IC NEWS | Province of the Immaculate Conception
December 13, 2013 
In This Issue
From the Provincial Minister
Provincial Minister
Primo P. Piscitello, OFM

NEW YORK - This has been in some ways a sad week both globally and locally.  Globally as we have watched South Africa grieve the passing of a truly great man, Nelson Mandela - and certainly not just South Africa, for Mandela in the end really belonged to the whole world.  And, locally, of course, as this week we laid to rest our brother, Gilbert.

 

It can often be tough when we lose someone right in the midst of this festive season.  The world is proclaiming Christmas (I know it is Advent, brothers, but the world certainly thinks it's already Christmas!); there is joy everywhere and when we lose a loved one, a brother, a member of our family, there is a disconnection between what is going on outside and what is going on inside.

 

If you watched any of the coverage of Mandela's passing or the ongoing memorials this week, while sad, there is a spirit of joy there also.  They are not just grieving and mourning the passing of a man, but they are truly celebrating the life he lived and the contribution he made.  There is even singing and literal dancing in the streets.  Perhaps the thing that struck me most about Mandela was in an interview years ago after 27 years in prison, he forgave his jailers.  When asked why he forgave them he said, "If I didn't forgive them, then I would never actually be free."  Powerful words from an amazing man of our time.

 

As we gathered for Gilbert's services this week, I can't help but think that this image of celebration is the truly Christian image and one that we might all learn from.  After all, our hearts are filled with love and gratitude for the people who were in our lives.  I, like many of you, knew Gilbert for many, many years.  For me, it was over 50 years from formation years through the times that we were stationed together. And, one of the things that kept coming up from friars and even his former parishioners was how much Gil loved this time of year.  He loved Christmas, he loved to throw a party and celebrate. He was generous and kind and was in his best element if he was making others happy.  This is something we should celebrate - especially at this time of year.  Gilbert was a gift in the lives of all of us who had the pleasure and honor of knowing him.

 

For whatever reason, we often lose loved ones this time of year, so my thought for you this week is to celebrate them. Remember them with love and joy. And recall why the loved ones who have gone before us were such gifts in our lives.  And, let us all strive to be a gift to those around us as well.

 

May our brother, Gilbert, rest in peace and in joy! 

 

A continued Happy Advent!


God bless,

Fr. Primo

RIP: Fr. Gilbert Silverio, OFM
  BOSTON - Friars, family, friends and former parishioners gathered at St. Margaret's Church in Buzzards Bay on Wednesday, December 11, to celebrate a Mass of Christian Burial for our brother, Fr. Gilbert Silverio, OFM, (88) who died on December 7th at St. Christopher Friary in Boston.
 
Provincial Minister Primo Piscitello, OFM, presided at the funeral Mass and Fr. Richard Martignetti, OFM, was the homilist.  Rick and Gilbert were stationed together at the Convento San Francesco in Rome for four years and it was during that time that Gilbert made the special request that one day Rick preach at his funeral.  

 

Joseph Anthony, the son of Ralph and Anita (Rea) Silverio, was born on October 27, 1925 in Boston, Ma.  He was received into the First Order on July 14, 1950 and made his temporary profession on July 15, 1951 at Immaculate Conception Novitiate in Troy, New York.

 

Gilbert professed Solemn Vows on July 15, 1954 at Mount Alvernia Seminary in Wappingers Falls, New York.  He was ordained to the Sacred Priesthood on June 20, 1959 by the Most Rev, Bernardine Mazzarella, D.D., at Mount Alvernia Seminary, Wappingers Falls, New York.

 

For many years, Gilbert worked with great ardor in the ministry of Secondary Education.  He began at Christopher Columbus High School in the North End of Boston in July, 1961 and eventually assumed the leadership responsibility of Principal from 1970 to 1982.

 

Gilbert's other ministerial experiences included: Formation Team at St. Bonaventure Friary in Melrose, Ma., St. Thomas Aquinas Parish, Derry, N.H. as Pastor, St. Joseph Friary in Onset, Ma. as Friary Vicar and Parochial Vicar of St. Margaret/St. Mary Churches in Buzzards Bay, Ma.  In June, 1997, Gilbert was transferred to Convento San Francesco in Rome, Italy first as Administrator and then Guardian as well as being a member of the Post-Novitiate Formation Team.  He remained in Rome until August, 2001.

