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"Achieve success in any area of life by identifying the optimum strategies and repeating them until they become habits."
                                         ---- Charles J. Givens


Habits we Train...are Habits we Gain!

 

OUR HABITS DETERMINE OUR FUTURE

 

Experts agree that 90% of our daily behavior is habitual. Meaning that most of what we do everyday is on auto pilot. Habits are formed through repetition. Good or bad, anything you do over and over again...eventually becomes habit.

 

One of the many great things about Martial Arts training is the awareness of this, and the constant focus on developing good habits. The good news is that you can literally re-program yourself for greater success in any area of life.

 

To become healthy and fit, you develop habits that lead to better health and fitness. To improve personal safety, you simply decide to develop habits that lead to greater safety and awareness. If you want to improve your finances, you can study and develop habits that lead to great wealth and financial freedom.

 

HABITS DETERMINE YOUR QUALITY OF LIFE.

 

Negative habits lead to negative consequences. If you have negative health habits, sooner or later, you will pay the price. The results of negative habits may not show up immediately, but they will appear. People who smoke cigarettes don't die from their first cigarette, but millions of people die every year from this habit.

 

Positive and successful habits create positive rewards. If you want to enjoy a healthy, energetic and long life, you must have healthy habits. Good nutrition, daily exercise and a positive attitude have proven to have an influence on longevity and quality of life.

 

Improve your habits...and you'll improve your life.


 

 

Shihan Randy McElwee
Director
American Black Belt Academy  

 

 

 

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  Principles of a Martial Artist    
we are what we repeatedly do  
Three Habits You Can Break or Create Today
By Charles Duhigg
 
 

When you woke up this morning, what did you do first? Did you hop in the shower, check your email, or grab a doughnut? What did you say to your kids on the way out the door? Salad or hamburger for lunch? When you got home, did you put on your sneakers and go for a run, or pour yourself a drink and eat dinner in front of the television?

 

Most of the choices we make each day may feel like the products of well-considered decision making, but they're not. They're habits. And though each habit means relatively little on its own, over time the meals we order, what we say to our kids each night, and how often we exercise have enormous impacts on our health, productivity, financial security, and happiness.

In the last decade, our understanding of the neurology of habit formation has been transformed. We've learned how habits form -- and why they are so hard to break.

As a result, we now know how to create good habits and change bad ones like never before.

 

At the core of every habit is a neurological loop with three parts: a cue, a routine, and a reward.

 

1. Exercise

If you want to start an exercise habit, according to studies, it is essentially that you take advantage of the habit loop. Take, for instance, creating a habit to go running each morning. Studies say that you must choose a simple cue (like always lacing up your sneakers before breakfast or always going for a run at the same time of day) and a clear reward (such as a sense of accomplishment from recording your miles or the endorphin rush you get from a jog).

 

But, at first, the rewards inherent in exercise aren't enough. So to teach your brain to associate exercise with a reward, you need to give yourself something you really enjoy -- such as a small piece of chocolate -- after your workout.

 

This is counter intuitive, because most people start exercising to loose weight. But the goal here is to train your brain to associate a certain cue ("It's 5 o'clock") with a routine ("Three miles down!") and a reward ("Chocolate!").

 

Eventually, your brain will start expecting the reward inherent in exercise ("It's 5 o'clock. Three miles down! Endorphin rush!") and you won't need the chocolate anymore. In fact, you won't even want it. But until your neurology learns to enjoy those endorphins and the other rewards inherent in exercise, you need to jump-start the process.

 

And then, over time, it will become automatic to lace up your jogging shoes each morning. You won't want the chocolate anymore. You'll just crave the endorphins. The cue, in addition to triggering a routine, will start triggering a craving for the inherent rewards to come.

 

 

Habits 2-3       

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Puppy Love: Your Child's First Crush

   by Linda Morgan

 

 

It's not easy to be young and in love; ask any preteen girl. Most likely, she's obsessing right now over a boy in her class - a boy who thinks having a girlfriend is cool, but is frankly more interested in who'll be playing basketball with him after school.

 

The gender gap is only one of the hurdles that kids - and their parents - face when they embark on those early relationships grown-ups like to call "crushes."

For most kids, it begins around fifth or sixth grade, though some precocious children will start having crushes as young as second grade. A new gender awareness begins to emerge at this age. "Kids start hanging out more with kids of their own sex," explains Piper Sangston, a social worker at Chinook Middle School in Bellevue. "They don't want to be teased about 'liking' someone."

