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Unity Spiritual Life Center
October 16, 2013 ~ Weekly Update 
2604 Carver Street, Durham, NC 27705 · 919.471.3504  www.UnitySpiritualLifeCenter.org
  
In This Issue
OCTOBER 20, 2013...10:30am...Paula Zabkar Speaks...Lesson: Always Do Your Best - Special Music: Joyce McDonald
PAULA'S PERSPECTIVES...Good Vibrations
BUILDING COMMUNITY;TRANSFORMING LIVES...Check out events...Mark your calendars! Meetings...Workshops...Events....Projects...and more
COMMUNITY ZONE... Check out What's Happening in the USLC spiritual community.
FEATURE...Sacred Abundance and Gratitude
WOW! ...Healing
FUNDRAISER: Consider a USLC Kroger card. Ask about details.
SUNDAY: 9:30am: Silent Meditation. 10:30am: Celebration Service, Childcare and Youth Classes...Office Hours 10am-1pm Monday, Tuesday, and Wednesday

 

 

Sunday, October 20,  2013, 10:30 am

 

  

Lesson for TodayAlways Do Your Best

 

When you do your best you take action because you love it...not because you expect a reward or recognition. This fourth agreement is about expressing what you are and living in the flow. Does every action you take allow you to feel good about yourself?  

 

 

Special Music:  Joyce McDonald 
  
  
  
  

 

Childcare provided for the service.


MEET & GREET follows the service ~

spend time munching and mingling,

as you greet old friends and meet new ones!   

 

  

                          

                                                             
  PAULA'S PERSPECTIVE

 

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Good Vibrations

"If people are troublesome, you have only to change your thought about them, and then they will change too, because your own concept is what you see. This is true revenge."      

Emmet Fox, Sermon on the Mount

 

We tend to get sucked in to other people's poor behavior and attitudes. If someone treats us badly, ignores us, glares at us, tells us the most negative thing about us, writes short snippy emails or texts...well, we jump right on that wagon. Most of the time we probably shoot the same ammunition back their way. We have an "I'll show them" attitude.

 

It is probably less often that we respond to negativity, judgment and attitude with love or caring or compassion. "What?" you say! How is this possible?  If we stay in our ego, in our need to be right, in our need to police the world, in our need to show them the right way...it is impossible to respond from love. Here we stay stuck in the negative energy...nothing can be solved at the same level from which it emerged. We just keep going round and round and round.

 

If we can accept that our problem with troublesome people must be resolved at a higher level of energy in us...then we can begin to understand how Fox's statement might work. If we can lift our idea out of the gutter of judgment to a different thought, a thought that projects peace or love or harmony or understanding...Fox says it will "crumble away in front of you"...in other words the troublesome person completely loses his/her power to affect you at all.

 

Not only does the troublesome one lose the power to influence you...you actually are the power that can influence them!  When you shift your attitude from judgment to compassion, understanding and love...from the lower vibration of negativity to the higher vibration of love... you can begin to see them in a new light...you can see them from an open heart.

Take responsibility for the energy, the vibration you bring to life...in all places, with all people and in all ways!

 

Peace Always,

 

Paula

 

REGULAR EVENTS 

 

 

*  The Healing and Prayer Ministry answers emailed or phoned prayer requests and makes calls or meets for prayer at the Center.  Prayer requests put in the Prayer Box are answered and sent on for Silent Unity at Unity Village.  Ministerial calls are made to those who are hospitalized or otherwise "shut in".  Please contact our Center office for information on contacting our Healing/Prayer team.

 

*  First Friday of every month:  7pm - Fun First Friday

 

 

SPECIAL EVENTS

 

MARK YOUR CALENDAR!

 


Home Book Study Groups - Three groups have been established for our first home book study to discuss The Four Agreements. Two groups will meet on Thursday evenings at 7pm, one will meet at the home of Jeanie Rodgers (Stone Hill Estates) near Wake Forest Road and Mineral Springs Road (919-237-1998) and the other will meet at USLC. On Wednesday evenings at 7pm, another group will be meeting at USLC.  You are welcome to join any group.  Pick up a guide sheet on the table at the back of the sanctuary.  The book is available for $7.  The second meeting of the groups will be on the 23rd and 24th.