 

Gilbert then returned to St. Joseph Friary in Onset, Ma.  He served as Pastor of St. Margaret/St. Mary Churches in Buzzards Bay, Ma. From 2002-2004.  In recent years, Gilbert had once again taken up residence at St. Joseph Friary in Onset and then, because of declining health, moved to St. Christopher Friary in the North End of Boston.

 

About 20 friars gathered for his wake on Tuesday, December 10, at St. Margaret's and funeral Mass the following morning. His body was interred at the Friars' Mausoleum at Mount Alvernia Friary, Wappingers Falls the next day. 

 

"..Friars must remember to offer suffrages for every deceased friar of the province, professed or novice.  In particular, each priest shall offer the Eucharist twice.  When news of the death of a friar is received, a concelebrated Mass in his memory should be scheduled in the friaries of the province and the foundations.  On the thirtieth day after and on the first anniversary of the death of a confrere, professed or novice, the Eucharist shall be celebrated for him in the house to which he was assigned at the time of death .."(PS-8, 1-3).

 

Heavenly Father, we commend to your mercy Father Gilbert and all our brothers who have embraced Sister Death and we thank you for the gift of their lives.  United in faith and prayer, through the intercession of our Immaculate Mother Mary, Our Holy Father Saint Francis and Our Holy Mother Saint Clare, keep us ever steadfast in your love as we strive for your vision of a world made new.
 
May our brother, Gilbert, rest in peace.
Fr. Patrick Boyle, OFM, installed as Pastor at Our Lady of Peace
BROOKLYN - In the midst of a celebration of a Sunday parish Mass, Fr. Patrick Boyle, OFM, was officially installed as the 22nd Pastor of Our Lady of Peace Church on Sunday, December 8. Auxiliary Bishop Octavio Cisneros presided over the Mass of Installation and Provincial Minister Primo Piscitello, OFM, was Principal Concelebrant.
 
 Photos courtesy of Fr. Orlando Ruiz, OFM
Merry Christmas from the Interprovincial Novitiate

 

Merry Christmas from all of us here in Burlington

May the Lord, born unto us at Christmas, bless you during this holy season!

 

Peace & Every Good,

 

Front Row: Fr. Dennis Schafer - SHJ, Fr. Henry Beck - SJB, Br. Norbert Bertram - SJB, Fr. Ralph Parthie - SHJ, Fr. Scott Brookbank, HNP

 

Standing: Br. Robert Torres - IC, Br. Luis Hernandez - IC, Br. Jonathan Piette - SHJ, Br. Abraham Joseph - HNP, Br. Ramon Castellon - SJB, Br. Noel Bustillos - OLG,

Br. Zach Bischler - SJB, Br. Harry Milling - SHJ, Br. James Seiffert - SB, Br. Peter Lin, CSAP, Br. Chris Fitzpatrcik - HS, Br. Maxwell Klug - Assum.  

Friars visit Italian Shrines
ROME - Below are pictured the friars from the post-novitiate formation community at Convento San Francesco in Rome as they traveled to various shrines in Italy. Here they are pictured outside of the Shrine of St. Michael the Archangel in Gargano.  They also visited the tomb of St. Padre Pio in San Giovanni Rotondo and Benevento. We have two men in post-novitiate formation in Rome, Br. Robeto Serrano, OFM, and Br. Walter Vijil, OFM.  The community also includes men in post-novitiate formation from the Province of St. Paul, Malta, and one from the European Missionary Fraternity in Palestrina begun by former General Minister Giacomo Bini, OFM. 
   
Advent JPIC Reflection

From Fr. Christopher Gaffrey, OFM, Provincial JPIC Animator. This reflection may be used personally, in your friaries or places of ministry.

 

Opening Song: City of God

 

Gospel Luke 7:18b-23

 

John summoned two of his disciples and sent them to the Lord to ask, "Are you the one who is to come, or should we look for another?" When the men came to him, they said, "John the Baptist has sent us to you to ask, 'Are you the one who is to come, or should we look for another?'" At that time he cured many of their diseases, sufferings, and evil spirits; he also granted sight to many who were blind. And he said to them in reply, "Go and tell John what you have seen and heard: the blind regain their sight, the lame walk, lepers are cleansed, the deaf hear, the dead are raised, the poor have the good news proclaimed to them. And blessed is the one who takes no offense at me."

