John S. Gordon - Business and Personal Coach

"You have the greatness and the power.  I just help you turn on the switch."

MARVELOUS MONDAYS

May 23, 2016 - Issue 383 

HOW TO TEACH PEOPLE TO BELIEVE IN THEMSELVES.

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Children and Self-confidence
Our self-confidence and belief in ourselves begins early in our childhood.

How do we teach our children to believe in themselves? An example would be

when your child has achieved a goal. First have the child acknowledge self and

then you acknowledge them. i.e. "I bet you are proud of yourself. I'm proud of you

too."
How do you teach adults/employees to believe in themselves?
Give them a project whereby they can feel successful. Don't overwhelm. When

they feel they are making a contribution, it increases their awareness of their own

abilities. Even qualified people don't know all the specifics of a new company or a

new culture; giving them more information will allow them to feel more

confident.
EXERCISE
This week I invite you to reflect on the following:
  1. Are you judgmental or critical of others or new employees?
  2. Do you expect too much without giving enough information?
  3. How do you effectively communicate to help others believe in themselves?
  4. This week create an opportunity to use this new technique with a child.
JOHN'S BIO
John has owned several businesses and is an attorney who has practiced in the business and estate  areas.  In addition, he coaches business owners, executives, entrepreneurs, professionals, speech makers and presenters.  He also coaches persons who are determined to accelerate their careers and leadership skills or who are considering a career move or retirement.  John uses coaching as a tool in his leadership and business results based consulting.  He is also a life coach.

                   **John is currently accepting a few new coaching clients.**

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