Make Peace By Forgiving

Harry T. Cook
By Harry T. Cook
9/27/13

It happened to be the eve of Yom Kippur at a Jewish temple. I had invited the internationally known and respected apostle of peace -- Catholic Bishop Thomas Gumbleton -- and the leaders of a remarkably optimistic group that calls itself the Meta Peace Team to speak to the audience of a forum of which I have been the principal lecturer since 2008.

 

The forum is not part of the temple's organization. Its rabbis have have nonetheless welcomed us to use space in their building. A person once said to me that such generosity was certainly "the Christian thing to do." I responded that I thought it was "the Jewish thing to do." But never mind.

 

Those speaking for the peace team were Sister Elizabeth Walters, IHM, and Father Peter Dougherty of the Catholic Diocese of Lansing, Mich. Bishop Gumbleton led off with an impassioned call for what he called "enemy love." This particular forum and its proximate occurrence to Yom Kippur in the midst of the great debate about whether or not the United States should rain fire down upon Bashar al-Assad for gassing his own people made the bishop's talk all the more of moment.

 

It was the day that Russian President Vladimir Putin's guest column appeared on the op-ed page of The New York Times. Bishop Gumbleton praised Putin for his criticism of President Obama and his determination to strike Assad's Syria in retaliation for his use of a weapon of mass destruction in the murder of more than 1,400 Syrians.

 

In the discussion period that followed, I asked the bishop if he didn't think Putin's pointed counsel to Obama to obey international law was somewhat disingenuous, given Putin's own frequent disregard for what few civil rights laws obtain in post-Soviet Russia.

 

The bishop was right back with a reminder that Nikita Khrushchev had sent just such a communication to President John F. Kennedy at the time of the Cuban missile crisis, which helped avoid what some figured at the time might have been an all-out nuclear war. The bishop's message was that an offer to broker peace should always be taken seriously, no matter its source. I responded that perhaps Ronald Reagan was not wrong to say "Trust, but verify." And so it went.

 

Sister Walters and Father Dougherty followed with accounts of what the Meta Peace Team is, does and has done on three continents, that is to help people learn "active nonviolence" by interposing its member between sworn enemies, by surrounding with their own bodies those being threatened, always trying to make friends out of enemies.

 

That testimony picked up on the bishop's emphasis on the simple idea of forgiveness, which, he said, can never materialize when the would-be forgiver has not asked the one he intends to forgive to remit his own trespasses. "It's the only way to where we must go," Bishop Gumbleton said.

 

I was already on record with most of that audience for having seemed to suggest in an essay published seven days earlier that, given the crime against humanity the use of poison gas constitutes, it might be posthumous justice for the gassed victims of Syria were Assad his gangsters to be punished severely.

 

The bishop was well aware of the content of that essay, and he was not about to concede anything to me. "Enemy love," he kept saying, knowing that I had written half a book about the Sage of Nazareth's strange ethical counsel to love the enemy along with neighbor and self.

 

I was a tad miffed that I had been outmaneuvered and decided to make a rebuttal in the essay that you are reading right now. Then I went to hear my friend Father Paul Chateau's Sunday homily on the Parable of the Prodigal Son. There was no doubt in Father Chateau's mind that it had to be forgiveness all the way every day if the human race was not finally to do itself in.

 

The father figure in that parable had been told by his younger son in so many words to drop dead. The boy wanted his inheritance before the old man died. His older brother -- the slavishly obedient one -- slaved on for the father and was mightily offended when the wanton younger sibling crawled home on his hands and knees only to be received as royalty. The elder son strenuously objected, unable to comprehend why his father would treat his upstart brother so richly.

 

Although the word is not used in the parable, forgiveness of an unconditional kind is the main theme of the story. When I heard it reiterated, I remembered that in my translation and paraphrase of the maxim, "Forgive seventy times seven," I rendered it "Forgive as often as it takes," and that with approbation from those further up the ladder of recognized scholarship than I.

 

It is not up to me to forgive Assad for his unspeakable crime of using poison gas on his own countrymen. Neither is it for me to dissuade others from doing so. Should Assad be tried before the World Court for his crime against humanity? Shall he be forgiven? Is his crime unforgivable? Was Adolf Hitler's?

 

The Meta Peace Team and their episcopal visitor would probably brush that question aside for the sake of getting on with the making of peace. At any price?