 

Readings for Meditation

 

"Today we are seeing in many pastoral workers, including consecrated men and women, an inordinate concern for their personal freedom and relaxation, which leads them to see their work as a mere appendage to their life, as if it were not part of their very identity. At the same time, the spiritual life comes to be identified with a few religious exercises which can offer a certain comfort but which do not encourage encounter with others, engagement with the world or a passion for evangelization. As a result, one can observe in many agents of evangelization, even though they pray, a heightened individualism, a crisis of identity and a cooling of fervor. These are three evils which fuel one another.

 

At times our media culture and some intellectual circles convey a marked skepticism with regard to the Church's message, along with a certain cynicism. As a consequence, many pastoral workers, although they pray, develop a sort of inferiority complex which leads them to relativize or conceal their Christian identity and convictions. This produces a vicious circle because they end up being unhappy with who they are and what they do, they do not identify with their mission of evangelization, and this weakens their commitment. They end up stifling their missionary joy with a kind of obsession about being like everyone else and possessing what everyone else possesses. Their work of evangelization thus becomes forced, and they devote little energy and very limited time to it.

 

Pastoral workers can thus fall into a relativism which, whatever their particular style of spirituality or way of thinking, proves even more dangerous than doctrinal relativism. It has to do with the deepest and inmost decisions that shape their way of life. This practical relativism consists in acting as if God did not exist, making decisions as if the poor did not exist, setting goals as if others did not exist, working as if people who have not received the Gospel did not exist. It is striking that even some who clearly have solid doctrinal and spiritual convictions frequently fall into a lifestyle which leads to an attachment to financial security, or to a desire for power or human glory at all cost, rather than giving their lives for others in mission. Let us not rob ourselves of missionary enthusiasm!" - Pope Francis, Evangelii Gaudium 78-80

 

"Gospel poverty cannot be authentically understood outside a personal relationship with 'the poor crucified Christ'. He makes Himself one of the least and of sinners, who wished to strip Himself in order to take on the condition of a slave. He comes down humbly into the midst of us each day in the Eucharist in order to join Himself to the poverty of each one, renewing us through His alliance. This experience alone will be capable of enabling in the Friar Minor that dynamism of joyful restitution of goods and freedom, of sharing in solidarity and friendship with the poor, which defines his Franciscan consecration." Ratio Formationis Franciscana, 79

 

Some questions and aspirations to take to the Lord in prayer: 

  • Lord, when You first called me, who and what did you call me to be? How am I to be that today?
  • Whom did You call me to serve?
  • What do You offer me that I may fulfill Your call upon my life?
  • Please renew my encounter with You!
  • Show me how to know You more day by day.
  • Reveal to me, Lord, how my actions or inactions affect those who are both spiritually and materially poor.
  • Help me to set goals to benefit Your body, the Church, and all my brothers and sisters - fellow creatures of God the Father.
  • Renew in me the joy of the gospel so that I may be an instrument of Your Peace and Justice in and through my life lived in union with You, reaching out to others with the good news in word and deed.

Our Father...

 

Final Blessing


Our Lady of Guadalupe celebrations in Brooklyn and Wapps
BROOKLYN - The faith communities at Our Lady of Peace in Brooklyn and at Mount Alvernia Retreat Center in Wappingers Falls held wonderful celebrations for the Feast of Our Lady of Guadalupe on December 12.  Below are a few photos from each of those celebrations.

               Photos courtesy of Fr. Orlando Ruiz, OFM
Relics of St. Anthony from Padua visit NYC
 
NEW YORK - The friars of our mother church, the Shrine Church of St. Anthony of Padua, on Sullivan Street in New York City, welcomed the relics of St. Anthony from the Basilica in Padua, Italy on Sunday, December 8.

A Solemn Mass was celebrated at 11:00 a.m. followed by devotions to the Saint and veneration of the relics.  These precious relics of St. Anthony are currently traveling around the world to commemorate the 750th anniversary of the discovery of St. Anthony's relics by St. Bonaventure.