 

By seventh grade, schools introduce sex ed, kids show up at school dances, and sparks start to fly. "Things become more complicated," says Sangston. "Girls have to be prettier and nicer. They have more girl-girl problems because they start to compete for boys."

 

Girls, vying for the same boys, sometimes betray each other, and best-friend relationships can suffer, Sangston says.

 

Some girls become obsessive with crushes. "They call the boy they like 12 times a day, or write him multiple messages, or create fantasies about him," says Bill Meleney, a Tacoma family therapist. It doesn't help that 13-year-old girls are considered "culturally incomplete" without a boyfriend, he says.

 

What are the boys doing amid all this chaos? Most likely, downloading the latest from iTunes or playing the hottest Xbox game. Boys tend to be more casual about all this, says Meleney. "If a guy has a crush on a girl, it's because she's cool - or because he's trying to get into sex too early, to prove something."

 

He may try to prove something, even if he hasn't had sex. "Pre-adolescent boys can begin to get this macho hyper-sexual attitude," says Janine Jones, Ph.D., a University of Washin­gton child psychologist. "They will talk like they are doing things when, in fact, they're not."

 

That's when a father - or a strong male role model - needs to become involved, she says. "These boys need to learn what's appropriate and what's not."

 

Modern puppy love... and the Internet

Young love has been around for a long time, but Twitter, MySpace and YouTube have not. Thanks to the Internet, teen and tween crushes and relationships move at a supersonic pace these days. "It's a speedier rumor mill than 20 years ago," says Sangston. "The information is faster, so the relationships are faster."

 

And anything goes. "Everything's talked about over the Internet," she says. "There are no rules. And it's easy to be mean." That's why a very old game must be monitored in a very new way. More than ever, mom and dad (or other caretakers) need to be firmly plugged into their kids' lives. "Parents should ask their kids a lot of questions," says Meleney. "They should have their kids' friends over for dinner. They should meet the friends' parents."

 

 They should also respect their child's privacy - up to a point. That point is the computer and the cell phone. "That's where kids have no right to absolute privacy," Meleney contends. Meleney keeps track of his son's MySpace and YouTube passwords, and checks out his email and cell-phone bills. "This," he says, "is not negotiable."

 

 

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Health Kick
 cardio fun

Why You Need Cardio Exercise

It's not just for weight loss anymore
 

By Paige Waehner,

 

 

Each week I get questions about cardio--how often we should do it, how hard we should work and why we need it in the first place. Many of us are confused about what to do because there are conflicting opinons about how much cardio we really need. The guidelines published by the American College of Sports Medicine suggest 30 minutes of moderate intensity exercise 5 days a week, or vigorous cardio 20 minutes a day, 3 days a week. For weight loss, you might need even more (up to 60-90 minutes) depending on your diet and other activities. It's tough keeping all these rules straight and, the good news is that you don't have to. Sometimes it's best to forget the rules and get back to basics: Cardio isn't just for weight loss.  

 

Our Bodies Are Made to Move

If you have a sedentary job, think about how your body feels at end of the day. Do you have tight muscles, an aching back, feel exhausted even though you haven't done anything physical? Maybe your shoulders burn from tension and your head hurts from staring at a computer screen for too long. Now, think about how your body feels after a workout. Your muscles are warm and flexible, the blood is pumping through your body, providing oxygen and energy. You feel energized, confident, proud of yourself and ready to take on the world. It's much different, isn't it? Our bodies are made to move--not sit around all day and yet, that's exactly what we're doing.

 

Next, take a moment to remember all the benefits of cardio exercise:

  • Weight loss
  • Stronger heart and lungs
  • Increased bone density
  • Reduced stress
  • Reduced risk of heart disease and some types of cancer
  • Temporary relief from depression and anxiety
  • More confidence about how you feel and how you look
  • Better sleep
  • More energy
  • Setting a good example for your kids to stay active as they get older

Notice that weight loss, while a big focus for many people, is only one benefit of cardio. Despite that, weight loss is often our only goal and not just for health, but to look good. While there's nothing wrong with wanting to look good, having that as our only goal can make exercise harder. Why? Because losing weight takes time...what happens if you don't see results on your timetable? Where will your motivation go if the scale doesn't cooperate? Open your mind to other reasons to exercise--you might just find new ways to make exercising easier.

Cardio for Better Quality of Life

 

 

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BBC dates for the month of February:
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DEMO Team dates for the month of February:
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  • 15 FEB13 - DEMO @ HSES  
  • 22 FEB 13