 

All this took place the day before Yom Kippur -- a day of atonement. Bishop Gumbleton rightly said that the United States has plenty for which to atone -- its use of the atom bomb twice in 1945, its complicity in the overthrow of two legitimate leaders in Iran in 1953 and in Chile two decades later, its militaristic cruelty in Vietnam and the pre-emptive invasion of Iraq in 2003 on the bald-faced lie that Saddam Hussein possessed weapons of mass destruction, as in the dread mushroom cloud predicted by Condoleezza Rice.

 

No one attempted to gainsay the bishop on the subject of forgiveness. Even a Holocaust survivor who happened to attend the forum that day appeared by the nodded head to agree. If she could forgive, who would dare not for the sake of making, or trying to make, peace?

 

Yet those 1,400 Syrians whose lives ended in agony speak from their graves. We should only have been able to hear their screams and their last tortured breaths as the gas struck them down in convulsions and finally to death.

 

They must not be written off as collateral damage in some kind of grand bargain to strip Assad of his remaining WMDs but leaving him in power. Such a result, in fact, might be unforgivable. Moreover, any semblance of peace achieved would be merely a cessation of hostilities. As Jeremiah said some 2,600 years ago, They have healed the hurt of the daughter of my people but slightly, saying "Peace, peace" when there is no peace.

 

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FOOTNOTE: The massacre in Kenya, the Washington Navy Yard shootings, and the murders-by-gun in such cities as Detroit and Chicago are yet other incidents of what Robert Burns called "man's inhumanity to man." They, too, mean that there is no peace. Peace does not suddenly dawn on its own. It must be made. The sons and daughters who make it are the blessed ones. 

 

 


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Readers Write 
Essay 9/20/13: To Govern or Not to Govern            

 

Richard Howard, Independence, MO:

You have hit the nail heads of the tea party with a solid and true blow from your eloquent sledgehammer. The tea party is doing just awful things in the name of patriotism. They are destroying the fabric of the very nation they say they want to save from big government. My guess is that the party is funded largely by the so-called "1%." The "1%" -- to amplify their vast political power -- must have and hire big government to act in their interest. But the big government they condemn and seek to dismantle has acted compassionately for eight decades on behalf of those unable, despite honest efforts, to acquire adequate jobs, food, shelter, clothing, medical care, and education for themselves and their families. Okay, U.S.A.-in-crisis: how much wider must the chasm between the "1%" and the "99%" become before we find ways to bend the arc towards" ... liberty and justice for all -- the 100%?" Keep writing your superb essays.

 

Conrad Blakely, Encino, CA:

You struck a blow for commonsense with your essay today about governance. Would that it could be felt with all the force you put behind it and make a dent of some kind in the non-thinking of those who would destroy the safety net and the rest of the country with it.

 

Frank Joyce, Grosse Pointe Park, MI:

The tea party is but a symptom of a dying and corrupt system. It is the linear descendent of the politics of defending slavery and racism that is the sad genetic defect of the US of A. What we tend to forget is that a chattel slavery based economy requires the construction of a moral and political defense of that economy. Once that genie is out of the bottle, it doesn't want to go back in, not even when, at enormous cost, the chattel part is eliminated. Only to be replaced by Jim Crow. And that replaced by today's institutional racism. To put it another way, from pre-revolutionary times to the present, we have never not had a "tea party," albeit not always under that name. Prior to and during the civil war for example they were the Democrats. Later they were Dixiecrats. Today they hold powerful positions in both political parties. True, their power ebbs and flows. But it is tenacious in ways big and small. Fortunately, that is not our only legacy. There are also the abolitionists, the peacemakers and the true advocates of democracy -- economic as well as political. Another world is possible. Trying to repair race-based capitalism isn't the way to get to it. It's time to think outside of that stifling box.

 

Joel Pugh, Dallas, TX:

[You wrote in reference to members of the tea party] "The motives of such behavior can only be guessed at." Respectfully, I disagree. The tension over resources is biblical. The rich of Jerusalem used silver to foreclose on the farms of the country folk, turning them into sharecropping slaves. Prophets of old (specifically Amos and Jesus) condemned this behavior, teaching that the community good was the basis of the law, not the individual. Show me a tea party advocate who agrees with Jesus, and I will agree with your "motives can only be guessed at" hypothesis.

