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Voices of Recovery: The Anonymous People
Define Recovery
Substance Abuse & The Workplace
Apply Spiritual Principles to Recovery
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Cedars at Cobble Hill
October 2012
RECOVERY DAY - SEPTEMBER 30TH, 2012

September 30th, 2012 was "RECOVERY DAY" in the Cities of Victoria and Vancouver, BC!

Recovery Day 2012 Neal
Neal Berger, Executive Director & Loren R. at Recovery Day in Vancouver. Photo provided by Fae Photography based out of Vancouver BC

As Canadians in recovery from alcohol/drug abuse and other addictive disorders, we came together along with our families, friends and allies to change public perceptions of recovery, end discrimination and keep a focus on the fact that recovery works and is making life better for millions of people. Most of us already know what addiction looks like in our communities...we are passionate about sharing the faces and voices of recovery in the hopes that others may join us on this path to health and wholeness.

Recovery Day was a glowing success - Thank you to all our alumni and friends of recovery for making this possible. It is when you are really living in the present - working, thinking, lost, absorbed in something you care about very much, that you are living spirituality. We have such gratitude for being a part of history in the making and being able to share it with all of you. September 30th has been proclaimed Recovery Day, and we look forward to continue to celebrate this day with you in the years to come.  
VOICES OF RECOVERY - THE ANONYMOUS PEOPLE    
There has been a lot of buzz lately for an up and coming documentary titled 'The Anonymous People' By Greg Williams, and for good reason. Greg is passionate about giving Recovery a voice and showing the world what Recovery looks like.

'The Anonymous People' shines a light on the personal and societal value of recovery through the moving stories of people who have gone public with their recovery. 


 

FILM SYNOPSIS:  

 

THE ANONYMOUS PEOPLE is a feature documentary film about the 23.5 million Americans living in long-term recovery from alcohol and other drug addiction. Deeply entrenched social stigma and mass participation in widely successful anonymous 12-step groups have kept recovery voices silent and faces hidden for decades. The vacuum created by this silence has been filled by sensational mass media depictions of addiction that continue to perpetuate a lurid public fascination with the dysfunctional side of what is a preventable and treatable health condition. Just like women with breast cancer, or people with HIV/AIDS, courageous addiction recovery advocates are starting to come out of the shadows to tell their true stories. The moving story of The Anonymous People will be told through the faces and voices of the leaders, volunteers, corporate executives, and celebrities who are laying it all on the line to save the lives of others just like them. This passionate new public recovery movement is fueling a changing conversation that aims to transform public opinion, and finally shift problematic policy toward lasting recovery solutions.

 

To see the preview for this film or to make a donation please visit: The Anonymous People: A Film about Recovery by Greg Williams 


 DEFINE RECOVERY - IN YOUR WORDS
Following the success of Recovery Day on September 30th, we are left thinking, what does Recovery look like? You may have seen our definition of recovery: To live with integrity; a positive and creative life filled with promise and endless possibilities. To experience the magnificence of one's spirituality and the power of virtue in one's humanity. To embrace fellowship and contribute to community. To seek to do right only because it is the right thing to do.

We would love to hear what Recovery looks like to you, or what your personal definition of Recovery is. feel free to send your thoughts to us. 
SUBSTANCE ABUSE AND THE WORPLACE: A CONSPIRACY OF SILENCE

Years ago, when alcoholism was first being described as a family illness, "Conspiracy of Silence" and "A Merry-Go-Round Named Denial" were phrases used to describe it. These phrases tried to capture the way in which the behavior of all members of the family contributed to the seriousness and chronic nature of the individual's alcoholism.

 

Throughout the development of protocols to work with "family systems," it became increasingly apparent that members of the family were much more at risk of developing a chronic illness as a result of living in this "toxic" system. They were seen to be more frequently represented on disability rolls, and users of health benefits, than the addicts themselves. This clearly was shown to be a situation where the whole family becomes "sick." Treatment outcome studies repeatedly produce evidence showing that treated individuals who return to a family which has not received any type of family care will relapse with greater frequency and severity. The toxic nature of the system can't be ignored as it is clearly a predictor of future problems - for all of the members.