 

BEGAN OCTOBER 8 - Welcome anytime - Spiritual Economics Class.  On Tuesday's from 7-8:30pm, October 8-November 19, a 7 week class based on the book, Spiritual Economics by Eric Butterworth, will meet in the USLC sanctuary.  " If you want to change your life, you will have to alter your thoughts."  Eric Butterworth is a master teacher of Unity Truth.  He presents for us a program of personal practice and discipline so that we can develop a rich mentality that will be impervious to fluctuations in the economy...and indeed life itself.  Make the decision to change your life now...and join me as we re-discover the principles and process of True Prosperity.  Instructor: Paula Zabkar.  The book is $10; a syllabus and sign-up sheet will be available at the back of the sanctuary. 

 

Nominating Committee:  Two new Board members will be elected at our annual meeting in February.  This committee is responsible for identifying potential candidates.  The requirements for Board service are:  member for one year, attend Board training, regular attendance at Sunday service and practice tithing.  Contact Renee Piere (Renee@reneepiere.com)  if you are interested in serving on this committee.

  

Christmas Choir is Forming.  Practice starting soon.  Contact Patricia Skinner at healingtc@aol.com.

  

 

 


WOW!
 

HEALING 

 

"Today the great need in the world is for healing...healing the nations, healing the soil, healing and caring for the animal kingdom; bringing to humanity the healing balm of the heaven world and helping people not only to believe, but also feel, the impetus towards goodness and kindness, one to another, and to all God's creation."

 

 White Eagle

 

Resolve to Serve!
  
 Put your talents to work.  Review the following opportunities and see which ones will be a good fit for you in 2013. 
  •  Platformers needed~ Want to help keep our services going? Consider becoming a platformer. Scripts and training are available. Contact Renee Piere to sign up
  • Greeters needed~ Sign up in the back of the sanctuary to become a Greeter- welcoming members & guests to our Sunday service, providing name tags, bulletins, and general information about USLC.
  • Loving childcare and youth teachers needed~ See our Ministry Director, Jill Lewis, if you are interested in working with any age group.
  • Prayer Partners needed~ If you feel that inner urge to deepen your prayer life, become a member of our Prayer Partner Team. Training is available.
  • Hospitality~ Remember to sign up to provide goodies for our Sunday Hospitality table.
  • Daily Word - sign up to read the Daily Word during our Sunday services.
Please remember to sign up in the back of the sanctuary to bring goodies one Sunday. Cash donations are also welcome anytime!

Sundays: 

9:30 Silent Meditation

Fillmore Chapel

 

10:30

Celebration Service & YOU/Uniteen classes

(Childcare available)

Directions: Exit 175 off of I-85. Turn NORTH on Guess Road; Turn right onto Carver Street. Go approximately half a block; USLC is located in the small business park on your left.


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Groceries Fundraiser

 

 

Please consider a USLC Kroger gift card for yourself or for gift giving!  They are a great way to say "thank you" to a teacher, neighbor, or family member, to give to a needy family you may know, or to donate  to a local shelter. 

 

To get USLC Kroger gift cards, contact Carla Garcia to order them and they will be available within a few short days.  As always, you can purchase them for an initial startup amount of $5.00 and load any additional amount you would like at your local Kroger store.

 

It's easy gift giving and a great way to support USLC for no additional cost to you!

 

Please remember to recharge your Kroger card each month so we can reach our $5,000.00 goal in order to be eligible for our 5% bonus.  

 


Questions? Want to get a card? See Carla Garcia!
 
MINISTRY NEWS

 

The CHILDREN AND YOUTH MINISTRY is in need of teachersfor the youth program. We now have several age groups attending on Sundays. We have a regular assistant on Sundays for the nursery.  The immediate need is for four volunteers, each to assist with the children one day a month.  We also need a Teacher/Assistant for our children in the Unikids group. All lesson plans will be provided for you. Please contact the office if you would like to volunteer for this very important Ministry.  For information please contact Elise VanBuskirk at elise1128@gmail.com or 908-892-7341 or Annie Whitney at annie.g.whitney@gmail.com or 919-416-1863.

 

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COMMUNITY ZONE
  

SPECIAL THANKS to our USLC work day volunteers. We love you, we bless

you, we appreciate you and we behold the Christ in you.

 

George Brendlen                                  Renee Piere

Ginny Brendlen                                    Jeanie Rodgers

Jerry Clem                                           Tim Shanholtzer

Janice Escott                                        Cathy Stanwyck

Carla Garcia                                         Renee Wells

Lynn Karatz                                         Lynn Zabkar

Helen Massey

  

Closet Cleaning!We have cleaned out our closets to make room for 
the new here at USLC.  All members of the congregation and visitors have first dibs on what we have gathered.  We are planning to donate what s left to a local non-profit.  Although many have already looked over the items and taken what they wanted, there is still a lot left.  After this Sunday, 20th, what is left will be donated.  Have a look or another look to see if you can use any of these treasures.  All items are in the Fillmore Chapel.  Love Offering

 

 

Sandy Hemenway would like your help with several creative endeavors:

1)  If you have ever had the inkling to write New Thought lyrics, Sandy has a lot of music and not enough words and would love to work with you.