 

D.A. Belrose, Independence, MO:

Another articulate article telling it how it (UNFORTUNATELY) is. My wife and I have been legal residents of this land of the free and the brave for 19 years and have recently decided to apply for citizenship. It has not been an easy decision, as we love our native land as well as our guest country. Two new votes to help offset the mind-boggling self-serving idiocy of the tea party won't be a game-changer but they will be ours! Our country's political theater is in many ways as tragic as that of the U.S. with the exception that no one party has the corner on stupidity. But alas, in John Kerry's words, "In America, you have a right to be stupid." I guess we'll fit right in.

 

Sally Waggoner, Aurora, CO:

I don't know if I agree with your point of view more than I love your wordsmithing use of the language. You remind me sometimes of H.L. Mencken who wielded a wicked pen. Do keep on wielding.

 

Fred Fenton, Concord, CA:

Your claim that the tea party is the bitter fruit of racism in America is an accurate reading of our history. Yet the first black president thinks he cannot address this bitter truth. Racism, deep in the heart of us all, is responsible for the agony of untold millions throughout U.S. history. "Latino Americans" on PBS chronicles the long history of abuse of our undocumented sisters and brothers that sadly continues to this day. Many more people have been deported, more families torn apart, under Obama than during the preceding Bush administration. Why is there not a public outcry against this outrageous abuse? How can the tea party faction keep even modest immigration reform from coming to a vote?  The answer is the racism that reigns in the hearts of the American people.

 

Blayney Colmore, Jacksonville, VT:

Sometimes one wonders whether tea partiers can read? Or is it that I read only what agrees with my viewpoint and they theirs? I have begun to believe we need to find some alternative way to do business with these people because there's something about their petulance and hard-headedness that seems to appeal to an electorate that is clearly feeling disenfranchised, if not under assault. Perhaps there is some clue to how things might go differently in the surprising about face the president is doing with Syria, the perhaps breakthrough with the new leadership in Iran, and the seemingly John XXIII-tone to the new pope's conversation. How have these seemingly intractable situations apparently begun to let in some new light? My experience of people who are motivated by anger and hate is that they feel unheard and unloved. And when they gain some power they use it to vex those they perceive as having lorded it over them. And the vexing trumps any interest in doing anything actually useful. So when the "responsible" members of the old establishment cry foul, that reinforces their appetite for vengeance. I can't argue with your notion a black president with an unusual history and name may have been the trigger for the seeming madness that has brought our nation to a standstill. But it sure looks like venting our rage about it is encouraging, rather than discouraging, the determination of the tea party leaders and followers. Beneath that must be a long-standing feeling of disenfranchisement, not so much from voting (alas), but from whatever perks they perceive the rest of us have been enjoying. I wish I had a useful suggestion for what might persuade them they have our attention and we're ready to listen to their real grievances. And that they might be able and willing to articulate them. Until then we're doomed to the self-defeating cycle we've been caught in for a long time.

 

Robert J. Causley, Ph.D., Roseville, MI:

As you so aptly point out, these elected representatives are short sighted and see only that they can stop progress. In their mind it is justified because they will not benefit, and the campaign money they receive dictates their votes. We have lost sight of the very founding principles of this country. Our enemies are very happy to see the refusal of our people to work together and the willingness of those few to sell our freedom for a few dollars in their pockets. 

 

Brian McHugh, Silver City, NM:

I don' think that any of [what you wrote about] is going to be solved until the USA collapses into chaos and rebuilds.

 

Amanda Gilchrist, Ames, IA:

Your essay this morning was right on the news. The tea party congress did exactly what you said they would. This is a sorry day for America. Cutting food stamps by all those millions says to our poor that they should just suck it up. I can't stand it.

 

Barbara Holmberg, Utica, MI:

Your essays are always spot-on. Obamacare comes to my family as a gift. My daughter will not, as of Wednesday, Oct. 25, have insurance coverage because of a divorce that has left her at poverty level. She's worked all her life but cannot afford medical insurance. Cobra is laughable, as is Blue Cross, etc. because they are too expensive. My son lost his job so he and his family are without medical coverage. He cannot afford Cobra either. He had a heart attack three years ago and is saddled with a preexisting condition. My children represent the people who live next door.

 

 

 

 

 


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