 

Working in a treatment facility whose patients are mostly from the ranks of employed people suggests that in terms of early interventions (and prevention), workplaces have not made much progress in 30 years. The staff often wonders how it is that individuals who check in can be in such a state of total medical, psychological, social and spiritual deterioration as a result of his or her "crack" use (or cocaine, alcohol, marijuana, heroin, etc, etc., etc.) when only two days ago were at his or her job at the plant (or insurance company, government office, school where we they teach, or the hospital where they work). Quite often they had been performing, or supposedly performing, in safety-sensitive operations.

 

Shortly after these patients are stabilized and we can begin to gather information about their addiction and the history of their substance use, it becomes all too apparent that this has been an issue for a long time. What is more telling perhaps is that others have also been at least vaguely aware that there were difficulties. Recently, when helping an organization come to terms with the overdose death of one of its employees, it was frequently stated that "you could see it coming" or that it had been "just a matter of time."

 

Reducing the tragedies and the increasing risks presented by unrecognized, untreated and under-treated substance use disorders requires that we rethink how this occurs in organizations.

 

The idea that a policy which includes drug testing in its various forms will effectively resolve this complex health issue is like thinking that charging impaired drivers cures the nation of alcoholism. It may be a necessary piece of policy but it is certainly not a remedy. Employee Assistance Programs gained legitimacy by providing some good work with alcoholic employees over the years. However, most of these programs have evolved to the point to where they provide sound, often effective, voluntary and confidential services to employees and family members - but not to addicts and alcoholics or their families. Recognizing the need and voluntarily seeking help is something that addicts are not fond of doing. In fact, when we get them into treatment centers, they often spend the first two weeks trying to convince everyone they don't need to be there!

 

Real progress occurs when the organization borrows from family systems work and begins to see that the entire organization is involved in that same old conspiracy of silence and is on its own merry-go-round. After all, workplaces really are much like big families. As such, they are prone to suffering from the same things that cause distress (and illness) in all families. It has also become evident that like all those members of the addicted family who become the "walking wounded" from a host of stress-related illnesses, the inability of an organization to bring resolution to problems in this area results in the same toxic environment with the same results that we see in other families. Namely, other people getting sick and often less than satisfactory treatment outcomes become the norm.

 

Transplanting the knowledge and protocols that have long been producing outstanding outcomes when professionally applied to families who suffer from an addict's behavior has been done with an organizational strategy called Courage to Care. This process combines family systems work with an understanding of labour relations issues, production values, union mandates, treatment requirements and return-to-work processes into a powerful, comprehensive strategy. This can be a surprisingly quick way to bring resolution to substance use problems and clear the organization of those behaviors and attitudes that contribute to a toxic culture.

 

The family illness approach to addiction focuses on building a "healthy" family - a family where individual members flourish and the family no longer tolerates an addict who is not willing to recover. Even when the addict does not recover, the family will achieve health, for its members and the family as a whole. It seems to me that the goal for the workplace should be the same.


Neal Berger, Executive Director 
Applying Spiritual Principles in Recovery


Each month Recovery Connection profiles a different "principle" that helps us heal and develop our inner spirit and achieve "full" recovery. Recovery is an ongoing journey that involves working on our spiritual and personal growth on a daily basis. To get the most value working with these principles, reflect on the monthly principle in meditation or by journaling about how in recovery you relate to the concepts that are described. Write the affirmation down and repeat it silently to yourself frequently throughout the day(s) in order to change old thinking.

 

This month's spiritual principle: Detachment: Let go and have trust... and discover that life always has a way of working out for the best.  

  

 There may have been times in our addictive living when we simply walked away from difficult situations or people. But in recovery, we must learn to accept what is and detach, rather than get angry and leave. Detachment does not mean we need to abandon people we care about - it means we no longer get pulled down into an emotional situation. In recovery we need to learn to let go of that which is outside of our control and have faith in a Higher Power. Detachment involves letting go of our fears and releasing our need for a specific outcome. With detachment we are able to observe our feelings without them controlling our actions. The essence of detachment is finding a place of calm and peacefulness within where we're not longer buffeted by life's changing currents. We can do this when we have a deep abiding trust in our Higher Power, knowing that events in our life will work out for the best. Detachment allows us to find the gift or a higher purpose in any event.

 

Affirmation:Today I allow myself to detach emotionally from the people or situations I am struggling with and instead connect with the place of peace within, knowing all is well in my world.

 

This spiritual principle is taken from the "Act of Surrender Recovery Cards" which are available in the Cedars' bookstore. To learn more about spiritual principles go to

www.actofsurrender.com

 

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