2)  Sandy is also writing a New Thought book and looking for people to review, critique, and discuss his ideas with.

3)  Sandy has a vision of doing a series of New Thought concerts and would like to work with someone to create a poster for these concerts.

 

 If your're interested in joining Sandy in any of his creative endeavors, email him at FIREMANE@ nc.rr.com for more details.

 

 

 

 

   
KEEPING UPWhat's happening in your neighborhood?  Are you traveling, hosting visiting friends or relatives, having a yard sale, announcements, other activites?  Send your information to rodgers.jean@gmail.com by Tuesday of each week.
  

FEATURE ARTICLE

 

Sacred Abundance and Gratitude

Excerpted from The Eye of the Storm by Max Lucado

 

It happened every Friday evening, almost without fail, when the sun resembled a giant orange and was starting to dip into the blue ocean.  Old Ed came strolling along the beach to his favorite pier. Clutched in his bony hand was a bucket of shrimp. Ed walks out to the end of the pier, where it seems he almost has the world to himself. The glow of the sun is a golden bronze now. Everybody's gone, except for a few joggers on the beach. Standing out on the end of the pier, Ed is alone with his thoughts...and his bucket of shrimp.
  
Before long, however, he is no longer alone. Up in the sky a thousand white dots come screeching and squawking, winging their way toward that lanky frame standing there on the end of the pier.  Before long, dozens of seagulls have enveloped him, their wings fluttering and flapping wildly. Ed stands there tossing shrimp to the hungry birds. As he does, if you listen closely, you can hear him say with a smile, 'Thank you. Thank you.  In a few short minutes the bucket is empty. But Ed doesn't leave.

He stands there lost in thought, as though transported to another time and place.  When he finally turns around and begins to walk back toward the beach, a few of the birds hop along the pier with him until he gets to the stairs, and then they, too, fly away. And old Ed quietly makes his way down to the end of the beach and on home.

If you were sitting there on the pier with your fishing line in the water, Ed might seem like 'a funny old duck,' as my dad used to say. Or, to onlookers, he's just another old codger, lost in his own weird world, feeding the seagulls with a bucket full of shrimp.

To the onlooker, rituals can look either very strange or very empty. They can seem altogether unimportant ... maybe even a lot of nonsense.  Old folks often do strange things, at least in the eyes of Boomers and Busters.  Most of them would probably write Old Ed off, down there in Florida . That's too bad. They'd do well to know him better.
  
His full name: Eddie Rickenbacker . He was a famous hero in World War I, and then he was in WWII. On one of his flying missions across the Pacific, he and his seven-member crew went down.  Miraculously, all of the men survived, crawled out of their plane, and climbed into a life raft.

Captain Rickenbacker and his crew floated for days on the rough waters of the Pacific. They fought the sun. They fought sharks. Most of all, they fought hunger and thirst. By the eighth day, their rations ran out. No food. No water. They were hundreds of miles from land and no one knew where they were or even if they were alive. Every day across America millions wondered and prayed that Eddie Rickenbacker might somehow be found alive.

The men adrift needed a miracle. That afternoon they had a simple devotional service and prayed for a miracle. They tried to nap. Eddie leaned back and pulled his military cap over his nose. Time dragged on. All he could hear was the slap of the waves against the raft...  Suddenly, Eddie felt something land on the top of his cap.  It was a seagull!

Old Ed would later describe how he sat perfectly still, planning his next move. With a flash of his hand and a squawk from the gull, he managed to grab it and wring its neck. He tore the feathers off, and he and his starving crew made a meal of it - a very slight meal for eight men. Then they used the intestines for bait. With it, they caught fish, which gave them food and more bait . . . and the cycle continued. With that simple survival technique, they were able to endure the rigors of the sea until they were found and rescued after 24 days at sea.

Eddie Rickenbacker lived many years beyond that ordeal, but he never forgot the sacrifice of that first life-saving seagull... And he never stopped saying, 'Thank you.'  That's why almost every Friday night he would walk to the end of the pier with a bucket full of shrimp and a heart full of gratitude. 
          
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