2015 Diocesan Youth Ministry
All youth leaders/volunteers/representatives are invited to attend the first official meeting of a new diocesan youth collaborative! The purpose of the meeting is to build collaborative efforts to serve youth in the Diocese of San Diego, including planning for summer youth mission trips, retreats and youth participation at Convention, which is Feb. 13-14. Come, share ideas and resources and get to know others involved in youth ministry. Lunch included. $5 donation requested. Saturday, Jan. 17, 10 a.m. - 1 p.m. at Christ Church, 1114 Ninth St., Coronado, 92118. Please RSVP to Charlette Presler: dre@christchurchcoronado.org

AT A GLANCE
Active & Engaged
Encinitas Youth Group
Every issue we like to profile a youth group/program in the Diocese. If you would like to share your program, please contact Susan Hulbert. This quarter, we are pleased to share that St. Andrew's, Encinitas youth participate in fun, monthly events, mission trips, Rite 13 and J2A, among other things. 

February 13 & 14
Diocesan Convention
The annual gathering of all churches in the diocese is a great place for youth to come together, learn about the Church and enjoy each other's company.

February 28
30 Hour Famine
St. James, La Jolla invites the youth of the diocese to participate in its 30-hour famine to raise money for diocesan communications directors. Contact Amy Lajiness for more information.

Plan Ahead
Camp Stevens
Summer camp is just around the corner, and so is counselor training. Our diocesan camp, Camp Stevens, in Julian, offers programs for all age levels with varied pricing structures. Sessions start July 5 and run through August 8. Camperships available. 

Too Much Stuff
One Thousand Things
Amy Lajiness, youth minister at St. James, La Jolla, shares her new year's resolution to get rid of 1,000 things. A beautiful meditation.
YouTube Conversation Starter
A Gift of Forgiveness
This nine-minute video tells the story of a young Rwandan man who was forced to watch as his family was murdered in front of him, his journey to the USA and his mission back to Rwanda with a radical gift: forgiveness.

Reflections on Youth Ministry
From Mark Matlock
Mark Matlock has worked in youth ministry for over two decades and is the president of Youth Specialties.

Four Things to Help Youth Ministers Attract and Keep Youth
From Sarah Klitzke
More and more youth ministers of all denominations are expressing concern about the future of young teens and families in the Church. There is no good night for youth groups, no one shows up for Sunday School, there is no commitment to Confirmation classes. I have heard all of these---even from my own mouth.

WANT TO SHARE?
Share your stories about your youth group, activities, what's worked, what hasn't, questions you have, photos from recent events, upcoming event information and more.

 
Youth Mission Trip
Summer Mission Trip
Youth and adult chaperons of the diocese are invited to the home-building trip with Amor Ministries to Baja Mexico June 16-20. We will build three homes, floor to ceiling, and travel less than a two-hour drive from San Diego. Total cost, including supplies, food, and travel insurance, is $400 per participant. For more information, visit the website, or contact Mike Stone.
 
Convention, Canyons and Community: A Summer Youth Adventure in Faith
Youth ages 13-18 are invited to attend a summer adventure in faith that will include volunteering at the Episcopal Church's General Convention in Salt Lake City, a local day of service, and a visit to Zion National Park, June 23-27. Total cost including transportation, food, accommodations, and travel insurance is $400 per participant. Monthly planning meetings begin in February -- please reserve your spot by February 8. For more information, contact Susan Hulbert: susan.hulbert@yahoo.com

 
Family Spaghetti and Bingo Night
The Children & Young Families Ministry at St. Peter's, Del Mar invites you to join us on Saturday, January 17, from 5:30 p.m. - 7:30 p.m. in the parish hall for family spaghetti and bingo night. All ages are welcome. Invite your friends, too! Adults $5; Children $2. RSVP to Leann Gooding: gooding@stpetersdelmar.net.
 
