Why I Am Not Yet Dead    

An Early Thanksgiving Thanksgiving 


Harry T. Cook

By Harry T. Cook
11/14/14
 

In appreciation: Elisabeth
Heath, M.D., Melanie Smith, R.N., Tammy Carreri, R.N., and Laura Zubeck, R.N., M.B.A.

 

With special thanks to Paul Ehrmann, D.O., and Kenneth Goldman, M.D.

 

Ten months ago, just 11 days after I turned 75, I was diagnosed with metastatic prostate cancer. Over the ensuing months since, I have been treated by a dream team of medical professionals of the highest caliber and am now past immediate danger. I have been told that I will quite probably die of some other malady -- perhaps, as I have written before, aggravation.

 

But I could just as well be dead and gone by now. A PSA level above 560 at the outset together with a telling ultrasound and biopsy dictated that surgery would be dangerous as well as useless.

 

My oncologist -- a world-class physician-researcher in the complexities of prostate cancer -- decided to continue the treatment a kind urologist had begun, namely injections of a drug that lowers the level of testosterone on which the cancer cells feast. The goal is to starve them to death or at least into long-term hibernation. And if they awaken, I have been assured that there are other available measures that could put them out of business.

 

The once-every-three months injections are frightfully expensive. So are the periodic bone scans and CT scans -- both in four figures. The attendance of the oncologist and her associates does not come for nothing, either. Nor do the prescription drugs.

 

I am a retired priest living on a modest pension and Social Security. Fortunately, my talented wife of 35 years is gainfully employed, though we have to keep our eyes trained on the bottom line. Had circumstances required us to pay all the costs associated with treatment from my income, we would easily and already have spent most of my pension and Social Security for 2014 and would be on the verge of destitution, not to mention an imminent burden upon our adult children.

 

Prostate cancer, absent early surgery, tends to accompany one who has it to the grave. As of this writing otherwise in robust health, I intend to live long enough to see our five grandchildren at the very least through their adolescence and, ideally, through college. Anything past that would be a bonus.

 

Medicare could make that possible. It is, however, the bugaboo of many of those soon to assume expanded legislative power in this country. They make snide references to Medicare as an "entitlement." Medicare is not an entitlement. It has been earned by millions of us throughout our years of employment and on into retirement.

 

The monthly Medicare premium has been deducted from my Social Security benefit since I turned 65 a decade ago. I have begrudged not one penny of those deductions against the day I might need that benefit to maintain or restore my health which, in turn, would allow me to continue to be a useful human being.

 

My pension fund provides a supplement to Medicare as it recognizes that many of us who have given years of service to priestly ministry were paid substandard salaries that generally go with the job. Praise be to the spouses who have made the difference. To my Roman Catholic confreres, my sincere commiseration.

 

I am alive and well at this writing because, despite unending efforts to make it otherwise, we live in a nation that to some degree operates on a distributive economy. It is what makes possible such lifesavers as Social Security, Medicare and Medicaid. Even as I have paid income taxes all my working life and have paid into Social Security and Medicare through FICA, I now am able to draw on both as a senior citizen with lots left to give so long as I can maintain my health.

 

Such a distribution of national wealth through Medicare is a very good thing for our culture as a whole. Here I am, a man in his 76th year being treated for cancer, yet, thanks to my treatment, still able to contribute to knowledge through research, writing and teaching in my fields of competence. I am able as well to continue my volunteer work at a nonprofit where huge differences for good are made every day in people's lives. If any of them wish to thank me for whatever they assume I personally have done for them, they should thank Medicare and my medical team instead.

 

May the incoming Republican majority in the U.S. Congress see it that way. Rather than undo Social Security and Medicare, may the new Congress support and improve both for the sake of a healthier nation. It would be too bad to waste the acquired wisdom of elders who, if well or well enough, could mentor the next generation pro bono publico.

 

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Notice: Readers of the Westar Institute/Jesus Seminar's journal The Fourth R will find an article by Harry Cook on pages 19-23 and 28 of the November-December 2014 issue (Vo. 27, No. 6). www.westarinstitute.org/resources/more-about-the-fourth-r

 


Copyright 2014 Harry T. Cook. All rights reserved. This article may not be used or reproduced without proper credit.
 