Fr. Joseph Lorenzo, OFM, Pastor, said, "Our Mass for the Relics of Saint Anthony was a tremendous spiritual experience. Church was full, music was outstanding, a true celebration of our parish patron."
 
Parishioner Toni Rosa said of the experience, "It was a once in a lifetime experience that I will never forget. To have Saint Anthonys relics in Our church. To be able to touch Him and see Him just so beautiful."
 
 
"Come and See" Vocation Retreat to be held January 17-19
BOSTON, MA - The Franciscan Vocation Office will be holding a "Come and See" Discernment Retreat Weekend January 17-19, 2014, and ask all parishes, ministries, to post the following announcement in their respective buleltins:
 
"COME AND SEE" VOCATION DISCERNMENT WEEKEND, January 17-19, 2014
 
The Franciscans of the Immaculate Conception Province are holding a Vocation Discernment Weekend Retreat for men between the ages of 18-38 who are discerning a possible Franciscan vocation. The weekend retreat will take place at our Franciscan Friary in Boston, MA from Friday, January 17- Sunday, January 19.  Please contact Fr. Alvin, OFM, ([email protected] or 1-800-521-5442) as soon as possible if you'd like to be part of this weekend retreat. 
ENCOURAGE 1 Vocation Challenge
Last year's study by the Center for Applied Research in the Apostolate (CARA), showed that the only thing that makes a difference when it comes to increasing vocations is: ENCOURAGEMENT!  If a young man was encouraged by even one other person, they were three times more likely to pursue a vocation to religious life or the priesthood than someone who was not encouraged.  If they were encouraged by three people,they were five times more likely to pursue that vocation.  
 
Encouragement works!
 
Our challenge to every friar in the Province is simply this.  In the months ahead, take the time to ENCOURAGE ONE young man to consider living our way of life.  It really makes a difference!

And send their contact information to our Vocation Office so we can follow up and assist them with their discernment.  You can contact the Vocation Office at: 800-521-5442 or [email protected]

ENCOURAGE ONE! 
2014 Interprovincial Retreat to be held January 6-10
LAS CRUCES, NEW MEXICO - The 2014 Interprovincial retreat will take place from January 6-10, 2014 at the Holy Cross Retreat Center in Las Cruces, New Mexico.

The retreat, entitled Dreams of Francis, Visions for Tomorrow, will be directed by Friars Jack Clark Robinson, OFM (Our Lady of Guadalupe Province) and Jason Welle, OFM (Assumption BVM Province). Friars from all OFM Provinces are welcome to attend.

The cost is $400 and registrations must be received no later than December 21, 2013.  

To register send your NAME, ADDRESS, PHONE, EMAIL, and PROVINCE with a check payable to FRIAR RETREAT to PO Box 12395, Albuquerque, NM  87195.
Jason Welle, OFM
Jack Clark Robinson, OFM
 

Please remember in your prayers:

 

Infirm Friars: Ron Bolfeta, Capistran Polgar, Diego Louis DiTommaso, Bruno Ciardiello, Juniper O'Connor, Louis Pintye, Roland Petinge, Luke Storino, Aubert M. Picardi, Paul Rotondi, Alban Montella, Benedict J. D'Alessandro, Bishop Gerald Scarpone, Januarius Izzo, Marcellinus Borg, Berard Tufo, Richard Passeri, Kieran Monahan, Isaac Calicchio, and Regis Gallo

 

Deceased Friars: Gilbert Silverio, Kenneth Ghastin and Matthew Morreale.

 

Infirm Family and Friends: Barbara Vinci (sister of Roch Ciandella); Lorraine Gliatta (sister of Ron Gliatta)

 

Deceased Family and Friends: Robert Foley (Mark Brown's brother-in-law), Jean Recupero, (sister of Frs. Matthew and Sal DeBenedictus); Rose Garone, Juan Jova, Stella Viviano, Evelyn Distefano, Alexander Piscitello, Leo Ghastin, Mary Rizzo and Dora Everett, and Curtis Reeve

 

Please pray for all friars, family, friends and benefactors, living and deceased.

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