St. Francis Foundation.  The services of Doug Clorey, ofs have also been retained to facilitate the work of the committee.  On January 4-6, 2016, the Steering Committee met at St. Francis Friary in Edmonton, Alberta to continue its important work.

Over the next few months, the Steering Committee will continue to examine how revitalization of the OFM presence in Canada could be achieved through the creation of a union among the existing entities.  A Discussion Paper will be prepared to support consultations with the friars during the upcoming months.  The Steering Committee will also examine the juridical and canonical documents for each of the entities involved in the restructuring process, and consult with the professionals who have the required legal and canonical expertise.  Consultations will also be undertaken with other religious communities that have undergone a restructuring of their organizations so as to garner lessons learned from their respective experiences.
 
In summary, we wish to inform you that the process of restructuring continues to move forward, and to encourage you to engage in this process.  Please take advantage of every opportunity to participate in the discussion around this initiative; feel free to ask questions and express your views.  In the words of our Minister General, "Believe that the future is in God's hands and that God is calling and urging us to step out with the same radical trust that Francis of Assisi and the early brothers demonstrated in their lives." (Reflections by Friar Michael Perry, OFM, Chapter of Mats, September 22, 2015)

Pax et bonum!      
 
Marc Le Goanvec, OFM, Provincial Minister                                 
St. Joseph Province (Eastern Canada)
 
Dennis Vavrek, OFM, Provincial Minister
Christ the King Province (Western Canada)
 
Primo P. Piscitello, OFM, Provincial Minister
St. Francis Fondation, Immaculate Conception Province (Ontario)

Entertaining Angels | Reflection from Valley of the Angels
NOTE: Ali Jablonsky, a Master of Divinity student from Harvard Divinity School, recently visited Valley of the Angels. This is her reflection of her time there. 

By Ali Jablonsky

When I returned from Valley of the Angels Orphanage in Guatemala, I mentioned my trip in the joys and sorrows the children and I do in Religious Education. Immediately, one of our kids asked if I had any pictures I could show them. As the DRE, I have the incredible honor of getting to teach our children. Many months, I have written my newsletter article on what the children have taught me. This month, I'd like to talk about what I learned from a different group of children.
 
Valley of the Angels is a school and home for over 200 children. These children have suffered immeasurably-they have known abuse, loss, and poverty by the time they come to Valley. At Valley, they live, learn, eat, pray, and play together in the shadow of a team of staff and volunteers who love and care for them in such a beautiful way.
 
Valley is a Catholic space. The children, teachers, volunteers, and administrators speak Spanish. It is located in a space so dangerous, it is categorized as being a place where the police won't go-the children are used to danger. And so I came, an American and a Unitarian Universalist minister-in-training who speaks preschool Spanish at best. I spent my long flight trying to figure out how to connect with the kids. But when I got there, my plans and thoughts were interrupted by excited hugs and huge smiles. The children welcomed me without any hesitation. They didn't see the many things that separated us, they were unafraid of the unknown-that I didn't look like them, that they didn't know me, and that I couldn't really speak the language didn't matter. They shared their food, showed me where to sit, and pulled me into their futbol games. These children love radically.
 
We talk about seeing the divine or the love in each person, we sing of being certain there is more love somewhere. These children taught me what it means to believe this completely. In this Catholic space, I thought so much about our Unitarian Universalist principles. In kids' language, our principles teach us that every person is important and that all people should be accepted and treated kindly and fairly. These Catholic Guatemalan children taught me so much about Unitarian Universalism.
 
There's a bible verse I remember from my childhood: Do not forget to show hospitality to strangers, for by doing so some people have shown hospitality to angels without knowing it (Hebrews 13:2). My experience learning from these incredible children reminds me to always be open to learning from others. I hope our own children embrace the world with this mentality. I hope they recognize the angels in the strangers around them.  With this openness and presence, we truly can be an incredible interdependent web of life. 

Graduates at Valley of the Angels
Graduates with Fr. Michael Della Penna, OFM, at Valley
"Come and See" weekend set for April 
NEW YORK - There is one remaining "Come and See" discernment retreats for this year and the Vocation Team are asking each friar, parish or ministry site to promote them in their bulletins and other materials.

The final retreat for this year will take place April 15-17, 2016 at Immaculate Conception Friary in Boston. A sample bulletin announcement is below.

Vocation Preaching around the Province

A member of the Vocation Team would also like to come to your parish or place of ministry to preach about vocations. Please email vocations@icprovince.org to schedule their visit.

We are all Animators of Vocations

Finally, the Vocation Team recognizes that we are all called to be vocation animators. Please share with us the name and contact information of any young man in your parish or ministry or that you know who you think may have a vocation to our way of life. Again, please let us know at vocations@icprovince.org.
BULLETIN ANNOUNCEMENT

Please run the following announcement in your bulletin for the next several weeks:

"Come and See" Vocation Reatreat (April 15-17, 2016)

The Franciscan Vocation Office is holding a "Come and See" vocation discernment retreat for young men (ages 18-38) who are considering a calling to our Franciscan way of life. The retreat will take place April 15-17 at Immaculate Conception Friary in Boston. To register for the retreat contact the Vocation Office at vocations@icprovince.org or (800) 521-5442.
Regional Meetings near completion | Our Future in Hope
NEW YORK - The series of regional meetings in preparation for the May Provincial Chapter are nearly completed as the final meeting is scheduled to take place in Catskill on March 2. 

The meetings have followed a two-part format. The morning, facilitated by General Visitator Niall O'Connell, focuses on the reality of the province today as we look forward to our future. The afternoon, facilitated by Tom Washburn, ESC Executive Secretary, is a conversation about the four models that have been proposed for the reconfiguration of the provinces of the United States. 

General Visitator Niall O'Connell, OFM, asks that friars read a brief reflection prior to their Regional Meeting. It can be downloaded here:


Schedule of Regional Meetings:
  • November 4: Boston (completed)
  • November 11: New York City (completed)
  • December 10: Toronto (completed)
  • January 13: Wappingers Falls (completed)
  • January 27: Pittsburgh (completed)
  • March 2: Catskill