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Essay 8/1/14: Eternal Life
Alice Randolph, Paris, France:
While temporarily living as a graduate student in the City of Light, I still look forward each Friday to the light you shed on important ideas, events and developments. It's like a letter from home. Your essay today "Eternal Life" will be printed out and framed. It is the best thing I have ever read on the subject. Thank you for your intellect and generosity. William McFadden, Seattle, WA:
Your reputation preceded you here in the Northwest as a former priest friend of yours, now unfortunately passed away, quoted your work often. I'm not sure what he would say about your "Eternal Life" article, but I'm sure he would respect the work that went into it. I know I do, because I am close to the end of my own life on earth and think about these things. I wish I could say your words were words of comfort. But they are words of integrity and honesty. No more than that can be expected of anyone. Ronald Payne, Milford Center, OH:
You've penned another excellent essay regarding "eternal" life. As you already know, you are preaching to the choir. Those of us who see reality the way you do will give you a standing ovation. The rest, who cling to the notion that they have another life coming, do so out of fear and superstition and will object to your "heresy," as they wonder aloud how you could have passed yourself off as a Christian for so long. Though I guess that your essays convince few to change their minds or hearts, I love standing for the ovations. I'm the short guy in the third row standing in his seat so you can see my enthusiasm in cheering you on! The others aren't applauding; they are placing orders to have "I'll be right back" chiseled into their headstones.
Herb Kaufman, Beverly Hills, MI:
I was almost 71 when I had the first of two grandchildren. I feel very fortunate, though I envy the number you have and the young age at which you had them. If I'm lucky, I'll be here to attend the grade school graduations of mine, but certainly don't expect to be around at the time of high school graduations. But again, fortunate nonetheless. Whenever the subject of children and grandchildren comes up, I am reminded of the time some years past when I visited my 90-years-plus mother at her nursing home in Ohio. Dementia was taking its toll, and I was somewhat surprised when she weakly called my name upon seeing me. Trying to wend my way into her foggy brain, I began showing her pictures in my wallet. "Do you remember your granddaughter Valerie?" was followed by a stare into space. "Do you remember your grandson Martin?" was answered by a side-to-side head nod. The last was a picture of my wife. "Do you remember my wife Sandra?" A brief pause, and then ... "She's not Jewish is she?"
Nancy Stern, South Bend, IN:
Your article about eternal life was like a glass of cold water poured on my sleeping face. I was at first offended until I got closer to the end and saw that you would believe in it if you could find a way to do so. Thanks for waking me up. Of course, now I have to think the thing through, too. You must have been a challenge to your parishioners.
Jean T. Long, Dayton, Ohio:
I have walked many miles in Woodland Cemetery, Dayton, Ohio and often passed a lovely angel statue seated on a bench upon which is written: "To Live in Hearts We Leave Behind is Not to Die." Says it all, and I fully agree with both your sentiment and this one. Live life while we are in it, not with a hope to do better or correct this one in some future beyond death. Thank you for your consistent and excellent commentaries!
Betsy Kalcec, Royal Oak, MI:
Your words are wise and true.
Fred Fenton, Concord, CA:
Love the Mencken quote, as it reminds us how difficult lawyers have made our lives, but that is another subject! My mother, a pioneer woman physician, devout Christian and lifelong American Baptist, read her Bible every day, never missed worship on Sunday, tithed her income to the church, and gave generously beyond that to charitable causes. She lived to be 93. Near the end of her life she asked me, her ordained son, "Do you really think there is life after death?" Without waiting for or wanting an answer, she abruptly changed the subject. It is difficult to deny something you have been taught and tried to believe all of your life, even when the answer seems so undeniably obvious.
Cal Mannes, Tiger, GA:
I enjoy reading everything you write that arrives in my email each Monday and Friday. I'd say "God bless," but I'm an agnostic with strong leanings towards atheism. So, I'll simply say, Namaste.
Tracey Martin, Southfield, MI:
You certainly did not live risk-free your professional life. Kinda makes it worth having lived it, doesn't it. The reward for success is, of course, the grandkids (who "go home at the end of the day"). Seems to me, though, that you dared to threaten the essential nature of the Christian deity in contemporary practice. The savior god subordinates easily the god of ethical behavior, except as that latter is distorted into (moral) crime-and-punishment (i e, sin-and-damnation). So far, I've not seen defined a life-everlasting of any appeal. To the extent it would be one of active consciousness, tedium would seem to be its overweening reality (except for Shaw's hell in Man and Superman). The "right hand of god" would surely be more impacted with eternal souls than Michigan stadium being vacated by celebrating patrons at the satisfying conclusion of a triumph over Notre Dame. Personally, I'm comfortable in self-assurance that as much of my "I" will exist after physical death as it did prior to my 1933 conception (so I'm told). Seven minus nine is sometime in November. I have lived as a creature of evolution and I will depart according to those same insightful tenets. A happy primate to the end. So be it and amen.
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