 
MLK Jr. Interfaith Day of Service
MLK Day of Service All youth groups are welcome to join the diocesan effort to honor the Rev. Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. at the 7th annual interfaith day of service on Monday, January 19 at Balboa Park. Work side-by-side with people from diverse religious and cultural groups. When you check-in, please mention that you're an Episcopalian, which helps organizers track participation. View the website for more information. Contact Robin Taylor to join the Cathedral youth group.
 
 
Service Project Episcopal Community Services (ECS)
ecs logo St. Paul's Cathedral has designated February as ECS month. The Children, Youth and Family programs will have special art projects, guest speakers and reflections during Sunday school. The program manager of Safe Haven, one of the residential programs for people transitioning off the streets, will engage in a Q&A session. On Valentine's Day, the children and youth will make cookies, cards and bring dinner and games to Safe Haven. Throughout the month, all will be invited to reflect through journaling and drawing. Contact Robin Taylor.
 
Youth Staff Comings & Goings
After five years Christine D'Amico has stepped down from her position as director of children, youth and family ministries at St. Paul's Cathedral. The program grew exponentially during Christine's stewardship, and now serves over 75 youth, preschool through high school. Christine instituted family camping trips, youth-led service projects, an innovative confirmation process, and restructured the program into two elementary groups (Godly Play and Growing with God), a middle school group (Rite 13) and a high school group (J2A). Under her watch a robust youth group has grown and developed. Christine and her family will remain part of St. Paul's congregation. The Cathedral  has a new director of children, youth and family programs. Robin became involved in the youth program through participation in the Godly Play program with her children. For many years, Robin was a research program manager at UCSD responsible for the design, implementation and monitoring of children's mental health research initiatives, but stepped down when her younger child became severely ill. Her new position will allow her to combine her gifts for administration and passion for children. Robin says she is "excited for the future of this dynamic and growing program, and honored to be part of religious formation" in the St. Paul's Cathedral community. Contact Robin Taylor.
 
AN INTERVIEW
What drew you to working with youth?
My undergraduate honors thesis focused on enhancing youth participation in community decision-making; as part of that research, I put together a summer youth group with young people from several local high schools, and connected them with elected officials. It was an important learning experience for all involved, including, and especially, myself. I think the youth came away with a greater sense of possible influence on the world around them, the elected officials were invited to reconsider the part young people can play in community development, and I realized just how difficult it can be to keep a youth group going week after week! I continue to be fascinated by this time in a person's life: so much is changing, so much is new, so much seems pressing and essential.

How long have you been in your current role?
I've served as a deacon and a priest at St. Paul's Cathedral for eighteen months, and have been tasked primarily with our Latino, young adult, outreach, and, more recently, our children, youth, and family ministries.

How do you view youth ministry? (metaphor?)
I don't think youth ministry is fundamentally different than ministry with a different demographic. People want you to listen, to walk with them, to get to know them and support them as they continue figuring how they fit in this world. We all need to be reminded all the time that God is with us and God loves us no matter what! I view all ministry through the metaphor of gardening: I try to prepare well the soil of ministry work, plant seeds of ideas where I can, cultivate their growth with all the care I can muster, and celebrate together the fruits that have been made possible with the help of God.

Tell us about your youth program.
The Cathedral has had a dedicated group of about ten high school students for some time, although it's grown a bit recently. They meet once a month on a relatively informal basis, and see each other at church every Sunday morning. Every fifth Sunday is Youth Sunday, which means youth serve as acolytes, ushers, thurifers, and even sometimes preachers!

What is your greatest joy/favorite part of youth ministry?
I love the challenge of teaching young people -- it forces me to stop using technical jargon I learned in seminary, and instead speak in direct, authentic ways. Many young people (including myself), are quite skeptical of the world around them, which raises the truth-telling bar even higher when communicating.

Anything else you'd like to share with the diocese?
There's is so much more room for our young people to grow across the diocese -- let's begin to plan and work together better between churches so that our youth ministries may flourish in the time ahead!
   

 
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