People who are raised in poverty tend to think of life in terms of fate. Raechel and Lamar Parker grew up surrounded by drugs and violence, without the know how to create a different kind of life for themselves and their five children. "The way I grew up was 'no one cares about you,'" says Raechel. But they had the desire to do better, and Kathy and Sam Utley were able to help them with the information and skills they hadn't gotten through their troubled upbringings.