Readers Write
Re essay of 11/7/14 The Drive

Anne Bradley, Oceanside, California:

I was born and raised in Grosse Pointe, and while I winced at Grace Cook's impressions of it, I could understand. It's the stark contrast in going from there into Detroit. It would naturally shock someone of her obvious sensitivity on first sight.

 

Donald Worrell, Troy, Michigan:

What an insightful essay by a lovely young girl!

 

Father Tom Jackson, Tyler, Texas:

Wonderful essay! Methinks the lovely Grace has fallen close to the tree of her upbringing.

 

Tom Richie, Anderson, South Carolina:

I am so glad that there is a 13-year-old who can see and feel the grossness of a Grosse Pointe and the sadness and the shame of what has been allowed to happen just across the street.

 

John Bennison, Walnut Creek, California:

Grace Cook's excellent essay reminded me it does not require a bankrupt city to show us the gross disparity between rich and poor. In the mid-'60s, famed artist David Hockney's paintings represented a definitive era in modern American art, portraying the luxurious living in sunny and prosperous Southern California. One iconic piece, entitled "Splash," depicted the clean, motionless and angular lines of a home with a deep blue pool and azure sky, void of any human presence; broken up only by a splash that must have come from an invisible someone who had the means to enjoy such luxury. Now a new Los Angeles artist, Ramiro Gomez, Jr., has reinterpreted Hockney's works with renditions of his own in a series called "Domestic Help." He takes Hockney's work and simply inserts the figures of those otherwise invisible workers that make such an extravagant lifestyle possible: the pool man, the maid, the nanny, etc. It seems to me the challenges Detroit faces to find a way for all its citizens to dwell together with a greater sense of genuine equity -- and less fear -- differs only in magnitude with other communities.

 

Archibald Smythe, Toronto, Ontario, Canada:

Young Ms. Cook should be groomed to run for an office of some kind. Her clear views would help you in the States out of the mess you just got yourselves into. My "favorite" is the hog castrating senator-elect from Iowa. I'd love to hear what Ms. Cook would have to say about her medieval politics.

 

Michael Fultz, Clarkson, Michigan:

The essay by Grace Cook was very interesting, and her idealism is refreshing. However, she makes the error we all make: We assume that everyone is like us when they aren't. There are people that are more comfortable in Grosse Pointe, and there are people who are more comfortable in Detroit. This explains why the white, empathetic liberal from the suburbs is far more concerned about the Detroit Public Schools system than the average black person in Detroit. In reality, the people in Grosse Pointe have as much control over the conditions in Detroit as they have over the conditions on the planet Saturn. It is really up to the people of Detroit to do something, assuming they believe something needs to be done.

 

Fred Fenton, Concord, California:

Grace Cook is right. Crossing from one street takes you from rich to poor, in Detroit and in many other big cities in America. She believes the wealthy in Grosse Pointe "should realize that some people there (in Detroit) need some sort of house and would be thankful for even a small house." That made me think of the PBS NewsHour report last night about the rebuilding of a community in Indonesia devastated by a tsunami in 2004. The U.S. and other nations provided funds to build new houses for people. One man boasted that he had met Presidents Bush and Clinton who visited during the rebuilding of the community. We should be willing to create new housing for the people of Detroit and other cities hit by the economic tsunami caused by our government's failure to regulate the financial industry. Reflecting on the midterm elections this week David King of the Kennedy School said, "The American voter does not seem to have a long-term sense of where the country should be going or how we should get there." Perhaps clear thinking, compassionate young people like Grace will create a better way for America to go.

 

Tracey Martin, Southfield, Michigan:

While there is also a (dirty) canal separating Detroit and the Grosse Pointes, I am always startled by how starkly different are the two sides of Alter Road. The one to the north, mostly on Lake St Clair, begins with a middle class buoyancy of expectation while the one to the south, primarily along the Detroit River with the still-vibrant Renaissance Center towering in the misty distance, seems hopelessly static and resigned to the failure of promise. Your young guest essayist is quite promisingly insightful and already teasingly articulate. e.g. Fearful versus Safe.

 

What do you think?
I'd like to hear from you. E-mail your comments to me at revharrytcook@aol.com.