Ironically, today I'm a speaker for Aim For Success and I've spoken to thousands of students about the pain of bullying. In each presentation, I explain what bullying is and how students can take a stand and put an end to bullying in their schools. I also share my personal story and I suppose that's what challenged me to rethink my past and analyze how I went from being a nice kid to a bully and how it impacted me and those around me.

I grew up in a middle class neighborhood where my parents constantly instilled within me strong beliefs and morals. We attended church regularly as a family and great role models and mentors surrounded me. I was taught to always treat people the way I want to be treated. I honestly listened to these teachings and followed their instructions. Consequently, I was known as the nice girl - the one who got along with everyone. Teachers spoke highly of me and I never got in trouble.